₦airaland Forum

1Sharon:
The reality is that most single fathers are getting help from the women in their family. Alot of them say they want custody just to spite the mother. But no worry nah, there's an epidemic of women leaving kids with the father after their relationship goes to shit. They don't want to be turned into single mothers.

So women help men but don't help women and men is the problem?

helinues:
Are those supporting this government buying things from different market?

Are you saying that Nigerians should not complain since those that foisted hardship on them are not complaining?

helinues:
The same government policies are favouring some people. Life is not one straight road

Why are you so against the people? What's your motive? How do you sleep at night?

People are working hard, getting promoted, and advancing, yet they’re getting poorer, and you claim it's not the government's fault?

The price of 25 cups of rice now could buy you a full bag under Jonathan and you don’t see anything wrong with how things are now?

Patriotism means being loyal to your country, not blindly supporting those in power. It’s fine to back the government, but not unconditionally.

What do you expect people to do? Set their own prices? Drill and refine their own fuel? This isn’t how politics should work. We’re human beings first, above all else.

Chelsea is beating wolves like bandits.



I didn't see this coming at all.

FRANCISTOWN:
😂😂😂Ha! Tallesty. You are naturally not a good person with that your head like tyre of yaba motor.😂😂😂

How yaba Tyre be?



Make I know whether you're a friend or foe 😂 😂

Emvicprints1:
and loud or colos.

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

folake4u:
This is too detailed. 😂😂

I know their type ni.

Tightpussy2024:
You may like to rethink your stance when you realize I am not talking of widows but SM through divorce or out of wedlock.

So why do women fight for custody during divorce?

Tightpussy2024:
it's not just to quote statistics but look at circumstances that lead to the statistics.
A single father has more support system both emotionally, psychologically et al. How often have you seen a single father stigmatized or shamed? They bundle the kid(s) to their relatives for most of the time or get a girlfriend that will nanny them. While most single mothers are chased from families(unwed teenage moms), a single father counterpart has his kid lulling in the homes of his relatives.

Then finances as well. Most men that are single fathers are more financially stable than their female counterparts. Not that they magically do better jobs or so. They are also too few as well. Not enough sample sizes.

It’s great that you see things clearly, unlike others who’d rather argue than actually look into the facts. Honestly, one doesn’t even need to dig deep to see what’s right in front of us.

Single fathers usually don’t get much support from anyone, while single mothers are more likely to receive help or at least feel comfortable asking for it. Widows get plenty of support from the government, foundations, and churches, but there’s hardly anything out there for widowers. So that part of the argument isn’t exactly accurate.

There’s a reason nature made men the gender to provide and protect, but since some women say they don’t need that, whatever challenges they face in taking on those roles don’t really concern men.

Men work hard to provide for their kids and are often better at discipline too. Nature equipped us differently for a reason.

Nice one.

folake4u:
We don score one goal now oh.

They shouldn't have scored. Early lead hardly end well for Chelsea

femi4:
Very useless team..Jackson was busy fighting up n down. Useless striker

Dude is not qualified to be called a striker.

Mentholated:
FAKE STORY

You created 2 threads the same day. You had a girlfriend in one and a wife in the another.

Welcome to nairaland.


If you go to his house now, you'll see he has no wife or girlfriend. Just a small Hisense fridge with four sachets of water and a bottle of groundnuts inside.

olushollys:
You ended your story by saying "people are all about themselves now" showing that people are generally ungrateful, undeserving and wicked if I get you clearly, but you started by sharing your good experience with another human; a kind soul that appreciated you far beyond the good deed or favor or assistance you rendered.
My point! Huimans are of different types; the good, the bad, the urgly.

You kind and be good, that's the nature of God. Don't expect people to pay you back, remember God cannot owe you.

You're right bro

AareGaa:
You sabi things well.
E be like say you go farm well well for village.

😂 😂 😂 😂.


Na we dey spend weeks for farm when Nigeria had security 😂

The Suya resemble Awara

Maeve7:
Have you got any statistics for us now or not? Or are you asking us to do the research after you evoked the impression that you have all the facts?

You need less than words you typed here to get it on the web.

1Sharon:
Yet if a woman gave you full custody of your child, you'll freak out and rush to remarry.

Bold of you to think you k now what I will do.

EreluRoz:
Where you see that statistics from abi is it all those redpillers statistics you are quoting

Nope, you should check it out or observe the real people around you.

A father's love is in most cases a disciplinary love, while a mother's love is more nurturing and cuddling most of the times.

You know which one will be more helpful to a child in life.

Na the discipline wey fathers dey discipline kids mothers dey use turn kids against fathers.

This one never turn kidnapper like this?

EreluRoz:
A responsible mother's absence, you can never fill that vacuum.

Statistically speaking, people raised by single fathers fair well in life than those raised by single mothers.

PR for city girls.



You cannot fools us.

Kevineleven:
Both the rapist and the gays that raped him, deserve to be killed, all of them.

Disgusting modafukas.



All of them should be shot

EreluRoz:
That one mtcheww. Na so una go Dy carry something wey heavy pass una 😂😂😂

😂 😂 😂 😂.


It's the lords doing

jorion:
That's what they always say after displaying their nonsense. Don't fall for it.

I did not.

I have been on the street too long to fall for that.

EreluRoz:
He's a small boy

Together in a room, na you go shout pass

Oloki:
I can imagine how pepprish it will be. People will be opening their mouth for air to blow inside....

I can relate

And their anus when they use the toilet.

EreluRoz:
Don't mind that boy

He is man



You like looking for trouble

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

This is why I laugh at women who, instead of working on their stubbornness, say they will find a man that can "handle" them.

Who told you that a man wants to handle you? The last lady I asked out did something similar.

We vibed well, I took her out once, then invited her over, and it was at my place that I told her what I wanted. She straight up said "na."

I said okay, we're good, and that was it.

We gisted a bit more, I saw her off, and when she got home, she texted me, "Are you angry?" I said, "na," but that was it for me.

It wasn’t even the rejection that was the issue, but how it was said. If you want to play hard to get, at least drop hints that you're interested, otherwise, I'll assume you're playing "never gonna happen."

Later she told me I had everything on a platter of gold but wasn’t man enough to take it.

Ladies don’t realize how stressed the average Nigerian guy is already, and then you add unnecessary hard to get on top of it.

I will pass abeg.

Ayokequeen:
But it's actually 34pcs so divide it by 7,500 Naira. It's 220/pcs.

The plantain of this size are sold at 3pcs for 1k, so I think the price is still fair.

The plantain never even reach when they suppose cut am.

EreluRoz:
Ntooor.

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂.

Your wife of six years can't vouch for you?


Is that you're not open to her or what?