Je bure, tamper mercy with justice abi justice with mercy...lol.

The real Yorubas I know, respect elders regardless not this non*ntity. Either you like it or not, OBJ still remain the best Nigerian president so far.

Although he took side in last election, but we all should respect his opinion. I don't like OBJ because of 2007 election but that will not make me shy away from saying the truth. Obj have done more good to Nigerians than bad, we should respect him for that.

Going forward, election is over, let's come together to support the winner and pray for prosperous Nigeria. Hunger and poverty knows no tribe. My opinion

mrcelebrity1:
[qOmo Ale jati jati .. Iran Baba nla e kan can never match his (Obasanjo) standard nor any of your incoming generation match his achievements . Respect elders so your days can be long ..

You can keep up with the public deceit and role playing. We know what you are and what you stand for.

This same man sat in the hall like a statue while a buff*lo like Emmanuel Iwuanyanwu of ohanenze reffered to the entire yoruba race as political rascals. The same race you belong to.

Hear me well sir, you a just a mere Fomer Nigeria president who is a yoruba.
You are not and will never be recognise nor acknowledge as a Yoruba leader. You lost that honour. Anything you do, say or wish to interfere in, is no business of the yorubas and it doesnt represent us a tribe; it is your own personal opinion, ambition or commitment.

You can keep aligning with the enemies of the southwest to bring down our leaders. While you continue masquerading as elder-stateman.

Tinubu is the greatest politician to ever emerge from southwest, standing alongside MKO and Awolowo. You either live with it or you keep fighting against it.

booksbo0k:
Sorry for the long write up my people, I need advice.

My first son has been behaving somehow in our family, as if he's not part of this family...
You and this boy can be in the same house but you might not set your eyes on him once for a whole day. He will be inside his room through out...

He has been telling me that he is currently working on going to rent his own place and live on his own and that if God helps him and he is able to achieve that, He will not have anything to do with our family again and that we will never set eyes on him ever again :[ ...

I would have not been bothered by such statement if it were coming from someone else, I would take it as a bluff. But this my son is someone that normally doesn't call people to check on them, not even us his parents..

When he was in his previous University before he dropped out, this boy can go for months, that is a whole semester stretch without calling anybody to know how you're doing, except you call him or maybe he wants to ask for money for something or school stuff....

We have five children and he is the first, the second and third children are away in University, he and the two last siblings are the only one's with us.. My husband refused him from going to University in a far place instead he gives him transport money to be going to his own University from home everyday...... He and his father don't even talk again except good morning greetings. He is only 21 ohh..

Let me give you guys small back story so that you can understand how all these things started.

My son graduated from secondary school (a boarding school) in 2017 at 16 years old... Initially, he said he wanted to study computer science as he said that was the course he loved and wanted to study. But my husband refused and persuaded him to study pharmacy because he worked at NAFDAC and he saw the way pharmacy graduates were living at his work place and the salary they were recieving. He and one of his chemist friend sweet talked him into going to study the course and I guess it was because he was young then and could not challenge his dad then that was why he gave in....

He wrote JAMB but he did not meet the cut of mark for pharmacy (but I later realised his score was good for computer science then)... No public University was willing to admit him for pharmacy then because his score was not good for the course but due to my husband love for the course and not wanting my son to lose admission that year , he decided to go the way of private University not minding their school fees...Long story cut short, my son got admitted into Madonna University where we were paying 1M naira every year.....After 3 years in the school and in 300L @18 years old, he began saying he was not interested in the school any longer, that he was tired of the course, that he's body is no longer in the school and blablabla that he wants to go and play football in Europe...

He came back for holiday during the beginning of covid and refused to go back to the school when they resumed, saying that he was only wasting our money by being in that school and he did not want to continue.....This got my husband really sad and angry....My son stayed home for almost two years doing nothing because my husband was adamant that if he would not go back to school, nothing for him, that all the money he has spent for school fees in that school can not be for waste that he can become a footballer after he graduates, saying no one can become a successful footballer without being a graduate, that it would later affect them in life...

