but the sad part is that, after he recovers from his shock, instead of doing something about the situation, he'll let it be, then, when the situation escalates, it will shock him again.
socialmediaman: The tyrant continues to display open nepotism, cronyism and favoritism. He doesn’t even hide it, while we try to use words with caution
Or else DSS will invite you to explain why you wrote and failed Jamb 3 times
UzorChinonso: Good day Nairalanders, I have been married for just a year now and it has not been easy here! My Husband wants to know every thing about my finance. He has disturbed me to know how much is my salary worth of.
I have always denied him of the fact, what I know is that I used my money to refurbish our flat, got some new things to change the outlook of the place....
But I am not really finding it funny any longer. As we speak, he collected my ATM card since last two weeks, said I must tell him the pin or I should forget having it back. I went to my bank, told them that I lost the card and they changed it for me last Friday and he collected it again said it's either I tell him the pin or he will do something funny ...
I don't know what funny thing he's gonna do but I am worried! Pls is this how marriage is? He claims to own me and own my salary! Is it fair? This marriage is too early instead I would have quit and I am pregnant at the moment! What do I do? I don't want anybody to know anything about my finances including him till I have my baby whom my spirit accepted that I should make my next of kin.
What do I do ?
Madam, your husband married you, he brought out his hard earned money to marry you and I'm sure you know how much he earns, why are you finding it difficult to open up your finances to your husband? In all sincerity this is wrong and this could lead to your home crashing if not handled properly, when you withhold such information from him he might not fight you depending on the kind of man he is but he'll start nursing things in his heart towards you. woman be wise and guard your marriage.
Judybash93: Inasmuch as i agree with you, i don't think the husband should force his wife to reveal the details of her account to him if she doesn't want to
It's not by force alright, but she is his wife, she probably knows how much he earns, so why should she have difficulty in revealing her salary to her husband, it shows secrecy and lack of submission and I tell you, if she is not wise in handling this, it could cause problems in her home
[quote author=dingbang post=89960519]You sef.. But you were touching her and you didn't tell yourself it wasnt biblical too abi.[/quote No mind am, you started work by stirring her hormones and you're now talking no sex before marriage, after playing on the bed abi? Una for kuku remain for una parents house till after wedding]
amliftedhigher: MY CHILDHOOD FRIEND HAS ROSE TO STARDOM AND HAS FORGOTTEN THAT I EXIST.
Kelechi Iheanacho was my childhood friend, we grew up together in the same neighborhood Nekede Old Road Owerri IMO state. We played the street balls together under the rain and scorching sun. We attended the same primary school; Unique Nursery and primary school Umualum Nekede No 4 b/stop as at then but has relocated to a new site now. We did almost everything together but today grace has found you and you've rose and clapped your way into the corridors of fame and stardom, you're now a celebrity not just in Nigeria but all over the world.
I remember how we conquered the environments of Ama - ato. Azuatalam, Chigozirim known as Podosky and you and I. If we are not there the games won't be fun but you've forgotten so fast and now mingles with those that you met after being famous.
We played an academy club "Danish" together for years before you moved to Taye academy how can you just forget those days so fast?
I remember how happy i was when i watched you play for Nigeria under 17 in UAE 2013.. I was not surprised when you conquered the world in that stage because i knew how good you were prior to then. Your senior brother Uchenna couldn't give me your contact because we are no more on the same pedestrian, you've moved higher.
Hear this,
I'm writing this not because hunger has finished my life but because a picture with you now will serve as a story i will tell to my children. Don't forget that the bodyguards and security personnel guarding you from people coming close to you, were not there when we use to go to the bush in Uzo ubi those days in search of riped fruits. It pains my heart that you've forgotten most of us who suffered with you and grew up together with you in the hood.
It's hard for me to get reach to you again as i've followed you in all social media platforms, Instagram, twitter, e.t.c. But it's easy if you want to get to me, if really you want to.
Please whoever that can reach out to Kelechi Iheanacho should help me and show him this letter and tell him it was written by Bala as i was nicknamed those days.
Rising to stardom doesn't mean you should forget those who grew up with you. I still remember paying for some matches we watched together at the viewing centres even game centres for PS2 (PlayStation). The things we did together are so enormous that i can't put all in writing.
Friends, i know Kelechi Iheanacho may not see this but you that is reading it now, don't forget the people with you now when luck shines on you.
Don't call them lazy, poor or feel irritated when you see them coming to you. We all started from somewhere and grace found you.
Godswill Uche (A.K.A Bàlà)
Oga go and hustle and stop opening threads to talk of childhood friends that hustled and made it
Finally the Police has become professional in their duties.
Crimes like causing annoyance, insult and hatred are very serious offences.
