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eminemkayc:
don't worry!! very soon, ull submit to me! isnt it?

Hah, God forbid not me o

I am my mother's child after all

tope2000:
extremely very different

ibkaye:
They are two different things entirely

seconded

Aaaaahhhh   Women are disgracing us here o   Don't trust her! Tell her your money don finish and you lost your job then see what she does.  

That's why it's good to find someone while you're just starting in life then atleast you know she wants you for who you are not what you have. Then when the money is now rolling in don't forget to treat her like a queen cos she desrves it  

eldee:
Yep, men need women as HELPERS!!! Not as EQUALS
Eve failed at that simple job, and the future of womanhood is going the same way again
Women never learn, do they?

Well, sorry o, I wasn't born 2000 years ago so blame society. I wasn't brought up to believe that women are less than men, my mother was the breadwinner in my house so I've never seen my her 'submit' to any man  (chai, she can be very stubborn o)

eminemkayc:
IT SURE DOES GIRL!! "MORE EQUAL" IN THE CONTEXT IMPLIES NOT EQUAL TO WOMEN. COS MEN WERE CREATED TO BE LORD OVER WOMEN!(BUT PLS DONT GET ME WRONG HERE), ON THE OTHER HAND, A WOMAN HAS THE CONTROLLING POWER OVER MEN IN THE SENSE THAT, SHE COULD CONVINCE A MAN TO DO EVEN THAT WHICH HE NEVER EVER THOUGHT OF!! , COMMON SWEETHEART, You NO WHAT I MEAN BY NOW DONT You

You guys take this male dominance thing too far.

eldee:
Yeah right, an improvement that was made out of one rib?

Eve was a pathetic failure, Adam was told to take care of Eden, he did.
Eve's job was?

Eve was a helper, fair enough. Which indicates that adams strength for what he was called to do was inadequate in itself. Men need women.  

eminemkayc:
males are MORE EQUAL than females;, but, females have the CONTROLLING POWER over the male folks!

Does this make any sense?

CH3COO:
Speaking of pains . . . how many men undergo broken-di*k surgery from thrusting during intercourse. Not that I have researched it, but I do know it would be painful. Hip replacement surgery from trying different positions . . . freak accidents during workouts to build up stamina for intercourse cause pains too don't you know. And all this while all most of you do is lay there and watch the feature presentation unravel before your eyes.

How many men then?
Are you not also enjoying it? As if your only having sex for her benefit. What joy is there in going through hours of torturous labour?

@post

The parents will have to compromise. If the man wants the child but the woman doesn't then the man should have evry right to take care of the child alone. If the women is willing she will give birth to the child for the man. If not then too bad! Be careful who you give your sperm to because you don't know what she'll do with it. Men crying they want the child then when the child is growing they behave as if they have amnesia sef.

onyinye2:
what hip hop dead?? naw you got it all twisted sistah. it just went throw a wi bit of a dry spell when some the songs were a little comerical but just wait for that Nas album to hit the shelves.

Hannibal:
Hip Hop is not technically DEAD.
There are 2 more albums to look forward to by the 3rd quarter of the year.
Eminem and Dr Dre's DETOX album should be out in Oct/Nov so don't despair.

Well, with the route it's taking I can only hope somewhere another biggie smalls or tupac has been born to revive it. I fear that when the greats retire there'll be no one to bring back the integrity it once had. It's being degraded by all these one hit wonders and wannabes they can't be the future of Hip Hop.

@ post

If I slap a guy, which I doubt I ever will, but if it comes to that sha, I will make sure i'm in a public place so I have other guys to come to my rescue if he tries anything. I can't take on any man myself, but my boys will handle him.

@ all the guys that say they will slap their girls, the slap probably won't even hurt so just walk away and she will no she is in the wrong. But if you desrved the slap you can't put her in headlock for being upset now.

dreeldee:
The problem with all you ladies is that, you want and fight for equal right with exceptions which is not right, if you want to fight for it, do so and don't distribute any of the responsibility, both should shoulder it, that's when I'll agree and accept your fight is just.

Not all o, I've already justified why women I as a woman desrve equal rights  

kingdong:
Generally the man is stronger than the woman. (though some women will give their man sound brushing anyday anytime he misbehaves  )
The woman IS the weaker sex.
The woman is not inferior to the man, definitely not. Won't want to have anything to do with an inferior blend of the opposite sex.
The woman is to submit to the man in marriage. Does not make her a less important part of the marriage, hence mutual respect is a must.
wetin again?

Fianlly, all that agree say I  

CH3COO:
And syren, she's not arguing about equal rights.  Maybe some of her arguments are about equal rights, but I have no problem with equal rights.  Women deserve it and are human beings too.  The discussion is about equality of the sexes.  That's a well-patented mistruth

Well in that case   Like I've said b4 women are not the same as men. We are not inferior neither are we superior. In marriage and marriage only I accept that the husband is the head of the home but both spouses are just as important as eachother.

CH3COO:
So equality shouldn't be uniformly distributed?  It should only apply when looking at the bigger picture, like work and voting.