But my son refused. I must confess, my son is extremely good at playing football. That was the talent i can confidently say that God personally gave to him from birth. Infact when he was graduating from secondary school, they gave him the award for the best graduating footballer and he was always the centre of attention anytime he plays at our church events. He friends used to call him "nima" then, I think...

I and my husband got tired of him staying at home for long so I went to meet with one pastor in our street who was based in the UK with his family but comes home sometimes for church related matters. I explained my son's situation to him and he offered to help my son travel out to chase his football career provided we have the funds for it. The man was secondary school class mates with "victor ikpe ekong" who was a former super eagles player but currently a pastor in Sweden. To my greatest surprise he called him on a WhatsApp video call in my presence and i was really surprised...He gave me the man's phone number to keep in contact and also scheduled a day to meet with my husband and have a discussion.. I told my son and he was very happy..I also told my husband and he was eager to meet with him at least, anything to solve my sons idleness at the time..

The pastor came to my our house on several occasions and discussed with my husband. My husband kept telling the pastor, saying he would like my son to be going to school while chasing his football career at the same time, a feat which pastor let us know would be difficult as one has to be dropped for the other. Unfortunately, my husband changed he's mind and said he was no longer interested in the whole footballer thing. He said he knew that my son wanted to become a footballer only because of girls. That he, my son knew that if he becomes a footballer, all the girls would like him, that that was the only reason he wanted to become a footballer, and that if football was his true destiny, he doesn't need to travel out for it to manifest, that he can be in Nigeria and make it from here.....That was how that chapter close like that. Pastor left for England few months after.....

After years of my son staying at home, my husband got tired. One night, he hired some Street thugs to come take my son away and beat him up...my son stayed with them for 2 weeks. When he returned, he said he was ready to go back to school. But my husband told him he won't be going back to any private University again. My son wrote jamb again to study computer science and was admitted into COOU. but my said he would not allow him go to any University that is not in the same state we are residing. Now the problem here was that all the public schools in the state we are staying will not accept you to study computer science unless you did chemistry in jamb. And my son did not do chemistry in jamb because he is not good in chemistry. If he was to study in the same state we were staying, he had to settle for another course, which he did...Now another problem arose. My husband refused to rent an apartment for my son around the school because the school is considerably far from our house, instead he decided to be giving him money (2000) everyday as transport fare to be going from home. This did not sit down well with my the boy and he again, said he was no longer interested in schooling again sef that he can't be going such far distance from home to the school everyday to study a Course he does not even like siting that it would be stressful and affect his academics and that it was unwise to be paying 60k a year as school fees while you spend 2k everyday as transport..My husband got angry and called on our estate CSO to come pick him up. They beat him so badly in public that when he got back home later in the evening, I went to check him in his room, his buttocks and back where scarred and red with huge marks...

Ever since, he has been going to the school from home and he has become very distant from us especially his dad. They don't talk again in the same house except "good morning sir"...

My son has turned into something else. He can stay indoors from morning till night. I would have said he has started keeping bad company but he does not even have a single friend, not one..Nobody calls him, and he doesn't call anybody...I have five children and he is the first. The second and third already gained admission this year in a private University and are in school currently, so he and he's last two siblings are the only one's with us now..

Why I'm writing this is because I'm scared..I'm beginning to fear that my son might commit suicide, he's beginning to show that kind of attitude.. And the plans he have to leave us forever to go and stay alone, I don't like it ohhhh...

Nairalanders please I need your advice.

If you want me to be honest with you, I will be harsh on you because you and your husband intentionally want to kill that innocent boy. You people are too strict haba. You called an estate security on your biological son? Too bad.

Going forward, you the woman of the house, and you going to suffer for it if you did not seat your husband down and talk to him. I'm married with kids, I gave my first son right to have a say in my house and his life. I made him understand that my duty as a father is to guard and mentor him not force my opinion on him and this always makes him want to discuss things with me.

That boy will soon leave that house, and you people will not see him again. Please do the needful as the woman of the house.

