₦airaland Forum

cococandy:
That’s why a lot of people realistically can’t afford maids. They themselves are underpaid and they want to be employers on top of it

The situation is really messed up. People often need a maid because their jobs don’t give them time to care for the home and kids, but in the end, they’re underpaid, and the maid ends up suffering the most.

Which kain mumu mod moved this to front page without blurring the picture?

Sirchiboy:
My friend met this girl through hookup of a thing.
After like 4 months, they lost contact.
Out of the blue,
The girl came back to my friend crying that she should accomodate her because the girl she was living with is having issues with rent.
My friend agreed and gave her rules because most Nigeria girls are animals if you don't give rules
10k for weekly food for the house.
Then 5k for her weekly upkeep until she get a work.
But this girl is empty headed.
She will use the 10k and buy nonsense In the house.
Cook soup and soup won't last three days.
And lastly this foolish girl eats like 4 to 5 times a day.
And this my friend is earning just 80k.
.
I have warned that hookup girls don't change and they don't think before they act.
Advice needed

If no one around you has ever told you that you are a fool then you have no true friends

davis51:
Omo talk for urself leave us alone.. Can u eat only beans for 45 years or more

Don't mind the mumu people.


A broke guy doesn't deserve a woman but a rich man must marry one.


Make I see this money first.



I will be marrying new wife every six months.

The werey fit still fall in love with the delivery guy and forget the buyer.


Women? The only man to figure them out died laughing.

okrote4real:
And why hasn't the current President Bola Ahmed Tinubu investigated and cancel the deal if it's not in the interest of Nigerians?

He promised to continue from where Buhari stopped 😂 😂

The "We Niger Delta" crew are without doubt, the most stupid people in Nigeria.

ValCon888:
Any man that can marry in this current economy is a very strong man.

Because this Tinubulation cannot be solved by any mathematical equation.

The last time I thought about marriage, it affected my account balance.

Switinthemiddle:
30k for a live in maid is too small na... In this 21st century.. Even shoe makers make more than that in a month. What if the maid was a family woman.. Will the end result of staying away from your family for a month be 30k

How many Nigerians take home 30k monthly after deducting accommodation, transport fare, food, electricity bill, water, and other benefits a live-in maid enjoys from their salary?

1Sharon:
You're joking right? Fish and crayfish go so well together. They have similar falovour profiles.

Before or after Tinubu?

She dey use fish and crayfish cook soup.
I told her it's either she uses fish or crayfish but she kept using the two.



Who does that? 😭 😭 😭 😭

My IG is working fine

EreluRoz:
Don't waste your energy. They are content creators

Makes no difference, your assessment and judgment would still be the same if it was real.

pocohantas:
Why do some of you like to project and cry more than the bereaved?

You have another job for them?

santaclaws:
Calm down chief, I am a man and not a woman, so I am not justifying her actions, but there is no smoke without fire. Let's assume you gun down someone, and I hurriedly assume that you're a murderer without understanding that you did it in self-defence and the other person would have shot you instead... Would that make you a criminal for protecting yourself?

Let's assume this guy used this woman and planned to abandon her in Nigeria, would she have been totally wrong to do that? Let's understand the full context before judging, that's all. It's a passport, it's a piece of paper and the visa and everything can be reapplied for, it's not a death sentence.

And I ask again, why do you always assume that the man has done something to trigger her?

Haven’t you encountered people who are troublemakers by nature?

If we're assuming the man must have done something, why stop there?

Why not go a step further and assume that the woman must have done something to make the man react, leading him do something that made her react, leading her to tear his passport?

By the time you pile on four or five layers of assumptions, you’ll see just how frustrating and unreasonable you're being.

santaclaws:
We don't know what transpired between them prior to their coming to Nigeria. Admittedly, it's an extreme measure, but if you don't give your partner peace, they can do and undo, it goes both ways....

