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Adviseasister:
Good evening Nairalanders,

I had to create a new moniker for this, but I believe my guy will know this is for him.

Sometime last year I received a PM from a nlder. After going through his posts, I was pleased and we started talking. One thing led to another and we started a relationship. I must confess he is everything a woman wants in a man, he brought out this part of me I never knew existed and he did it so easily. We started seeing a future, I was happy.

Fast forward to February this year, I noticed a decline in communication. I complained and he blamed it on work. It continued and I had to ask what the problem is, he maintained it was work.

By March, things got worse and I have not been able to concentrate at work. I send him voice-notes and he responds hours later. I send messages and he responds with one word. I must also add he doesn't pick my calls at night anymore, but his NL profile would be seen online, though he won't comment.

I do not know what to do as I can't bring myself to love someone else as I love him. It is a long distance relationship and I do not know what to do. Is it possible he is facing challenges there and doesn't want to share?

Should I wait for him to come around or move on? Has anyone been in this situation before, how did you manage it? I feel so heartbroken.

Mancala:
That’s a hell of a conundrum you have there! Many years ago, I learnt something which I filed away in my mind under “useless information”, never knew I could use it to help someone years later. I visited a friend who had a chicken coop in his backyard. I had stayed the night, and in the morning, accompanied him to his backyard to gather eggs from the coop. Lo and behold, we encountered a strange (to me) sight. A large black snake was in the chicken coop with a piece of string hanging from its mouth. The other end of the string was tied to a structural post in the coop. The snake was almost motionless! I started to run, but my friend said to calm down, the snake is held fast, it can’t go anywhere. He told me the trick he used.

What he did was boil an egg, then used a knife to cut a slit along the side of the egg. He then proceeded to insert a fish hook with the shank pressed into the egg, to a position where the tip and barb are inside the edge of the egg and are pointed to the outside. He then had the hook tied to a line and then tied off to something sturdy. Then he put the egg in the cage. He said the method never fails whenever he has nuisance snakes in his yard. Try this and report back

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GarbaAudu:
If you have seen the long skin shade, then it's most likely a black cobra. It has a strong survival skill and can adapt to any unhealthy environment, holes, dark spaces etc. If you are sure you don't have rats/rodents in the house then the serpent is feeding on wall geckoes. That explains why it survived this long. If you are really convinced that you have a snake up there, then your best option is to call the service of Hausa snake charmers. Any other options will be dangerous as the snake will be threatened by the invasion of its territory. It can fight to death. If you are in the north, snake charmers are everywhere. If you are in Lagos, you can get them in IdiAraba, Obalende, Mile12, or even Agege. For a fee of N10, 000 they can safely remove any poisonous reptile from your house.

Amastermovic:
bro immediately Efcc carry them dey r literally broke if you know how dey operate..

they don't need to force you much to open your phone u will be moved to the IT section if you use android all pics u deleted from ur phone will be extracted immediately.. I phone u will open last last.. ur statement of account every since you will account for less I forget u won't access that account..

there's an Android app on play store to test this.
just go to playstore and search for disk digger u will see all deleted pics but Efcc is far equipped
ur SIM will be search thoroughly and even if lost network will provide dem with replacement.

before taking u to ur apartment where Marshall will give you ur bed and show you ur room...

less I forget them go sign till there brain reset

Mrluv:
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Mrluv:
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ak22:
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HelenBee:
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Craigslists:
I would advise you to always unplug it from the wall socket. That is what I always do when leaving the house.

Also make sure your wiring are not done with inferior cables with low resistance.

comtem2011:
That jimpo Ori is very good for babies.

lilwetdick:
make I no laugh..studying English in a non-English country.

Richy4:
If he's Smart streetwise, it's still easy for him to get away with it.... he can say that he was sorry to have spoilt all the fun... That they were planning a surprised party for her (wife) for her hard work @ home front...
That the Lady in question that she heard her voice was teaching him how to dance... to perform for her on that day...

These idea was to make her question what she has heard... (the more you look the less u see)... The man can also in a loving manner become angry with her for listening in on other people's conversation... Then she will be happy and apologise to the husband with smile and look forward to the party date...

walex2:
. Go and learn what do you know about magun? some guys have magical ring that they will sleep with your wife and nothing will happen after the deal, they reverse back the magun back, once you sleep with your Wife you are the one that will die instead. yoruba do say " ibi ti oogun ti e pari si, ni ti elomi ti bere" meaning where your juju ends is the starting points for another person. if you don't trust your wife you rather end the relationship than killing yourself.

VivaLaFrans:
Ah... I wished she could be forgiven... Its not easy executing women... You will cry even as the executioner... See the facial expression of the policeman on the left of that picture, like he is without sin...