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12 inches!:
Not really. I have a principle of not refusing people on their first request if I have the ability to help next time may be different. It is my way of doing things. In trying to be smart, you may end up being to harsh and lose out from the benefits of kindness. Besides I wonder why someone will bug me so much over 100 naira.

[color=#007799]Dude!

There's no benefit of kindness in this regard as you put it....and I wouldn't call that kindness....its Letting your guard down by succumbing to her unscrupulous and selfish demand at a whim.....

You have a principle of not refusing people on a first request??.. "WoW!!.. That's a new one,..but you refused earlier by your post and ....ok, How about this, Let your principle of benevolence be on to the deserving" huh?

Girls with Virtue,ones that wouldn't ask,and even when they do,they'd understand your reason for refusing in the first instance,not calling you Stingy!!

Not Some random Chiq who hasn't seen your smile in like 3months and just pops up only to demand for some change rudely ...

You don't see what the issue here is,?

Is the Power you Let go"...

You refused at first and then on hearing her vague rants ,you succumbed....that's not right, don't think she'd still respect you by that action o, it'd be a circle of this kinda display again again and again bro!. [/color]

khiaa: This is a Nigerian forum therefore the question is directed to Nigerians. I wouldn't go to a japaneese forum and ask them why do nigerian men cheat.

[color=#007799] LoL"

Unbelievable!!......You're being Cunning as usual, So how has it suddenly become solely Nigerian Culture by your post when Men and Women cheat all over the world darling??

You vent your anger at the Men in Nigeria,and last I remembered,you ain't Nigerian......heck' you ain't even in Nigeria.

You Must Love us sooo Much boo,am beginning to Feel same way [/color]

[color=#007799]You women Should Stop being Crafty by evading the Point here,Subjecting it to Nigerian Men"...

Wtf??

Didn't y'all See the Link to my Previous Post that elucidates the whole matter...

Its Men and Women in general and not just 9ja people and her societal norms!!

Don't get me Started o!!![/color]

michtob: You married a runs guy & think he'll stop after marriage.... You must be joking. What is right seems wrong in Nigeria today. It is shameful to see d way we are copying those musicians or celebrities lifestyle. I do pity women suffering as a result of d husband cheating on her cos its really painful but hear what some ladies are saying here and you won't blame d men much. www.nairaland.com/394470/marry-virgin-man

[color=#007799]This is the point we've been hitting on Since the times of Adam....

Women have an Opposite twist of attraction by Nature which Stretches down to Fidelity and Infidelity Matters.............Evolution"

It is Profound in our Orientation as to how we see things in Realism"..hence the reason they can Succumb to Male infidelity and this is proven by studies from various institution by scientific researchers.

More Like submitting self (body/women) to Head".....(Male)...and conceding to Fatalism"

Yes, Man can't change it @aLL"

Sometimes I feel God's order on Man(male) not to cheat is all a Punitive act for Failing him(Disobeying) by adhering to Eve's words...LoL"...........its Silly,(Dont take this Serious o!! )

Well, we can all see the Masculine and Feminine twist are of Opposite ends.....

We all know Women aren't Logical to begin with...LoL...well,Some" (You have to be intelligent enough to draw the Point of Generalization by your self)...so when they try to be,that's when they know it is not okay for a Man to cheat but would still be with him anyway, and this ain't the Same with Men"

Its Just Few Women that can't tolerate cheating Men, and that's because they force themselves to be for once in their life, Logical"!![/color]

12 inches!:
Op dont sweat yourself. It's normal female behaviour. Many of them want to get without giving in return but as they grow the smart ones learn that life is not like that. You cant always be at the receiving end. Even a plant that bears fruits must be watered before it grows. Just yesterday, one girl I went on a date with and I've not seen in 3 months called me and told me she needed credit urgently very late at night asking me to transfer credit to her. I told her I wasnt able to at the moment and the next thing she called me was STINGY. How does not wanting to send you credit translate to being stingy? She kept on about me being stingy like she is entitled to my money. We're not even dating talkless of married. Anyway I sent her the credit so she will let me rest afterall it's just small money to me. The thing is many girls have a sense of entitlement. When they're broke rather than find an avenue to make money, they beg. Most guys are not like this. If I'm broke, the last person i will notify is a lady. When ladies give you money ehn, the way they will do when you dont pay back promptly, I swear you will never try it again. And I'm sure every smart man knows that when you borrow a babe money you're never getting it back. Atleast not in full.