You don't realize how ridiculous you sound when you say certain things. In another thread, EreluRoz and some irritants were quick to assume that the man must have done something wrong.

They have no idea what's going on, yet they're already making excuses for the woman.


Take a look at what you're saying—if you're not giving your partner peace,' you're assuming that the man must be at fault, that he's the one not giving her peace. But your brain hasn't paused for a moment to consider, 'What if this right here is the woman not giving her husband peace?'

Oh, right, I forgot—women are never wrong.

Finally, a YouTuber from Nigeria that doesn't talk.

God bless you sir

slim75d:
Those were the days when women new the worth of their vag!na.
These days because high promiscuity in the land, the daughters' of eve walk around without bra and pants for easy access

Promiscuity isn’t new; people have always been that way. The difference is, they used to keep it hidden. Back then, they were more discreet out of fear of disgracing their families, facing social backlash, or even enduring severe consequences. Plus, they didn’t have the technology to broadcast it. The truth is, there’s nothing new under the sun—it’s just more out in the open now.

siofra:


What's all this

God abeg!

Speaking from experience, if a man does this nonsense to me, I'll create a scene before leaving. You want to embarrass me? You've never seen embarrassment rubbish!!

You don't have sense naturally so no surprises

haphizz57:
You cant secretly make love to ur wife if u use dis kind of bed. Xpecially if u live in a single room apartment with grown up kids. E get one kind sound it use to make

You can't even sneak out to pee without waking someone up.

kelvinezeh55:
Asking for help on nairaland is always a waste of time
Since I registered with nairaland nobody have helped me with a dime,

Have you helped anyone?

michelism:
How're the charges?

High

Inafa15:
Man Utd too sluggish for my liking, nearly gifted a goal to Man City

And wasted their own chance the score.

herkeem:
₦1,589

For real?

herkeem:
I can help you make the payment with bybit virtual card.

What's their exchange rate today?

michelism:
I used to order on those Chinese stores before banks started their restrictions. I need to have a way to buy stuff myself; imagine if I need to order little items, I wouldn't want to be doing that through you. I already have your contact on standby though, even before my first post.

You be better plug

I use Eversend virtual card

SunShowAfrica:
I need to raise close to 500k to start a good business

Which good business do you want to start with 500k?

adebayo201:
Devil, not today... Not today!!!

Devil may not have a hand in that. Death is man's most potent invention

sreamsense:
To him now, he is doing guy not knowing he is working curses upon himself and unborn generation thinking he is mocking him. He wants to use the man of God to get public star. No respect for elders, no fear of God and no respect for any authority. What do you want to get by spoiling and bringing someone else down? If he is not of God, leave him for God to weigh His work and reward him himself. Judgement is of God, he will reward everybody one day according to their deeds

Please, if you have nothing reasonable to contribute, just keep quiet.

This is exactly how you all elevate men to the status of gods, worshiping them instead of the Creator. How can calling out a man amount to bringing curses upon oneself?

Jeremiah claims that his water works and sells it on his website—let's see it work outside the church auditorium. It's that simple.

Stop using the threat of curses to scare people away from the truth.

Jesus, while being crucified, forgave those who crucified Him. Stephen, while being stoned, prayed for the souls of those stoning him. Yet, you think that speaking against a man of God, for whom you have no evidence to prove that he is a man of God except his own words, will bring curses upon you.

You write well, but you're foolish. Read your Bible, and you'll see that this is not an insult.

Mikespecialone:
This guy should be careful ooo , he should not die untimely ,even most people wey Dey form Superman no Dey grow old

If you've ever visited Mercy Land and seen the color of that water and where they draw it from, you’d definitely back VDM with all the support he needs.

That water wouldn’t pass any test if NAFDAC were to examine it—not even for something as simple as washing white clothes.

Amotolongbo:
If people “who clearly can’t feed themselves” are not entitled to have babies, you won’t be alive to post on nairaland.

Jesus ❗❗❗❗❗❗