I've already explained myself, i have no problem sharing household responsibilities, paying for meals, weddings or whatever else you want to think of. Men feel the need to control everything so if you don't want women's help don't complain if we don't help. If you want I will give. What is so hard in compromising these days?

CH3COO:
syren, there is nothing confusing to me about what I posted.  I know you can do better than "you're confused"

Wanting equal rights is fighting against things women have been denied in the past, like the right to vote or the right to equal salaries. Is paying for dinner on a date a right? well it is one I already have sha, if I want to pay for a meal I can and will  

CH3COO:
How can they be equal when the same women who pulsate for equality will be the very first to expect you to pay for their meals on a date. Responsibilities of a gentleman my foot.

You're confused that's why  

Unbelievable

nurturers

Hip Hop is deeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaadddddddddd!!!

Pataki:
This is really hilarious.

a. You work hard as a man

b. Make the same amount of money

c. Share household responsibilities

What am I supposed to argue with based on this feeble composition of points?

You are placing your priorities very wrong Miss.

That's exactly what I do. If two people are doing the exact same job what makes one entitle to more pay than the other. Nothing And I do my share for the household so Equal Rights for everbody YAY!!!!!!  

Pataki:
Equal rights my foot!


Sue me!!!!!!

Yes I will o, what have you got against them?  
If work as hard as a man I should make the same amount of money and I share household responsibilities. You can't argue with that!  

I want equal rights

I want to recieve the same salary as a man for doing exactly the same job he is doing.
I don't want to be penalized for having to take time of work or maternity leave.
I want the same opportunities and chances of recieving a promotion as the men in my workplace.

and the list goes on.

This is what fighting for equal rights is about. People are so confused they think it's about being like men ITS NOT! it's about being women that aren't pushed aside in society because of gender.

After all, people fight against racial discrimination, we're not all the same colour but that doesn't mean one race shouldn't have the same rights as another does it?

Jazmine Sullivan - I Need You Bad
Silent Tears
N.E.R.D. - Everyone Nose
Usher - Moving Mountains
Brandy - Escape
Sweet Nothings

GBAM!

[quote author=jek_kad link=topic=146868.msg2442116#msg2442116 date=1214852493]nothing like bleeping sake or shaggin sake here,d sake be say that is d best thing to do to some stingy men out there [/quote]roflmao that's too funny keep it up!  

Mesmerize:
& bTw, am still an orator for Independent women! yeah!

lol you're not serious mes  

RedHotChic:
I don't know why it's such a big problem for some men to accept that it's proper for both genders to have equal rights. Is it that difficult to accept?

seconded  

debosky:
A friend of mine is going through a similar situation now, he's been having casual sex with this chick, and now she's preggers. He is now an 'eligible bachelor' and fears she will want to tie him downbut I don't think its right!

A child should have two parents so it's both their responsibility if he doesn't want marriage, as long as he's in the child's life , and i'm not talking of sending a cheque every month.

Mesmerize:
You dnt steal his money, you're borrowing it. .just not returning it! but it does not go vice versa

of course not

A loving husand will not keep what is owed or intended for his wife and vice versa. If I needed it and it was mine aswell as his then I would take, but not the money he earns, he can't do that to me either.  

Wokeyim:
@ all saying 'no
Okay now honestly, what if the prego was a real error? What does the babe do if guy refuses, because abortion is usually out of it for some people.

If you get pregnant and the guy doesn't want it, but you don't want to abort it then you can raise it yourself or put it up for adoption. But, believe me you can't force a guy to want a child. If he's decent he'll stick by you but if he's the type that can run away as soon as the word pregnancy leaves your mouth then you'll be on your own. Wait for someone who wants what you want.  

@ post something I came across

Man and woman represent two forms of divine energy; they are the male and female elements of a single soul.

God is neither masculine nor feminine, but has two forms of emanation: the masculine form, which is more aggressive, and the feminine form, which is more subtle. For a human being to lead a total life, he or she must have both forms of energy: the power of strength and the power of subtlety; the power of giving and the power of receiving. Ideally, these energies are merged seamlessly.

Men are physically stronger. By nature, they are usually more aggressive and externally oriented. In contrast, a woman usually embodies the ideal of inner dignity. Some people confuse such subtlety with weakness; in truth, it is stronger than the most aggressive physical force imaginable. True human dignity does not shout; it is a strong, steady voice that speaks from within. The nature of a woman, while subtle, is not weak. And the nature of a man, while aggressive, is not brutish. For man and woman to be complete, they must each possess both energies.

The answer is not for men and women to try to be alike. All men and women must be themselves, realizing that God has given each of us unique abilities with which to pursue our goals, and that our primary responsibility is to take full advantage of those abilities.

Men and women must realize their respective equal roles and strive to complement each other in their shared struggle to improve life. In order to correct the abuse of male dominance, men must concentrate on using their dominant qualities for the good. They must use their strength to protect and preserve the feminine character, helping women realize their true potential in revealing  G-dliness, which the world so desperately needs today.

Learn about what it means to be a man or a woman, about masculine and feminine energy. Learn to live up to your potential, to balance these energies to lead a productive and meaningful life -- a Godly life. And finally, learn to appreciate and respect your male or female counterpart.

NICE