₦airaland Forum

JovialJune:
Usual gibberish to justify the usual nonsense nairaland halfwits are fond of spewing, nothing in most of your brain except sex, sex and more sex, the so called logical gender that refuses to make use of their thinking faculty to better their country

Take a look at leaders of tomorrow typing long epistle because of 9 months deprivation of sèx as if it's a lifetime, a pity but expected from the breed of Nigerian men circulating the earth lately.

If this post were from a woman complaining that her husband doesn’t want to touch her because she’s pregnant, you would be the first to attack the man, emphasizing the importance of intimacy for a pregnant woman, etc.

You wouldn’t tell the woman to remain faithful until she’s 'beautiful' again, right? No, because she’s a woman, and she must be satisfied.

We’ve been here long enough to recognize a dim-witted hypocritical wench when we encounter one.

JovialJune:
I want to believe you have a mother at home or perhaps elderly women in your family, maybe you should ask them what pregnancy entails and the different effects it has on women since you are too docile and slow to reason properly

The usual nonsense from half-witted idiots who would rather respond to people at home than to those engaging with them

JovialJune:
Now imagine that for all those times your mother gave birth to you and your siblings, your father had to go out there to service himself because he couldn't hold himself for 9 months, and this is me hoping he was faithful to your mother, because from your baseless counter comments, it's either you grew up without your parents, or your father was/is a community diicking man that's why you think it's a norm, it can also be that you grew up in a dysfunctional home where your mother had to go through hell during pregnancy cos all of you in that house think that carrying another human for 9 months, with the side effects and all, is seen as nothing, pregnancy that has to do with life and death of either the mother and child, or both

Lmao.

The usual excuse from folks with single processor and incredibly narrow focus. It's always man's fault yea? How about the other option, the option where my mother is not a wicked witch like you and others? Rubbish.

JovialJune:
But no, 9 months is too much for a useless husband to wait till his pregnant wife put to birth safely, 9 months is like a life time out of the remaining years of his marriage where he can sèx his existence away, the man must be the priority no be so, to a magnificently deficit human with the brain of a snail.

Nonsense and stupidity to the mentality of nairaland boys that reason like a one year old.

Useless husband that a useful wife married? Tells well on her choices.

Unless it's a medical condition, nobody will stay nine months without wanting to have sex. Not even witches like some people here.

Many married men are sex starved because of people like this one, you married a man that meets your needs and then find reasons to deny him sex and complain if he gets it elsewhere.

I way above the level where anyone can blackmail me emotionally, alright? So it's left for the OP to continue being a good husband by y'all standard or take care of himself because nobody else will.

Sex during pregnancy improves circulation, promotes better sleep, and helps maintain pelvic floor strength, which can aid in labor. It also supports a positive body image and, in later stages, can help prepare the body for childbirth.

So she's not doing it for the man alone but witches do kill their own children so nothing new here. If the reason she can't have sex is a medical condition, they should consult a doctor and have it treated otherwise she can continue her celibacy while he takes care of himself his own way.

Nazgul:
Lol.. Burden bearer... 😂

What you should know is that most Nigerians are opportunists. Once they suspect that you're too soft and easily give in to their requests, you go hear am cos they'll, keep taking advantage of you until they wreck you.

Paul in that passage was talking to the curch not the general populace.

Bro, you are talking to someone who has been used thoroughly.

I know better now.

JovialJune:
Like candid said, if you stay away from sex for 9 months will you die?

How is it that men don't know that pregnancy can affect women in different ways? some women's sexual libido becomes extremely high during pregnancy while some do not want to be touched at all, like mere touch irritates them.

Op better help yourself in the bathroom and leave her alone till she gives birth.

The problem with you and others like you is selfishness and wickedness. It's always about what women want and how they should be treated.

During their period, women want men to understand their hormones. While pregnant, they expect him to stay celibate because she doesn’t want sex due to hormones and mood swings. Men should respect a woman's hormones, but a man's own hormones, such as horniness, should be disregarded and forgotten for nine months.

If she can't give him sex, then she should give him a pass to get it elsewhere. I pity the guy who is even waiting on her.

Nonsense and potential thunder victims.

Nazgul:
The thing is, if you must squat anyone, make sure they have a source of income. That way even if they overstay, they won't become a parasite to you cos they'll be able to shoulder their basic needs.