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You didn't have to type that mehn!!!

How do you mean "so I can rest" ? How did that work ?? ....Must be a spell or something"

A girl that even called you stingy ??

My God![/color]

[color=#007799] Don't Listen to the names people here call you,be Strong ,provided there's Trust between you and this said "Friend"....

Sexting has always been a Fetish for Some....

That's what gets you huh ??

I'd say next time be more cautious of the person ,because from the Look of it by your aftermath expression,you seem worried, and that translates to you being in doubt of the person's worthiness! Then you Shouldn't toil with Such feelings on having them and Still Sending Pics!!!! ... Nah girl'

Other than that,you're good to Send to your best FuCck Buddy

Feel Me ??[/color]

[color=#007799] There's absolutely nothing Mature about telling Someone you're broke...

It is courtesy deficient especially when you say you have no ulterior motive to be helped, why tell Someone you Just met,even if you've known this lad from kindergarten ...

What is it with girls and their bid to undermine truth?? How can you not see your leech stricken Money hungry habit exposed by telling??

He'd know you're broke ,he has got eyes and the sense to ,why tell ??.....

You only Look Cheap in the eyes of this chap when you tell him.....

IMO" ..when you tell, you ain't only Financially broke but Mentally broke as well,
wtf ?!! [/color]

khiaa:


Yet you can't stay away, go figure, and stop flirting with me.

[color=#007799] Flirting?

Well,that wouldn't be a bad idea because I also have a degree@that..but only to beautifully endowed whole Like Gem"

I'm Sure you want to be one??

But No, thanks![/color]

khiaa: I didn't even bother to read this bullshyt. Hahahahaha

[color=#007799] LoL" I Wish I believed you,but who knows.? Its still possible you didn't, considering your cerebral frailty,it must be tiring..

Anyway,that's not the issue@hand,I think you just wanna cause a traffic on your own thread,going by how you Lack what to say and keep Quoting those you already answered to......

How Pathetic!!!!

Would think you Should have better things to do with your time..

I knew you'd turn this to the usual girl stuff throwing tantrums and all sorts...

Sorry I can't help you on that,I have done my part....Now you can Fight your self Like fury"

Khiaa is a Lovely name,wish I could say the same about your posts though.

...........Smh"[/color]

khiaa: Ok!! #1 Just as much as men can't stand a cheating woman, we women can't stand a cheating man 10 times fold. In your society( Nigerian ) woman are expected to take alot of crap. Do you understand that women have feeling, how can a real man do this to his other half?

[color=#007799] Sadly Study Proves Otherwise by your assertion. It is said that Women tend to be Supportive of a Cheating partner than the other way round....While Men tend to have a Masculine twist orientation of it. Men resort to hate and rage of it and avoid talking about it to their Fellow Men,in the bid to avoid been called a fool.

So they aren't easy on their cheating wife.

http://articles.familylobby.com/543-why-women-stay-with-cheating-husbands.htm

I could post other Links due to My previous assertion on the grand Scale of things or reasons why it is bourne outta an evolutionary view of biological traits in Men world wide...

http://articles.familylobby.com/560-when-she-cheats-a-male-pov.htm

Let's not engage in an argument that would bring your Mental Frailty to Fore...as I don't consider you that Smart to debate me(No Offence)..

And please Why do you join the bandwagon to say Nigeria or its Culture is devoid of Civil right Movement thus its Slavery Mentality by indigenous people...??

That's a big fallacy, actually it has even be proven that women are prone or with a vast tendency to cheat more during the first Five years of Marriage hence the divorce rate in western and Modern society eg, the USA,RUSSIA etc..

http://magazine.foxnews.com/love/cheating-statistics-do-men-cheat-more-women

It is believed that countries with high rate of divorce tend to portray the rights of Women in a Concrete View and as Such Women take the Single hood of Living instead of being Married . Places Like Spain that has about 94% of their individuals as Catholic religiously don't believe in divorce prior to its Legalization in 1981".

If women have feelings ,Men have theirs in Flying Mood by default. [/color]

[color=#007799]I am More concerned on next season's coaching....

If Mou goes,who comes ?

I don't want Mou to go though! [/color]

khiaa: God or Man? My title is You Men Cheat On Your Wives All The Time, but it should have been MOST of you men. A lot of married couples forget that even though you are married you are still in a relationship, your wife is your lover and your husband is your lover, therefore my title is correct. If you have read my earlier posts my answer to that question of the wives seeking a divorce, well I said then and I say it now I think it is a matter of culture.

