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I want that day to come for so many reasons. Seems it never will 

[quote author=jek_kad link=topic=146832.msg2448085#msg2448085 date=1214956797]my sis na so we see am ooo,u berra hook stephen naw that hes available ,just for a few hours though [/quote]Lmao I don't want his woman's trouble o, lol
I go find my own.

Everyone wants a love connection, o gosh!

StephenP:
Ok let me try again. You've never met me before and I walk up to you and I say

"Hey my name is Stephen, what's yours?
You: My name is Syren
Me: Nice to meet you

. . . and I hug you right then and possibly peck you. What will be your reaction?

Then you must have a death wish,lol   That's poor social conduct on your part. I will freak out and raise an alarm. No on second thought a slap will do  

Mesmerize:
@syren
u no dey listen?
leave stephen na. . unless you're, you know

you know what, lol. Like I said Stephens safe ,u don't know my age if you did you wouldn't worry  

StephenP:
Picture this and tell me what you think about it: A dude at a party or some event walks up to you and says "Hey, How you doing?" and he slightly hugs you.

If they were a friend thaen fine, if not why would someone do that? explain  

[quote author=jek_kad link=topic=146832.msg2447992#msg2447992 date=1214954856]cannibal abi na hannibal u guys berra learn how to approach a woman well ,because all those hey and wasup wont take u anywhere,anyways there r diff types of girls and im very sure that those that answer to that hey and wasup are those that lack attention[/quote]quite true, an educated women who works around refined men all day will not answer to 'waaaassssuuuuppp' abeg take note.

[quote author=jek_kad link=topic=146832.msg2447977#msg2447977 date=1214954512]@syren

emmmmmmm syren u seee emmmm i will be happy to announce to u that stephen has got a very tough wife on this forum and she wouldnt be happy if she catches u flirting wt him _{clears throat}
[/quote]No flirting here o. He's safe, just trying to make a point about men who have "groupies" as he calls it.    

StephenP:
Ha! Is that a trick question?

No   promise  

Just curious. Do you like a girl who has groupies?  

StephenP:
which attracts you to him, right? Because you are curious and just want to find out.

No attraction o.   "Bad" boys are always cool to be friends with but not in relationships no way. I've tried it and it's too much trouble.   So you like bad girls Stephen  

StephenP:
The problem is many of you women see "bad" boys as dudes who are with you for the sole purpose of having sex with you and breaking up with you thus damaging your heart. But the thing is even though it seems the social norms in the bad boy society is to have multiple women, many "bad" boys can be faithful. Sure there will be groupies hanging around but they are there just to let you know that if you decide to mess up, you'll be replaced.

Well a lot of the time it's hard to differentiate between the faithful and unfaithful. The ones who say they're with u but have 3 or 4 other girls they keep as "backup plans" and the ones that want you and only u. The latter seems more appealing but unfortunately there is no way of knowing  

onyinye2:
@syren

well i see what you are saying. but yeah there is an attraction to bad boys because we feel we can at the end of the day "change" him.
well he doesnt have to say that. but as long it is not "whats up". that is what you say to your home boys. i don't want to feel like your home boys. i need to feel that you have an interest in me. which comes with respect.

I'm with u there girl, but with "bad" boys I never feel that. They see it as a game, which me personally, I don't like. They hit on girl after girl until it's "your turn" I don't feel there's any genuine interest. And we've learnt that it's very rare they change. Even when they're with you there eyes are still roaming around looking for their next chase. That's why I said I don't trust them.

StephenP:
I see some ladies over there raising their hands.

Lol, don't start with me again o  

We can't speak for anyone else at the end of the day. But 'bad' boys to me are a turn off.
"If you like me, good for you, if you don't, you can take a running jump" Who wants to be with someone that treats them like  just another name on their long list of contacts?