The worst thing you can do to yourself in this Tinubu's administration is to squat a jobless person.

I bought 2 derica of beans for N4,600 on Sunday . I spent about 12k in total to cook it with rice and a little stew.

Imagine spending that kind of money to cook only for your jobless roommate to ensure that nothing remains in that pot within the next 48 hours. You'll go mad.

Galatians 6:2 “Bear one another's burdens, and thereby fulfill the law of Christ.”




😂 😂 😂

It’s not just about how much she has right now but what she earns monthly or her potential. You might meet someone who doesn’t even have 30k at the moment, but when you see what she’s working on, her qualifications, and her drive, you’ll know she’s on her way to making serious money. What if it took her 4 years to save that 500k?

At the end of the day, marry a good person who wants marriage and wants it with you.

😂 😂 😂

Nazgul:
From Nigerians? His unnecessary attack on Finidi. That his outburst was uncalled for. I expected him to handle it more maturely.

In Napoli? His team mates. The worse thing that can happen to you as a player is to be in bad terms with your teammates.

They're the ones whose efforts made him the highest goal scores 2 seasons ago. So why no look for ways to get along with them peacefully?

Osimhen is in his twenties, and with everything he’s been going through, he’s handling it well. He reacted in a way you or I probably wouldn’t have, but that’s because we’re not him.

Even Finidi didn't handle the whole resignation issue well and I’m sure you know that story and that's between Osimhen and Finidi not Nigerians. Na this thing we do for elders be the reason Tinubu is the president.

As for his teammates, forget them. How many of them stood up for him when all this started?

I’ve never been a fan, and I’ve always felt he’s overrated, but we should give him a break. Everyone focuses on the reaction instead of the trigger, and I can’t stand that either.

folake4u:
Funny enough, I have a friend that reacts badly to sachet water. She only drinks Nestlé bottled water.

The difference is in the @emboldened


I was laughing because the woman was told to drink any bottled water. 😂

Gustavowhite:
I am making a research I need papers where Abike or any Nigerian leader spoke anything about adeyinka grandson and his threat of genocide against the Igbo

That woman made Nigerians to board a bus according to their state of origin during emergency evacuation.



That should tell you everything you need to know.

eyenogoquiet:
What's a tampon Doing there??

One of the things women put up there to stop babies from falling out

The fact that some people supported Buhari for a solid 8 years of his mismanagement of our resources, just to ensure that their candidate, Tinubu, could become president, explains clearly—even to the deaf and dumb—why we are in the situation we find ourselves today.

Sonnobax15:
Any bottled water......Her doctor tolf her to stop drinking water from sachet...

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂




SMH

Sonnobax15:

No be lie....

The nonsense we call pure water down here,na only God dey save us from am cuz it's nothing closer to pure...

I know of a woman that whenever she drinks sachet pure water, she'll find herself lying on a hospital bed the following day....... Maybe the chemicals most of these water factories are using in the purification process of the water isn't hygienic for human consumption in the first place....

But then again,we are always fond of saying --"desease no dey kill African man".

So what does this woman drink?

Nazgul:
Hmmm...truth is no coach can work with a ride player.

Worse of all a rude African player.

Osimhen has problems with his teammates. That's what even affected him last season. That's why he couldn't score much goals.

Ronaldo, Ibrahimović, Ramos, Arnautović, Mbappé, Robben, Balotelli, Osvaldo etc are all known for their arrogance. Yet, it is only Balotelli and Osimhen that are paying/paid a price for it. Osimhen refusing to take a pay cut isn’t arrogance—it’s just a questionable decision. Beyond that, he’s unfairly targeted. What exactly did he do to deserve the backlash from Nigerians especially?

Be like Phan don go carry case give judge wey be one of his wife's side cock for court.

Then the cover of lead was raised, and there in the basket sat a woman! [The angel] said, ‘This is wickedness,’ and he pushed her back into the basket and pushed the lead cover down over its mouth

Zechariah 5:7-8

MemoriesAndMe:
How come the rich ones don't come back after death and it's just the struggling farmers in rural communities that do?