Until when we get sense and see ourselves as one to fight our oppressors, we will never have good leadership. This fund has been shared before arrival self . The poor Nigerians should comot mind and face their sufferness in peace ...lol

Noerection:

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/04/dont-threaten-integrity-of-nigeria-igp-warns-ipob-esn/

He should just mention Obidients instead of saying other groups. They are doing everything possible to proscribe obedients as terrorist group. Too bad for our country

It's funny how these criminals in power are trying to turn Nigerians against PO. PO introduced religion war but he choose Muslim vice. APC choose same faith ticket and Nigerians are falling for this cheap propaganda by APC. Shame on you all.

The plan was to term obedients as terrorist group. I told you people that if by mistake tinubu win the election, you people will pray for buhari to come back but let's be positive because he has won the election and let's see what his four years will look like. Tinubu might perform to just to proof Nigerians wrong because it's obvious we don't want him.

I will advice Nigerians to support him and let's peace reign because Tinubu is not just ordinary politicians, he would do anything to bring his opposition down

Yoruba and Fulani relationship go sweet ooo. I can't wait to see how the relationship will benefit the common Yoruba man on the street. I never knew that some Yorubas with masters and PhD degrees will fall for tribalism tactics by politicians until this last election.

In the early 1960s northerners and Igbos formed alliance against the westerners , and we see the outcome. Let's see if this relationship will last. Although I pray it last because the easterners will be the one to enjoy it. I studied nigerians politics, and I know what's up.

We all came together to fight against our oppressors, but some people withdrew because our oppressors played tribal game with them and they fell. If we get it right and things works well in Nigeria, we will all enjoy it regardless of our tribes but if it's the other way round, we will all suffer it coz hunger knows no tribe

mainman7:
Please, have you watched the Videos of the terrible Election Riggings done by the Obi people? After they realized that APC have started collating Video Evidences of their Riggings, they decided not to wait for Court to decide on the Case that they filed already. Now, they've resulted to slanderous Campaign of Calumny calling on USA to come Subdue Nigeria's Democracy, and even calling on Military to take over. Very very shameless demonic evil Sad Souls that hate to see others' Greatness; Cancerous Envy has so much eaten up their Souls far beyond redeemable. Kudos my brother. All Yorubas and other Indigenous Tribes should rush to this Website to write superior ferocious Petitions against Igbos. They must be shown that not only them know how to Tarnish Other Tribes' image and run Clanish Campaign of Calumny against other People. Are you of any other Indigenous Nigerian Tribe or Yoruba and you are Reading this, Click for the sake of your unborn Generation that Igbos are trying to mentally Enslave and do your Part, write Petition now! Time to show them that they don't have Monopoly of Character Assassination!

Their Litigations against INEC still makes me laugh, funny how they are now calling for INEC's head. We all saw how they praised this same INEC guy and Buhari to high Heavens when INEC and Buhari were bending to all their whimp and caprice. Just because of their Cancerous Jealousy and Effort to stop the Man that CREATOR of Humanity has Destined as next President of Nigeria, they used Emefiele to manipulate Buhari to Starve the whole Nation of currency and put innocent Nigerian People into Needless Excruciating Pain. They said they would rather watch all other Tribes of Nigeria suffer Hunger and Unprecedented hardship all because of their same evil Agenda to grab Number 1 Position, not for Love of Nigerians or Nigeria(Every Intelligent Person knows they have no iota of Love for others in their hearts). Their sole Evil Aim has always been one: to Deceivefully Sweet-tongued and Enslave all other Tribes under themself.

Same Demonically Selfish Agenda made them to Deceitfully Bad-mouth Leaders of other Tribes till they were allowed to brutally Kill them to Hijack Power in 1966, with the Sole Satanic Aim of Enslaving all other Nigerian Tribes under themself. Despite all their demonic Deception and Campaign of Calumny against Tinubu, he Won the Primaries that they said he will Never win, he Won the Presidential Election that they Manipilated even the President to fight against. It is interesting that their Souls has been so Completely eaten up by Cancerous Envy that they can see that it is far more Easier to stop him from Primaries and Winning the Presidential Election, than wasting their Precious Time in myopic effort to stop Tinubu's Swearing in
Now they have resort to False Wicked Character Assassination of calling on International Countries against Tinubu. How more evil can some demonic Greedy Souls be! One it is not them shining, they are never happy for you!

