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LadyT:
Yes it makes you smarter!

seconded

dreeldee:
stephen is 3rd from the right

You gat it dreeldee  

Guess which one is Stephen? see I knew you'd come around    

@ post

well I can only speak for myself and I say it does have an affect on me partly good and partly bad. But what surpasses that is how I choose to live my life and I don't let the bad aspects determine my future. Period

Lol I just ignore the call Last time someone called me at midnight I don't think either of us understood what the convo was about. Not a good Idea

eldee:
No one limits love to skin colour, they went searching and found trapped it in the pale skin
There's no problem with that

oh but eldee, i mean some people do. they say they can never marry outside their race or in other cases some deliberately avoid their race. I just wish people would marry for the right reason and not for stereotypes or an image.

@topic

Why limit love to a certain skin colour. Wherever you find it (love that is, not lust) keep it and cherish it.  

StephenP:
I think I'll just stay with the crossing at the ankle.

Well it's a start I guess

There are other ways to do it

StephenP:
If he was white or Asian , you should have pushed his legs closed. If he was black, please have mercy on him . . . the load between our thighs can be sometimes too much for us to bear.

Lol   He was black, well, that load you guys must bear on you own, I can't give up my seat for the sake of your load I will still push same way  

davidylan:
has nothing to do with being gay. I like to cross my legs especially when i think (subconsciously) and i'm as straight as a ramrod.

I don tire to tell my brothers o. If your shoes are bad, don't cross your legs. If your pant legs are afraid of the floor please don't cross your legs. If your socks are dirty . . . do you even need me to tell you?

LOL   Can't stand that either

davidylan:
Depends on the occassion, if its formal then def my legs are always crossed. It sort of portrays a different aura about you.

I agree, professionalism, sophistication right  

KarmaMod:
depends on what you are wearing

for guys, they have their own way of "crossing" which im fine with(and David is right, rich business men do this alot), unlike the mannerless ones that just sit open wide like an obese pig

Queenisha:
ROFL.
It needs space and air that's why they have one leg in Jerusalem and the other in Jericho.
Try sitting next to a guy in a bus, train or airplane
They'll literally push you into a corner.
Very territorial beings

LMAO  
Believe me I have, it wasn't pleasant   Not all guys do tho, just the ill mannered.

I don't mind guys crossing their legs there is a masculine way to do it and it's very ladylike for women to cross their legs especially when wearing skirts    I sat next to a guy  recently who had no respect for personal space. I understand your *cough* needs room but be considerate and don't spread them to far.  

RichyBlacK:
@Gamine,

From my experience, the worst kind of women are bred in a home where the mother is divorced, has only girls (or a single girl) and pours all her vernomous hatred for the ex-husband into the heart of the daughter - with such words as "all men are dogs", "your father was no good", "your father abused me", "your father cheated on me". No sane man should marry a girl from such a home.

Statistically, men remarry at a higher rate than women, after a divorce. Hence, much of the bitterness of the divorce remains with the woman. Some of these women become eternally bitter, and raise daughters that no man should ever consider marrying.

I hope your situation does not fall into this category.

Well if the woman grows up to be sound minded she'll know that not all men are the same. I grew up that way but don't hate all men, just more cautious of them 

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Not wing! Wind man Wind!!!
Part 2 for wetin?[/color]

Roflmao    tell him  

@ Gamine

Personally, i feel some situations aren't as bad as others. If your parents are divorced and you have to visit one during the holidays or something it's different to someone who's grown up without one parent completly absent from their life and the other could be alcholic or a drug addict. The first person is more likely to come out better off with the emotional support from both parents. People have been able to overcome it, Barack Obama is a perfect example. Then there are bad examples like Oprah who refuses to marry. Can't say it's directly because of how she grew up, but there's a chance.

I don't see what else she can do?
But if she had a baby for him then he's a fool in my eyes

obyann:
It all depends on how you want to live your life.
If you allow the mistake of your folks to affect you, one will live with the negative side of it.

@ topic
Well said, don't use the mistakes your parents made as an excuse to continue the vicious cycle. Make a conscious effort not to repeat them as youv'e already seen the outcome. Plus there are different levels to what a "broken home" can be, it can be a mild situation to an extreme case. As for romance and relationships it can affect how some people treat or view the opposite sex or even same sex, sometimes for the good and at times for the bad.

Pataki:
Go back to school. . . . .


Are you ladies starting this Man bashing thingy again?

If you don't believe that beating your partner is acceptable then don't worry.
For thos that do, be afraid

nuttyKachi:
some ladies enjoys being beat,SPANK HER WELLA

You must be braindead

Ceeno E vu:
So you really love am before? That is a classic 419 from men o.
"we still live together but we sleep in different rooms."
"It was all a mistake. I only wanted the child but our parents forced us to marry"
"I'm going to leave her but I want to get my acts together first"
etc etc.

You are lucky if (and only if) you can turn back at this point and find your level. If he did it to his present wife, your turn will surely come.

My sentiments exactly how can you be sure he wont do the same to you? Those kind of men never change. As soon as he gets bored he'll be out looking for somebody else, again. 

eldee:
I'll choose streetsmart any day, if I had to choose one

When Ms Streetsmart has to meet an accountant tomorrow
She studies everything she needs to hold a conversation with him, I get the good deal
She can hold an interesting conversation with people of all trades

Streetsmart people get the booksmarts to do the jobs for them
Take a look at M.K.O's boardroom and see what I'm saying

The world has stopped looking for booksmart people now

Really, says who? the world will always need booksmart people, being street smart is also an advantage so if you have both, then youv'e made it.

Gamine:
Pray tell, what pattern could this be.

My parents being seperate dosnt mean i want the same for myself[/b]or is it somewhere embedded that i don't know about?

That's quite true when you experience the effects first hand you do what you can to stop your children go through it. Strangely enough the cycle tends to repeat it self with some people?

Sagamite:
Definitely.

I am more courteous of women that come from broken homes because I have seen a [b]pattern.

What pattern?

nuttyKachi:
I dey feel you,Some women deserve heavy slap,because some of them are very sturbon

How can you condone violence in a relationship?

I always forget how old i am, it takes me a few seconds to answer, sometimes i say the wrong age by accident and then look like a complete idiot when i remember "i'm *****. OH NO sorry i mean i'm *****" am i losing it?

Seal - Kiss From a Rose (ClassiC!)

genius33:
There is no reason why rational adults should stoop to such a level and hit their partners. If they feel this is the way to handle a dispute then they aren't mature enough to even be in a relationship. Either they have anger issues or they want a sense of control. Fear does not equal respect, your spouse may fear you but wont respect you.

As for being provoked, either way in society it's not a good look for a man to beat his wife and it's not an attractive trait in a women who hits her husband either.

Some "quiet" guys are great, not all of them are painfully shy, they can be fun to hang out with on a one to one level. The louder ones are ok to but can sometimes be really obnoxious when they don't think before they speak. Big turn off!

Fishoo:
in most instance qiute guys tend to carry away all the pretty girls. so why?

Ya mean the strong silent type not the shy type right?