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what r u wasting time to tread this in. just respond to nikita.

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This is very unlady like. what is happening to you nikita2
I hope you are in ur sense. I know something is wrong somewhere maybe a fall guy for ,

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what is this all about?

PROVE FIRE,
A wise guy should not break his head over such, reasons being,
1. he showed that he is the responsible type.
2. the babe showed that she is pranky.

no sweat,he should carry on with the affair but he need to update his dairy/ notes on the babe for future use.
but if his ego is wounded by such prank and he feels she is not worth the stress then do what u want,,
no fire,

Once u r tro with schooling and u r finaincially OK to take care of ur needs and u v affairs that u think may not ok to ur parents, then its time to get on ur own to gain some respect for urself.

I left my parents when I finished schooling but went to stay with a cousin of mine, but left his house when I got a job that was paying well enough to rent a house. actually the demand on me by my assocaites led to my coming home late and that was agaisnt my cousin house rule, so I got my house to go independent.

jennikadri
you v made ur point and I understand. well just watch it soon in the future, u r going to be doing the same thing for a man, u will be doing that not for the man's sake ( ie coward) but for the ladies sake because u will be so pissed that a girl has gone this low in her need of a man.
mark my words,

and to the babes ITS NO LONGER ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORD. its that words are louder than action, thank god there will be heart breaks. and a sister somehow understands that the way babes understand it and want to help amplify the mans action.
ciao I m gone on this tread

will advise u to please take away my personal life,or watever that does not relate to this thread

i tot u r matured?

yes i have biten deep, well sorry but no sorry that the way thing get personal atimes, when pple refuse to be objective,
think of it, if pple can heal themselves then no one needs a doc to intervene.

why wont the men call the girls and talk to them,or better still whenever d girls call,let their lovers answer the call

why will i want to stick my nose into some other girls stupidity?

why r d men shying away and running to a woman for help?

i understand u,but u also have to put my own posts into consideration here sista,I'm a nigerian,i known how dangerous nigerians can be,i really

ok accepted its said no where on this tread that the men didnt call but tell youself the truth, if you are the girl will you listen when he calls to tell you that?

jennikadri own up something else is biting you on this tread. you sound like someone that dont see anything good with men and yet you cant do without them.

u really don't get my point do u?

from the initial stage i made it clear that she should not try this wt a crazy  nigerian,if not ,she will live to regret the day she tried it


yes women suffocate men,but r u men so weak ,and cowardly insensitive not to handle d situation u brought upon urselves?

what is ur point?

i rather view it differently, its not about weakness on mens part, its about a concern that a sis is making a fool of her self, that make a fellow sis to cut in,

its a pity this tread had gone off track, 99% of them are missing the point or are plain stupid. I do have my stories and from a realistic point of view I support sistawoman.
This was about to happen to my younger sis way back then and God in his infinite grace made the stupid dude to let me in early and the most happy that my sis didnt make a fool of her self. image,
I grew up in a family of 3 boys and a sis, she is the last or rather twin with the last guy. there is bond she has with her twin bros and my younger bros has an independent spirit that scares everybody in the house.
onetime my younger bros got himself an  alliance with one older fellow and start spending time at his house and not long my little sis start to go to this fellows house to look for her twin bros, but before thing got on this older fellow called me and start telling fabo; how he is in love with my sis and will like to marry her,  you know all those bull shit guys do. well trust me I didnt object only told him if its gods will it will come to past. on leaving I told myself, i don't have any biz with this nigger its my sis i v biz with. O n getting home I call her and quietly ask her to give me the gist about this dude but she was not forth coming, i didnt beat her or anything of such.
I just  went on talking to her about mens trick and as I was talking she got intrested and I asked her one simple question" can you tell the diff between the good guy and the bad guy that just wants to get you down and he gets going" honestly she don't and I went on to tell her the qualities to look out for, the tell tale signs and all that.
to cut the story short. My sis is married to a fine guy and she married a virgin with her personality intact and esteem strong and over flowing.
@jennikadri

seriously don't try this wt a nigerian again,because even the blood of JESUS will not save you,rather it wil deny you

and whats with a niaja babe, talk her its not happening in naija.