I'll wait and see if that criminal mastermind is convicted because those are serious crimes comparable to coldblooded murder. In fact worse than Boko Haram.
Just imagine a nobody like him making our beloved Minister of Lies Information lose one hour of sleep! One full hour!! Now the Hon. Minister couldn't finish the akara his wife fried for him . To make matters worse, the criminal made the insult into a poem. And the poem really sounded good . Double offence!!! Who born that maga sef? What a sacrilege!!!
They should arrest him, his wife, sons, daughters, and parents. They should declare his grandparents wanted for criminal breach of trust and cheating.
Then he should be sentenced to life imprisonment.
After that I'll sue my neighbor Mama Blessing for causing me annoyance. Her dog always barks at me. Then I'll have Adamu the gateman arrested for insulting my ex-girlfriend.
All of you nairalanders, prepare your own lists.
Nigerian Police, here we come. Una go see offenders tire.
O boy you funny o, But this stuff is crazy, petty and tyranny at work. How many of them did Jonathan arrest for annoying him with propaganda
[quote author=Inferno001 post=89401406]My brother, at this moment the naming is over and you have spent what you can afford and nothing can change it..it is only natural for some women to want to show off and I won't blame her for that but here is the thing..sit her down and apologize not because you did wrong but because you want peace..promise her you'll celebrate the child's birthday better and she will draw the plan and you'll give her whatever will be needed to make it her taste after all the baby is yours also and if not for the period we're in you would have loved to do more...just say this for peace to reign and make her feel she is right..a happy good woman makes a happy home my brother...
...modify... For everyone quoting and insulting me calling me a weak man because I asked OP to be subtle and make peace, I'll ignore you!!![/quot e] Smart response, I take this as an eye opener
chukel: I guess your first sentence summarised you. You went ahead to write gibberish without any reference. I can tell you studies have been done on this using various types of face masks and a conclusion was reached that these face masks protect against corona virus with different degrees of efficiency. I will attach a picture of the conclusion of the certified study as well as the link. You and your pastor are definitely sick and seeking undue relevance. Cc. Talkingoil https://smartairfilters.com/en/blog/can-masks-capture-coronavirus/
You are the one talking gibberish, must you insult someone to drive a point, ok fine you wear face mask, what about your elbow you bump with to shake hands, are you aware when it comes in contact with one who has the virus the sweat from the infected person coming in contact with yours can get you infected? So what then is the face mask protecting? You should do your research properly before coming out to insult people. Crap
[quote author=chukel post=89260687]here comes the king of zombies. You really think you have made sense. It's pathetic having your likes in our society. Since your brain is 6ft below, it's only normal your body should follow.[/quote Please let's not talk like this. The point is, is what the man of God saying true and reasonable? I think it is, by wearing a face mask you indeed block the flow of oxygen into your immune system which further weakens the immune system and further exposes you to disease. Let's not just criticize without first judging intelligently every statement made ]
[quote author=BonPatrick post=88813971]Guys can you date a woman with 3 kids and still in her husband's house but the marriage is about to be dissolved because her husband is not touching her for over a year and doesn't give her food or talk to her.
She met you on Facebook and loves you so much and wants you to sleep with her when both of you see. She even sends her naked video to you to show you how much she loves you. Will you sleep with her when you meet as she is about to divorce her husband?[/quot e] You are encroaching into someone else home, just because she's having issues with her husband doesn't give you the right to sleep with her, don't you people have values or even the fear of God, Na wa o
slimanyd: All Thanks to Sairui mall E- commerce . God has been so so good . All i do is to open an online shop with them ,Buy products in there , And they sell it for me within 10-12 Days . And I request for my payment sent to my Nigerian Bank account.
Perhaps You also have some funds lying down in your accounts without using. Why not Chat me up via my digit below and i show you how its Done.
N.B- You aint me paying me a dime. Mine is just to guide you through there registeration process , And issue you a service center close to your location in any part of the world as its currently in over 81 countries of the world. So ,what are you still waiting for brethren . Chat me up via my digit below and get started .
10 Days is enough to Show you The realness and Genuity In these E commerce . If after 10 Days And u dont Like it , I will personally pay you back your Registeration fee as your trading fee is accessible to you at the end of 10 Days . So, you've got nothing to loose bro and sister.
Am a chat away from and you can join my group aswell to communicate with other members across the world as these e commerce is international just like Alibaba , Konga ,kikun and the likes.
N.B
Each time I listen to news on covid19 global pandemic, I get so worried for some people.
The Federal Government has extended the lockdown, which was supposed to end today, indefinitely.
I was speaking with a friend yesterday, he told me that he is not expecting salary this month from the organisation he works in. And it dawned on me that many organisations will find it difficult to pay workers this period. And no one knows when this whole thing will be over.