[color=#007799]Please, you and I know the bone of contention is not about the title being wrongly phrased or not...as you read in my post,it answers the issue which is a question to we guys why we cheat and can't stand a cheating partner..

Speaking of Culture as you say, where on earth is it different from the norms here ??

It still boils down to relativity..

Yeah ratio at which Married Women divorce Cheating Men, not Close to Married Men divorcing Cheating Women... Which begs the big Question,Why'?? [/color]

2goodbobo: It is not suppose to be a "woman" thing or a "man" thing but rather a human thing. Whoever is comfortable to pay the bill, should do so. The law of nature has forced it on the Man in this part of the world and is high time that mentality is erased.

[color=#007799]Actually, it has always been a human thing like you said, though Men Like to be Chivalrous and take it up as a self duty posed at them by nature as providers...

Even then,they Still had women who pay bills for themselves and theirs(Men)...Just as Men do....{Strong Women}

The mentality to be erased" is the women that think its a man's problem ..

Men would Still take the Lead in that department though, because of course we are Stronger.[/color]

khiaa: It can only change if the cheating person wants to change. Sometimes it is better to end the relationship and move on.

[color=#007799] I want to believe this thread was about Marriage and not Just a mere Relationship ,As I saw wives on the heading,one would think the gravity of what a Cheating partner entails is doing that you said??

We all know its different when its just a Relationship,and girls can do as you say and end it.

Now the question is and Should be, why are the women enduring a Cheating partner??

Why don't they call for a divorce on hearing the cheating prowess of their Men or Man" in Marriage??....but Men do without hesitation.

I think you Know why,.......

The bias is evolutionary to begin with...

This is the kinda question I think begs religious bases Answer in our traits as Men"

Maybe you Should ask God that didn't in the First place relate a Man's innocence to Chastity" but that of Women(Hymen)....LoL"

Might be wrong though...Pardon me Miss [/color]

[color=#007799] Really ??

Why Should we Oblige all these ??

And why Should we be reading Signs Like Girls are Some Postal writings or board ??

....LoL" ...Smh"

Children!!!

These Might not work for Some ,for me to do that ....."Pigs Might Fly"

I can't Fly in the Ointment of my own paroles or doings doing all that babyish Stunt,,, its for Juveniles Like you and the Men that intend to pick it up as a Strategy!

If She ain't Talking to me what her worries or problems are ,then She ain't worth my act....

I'd say ,encourage girls Like yourself to Fly in to Confidence so you'd know how to talk...

Men are tired of your type,we don't wanna be reading you,we want you to declare not being readable.[/color]

[color=#550099] I'm Viewing Talina's Profile.....

And where is my Friend,One with the Dark Skin??...[/color]

[color=#017799]Kids Like brenda and baba throw a Spanner in the works with their Mental Frailty[/color]

isale_gan2: "Park well joo," is a phrase Nairalanders love a lot.

[color=#007799] ..^LoL
You don use style yab me abi ??..ok

@topic, a lot of Fun in here to be honest.[/color]

[color=#007799]Much is expected From baba,...Like apology ??

Okay baba,walk with me down as I take my babie to tha park [/color]

[color=#007799]"It" is rather rampant too darling don't you think ??

Said I should stick to "Fun" so I'd not forget to not derail,you know I'm ya "Losing it" babie [/color]

[color=#007799] you self,can't you flow with the rhythm ??...thought you said its Fun,,

Defying your own notion huh ??LoL .. Should have known"...

Oya sweetie come back,me and baba would be subtle on punchlines..giving life to this Fun" [/color]

[color=#007799]Fun is what they call it And Still could not recognize it !! LoL"

I'll Catch that baba of a guy on a more serious Less fun and more cerebral matter thread,so he can vent his anger and hate towards me well....we'd know who's Losing it..yet again,its all fun [/color]

[color=#007799]What now?...do you have to remind me I'm having fun??[/color]

[color=#007799]It is you who is lost in here bro, you are a slowpoke to say the least....quote me on a reasonable thread to know if I'm losing it.... [/color]

[color=#007799]Insane people have last names as babas [/color]

[color=#007799] Hor*ny freaks wannabe not-h*orny like yourself pretend a lot [/color]

Lovetinz: I will score a goal and wait for her own friends..
If she is in the class of Mrs Chima, I might even consider changing my team!

[color=#007799]@topic,Depends on what this partner is to me.[/color]