most times you babes just suffocate the guy with your acllaimed love. don't you know love without space is death do you want to kill the dude. think twice.
show some self esteem and see how the guy will love you for that.
this the reason guys say ladies don't think. learn to think and teach the process to all the little ones arround you and see the diff it will make. i pray to marry a thinking woman because they make a better mothers.

After they have tried to get rid of the girls, i am the last resort. what really is the problem with telling a girl look so and so does not want you to call them anymore. I have to say some just snap out of it and stop calling but the real crazy ones will fight it for a week or so then stop calling. What works most times is just reminding them they are embarrassing themselves and playin themselves. They need a reminder that what they r doing does not draw the man closer but instead pushes them away

ride woman many times the hard way is the only way.

@carmelily

But she's 14! 1994

kind of yes but she is no more 14, she way more than that because of her present status, put sentiments aside please

sista woman, every body is entitled to an opinion depend from where he or she views the topic, abortion or no abortion I support that the little girls perents be part of the equation, at her age she is still there responsibility and that decision belongs to them despite the shame she is causing then right now. then her big friend com sister should try to do the good education this time better that what she did the other time that resulted bad.

@origina9ja

I can have a "friend boy" o. Nothing wrong with that. i'm over 18 and wouldn't need a friend posting topics on some forum for me if i got pregnant

From your title, you regard your friend/sister as a "child" who has a "man".

and PLEASE i'm happily not "born again".

this is not about being born again and not being one neither is it about people on this forum, its about being or taking responsible actions.
she has gotten pregnant, what next,
your ist responsibility to her was messed up by your lassity and please don't mess this other opportunity to be responsible to this little sis / friend of yours
there people on this tread i enjoy reading, one of them is punching interesting stuffs right now to you, i hope you can see her.

Hey folks read in between the lines,
I thinks the mail man is the father of the baby,  prove me wrong.

but my guy u have stolen the tread, no u killed it,

@sillyboy
Thanks but why answer sillyboy, well, LOL

@Tatase,
thanks for that peep inside a ladies mind.

I discovered that ladies that do like this are those you struggle to reason with. any reasonable babe will understand and appreciate your need for space. trust me, its all about their low self esteem, being less busy and over emotional.
this also goes for those guys that choke their lover. they cry fire when there is none.

thanks sistawoman.
preach the good message

but some persons dont combine well, maybe the poster needs to do some research.

I sincerely appreciate all the response both the caustic and the good,
ifedisky ur was the most detail and mature, u spoke like someone that understands my true situation, sistawoman, akinagirl and tatase thanks.

sistawoman actual there is a problem and also there is no problem, I am not confused in any sort. sometimes one need to be objective and subjective when dealing with vital issues of the heart especially another persons heart. I do have my reasons for bring my issue to the forum and I know so many persons are in the same shoe if not worse,

onething I will like to understand from the babes in the house, what will make a girl hold on to a relationship when she had been categorically told its not for marriage. she concurred at the beginning and all of a sudden she want to dictate the route the relationship will take. answer me if you can, is it wrong to cheerish your girl, to encourage her to go for her dreams, to allow all the freedom and help her change her live?

hi kelvodavee, sure u did a fine job here, and I bet u, with this I will meet u in sweden come next year. thanks also expect some of my mails, thanks bro.

