LordAzubuike: Sars have been doing a great job eradicating Yahoo boys from the street. It always make my heart bleed when I see young boys who aren't educated , don't have a skill or business just sit at the comfort of their home making money they didn't sweat for. It's so cruel. Without Sars and efcc it could have been worse. It's only an irresponsible fellow that will carry dreadlocks, wear crazy jeans and put ear ring. Learn to dress responsibly and look like a sane human, nobody will harass you.
Even the so called Kaka to be frank must have been into Yahoo codedly. You can't be playing for Remo stars and be using a nice SUV like that. How much dem dey pay am for Remo abeg? Let's be factual and call a spade a spade.
Bros this statement of yours is insensitive, first of all it's not the job of sars to arrest Yahoo boys and secondly that I choose to braid my hair and wear tattered jeans doesn't make me irresponsible or a yahoo boy Thirdly. Do you know parents can get a nice car for their kids to drive? Please don't always judge people without having your facts right
madridguy: Correct man. I see no reason why our political class need to move around with DSS, Soldiers, Police, if they're doing the right thing.
If i be President tomorrow, i will be going around without any escort. I will even be going to the viewing center go watch football, especially El Classico night and argue with the barca people.
I'm sitting here and just wondering how you'd handle your own blood if he or she turns out to be more hyper than your babe's son.
You mentioned how you hate noise of any sort, let's just say you definitely ain't prepared to have any kids of your own.
It is obvious you have zero love for this kid and I'm afraid to tell you that, you can't love a momma and hate her toddler kid. From the woman's side, that'd be a no-no.
It's best to "die" this relationship and bury whatever it is you feel for this woman because e no go work.
It's a good thing you are letting it out on how you truly feel instead of to go dey use shame chop winch.
Meat wey person dey forbid e no dey use teeth share am.
If you can't love a kid no matter the circumstance, you'd have same problems with yours for sure and you'd be venting out your frustrations on your spouse and before you'd say Buha....you don open another thread here say your one year marriage don get k-leg.
A child will always return the vibe given. In his innocence, he's able to pick up on your hatred for him which of course won't help him love you in return and the subtle tantrums is what you'll get as his way of protesting/rebelling. Show him some love and you'll be amazed how calm he'd become.
I pray you grow up fast and find a way to handle this pretty well.
Let her go bro....
Not only is he not ready to have kids, he isn't ready for marriage. These folks think once they have a good job that pays well they can then jump into marriage
WilliamsTheGrea: Hello everyone, my name is Williams, I'm a young guy of 26 years old currently engaged to a very pretty young lady who is 24 years old
I do business online and earn good income before I decided to find a lady and settle down with and luckily I found a good one who is decent and don't flirt around or do social media's like whatsapp or Facebook. Hardly receives calls, not friendly with males lol (I managed to woo her through a church member)
We have been 1 year into the relationship now and we are to get married next month but guys the problem I am having now is that she has a child for another man which is her ex she was with when she was young she gave birth at age 20, we dated for about 7 months before she told me this.
Ever since then I haven't really been myself, the child is a male child who lives with her mother but recently the mother called her to come carry the child as she can no longer look after him due to him being a very stubborn boy, the child is 4 years old.
Now she has gone to bring the child to our home, a two bedroom apartment, I'm a kind of guy who loves peaceful environment with no single drop of noise, now ever since the child came in about a week now, I have not had peace, we have quarreled several times because of the child, I'm not really comfortable with the child because I can't love another man's child as my own
My girlfriend is yet to give me a child of my own, the child runs around and doesn't listen except when beaten and each time I beat the boy up when he does wrong my girlfriend looks at me with hatred like I'm maltreating the boy because I'm not the father.
Please guys help me I don't know what to do but I can't cope with the child, I remember paying the child school fees about 3 times since we are together because the child's father isn't doing anything at all.
Now today is the child's birthday and she is asking me for money to get him cake and take him out.
