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naptu2:
See previous thread here: Ojota: Police Warn Yoruba Nation Agitators; Release Photos Of Bullet Ridden Cars

SP Benjamin Hundeyin @BenHundeyin



https://twitter.com/BenHundeyin/status/1622248339948404741

What will happen to the food now?

Ikaeniyan0:
I hope everybody will condemn this with the same vigour they will use in condemning this if it was done by Tinubu son.

Can you just see things beyond tribal mindsets?

Seyi Tinubu son' convoy is bigger than Osun State governor's convoy. It's Nigerian politicians way, let's condemn it coz they are wasting our resources

itsmayiela:
Tadeus once purchased a golf car for me in Cotonou. He was very nice I must admit. But his attitude recently when I called, sent sms and WhatsApp was shocking.

I begin to wonder, is this no longer same Tadeus that I transacted with sometime in 2013?

I'm sorry for the inconveniences sir. Still same Tadeus sir. Due to the Nigerian government policy on land borders, it's advisable to buy small cars in Nigeria. I won't deceive you to come to cotonuo if you want to purchase any car below 2012 model. We deal strictly with car dealers now and few old clients(individuals) that wants to purchase big cars via cotonuo.

Hopefully the Nigerian gvt will reverse this policy soon so that it will favour everyone.

Regards

Fashdeejay:
No matter what your father does, you are a product of his sperm upgraded. Focus the energy you are using to hate to become better than he is.... I do not support any father no being a good father but you'll realize more when you are old enough, you'll understand the reason why he is like this.... My dad once said to me and I quote him 'my father didnt do it for me, so why should I do it for you?' .... I became independent from my early teens, working and hustling, my mom tried her best and supported me with prayers.... But one thing I did was take care of them both.... Irrespective of the pain my dad put me through, I spent on him well before he died and he was appreciative of it. Don't be like your father.... Let the hate dissipate and love him irrespective and instead of burning all that energy hating, channel it into making your own greatness ..... The true victory in such battles is when you show him you are better by having him learn from you... Sometimes na bad situation dey jingah growth....

God bless you

pol23:
I’m not a fan of destruction neither am I enjoying the Calamity and tragedy that has befallen the Ukrainian.
I’m not supporting the Russian forces against the Ukrainian people,But im supporting the Russian against America…sadly in this case it means the same thing,there’s a slight line though.
Why am I supporting the Russian?
It’s simply because of the hypocrisy of the west and her cooperations.
The truth is all this big nation just bully the smaller one around…
Am I blaming Ukraine for refusing to bully around,maybe not..
I’m only blaming him for allowing herself to be point of conflict between 2 mighty world.
When USA and UK invaded Iraq for clamming to have weapon of mass destruction… the word SOVEREIGNTY doesn’t come to play…
Where was CNN and BBC in 2021 when Isreal was dishing it out Palestine?
Where was all the sanctions?
This and many more reason makes few people support Russia…
I wish the war will be over though.
But Zelensky isn’t a hero to me like the western media has painted him for everyone…

Get your fact right man. Isreal and Palestine war is different from what's happening in Ukraine Russia war. This is invasion. The war is only happening on Ukrainian soil. Ukraine did not fire a missile to Russian soil unlike Palestinian. Let's call a spade a spade. Russia has committed a war crime and she should face the consequences.

MangekyoAlt:
Putin, the man with iron balls. Tormentor of the West
Where is that stupid fowl called boris Johnson? Be like say my prayer for great Britain to be turned to dust will soon come to pass.
Give them hot hot Vlad!

Ps: Russia had a nuclear drill before this invasion. If USA and EU get mind, make them threaten russia. All of them go collect

Turn to dust� God forbid.

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

Bad guy. Change your mindset, see her as your kid sis. We have over a billion beautiful ladies out there, nor let your blood mess up with your life. At 30yrs, you still have a very way to go in life. Seat her down, and discuss these with her as your younger sis, she will adjust.

dre11:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/02/breaking-man-asks-wife-to-pay-back-his-money-holds-her-children-hostage-at-lekki/

DNA don reveal day nor be him get the kids.lol

Are we going to ignore the "5k for mobilisation" from our own NPF? We not ready for this conversation

They are all playing politics with this man. Okorocha is the only outstanding candidate so far in APC. The Igbos call him Okoroahusa beacuse he sees beyond enthinicity and believe strongly in one Nigeria.

