mrbenjame: I think I need matured minds to advice me because I’m very confused right now. Please take pains to read my story.
I dated a lady called Susan (not her real name ). For 4 years. I loved her so much and she did too. I met her when She was preparing to enter the university. 6 months into the relationship I went for service. Came back and it was already clocking 2 years. Whenever she visits I always try to make her comfortable. So she took advantage of my care and always wanted me to serve her all the time. Even when she visits from school she would be operating her phone and watch me do what on a normal terrain she should assist me do. As a young guy I try as much as I can to let her know that at least once in a while it would be nice to get my meal served by my woman even if I prepared it (since she doesn’t like entering the kitchen). Most time I overlook it because probably she’s very tired and all that. Sometimes I thought I was just being selfish but I really wanted to feel that woman attributes but I wasn’t seeing it.
Each time we fix time for a date she comes very late and that piss me off to my bone marrow. She never keeps to time. I endured this for a long time because she never turned up early in any appointment. She calls me at late hours and when I try to explain to her that it’s late she gets angry ( I’m talking of 12 am or there about) and I’ll go to work the next day. Anytime she offends me she would want to be romantic so I’d forget her wrongs just to calm me down. But I was suffering inside.
I felt very weak emotionally and decided to take things easy.
Until I met this lady called Benita (not her real name). I liked her. I admired everything about her. So I approached her while we were going back home from work. We had good conversations and I was happy because she was fun to be with. We exchanged contact and we started chatting. Forgive me because I became happy again just talking to her. Whenever we say goodbye when she gets off the bus she times when I’d get home and immediately I step my foot in my house she calls.( already I’ve told her when I’d be home). I invited her to a date in an eatery and she turned up 10 minutes to the time. I was shocked.
I became more involved with her. I invited her home. She went to my kitchen and she said “ your plates are not washed why? I just smiled and told her I’ll take care of that. Before I knew what was happening she’s started washing the plates. I begged her to stop because I didn’t send her to do that and besides it’s her first time in my house. But she refused. I let her (though the plates were not much but I was happy). She started visiting often with food items to cook. And I obliged to assist her. She refused again. We argued until she had her way. I just sit with her in the kitchen and gist while she cooks. To me I felt I was punishing her because all I wanted is that things of such can be done by her once in a while. (I sabi pity person o. Lols!). And secondly I’m not used to a woman doing things for me for a very long time now.
She calls all the time. Talks so lively and very funny. She’s not the miss romantic type but very smart and reserved.
After a while, you can’t cheat karma. Susan found out. She came to know about Benita. And since then it wasn’t easy settling between two of them. But Susan won’t just give up and I think I’m cool with Benita.
Today Benita is in her 100 level while Susan is about going for her service.
Now I’m trying to be responsible to settle down. I talked with my mum and some close friends of mine but they’re tipping Susan for me because she’s out of school and it would make things much easier for me than settling with Benita. But I love Benita now. She makes me happy. What do I do?
The Benita you know today can be your heart ache tomorrow. She hasn't taste life yet
Openbusiness: Imagine if Goodluck Jonathan had barricaded the Gani Fawehinmi Freedom park that year that Buhari and Tinubu APC gathered people to protest all over Nigeria, imagine the mammoth crowd that was there without any police harassment, rather the police was protecting the protesters, imagine Goodluck did what Buhari is doing, Buhari would never have been president. Inside life! The same people whose rights were allowed, are denying others their fundamental rights. That's what happens when a terrorist government is in power.
deboysben: Say no to terrorist organization. say no to organisations against the security of lives and properties. say no to successionist organization.
Atiku can now open his mouth to talk on this issue also. Same thing he and his Oga never did for all the wasted and years of looting they were in power. The era when the most popular song in Nigeria was Nigeria jagajaga!
A period that a sitting vice president has the company that import the largest numbers of generators in different shapes and sizes, How will they ever want us to have electricity? Why won't they want us to remain in perpetual darkness!
A nation that the same vice president and the sitting president both floated 2 private universities for themselves while the Federal and State universities were on endless strikes! universities that they are still operating up till this present day! There was a nation! If only our Democracy started with a Man like Our darling Daddy, President Muhammadu Buhari......If and only If!
Supporters of evil and corrupt politicians you can now start quoting... You have the floor now.............
Does hisbah have non Muslim's as staffs? This fidgeting from these guys is highly suspicious, I call on the SW to remain resolute on the step they've taken.
MelesZenawi: The statement clearly shows the disunity within your immediate family and let me not even talk of your tribe but you quick to rush to SW looking for unity or whether na cohesion.
Reason because you feel you more educated. This 21st everyone is looking for ways up all your heading is calculating is SW.
Igbos and I too know.
You don't come on a forum as this to speak misguided words to someone probably older than you. You don't have to be insultive to drive home a point, it shows you don't seem to have any proper upbringing.
Lynx001: [s][/s]have u been paid 30k december bmo allowance?. They have brought their stats. Where is ur own. failure of leaders at all level has brought us here & u are here doing sai baba and atiku. Election don pass. Meet sarrki to teach u the rules of being a bmo zombie.
hotmediatv: David Adeleke, popularly known as "Davido" shows up a huge amount of money he made in a show this January, he is excited as he says this year is going to be a great year for him.
He assures his fans of more good music this year as he is set to shoot more videos on his new album "A Good time"
aniekanekahoffi: About April 2019, the internet and social media spaces were trending a story of a canceled wedding that was due in about a week. The cancellation which was done by bride for reasons she never gave, sparked lots of controversies that got social media users countering each other in arguments.
However, the supposed groom, Mr. Marshal Bernard who had dusted off and moved on shortly after, eventually found love again and on 2020 New Year’s day, he engaged the love of his life, Nene Essien, in grand style at the poolside of one of the leading 3 star hotels in Uyo, capital city of Akwa Ibom state.
wetinhappen.com.ng gathered from Bernard's friend, Ubong Sampson that Marshal had put up the engagement plan with a mix of his and Nene's friends. While Marshal was kind of evasive of Nene all day, claiming to be engaged in some important activities, another friend of Bernard, Mr. Courage Mbon, pretended to have run into Nene in company of her friends at the engagement venue and offered to give them a short treat.
While Nene left the venue with Mbon, the planners got the stage set and, upon return, Nene met her man on his knee with a ring and the all-important question.
While appreciating his friends, especially Mr. Godwill Essien for their assistance, Bernard hinted that they will soon make the wedding date known.
Freshfish4: We have really lost it. I pity this young generation. Why can't they have Otedolians, Jim ovians, Soworians, wole soyinkans, Oyedepoians, Oyakilomians. Na one stupid idiot will no future ambition them go follow. It's a shame and that's why the government has NEVER involved the youth in governance because they are not serious
Tolumiide: This letter was written by PDP, enemy of GMB administration, they wrote it to distract Nigerians from their 16years of misrule that put this country in trouble.
Beremx: Sarrki, I don't understand you these days. I noticed you don't post Pro-Buhari comments any longer,rather you open not so Anti -Buhari threads. Hope all is well sha?
faithfull18: Lol, format their memories. If you are Christian, play gospel songs in the house, there are gospel songs for children too. I remember growing this way till today no interest to deliberately listen to secular songs and even when others play it around me, I am irritated and it doesn't stick.
Yes, train up a child the way he should go and when he's old he won't depart from it
Politics › Re: Soldiers Invade Nnamdi Kanu’s Community, Afaraukwu Ibeku, Umuahia by Talkingoil(m): 10:14am On Feb 03, 2020