I have been in a relationship with my girl friend for 2yrs now, in fact november will make it 2yrs. Due to a lot of stuff that I wont want to bore people with, I wanted to end the relationship as its getting to 2yrs and I dont intend to marry her. I also do not double date and my dropping her will free me. I have this believe that if a relationship will not tend towards marriage then it should be short.
The problem now is she does not want to go, I have told her that I am quiting the relationship to give the freedom to get herself attached to someone with better plans for her than me.
at first, we didnt agree to anything marriage and when issues of it unofficailly crops up, I always stand my ground. I wonder why she is holding on when I had categorically let her know my mind. in fact its getting to the stage of breaking someone heart.

your case is very special, a lot of issues call tp play here.
1. get your man to talk.
2. you have to be strong brace up for the hard matter.
3. any rash or stupid move by you will tilt the case to other woman.
4. if the other woman is same tribe with him maybe he is more comfortable with her but got more work to do to make him feel more comfortable.
5. assure him of your love and the sacrifices you made for him
6. pray and leave the rest to god, men atimes behave like dogs, pray that his eyes get openned.

Honeywood please stop this joke, be more realistic, you are not speaking to children. couples can argue on simple toothpaste, meat even whichside of bed to sleep but not to breakup a marriage. come up with better situational stories you hear,

@ joichi. Sweet hrt, if this thread is as stupid as You think it is, then what makes You stil log on to view it? Wldn't that make You far more stupid & jobless Or is ur life so boring that You can't seem 2 find anything positive to do than to log on & share a few foolish lines Hmmm
Ok, show me one thread that You have posted that seems to have attracted more attention than this particular thread.
Seriously, get a life or GET OFF THIS THREAD!!!


Baby u got some mouth, it does not call for that.
it seems this is your ist tread, thats good, I hope u found for u r looking for.
I ask, when u refuse to give him money this last time, what eas his response, ?
I am waiting for your answer.

if this works for you then give me a pip of it tro switosman@hot mail .com, I am writing a book on this topic.

yes, enjoy the sex @ easybaby.
wrong advice. do you know the science of sex?

if your heart is to drop him, them set up a strategy that will not hot you or him.
2nd, that will make him wake up for his future.

I also have my story. My girl when I was going for her at first, gave the impression she working towards entering school. somehow its like the zeal for school was going down, ok get a work, trouble. then I know its dificult to drop her, so I put up a strategy, and before you say jack, she applied for a job, got the job, she is applying for evening degree class,

joichi, your case in not all  that perculier, but as a realistic guy, I will give you a foundamental formular to bail yourself out. You happen to have the sort of guys we call dependants, many of them are so good on bed and slaime with there tongue, many of them enjoy sugar mommies, because at their age there something childish about them. the truth of it all is this guy dont love, and behind your back, with his friend, his is bad mouthing you.
ok you bring the money, what can you hold apart from sex that he brings to the relationship, nothing even with the money you give him he cant buy you coke. that guy is a receiver and investigate he may have homosexual tendency,
do you want to miss this guys? its a strategy that yeilds result.
1. begin to train yourself mentally to be hard, to withstand his stories.
2. learn to say no to his demands with a straight face, make your no be no and nothing else.
3. dont tell him what you use your money for, by the way he is no husband of yours.
4. he ask for money tell him "I dont have any money" then in your withdrawals, take just what is enough for you.
5. when he goes into talk, just say " my responsibilities are increasing, tell him stories of your spending on your family, yourself, your friends, church etc
6. make sure your stories have more weight than his.
7. maintain that his problems and responsibility are his and yours are yours. he should face his responsilities and not pass them on to you.
8. When he least expect, give him something from your heart. and tell him when he ask tha you can only give when you have it.
9. make it a habit to ask him for money before he ask you, this is to make him know that he should be giving you too.

this may be hard but give it a try.

hello forumites, pls do any body know anything about a broker firm named SHELONG INVESTMENT LTD. with address in broad street lagos. i am suspecting this firm is a 419 broker firm.
I need help on how to confirm broker firms, like a site to check out their credibility.

"To make a naija men feel in love for you and have the mind to marry you , you must play fool and act as stupid.
Make a lot of questions even if you know the answer, for they feel important, for they feel they re in the control. I know you have strenght to open a botle of coca cola  , but give it for he open for you, Ohhh honey, I can't , help me and then they will feel super men, is these kind of little bullshit that make average of them feel the Kind.