Let's give him a trial

yomi007k:
Please let us be logical in this situation.


The health worker is trying to prevent an outbreak of polio which if it happens will cause so much problems than we already have in this country.

I think the school should be closed down.

Coming from underage nairalander. In sane society, parents must be consulted before anything and it's not compulsory. We are talking about preschooler's and kids below12yrs old here. Nobody, even teachers have right to give dem water or anything without the parents permission.

travelwaka:
These guys should calm down please. The world doesn't need another war. Ordinary pandemic is shaking the world talk more of a war. I wish UN can be given more power to step in when things like this are happening.

Who's is the UN? Is it not the same USA?

Genesiszero:
My brother has been a well disciplined man, he has married a woman whom he love dearly, sometimes I wish If I was a woman, I'll marry him! Gentle, calm, humble, educated, exposed with a very good source of livelihood. Doesn't smoke, drink or womanize And most importantly, God fearing. Maybe heritage from our dad.

But I never could have imagined it that what seems like a blissful marriage of my brother could end just like that. What is the problem? Social media! They had an issue, and she went and posted it there, from WhatsApp to Facebook and the worst of all twitter and some stupid women group which she seems to be a member of, may be there is some Judges there, come and see some people passing judgment even without hearing the other side of the story.

He warned her series of time not to ever post any family related issues to the media. I can remember while I was still with them, he always tells her if she ever has anything about him, she should call him and discus it with him or better still report to our parent. I don't know if it's a family thing for us or something, personally, I'm not too good with these social media of a thing.

To the best of my knowledge, my brother is the best and cool personality I had ever come in contact with, But these act of hers has been the height of it for him.

Brethren as I'm talking to you now, my brother has contacted a lawyer to prepare the divorce papers. Our parents and family members has called a meeting, we begged him for almost a week now but he stood his ground about the divorce, her family has come to apologize and beg for reconciliation for the both of them but to no avail, I spoke to him personally and begged like what you could ever imagine but our please fell on deaf ear. He personally told me that if his wife had gone to the court, he would've preferred it. If there is absolutely anything I know about my brother is him being a man of his words. She has done countless of things to him and She'll call us to apologize all the time and he'll forgive especially when my mom is involved. But for these I don't know what To say, she has cried and cried her eyes all out but for where It seems My brother has made up his mind, But if I may ask the ladies, why always the social media, going out there to claim the victims card.

Sorry I don't have much time neither am I good with telling stories, if not, I should have narrated what led to the whole problem but is a long epistle on it own....

Why is too hard to know what your spouse want and dislike. Note: he doesn't even want you posting his image in any media platform even on his birthdays, we're kinda some sort of reserved people in my family.

The marriage is three years old.
Not everybody likes these social media of a thing.

Please tell your brother to go ahead with his decision. Is better to remain single, healthy with rest of mind than being in a relationship that will shorten your life.

I will never plead with anybody to remain in his/her relationship. People are going through alot. For him to insist on the divorce, his peace and life is at stake .

If you want your brother alive, support his decision.

Noah9:
I want to thank everyone for their advice and I really appreciate everyone involvement about the thread I created 2week ago. Here is the link.
https://www.nairaland.com/6933724/regretted-actions-please-me

Great people of this forum, honestly things have never been better ever since that incident and I wish our minds are like show glass so that y'all would see how sorry I am inside of me. I messed up and I'm really sorry.

5 days after I created that post above, My wife traveled with my daughter to her parents house to stay without telling me. Since that incident my wife haven't said a word to me, Not a single word. Sometimes I wonder if she's the same woman I married. I'm frustrated, incoherent and I'm losing my mind.

I've been good to her, I provide 85% for my family while she bring just 15% yet I don't complain, I'm romantic and good looking, since we married I don't keep female friends not to talk of cheating. Yet She denied me sex over 2 months without any reasons, that was why I acted that way and I'm so sorry.

On Tuesday here, My friend and I traveled to her parents house, they did not even welcome us well, I don't know what she must have told her parents but I explained myself, knelt down and asked for forgiveness.

She refused to come home with me, her parents were just starring at me like I'm some demon, I requested for my daughter but she refused to release her and I've already paid my daughter's school fees for the term. Her parents said they would register my daughter in a new school, that my wife need some space for now.

Please don't call me a weak man, I'm family oriented, I don't want broken home, if she needed some space that's not a problem, I can give her all the space in the world but let her come home. It's not proper raising a child in a broken home...I'm really losing my mind.