Calm down, no fight between civilized Yorubas and Igbos but some miscreants are just trying to create unnecessary tension between the two tribes. Don't let ethnicity overpower your intelligence.

Emefiele can not, I repeat will never act without Mr president approval. As a CEO of a company, your manager cannot execute a big project without your approval. Even primary school cert holder will know this. Also the coup of 1966 was carried out by the military group not Igbos. The laws of military did not recognize tribe but the country, and this was the reason we have Hausa governor in the west/east during military era and vis-a-vis.

Going forward, we should be cautious of what we say because it will play major impact in our lives in future. LP gubernatorial candidate in Lagos failed because of what he posted online in the past, my opinion and it's verifiable. Even the politicians you ready to die for, have Igbos and Hausas in his team and he will do anything to protect them because they are business partners. What we want is better and prosperous Nigeria, not a Igbo, Yoruba, or Hausa president.

naptu2:


https://saharareporters.com/2023/03/28/nnamdi-kanus-self-proclaimed-disciple-simon-ekpa-declares-sit-home-lagos

He was working for Nigerian politicians not Nigerians or Igbos. It's obvious now. Ekpa is the enemy of Igbo tribe, and he did not speak for the Igbos. The politicians might hire some hoodlums to wreck controlled havoc in Lagos, police will arrest them and tag them as ipob in order to gain cheap political points. It's their way, see how they distabilized Borno, zamfara,Imo,Anambra states.

ijustdey:



https://punchng.com/bus-train-accident-lagos-compensates-victims-with-employment-scholarship-others/?amp

Do you know that some set of people are actually planning to present their relative as the victim's family to collect the benefits? That's how decayed our society is, and anytime we come together to fight for a sane society, our politicians comes together to divide us so that the business will continue as usual.

Religion and ethnic divide are instrument used by the political class to conquer the masses. All of you shouting Igbo, Biafra, afonja et all no get job. Wike killed and robbed his own people to satisfy Tinubu, both Tinubu and wike are not from same tribe, but you, I mean you, ordinary idiot like you will call your brother Biafra, ritualist, skull minners, urchin, afonja because of your inability to see beyond were your greedy politicians positioned your brain. Shame on you

fergie001:


SOURCE

I thought this man was fight for equity, Justice and fairness? What's different between Tinubu and Atiku candidacy? Muslim/Muslim or Christian/Christian ticket should be condemn by any sane Nigerian.

Adebisi0070:
"I've my voters card, I know my pollin unit and i'll cast my vote...'
I'll pick a job of 200k outside lagos, not because lagos is bad. But I've grown to understand my environment. 1year + today, I lost my business and for 4 months now have been doing a job of 18k per month, married with 1 daughter and we never for once go to bed without food, how i manage to do this i still don't know. My daughter was awarded scholarship and my wife just gained a teaching job which raised our monthly income to about 40k, house sent is 70k and we are living a contended life. In Abuja... Cut your qoute according to your material, they said.

Wow, just wow... Na man you be

Reinaldo:
You're supporting a party that has overseen 8 years of suffering but na ANAP jet dey do Una. I have said it before and I will say it again. These APC people don't care about Nigerians. I went to a Federal hospital last week and saw people dying needlessly because of poor infrastructure and poverty. But na ANAP jet dey worry these ones. Same party who's candidate would immediately travel abroad for treatment if he feels slightly unwell while telling Nigerians that he turned Lagos to Dubai. Meanwhile, when you look at the Lagos, na only touts dey dominate the state. Nigerians, know your enemies.

Expect more of this type of post from paid agents of doom. They were paid millions to start online war against the man of the people because it obvious they are loosing and Nigerians are getting wiser. I'm speaking nothing but fact. Please vote right for the sake of your unborn kids coz I know most of you are after what you will get from them. INEC should ban people from taking their phone to cast vote, take the voting material, drop your phone, cast your vote and pick up your phone. This simple steps will save Nigerians because these agent of doom are after innocent Nigerians and they were told to snap their voting material to see who they voted for. Please everyone should tag INEC so that they will pass this information to all the polling units.

naptu2:
See previous thread here: Ojota: Police Warn Yoruba Nation Agitators; Release Photos Of Bullet Ridden Cars

SP Benjamin Hundeyin @BenHundeyin



https://twitter.com/BenHundeyin/status/1622248339948404741

What will happen to the food now?