_{*show of hands anyone*}

Mesmerize:
@syren
No make me call her o. . I got her on speed dial

No need, it's too small to bother her about. @ Stephen you keep believing it  

Hannibal:
Body message reads: If u like me. . . . .Fyne, If u don't like me(Bleep You). . . . .There are many pebbles on the beach.

Wow! that actually works  
What ever happened to making her feel a little special, that doesn't make you look insecure.

Mesmerize:
@syren
abeg, leave him jor be4 his Rebellious [/b]comes after ya, now you dnt want to mess with that

Let his [b]Rebellious come o, I'm ready    

StephenP:
and you feel like you can change them, right?

Of course not, that would be fighting a losing battle   I just let them be

StephenP:
Ain't it true?

Nope, not for mature women at least, you should be strong and confident but not a bad boy, I don't trust em.  

StephenP:
It is no secret to us that you women love bad boys, yet you women deny, deny, deny.

Lol, who told you this secret Stephen, do tell  

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=146832.msg2447515#msg2447515 date=1214946669]@ post

I like a guy who can spark my interest, . .  use your imagination!

I HATE GAMES! I only play striaght up   [/quote]I agree, it's very off putting when a woman feels your using one of your "strategies" on her. She feels like she's been played.  

@ post

with confidence, originality and have a sense of humour about it. Be a gentleman.

Mesmerize:
Some men are very persistence you know. . if you tell them no, they keep following you and chatting with you https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/29.gif
The best thing to do, is give them a fake number, let them leave you in peace, and the torture ends faster. .

And some girls just dnt want to be rude by saying no, they think it'll hurt the guy's feelings

Very true  

Mesmerize:
Act. there is. . make one of your friends pick up the phne, then tell him that the person has changed their number that it now belongs to you(your friend) ! simple!

But of course , I have so much to learn from you Mesmerize  

Pataki:
Seriously. . . . .

There a way you exude the confidence that makes the lady that catches your fancy walk up to you freely. The cheapest of places is at the bar/clubs. I don't dig bar/club chics.

Gone are the days of walking to a lady and asking for her contact details. . . . Not with me!

Wow! r u that irresistible Pataki  

dreeldee:
you think she's going to call you
Waiti till Jesus Christ Comes, She wont even look at you in heaven or hell or werreva you both end up in you berra collect her no and even dial it in her presence to be sure it's right, in that way, she has also gotten your no.

Omg there's no escape for us now o  

eldee:
Give her your number instead
The days of men asking for contacts have passed

That's kinda true, so she doesn't give you the wrong details. I did that once  

have to be cruel to be kind I guess  

Pataki:
I don't approach ladies, they approach me!!!!!

Lol yeah right

Pataki:
This topic should have been: Why Can't Girls Be Faithful?[/b]


@ Poster,
Was the husband to be, sleeping with a dog? He was sleeping the his wifes' first cousin for that matter. Some women will never learn when to tape their legs shut.

[b]Why do people cheat? simple  

Well, based on what you've said if you don't believe she is genuine about her feelings then don't risk it. A relationship without trust is a big No No. I agree with you if she had always "tripped 4 you" b4, as she later on started to claim, she should have been ready to build a life with you.

Tell her to try not to worry, tho she may find this difficult, but being stressed won't make the pregnancy happen quicker. It's said for couples trying for babies 50% will be pregnant in 4 months, 75% will be pregnant in 8 months and 90% will be pregnant in 1 year and even then those are just man made statistics. If God wants it to happen tommorrow it will happen there is a time for everything. My advice is to stay positive and pray

tope2000:
but now that there is money n job, there are feelings

my guess is she now has "feelings" for your money and not you, who knows sha 

I couldn't trust someone like that at all.

Do you still have feelings for her?

aaahh wish I was a seahorse

Did you know that women blink nearly twice as much as men?

There are disabled people like full grown adults with the mental age of 3 yr olds, that's just an example of where they certainly aren't the same. Even healthy people some people are raised in environments where they have to be adults at such a young age and some people are pampered so they struggle in the real world.