I faced query today at work because I traveled without informing my Boss which I know he won't allow me and I know how much would be deducted from my salary. what I'm going through now I can't wish my enemies and I wish I could turn back the hands of time. I messed up.

Beloveth Pls I need advice.

Blood was coming out from her mouth and you still go ahead to have sex with her? You must be on drugs for you to have erection. What is bad is bad.

For your daughter, you can still talk to the school management to pend it. Give her the space she asked for. She need the space. Let her be for now. You nor try at all but the deed has been done

Penguin2:
Very stupid summoning.

I see Tinubu hand in this, just like he wanted to smuggle in Direct Primaries through same NASS.

I can’t because I don’t like Malami and not stand with him when he is right.

Supreme Court took Imolite mandate that they willingly bestowed on Ihedioha and gave to Uzodimma, and stupid NASS didn’t invite IGP and Malami.

Supreme Court took Bayelsa from APC and gave to PDP and NASS did not invite anybody.

Supreme agreed with INEC that APC didn’t have valid primaries in Zamfara in 2019 and NASS didn’t invite anybody.

Since 2015, APC has not been able to field candidates in Rivers through Supreme Court judgments and NASS didn’t invite anybody.

Now same Supreme Court gave judgment about some piece of land dubiously taken from its owners through executive rascality and NASS is inviting IGP and Malami for enforcing the Judgment of the Supreme Court?

Questioning the enforcement of the judgment of the Supreme Court is the new low that Nigeria should not descend. Even if the judgment was in error, it must be enforced to the latter and NASS has no fvccking business with that.

Ndi ala!

With due respect, you are wrong on this sir. Malami and IGP don't have right to invade any State without informing the number citizen of that state(Governor) It was when all efforts has been exhausted, that they will inform the same court, to order Mr governor to execute or appeal the judgement not taking laws in their hands. We are in democratic domain not autocrat.

Prospertochu:
I married her against my wish her mother forced me to marry her because of the pregnancy. I blamed myself sha maybe if I have had use condoms I wouldn't have been in this miserable marriage.

Honestly I understand your situation. I will only advice you to ignore all these childish advise. You did not make mistake. It's just for a while, everything will be alright. You did not plan for triplets but God choose that for you. You have to man up and face your fear. To be honest with you, you married a good woman. If a woman can feed herself and 4children with 40k in a month, my brother, she is a good woman. That 40k is not enought for all these IG to squander in a week.

I know you frustrated but your wife is more frustrated than you. Even to breast feed a child is not easy. Put yourself in her shoe. It's not easy. I will not advice you not to talk care of your mum coz it's your duty. Sit both of them down, your mum n wife, and talk senses into their heads. If mum is not too old to handle the kids, plead with your wife to look for a job. She need to start doing something so that the financial burden on you will reduce.

You need to act fast. 40k is too small with the present economy situation let me be honest with you. 40k is not even enough to get diapers and wipes for your 3 kids monthly. Your wife is a good woman and you should protect and take good care of her. Please do family planning ASAP

I wish you all the best

Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,

My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.

Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.

It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.

Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.

I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young.

Like what exactly do you expect us to tell you? Why are some people just daft. A married woman abort without telling her husband and you still here asking foolish questions. Please let her go, she is not the irght person for you. I can't waste RIP on someone that failed to use his brain.

I have been married for 5year, if I have misunderstanding with my wife and she picked any object to hit me, I'm done. We will go our separate ways and probably still be a good friend if she want but nothing will happen between us again.

Marriage is not do or die affairs. Always use your brain abeg.

Tinubu political career will end in 2023. Same stubbornness that killed Oshiomhole political career will end Tinubu' career. I like Tinubu because he was a good politician and plays an inclusive politics. He should have choose Osinbanjo and use his resources and connections to support him instead of dragging the position with him.

AnonPoet:
This was written by Samuel Ogundipe Of Peoples Gazette.


https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/201165-i-made-first-millions-tinubu.html?s=09

In the early 90s, even CEO of a big firm in USA will not earn $850 as annual salary legally. This nonsense lie nor enter abeg. I think it's time for Nigerians to do more research. We all have access to internet.