Ikaeniyan0:
I hope everybody will condemn this with the same vigour they will use in condemning this if it was done by Tinubu son.

Can you just see things beyond tribal mindsets?

Seyi Tinubu son' convoy is bigger than Osun State governor's convoy. It's Nigerian politicians way, let's condemn it coz they are wasting our resources

itsmayiela:
Tadeus once purchased a golf car for me in Cotonou. He was very nice I must admit. But his attitude recently when I called, sent sms and WhatsApp was shocking.

I begin to wonder, is this no longer same Tadeus that I transacted with sometime in 2013?

I'm sorry for the inconveniences sir. Still same Tadeus sir. Due to the Nigerian government policy on land borders, it's advisable to buy small cars in Nigeria. I won't deceive you to come to cotonuo if you want to purchase any car below 2012 model. We deal strictly with car dealers now and few old clients(individuals) that wants to purchase big cars via cotonuo.

Hopefully the Nigerian gvt will reverse this policy soon so that it will favour everyone.

Regards

Fashdeejay:


No matter what your father does, you are a product of his sperm upgraded. Focus the energy you are using to hate to become better than he is.... I do not support any father no being a good father but you'll realize more when you are old enough, you'll understand the reason why he is like this.... My dad once said to me and I quote him 'my father didnt do it for me, so why should I do it for you?' .... I became independent from my early teens, working and hustling, my mom tried her best and supported me with prayers.... But one thing I did was take care of them both.... Irrespective of the pain my dad put me through, I spent on him well before he died and he was appreciative of it. Don't be like your father.... Let the hate dissipate and love him irrespective and instead of burning all that energy hating, channel it into making your own greatness ..... The true victory in such battles is when you show him you are better by having him learn from you... Sometimes na bad situation dey jingah growth....

God bless you

pol23:
I’m not a fan of destruction neither am I enjoying the Calamity and tragedy that has befallen the Ukrainian.
I’m not supporting the Russian forces against the Ukrainian people,But im supporting the Russian against America…sadly in this case it means the same thing,there’s a slight line though.
Why am I supporting the Russian?
It’s simply because of the hypocrisy of the west and her cooperations.
The truth is all this big nation just bully the smaller one around…
Am I blaming Ukraine for refusing to bully around,maybe not..
I’m only blaming him for allowing herself to be point of conflict between 2 mighty world.
When USA and UK invaded Iraq for clamming to have weapon of mass destruction… the word SOVEREIGNTY doesn’t come to play…
Where was CNN and BBC in 2021 when Isreal was dishing it out Palestine?
Where was all the sanctions?
This and many more reason makes few people support Russia…
I wish the war will be over though.
But Zelensky isn’t a hero to me like the western media has painted him for everyone…

Get your fact right man. Isreal and Palestine war is different from what's happening in Ukraine Russia war. This is invasion. The war is only happening on Ukrainian soil. Ukraine did not fire a missile to Russian soil unlike Palestinian. Let's call a spade a spade. Russia has committed a war crime and she should face the consequences.

MangekyoAlt:
Putin, the man with iron balls. Tormentor of the West
Where is that stupid fowl called boris Johnson? Be like say my prayer for great Britain to be turned to dust will soon come to pass.
Give them hot hot Vlad!

Ps: Russia had a nuclear drill before this invasion. If USA and EU get mind, make them threaten russia. All of them go collect

Turn to dust� God forbid.

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

Bad guy. Change your mindset, see her as your kid sis. We have over a billion beautiful ladies out there, nor let your blood mess up with your life. At 30yrs, you still have a very way to go in life. Seat her down, and discuss these with her as your younger sis, she will adjust.

dre11:



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/02/breaking-man-asks-wife-to-pay-back-his-money-holds-her-children-hostage-at-lekki/

DNA don reveal day nor be him get the kids.lol

Are we going to ignore the "5k for mobilisation" from our own NPF? We not ready for this conversation

They are all playing politics with this man. Okorocha is the only outstanding candidate so far in APC. The Igbos call him Okoroahusa beacuse he sees beyond enthinicity and believe strongly in one Nigeria.