I'm not writing this piece to scare you but for you to have a good thoughts on what is going on now in Nigeria and also compare it with other countries that have been in lockdown for months.
The major questions are: If this lockdown should last for months, will your present bank account balance carry you through? What will become of the economy after the lockdown? Will the organisation you work for be able to continue paying you your present salary?
Most time when we talk about Sairui, some people think we talk about it because of the bonus we get paid when we register new person.No,It goes beyond that.
It's about you having an alternative source of income that pays you even when you're in lockdown at home, it's about you working with your smart phone to make money that some organisations will not be able to pay even without covid19 pandemic, its about you getting connected to an Industry of e-commerce which is not affected by lockdown.
Some of us that painstakingly took this opportunity are all smiling today because we get bank alerts even while we are in lockdown. Will covid19 ever affect Sairui? No, because sairui is an online business. The staff can work from anywhere. The staff work 247 online to help for your buy and sells of your products. The only effect that the covid19 has on Sairui is that you will not be collecting your free products now because of the lockdown. But after the lockdown, you collect all your products.
Made4naijalove: Instagram big boy, Ray Hushpuppi is definitely not new to flaunting his luxurious living on social media platforms.
The controversial figure was at it again on Saturday, when he took to his official Instagram page to share a video of himself chilling in a luxurious swimming pool.
He then went ahead to brag that his quarantine and ordinary people’s quarantine are not on the same level.
He further added that only his billionaire colleagues can relate better with what he said.
patriotic007: This covid 19 pandemic issue in Nigeria is not clear to me 1)Why is it that politician are the ones bringing out the figures? At least we should be briefed by a well known doctor on what they are going through, the dangers health workers are passing through in attending to this large numbers of allegedly infected people,And what they need in order to perform their duties. 2)Why is it that no single clip or pics of this covid-19 patients on sick beds or ICU beds has surfaced on the media space in Nigeria, the way we see it on CNN and other foreign media instead of showing us chats of yellow green and red. 3)Where are the dead covid-19 patients buried? And. Why don't they show their remains been moved from the hospital like we see in other countries that really have this covid-19. 4)Why do some states have the same figure of infected people for more than a week now?does it mean that the first case didn't interact with anyone at all.? 5)Why haven't we heard of a single health worker been infected yet in Nigeria with our weak health care system and insufficient protective kits,or is it not the health workers taking care of the large figures of infected people?
You have raised very salient points here that needs an answer, it's sad that most people are not seeing nor asking the right questions
Randy100: Firstly, FGM was done to initiate young girls into womanhood from what I know or what I heard. Secondly, a virtuous woman for me was described in the book of proverb 31 vs 10-31. The verse 11 says the husband trust in her and in her he will get all he needs(including sexual need). That is what I mean by a virtuous woman. Thirdly, you keep talking about civilization and modernization freeing women from shackles of conserving themselves to wildness as we see today on social media. Is it a good thing? As a traditionalist that I am that is why I am kicking. I want women to know their place when it comes to sexuality. I don't want to compare us to lower Animal even though we are Higher Animals, the coc.k chase the female and mount when it get tired it comes down. The female don't complain and start chasing the male. Same with other Animals. Finally, every man will have to determine how he treats his woman but as for me I am going the way of my forefathers.
My brother the matter tire me, that's why they can't even stay in a marriage because they try to equate themselves at par with the man.
mrvitalis: LMAO Honestly when this vaccine comes out religu people should not take it , they should allow us foolish people get vaccinated ...then they can go to church n spread it among themselves and heal themselves or die ...simple
At that time their ignorance won't be a threat to reasonable humans
In a bid to show how reasonable you are, you only expressed more folly and sheer ignorance.listen, when a man of God talks, their words are not empty and vain but backed with inside information from a force that you know nothing of
[quote author=seanfer post=88031011]OP please don’t mistakenly go to Eduaction bus stop or Ikwerre road to Agip fly over. If you do, you will be snapping from the Cell ooo. [/quote
I plied that route today, Na so Dem say make everybody hands up as you dey pass. Me I no cum understand again, Na the hands up go stop or prevent the spread of corona? Nigeria police things dey always dey different]
[quote author=seanfer post=88031011]OP please don’t mistakenly go to Eduaction bus stop or Ikwerre road to Agip fly over. If you do, you will be snapping from the Cell ooo. [/quote I plied that route today, Na so Dem say make everybody hands up as you dey pass. Me I no cum understand again, Na the hands up go stop or prevent the spread of corona? Nigeria police things dey always dey different]
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri To Buhari: You Are Always In Shock, We Don't Need A Shock Absorber by Talkingoil(m): 4:49pm On Jun 12, 2020
. Double offence!!!