My people of nairaland I cannot accept another man's child no matter what I love the mother but not the child the connection is just now there because the boy isn't of my character I'm a calm man, very calm but the boy is very radical and stubborn children irritate me so much.
I don't know what to do.
Each time this child topic comes up between I and my girlfriend she becomes bitter.
She says she will never take the child to the father or the family of the father that she must raise the child herself.
I don't think I can help train anothrr man child whom in the end will go and find his father after he is all grown.
Please I need advice, she says over her death body will she return the child to the father
I'm not comfortable in my own home.
A lot of things running through my mind like to break up with her for peace to reign
Or rent another apartment for her and the boy to go live in.
Please I need matured advice
Did you say you don't like noise or whatever in your environment? And you plan marrying the lady? What happens when she gives birth, how are you going to handle the inconvenience of having children around? Oga if you're not ready for marriage better wait, take your time until you are.
Racoon: What a senseless, callous and grossly irresponsible statement by a dullard Nigeria have as a president.Guess these are the same bandits Buhari said he is surprised @ their atrocities?
Are bandits/terrorists supposed to operate in the first place if not for your support, cluelessness, incompetency & ineptitude?
My brother it's really unfortunate, such callousness can set a nation on fire,this man lack's the finesse and character to lead, too bad
TeleboiZ005: The COP of the state said he knows NOT what caused the killings of the 30 villagers. bt our "darling" president has concluded that the killings is as a result of retaliation of the villagers taking laws into hand.
made4naijamusic: Nollywood actress Regina Daniels and her husband Ned Nwoko are enjoying marriage and giving fans something to talk about,
Regina Daniels explained that she was not bothered about what people would say, they got married within three weeks they met each other.
The Nollywood actress Regina Daniels and her billionaire husband Ned Nwoko have given an insight into their love life and marriage.
Recently, the billionaire politician flew his young wife to Dubai for her birthday celebration. However, they look compatible in a video on twitter after wearing
same outfit stepping on the street together as they take a walk.
sapientia: Oga, Nigerians know how our poorly trained army behave.
We have very poor civil-military relation in Nigeria.
OK, if you evacuated them for their safety, why burning their houses?
What's the time frame for the evacuation.
Gen Buhari have already started blaming the locals for the continued existence of Boko Haram so it's safe to say you have been affected by his body odour and is taking it out on the civilians.
I didn't need to read the whole report but the army under this regime have become so unprofessional in their discharge of duties,even in response to allegations against them
NigeriaBam: A 6-year-old upcoming singer identified as Lil Richie has taken to Instagram on Valentine’s day today, to profess love for his crush.
The upcoming singer expressed love for singer Davido’s daughter, Imade Adeleke, referring to her as the love of his life and the most beautiful girl he has ever set his eyes on.
He further dedicated his soon-to-be released single to her while praising her beautiful outlook.
In his words;
“Created this sound � for you the most beautiful thing my eyes has ever seen, the LOML ❤️�❤️ @realimadeadeleke . Can’t wait to release this record new music loading”.
MizMyColi: I've been musing over the Supreme Court's judgement.
Perhaps, if it were before the brazen robbery of Ihedioha's mandate in Imo State, I would probably join those echoing the sentiment that Lyon's mandate shouldn't have been affected by his deputy's mistake.
However, given the recent turn of events, I have two things to say:
1. Lyon should have done his due diligence. His ignorance has cost him, and heavily so.
2. Since some people in the APC decided to drag the nation's apex court into their madness, let the season of madness begin. If it is good for goose, it is suitable for gander. What PDP lost in Imo, she has regained in Bayelsa. What APC won in Imo, it has lost in Bayelsa.
IduNaOba: Imagine the nonsense the military has reduced itself to. I wonder what police is there for. Biko nụ just break up this contraption mehn. This is pure intimidation and a needless one at that
Meanwhile herdsmen and boko Haram are riding free and unhindered
The supreme Court is not a real nigga, they should give the family access to Abacha's account, After all my popsy being a real nigga always told me this life na CICP (Chop I Chop Party)