Let's give him a trial

yomi007k:
Please let us be logical in this situation.


The health worker is trying to prevent an outbreak of polio which if it happens will cause so much problems than we already have in this country.

I think the school should be closed down.

Coming from underage nairalander. In sane society, parents must be consulted before anything and it's not compulsory. We are talking about preschooler's and kids below12yrs old here. Nobody, even teachers have right to give dem water or anything without the parents permission.

travelwaka:
These guys should calm down please. The world doesn't need another war. Ordinary pandemic is shaking the world talk more of a war. I wish UN can be given more power to step in when things like this are happening.

Who's is the UN? Is it not the same USA?

Genesiszero:
My brother has been a well disciplined man, he has married a woman whom he love dearly, sometimes I wish If I was a woman, I'll marry him! Gentle, calm, humble, educated, exposed with a very good source of livelihood. Doesn't smoke, drink or womanize And most importantly, God fearing. Maybe heritage from our dad.

But I never could have imagined it that what seems like a blissful marriage of my brother could end just like that. What is the problem? Social media! They had an issue, and she went and posted it there, from WhatsApp to Facebook and the worst of all twitter and some stupid women group which she seems to be a member of, may be there is some Judges there, come and see some people passing judgment even without hearing the other side of the story.

He warned her series of time not to ever post any family related issues to the media. I can remember while I was still with them, he always tells her if she ever has anything about him, she should call him and discus it with him or better still report to our parent. I don't know if it's a family thing for us or something, personally, I'm not too good with these social media of a thing.

To the best of my knowledge, my brother is the best and cool personality I had ever come in contact with, But these act of hers has been the height of it for him.

Brethren as I'm talking to you now, my brother has contacted a lawyer to prepare the divorce papers. Our parents and family members has called a meeting, we begged him for almost a week now but he stood his ground about the divorce, her family has come to apologize and beg for reconciliation for the both of them but to no avail, I spoke to him personally and begged like what you could ever imagine but our please fell on deaf ear. He personally told me that if his wife had gone to the court, he would've preferred it. If there is absolutely anything I know about my brother is him being a man of his words. She has done countless of things to him and She'll call us to apologize all the time and he'll forgive especially when my mom is involved. But for these I don't know what To say, she has cried and cried her eyes all out but for where It seems My brother has made up his mind, But if I may ask the ladies, why always the social media, going out there to claim the victims card.

Sorry I don't have much time neither am I good with telling stories, if not, I should have narrated what led to the whole problem but is a long epistle on it own....

Why is too hard to know what your spouse want and dislike. Note: he doesn't even want you posting his image in any media platform even on his birthdays, we're kinda some sort of reserved people in my family.

The marriage is three years old.
Not everybody likes these social media of a thing.

Please tell your brother to go ahead with his decision. Is better to remain single, healthy with rest of mind than being in a relationship that will shorten your life.

I will never plead with anybody to remain in his/her relationship. People are going through alot. For him to insist on the divorce, his peace and life is at stake .

If you want your brother alive, support his decision.

Noah9:
I want to thank everyone for their advice and I really appreciate everyone involvement about the thread I created 2week ago. Here is the link.
https://www.nairaland.com/6933724/regretted-actions-please-me

Great people of this forum, honestly things have never been better ever since that incident and I wish our minds are like show glass so that y'all would see how sorry I am inside of me. I messed up and I'm really sorry.

5 days after I created that post above, My wife traveled with my daughter to her parents house to stay without telling me. Since that incident my wife haven't said a word to me, Not a single word. Sometimes I wonder if she's the same woman I married. I'm frustrated, incoherent and I'm losing my mind.

I've been good to her, I provide 85% for my family while she bring just 15% yet I don't complain, I'm romantic and good looking, since we married I don't keep female friends not to talk of cheating. Yet She denied me sex over 2 months without any reasons, that was why I acted that way and I'm so sorry.