Sell your talent to your fans not your body oo. Before dem go start to dey open leg up&down lol

@opp, your head need that iron rod. The elderly man should pay for your me accommodation? He gave you time to look for new place, still you can't move out before the time. Some people will evict you same day you stopped work. That's the way it was meant to be. Head dey pain this opp. Report him and you will spend some days in police cell. Radarada

Ficient:
Thanks very much everyone. I'm still consulting with friends and family, someone suggested I take a study leave from my job instead of resigning outrightly. My wife is a good woman, otherwise I wouldn't entertain the idea at all.

It's simple, apply for leave and go search for reasonable job over there first. Please don't quit your job yet

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

You nor date your wife before you marry her?

WillyWonda1:
Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.

And part of you want to forgive her? For bringing her bf to knack on your bed. The babe don't respect you talk more of love. You are digging your grave bro if you continue with her. Move on

joyandfaith:
It is only stupid men that marry or being controlled by wicked women.
My principles!!!!
1.My wife earning is for herself, her children, her parents and siblings. If she wants to assist me, fine. Law of financial independence
2.My earning is for myself, my wife, my children, my parents, my siblings . If i want to assist her parents and siblings, it depend on how she and her people relate with my siblings and parents. Law of reciprocity.
3. My people have access to my personal room while her people have access to her personal room and kitchen. Law of privacy.

You single or married?

Timekeeper:
I think there is a evil that reside in a lady once she gets married... As in, some married women are so selfish and wicked... S

Let me give these instances;

1. Their own brothers and sisters come to her husband home and there is no issue.. He/she (wife siblings) has unrestricted access to everything in the house since it's her sister's husband house.. But when the husband siblings come, they have restricted access to some things in the house.. Any attempt to go futher, the wife start bringing up attitude towards them..

2. The wife mother comes and she is free to stay as long as she wants but if the husband mother comes, the selfish wife is already asking the husband when will mama leave for her place....

3. The husband sends money to her family, no problem, the husband sends to his family, then there is need for him to be accountable for the money sent to his own parents oooo..

4. Husband sponsors wife siblings to school and all is fine.. Husband sponsors his own siblings and the wife develops hatred automatically towards the sibling bcox she thinks they are draining her husband resources..


Some married women are wicked soul in disguise. Bad enough, you wunt see these attitudes in them until they are married.

I still wonder and ask; why are some married woman so selfish and demonic in nature?

Their wickedness and selfishness is what's killing dem.

Now look at it from this perspective, Maria got married to John, Maria did not want to see any of her husband siblings around her husband. Maria gave birth to beautiful 3kids. All the kids are boys. They grow up and settled down with the love of their lives. Maria cannot visit any of her son because their wives don't want her around her son's which is their husband.

Karma is b*tch you will reap what you sow

Mylordmygod1:
GOOD DAY NIRALANDERS

I wanted to start up a POS business with my savings of N65k, but the POS man that i consulted to assist me said i would need at least N150k to start up a POS business.

I've really been hustling everyday, doing hard works (especially on bulding sites), taking pain killer drugs on daily basis..

I don't think it will be easy for me to raised my savings up to that amount 'N150k' with the type of work that i do..

I wanted to travel to the city with my ND (National Diploma) result, so i can use it to look for work, I posted it here on nairaland, but 80% of the advice i got from this forum said it will be hard to see a paying job with ND result, while some said it is not even possible. So i couldn't travel again..

Now that my savings isn't enough to start up a POS business, i'm thinking of starting up a standard akara and akamu business and probably extend the business along the run..

As someone known by his people to have went to school, is the business worth the shame?

Drop that thinking and start the business asap. They will mock you but expect them to come back to take loan from you soon. That business is lucrative. I know of a guy in 2016 dah started this business and he was a millionaire in 2019. Just 2years, Baba built standard house and repackaged the business.

I wish you good luck

Don't worry, she will still come back to you. When she comes back, just dey enjoy her dey go because she will still go back ..lols

They should also leak Guatanome bay video and let's compare.

The opp nor well. It's just normal upgrading, the apps will come up any moment from now.

finnacle2020:
With each passing day the cost of items in the market are going up and many mothers are finding it difficult to buy items from the market. Here are some few tips to assist mothers :

1. Have a budget and list of items needed in the house
2. Buy items in bulk like buying beans, rice and tomato that will last 3-6months.
3. Look for alternatives to expensive items like buying potato instead of yam, Napkin instead of pampers
4. look for other sources of income
5. Stop looking at your neighbors food

please nairalanders you can add your own

This advice is actually coming from someone that eats from his/her mother's pot.lol