Na you go help tend to their farm if they don't come back? Abi you want all those man hours to waste.

danzaki63:
I am moved with your plight, dont allow this to get into you, Dont give up, Better opportunities will come your way. Dont ascribe it to any Human, it is all from god. God will surely see you through this trying time. Dont be dispair, the tougher it is, the stronger you become.

James 1:13
Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He Himself does not tempt anyone.

Pentagon007:
Have you tried to contact the Chinese vendors? How are we SURE that your goods were not changed during the time it was with the customs or shipping agents? My instincts tells me that the customs guys have a hand in this situation. Knowing the level of criminality in all areas of life in Nigeria, i can tell you there are good chances that your goods were changed at the customs.
Sorry bro!

I received two boxes or Xiaomi phones with nothing inside years ago.

I dragged the matter with NIPOST for over a month before I finally got my phones.

Guess what?


Pictures of one Yoruba woman and her family don full one of the phones 😂 😂 😂.


Nigeria is crime scene walahi

Just watch as Pocohantas will start crushing on him now because of his brown shoes.


Yeye sombori

Olu1000:
Sad one !! But why did they panic and enter water when they did nothing wrong? The boy is way too small to be involved in illegal maritime activities! It’s well

This is why I say that anyone who hasn’t lived in the Southeast doesn’t know enough to have an opinion on what the police and army are doing there. If soldiers return from an operation without success, they might kill someone randomly, place weapons beside them, and claim an IPOB member was killed. The evildoers on Nairaland will celebrate, the victim’s family will mourn, and life will go on as if nothing happened.

In the Southeast, encountering the police or army is often worse than encountering criminals. With criminals, you know your fate—give them what they want, and you might have a chance. Soldiers don’t give you that chance. You don’t have to be guilty to be killed; down here, we’re all born looking guilty. The war never truly ended.

It's same everywhere in South East. The police down there are daylight criminals.

The builder of Lagos is now completely clueless, visionless and without direction.

RoyalBlu:
She couldn't cancel her vacation for his funeral, but is willing to be on ground for his Will reading pronto.

Someone you claimed to have been married to for 17 years!

This level of 'anyhowness' is frightening.

Oyibo way of life is on another level. So I'll just...

Let the dead bury the bed abeg 😂 😂 😂

This is exactly why I count my garri and rice before leaving the house.

But seriously, is she a liar? Has she lied about things before? I’m just trying to understand what kind of person she is, because if she can lie about something like this, who knows what else she’s been lying to you about?

You called her your woman, but I’m not so sure you’re her man. That's disturbing.

yemmit90:
You don't know when a girl is forming hard and when she don't want to look cheap to you. Understanding the both will help you alot in dating game. So you want a girl to sleep with you in her first visit to your house? Only wayward or Olosho girls do that please.

A girl that don't want anything to do with you will never come to your house. You were the one that failed to specify what you expect from her if she come. If you want just sex from a girl, you tell her before she come, if she still chose to come after that, then you win, because the possibility of accepting you at first visit is slim, infact you shouldn't attempt such at first visit if you want your dignity intact.

Are you sure you're replying to my comment?

BrutusOj:
I can say you are still learning about Nigerian ladies sha, she came to your house on first date, you didn't do the needful with her instead you started talking about relationship afresh?

Babe don already assume her duty as your babe na, she wanted more of you in your room not gentle man talk of relationship. Nowadays, you don't ask ladies out formally, from the first romantic move you take towards them, it has started.

Going straightforward most times spoil everything for those ladies who have dated very badt sharp guys

When she accuses me of rape, what needful will you do? Join the other victims of one side of the story to cancel me bah?


Verbal consent isn't even enough for me these days, I will ensure she consents on whatsapp too.

Here's a proud irresponsible man ✌️ ✌️



Those whose palm-kernels were cracked by a benevolent spirit will always think every other person's story is same as theirs, don't let them get to you.
When a man wakes up is his own morning.

nolamicautos:
Osimhen isn't really suited for the Premier League. He should stick with Napoli, please. As for Mikel, he should consider coaching instead of talking nonsense. Football isn't an easy game, after all. How many goals and assists did he even manage in his career? Just leave our Jackson alone—we love him.

Mikel was right on Jackson.

1Sharon:
Why not ask ,why don't the men help women?

I said that single fathers make better parents and you said it's because women are helping them and now you're asking me why men are not helping the women?



You good?