On Tuesday here, My friend and I traveled to her parents house, they did not even welcome us well, I don't know what she must have told her parents but I explained myself, knelt down and asked for forgiveness.

She refused to come home with me, her parents were just starring at me like I'm some demon, I requested for my daughter but she refused to release her and I've already paid my daughter's school fees for the term. Her parents said they would register my daughter in a new school, that my wife need some space for now.

Please don't call me a weak man, I'm family oriented, I don't want broken home, if she needed some space that's not a problem, I can give her all the space in the world but let her come home. It's not proper raising a child in a broken home...I'm really losing my mind.

I faced query today at work because I traveled without informing my Boss which I know he won't allow me and I know how much would be deducted from my salary. what I'm going through now I can't wish my enemies and I wish I could turn back the hands of time. I messed up.

Beloveth Pls I need advice.

Blood was coming out from her mouth and you still go ahead to have sex with her? You must be on drugs for you to have erection. What is bad is bad.

For your daughter, you can still talk to the school management to pend it. Give her the space she asked for. She need the space. Let her be for now. You nor try at all but the deed has been done

Penguin2:
Very stupid summoning.

I see Tinubu hand in this, just like he wanted to smuggle in Direct Primaries through same NASS.

I can’t because I don’t like Malami and not stand with him when he is right.

Supreme Court took Imolite mandate that they willingly bestowed on Ihedioha and gave to Uzodimma, and stupid NASS didn’t invite IGP and Malami.

Supreme Court took Bayelsa from APC and gave to PDP and NASS did not invite anybody.

Supreme agreed with INEC that APC didn’t have valid primaries in Zamfara in 2019 and NASS didn’t invite anybody.

Since 2015, APC has not been able to field candidates in Rivers through Supreme Court judgments and NASS didn’t invite anybody.

Now same Supreme Court gave judgment about some piece of land dubiously taken from its owners through executive rascality and NASS is inviting IGP and Malami for enforcing the Judgment of the Supreme Court?

Questioning the enforcement of the judgment of the Supreme Court is the new low that Nigeria should not descend. Even if the judgment was in error, it must be enforced to the latter and NASS has no fvccking business with that.

Ndi ala!

With due respect, you are wrong on this sir. Malami and IGP don't have right to invade any State without informing the number citizen of that state(Governor) It was when all efforts has been exhausted, that they will inform the same court, to order Mr governor to execute or appeal the judgement not taking laws in their hands. We are in democratic domain not autocrat.

Prospertochu:


I married her against my wish her mother forced me to marry her because of the pregnancy. I blamed myself sha maybe if I have had use condoms I wouldn't have been in this miserable marriage.

Honestly I understand your situation. I will only advice you to ignore all these childish advise. You did not make mistake. It's just for a while, everything will be alright. You did not plan for triplets but God choose that for you. You have to man up and face your fear. To be honest with you, you married a good woman. If a woman can feed herself and 4children with 40k in a month, my brother, she is a good woman. That 40k is not enought for all these IG to squander in a week.

I know you frustrated but your wife is more frustrated than you. Even to breast feed a child is not easy. Put yourself in her shoe. It's not easy. I will not advice you not to talk care of your mum coz it's your duty. Sit both of them down, your mum n wife, and talk senses into their heads. If mum is not too old to handle the kids, plead with your wife to look for a job. She need to start doing something so that the financial burden on you will reduce.

You need to act fast. 40k is too small with the present economy situation let me be honest with you. 40k is not even enough to get diapers and wipes for your 3 kids monthly. Your wife is a good woman and you should protect and take good care of her. Please do family planning ASAP

I wish you all the best

Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,

My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.

Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.

It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.

Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.

I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young.

Like what exactly do you expect us to tell you? Why are some people just daft. A married woman abort without telling her husband and you still here asking foolish questions. Please let her go, she is not the irght person for you. I can't waste RIP on someone that failed to use his brain.

I have been married for 5year, if I have misunderstanding with my wife and she picked any object to hit me, I'm done. We will go our separate ways and probably still be a good friend if she want but nothing will happen between us again.

Marriage is not do or die affairs. Always use your brain abeg.