Strong black women , like us, is just for safe men, is for Obama's of life , not to everyone , lol

The life is not a theater, so we can be actress all the time. Of course we won't tolerate bullshit. Is complicated !!!"

WOMAN PEOPLE CONDEMN WHAT THEY DONT UNDERSTAND, CHANGE OR ACCEPT, BUT THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THAT NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE NOT BACKWARD NEITHER ARE THE MEN LAZY, BEFORE U INSULT A NIGERIAN UNDERSTAND CULTURE, BECOS THESE THINGS U HATE WITH A PASSION IS THE REASON DIVORCE IS LOW IN NIGERIA. DONT BLAME UR NAIJA GUY, DONT THINK U R TRAINING HIM, HE IS NOT A LAP DOG. EAST OR WEST HOME IS THE BEST, THEY SAY.
OUR GIRLS WERE HANDED THE BATTON WELL, ITS NOT THERE FUALT. TO DO OTHERWISE IS CARRY HOT COAL ON UR BREAST.
EVEN U DO A SOUL SEARCH, U BETTER PART YARNS FOR UR MAN. IF U DOUBT READ A BOOK TITLED " ME AND MY MOTHER" IE " THE TWO OF US" i CANT REMEMBER THE AUTHOR BUT ITS A LADY.
I REMEMBER A LADY FRIEND OF MINE, THEN I ALWAYS WANT TO BE SERVED OUR LOCAL MEAL OF EBA WITH ANY GOOD SOUP, BUT SHE ALWAYS WANT TO GIVE ME RICE OR SUPAGETTI. ON DISCUSSION SHE SAID "SHE WILL NOT MARRY AN ANFRICAN MAN BECOS SHE DOES NOT LIKE EBA WITH SOUP, TRUST ME I TOLD HER WELL SHE IS WHO SHE IS AND I AM WHO I AM.
CALL THEM NIGERIAN GIRLS NAMES AS U LIKE, FOR ME ANY TIME, EVEN IN DEATH, I PREFARE MY NIGERIAN GIRL AND IGBO FOR THAT MATTER, AT LEAST MY SECRET TALKS WILL STAY THAT WAY AMONG STRANGERS
THANKS

Recently, I met a guy and we have been good friends from the beginning. I would say the attraction was there from the day we met. I don't have the intention of dating him because i'm in a healthy relationship that is heading towards marriage.

However, he made his intentions clear from d day we met. He likes me and he wants to date me. I don't double date. I can't cheat on my partner. But, I must confess that i like this guy. We speak on phone often. We chat alot too.

I'm planning to cut him out. Honestly, it hasn't been easy. Today is the first day on my humble journey of cutting him out. We haven't interacted at all today and meen i'm feeling so bored already.

Do you think i will get over it soon? I need your opinions!!!


you r just a step from that joy you desire so much and your emotion want to ruin it. well I wish u the best. ladies can be stupid I think. you want a Bleep then go on get that Bleep but know that you r responsible for your choice over marriage. you say something but cannot keep to it. I see you about to double date and I see that the devil wants to deal roughly with you.
I am hard, I know but some issues need sledge hammer approach while some need shoe maker hammer.
apply sledge hammer, cut off and run away, out of sight is out of mind, the mind can be made to adjust to any thing you want ti to adjust unless you r weak in heart and morals.

to be honest with you, bank records are for keeps they dont lie. these payments are in record and sooner or later it will show that somthing is wrong somewhere. this will then neccesitate an audit of records.
my advice to you is, ist check with the bank, ask them who is the account officer for your company. he or she may definitely show you the salary schedule from your company. if the schedule pays you double then get to your company, to the account personnel that prepares the salary but ist discuss with a senior person you trust, maybe your boss or manager for direction.