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Nairaland General › Re: Somebody Banned Me... Lol by Tallesty1(m): 4:22pm On Oct 07, 2015

You're welcome

Romance › Re: Share Ur Experience Of Students Caught Romancing During Night Class On Campus by Tallesty1(m): 4:20pm On Oct 07, 2015

Have seen alotta bush-fuckers but not in school.

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Nairaland General › Re: Who Will You Choose ? by Tallesty1(m): 4:18pm On Oct 07, 2015

Blizzyblinkzy:
Doctor.

He treated her.

Wetin he for treat if 2 say she drowned??

@Op, I think she should look for a footballer.

Romance › Re: Tips For Long Distance Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 4:16pm On Oct 07, 2015

KashyBaby:
This is a very tough test to those who are in a long distance relationship..I can imagine the great temptations tat comes along..
I'm not ready for this..

I like it.

Romance › Re: Is She Playing Me?Nairalanders Pls I Need Advise Here by Tallesty1(m): 1:33pm On Oct 07, 2015

I tire for some guys

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Romance › Re: Funny Things Some Lady Do by Tallesty1(m): 1:18pm On Oct 07, 2015

fantazia:
I will use her pics as my profile picture and tag it, gone too soon.

Fixed

Celebrities › Re: Girl From Ogun Wins A Date With Iyanya (photo) by Tallesty1(m): 1:16pm On Oct 07, 2015

Jealousy go kill other girls.

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Family › Re: Husbands And Future Husbands, Please Step In. by Tallesty1(op): 1:06pm On Oct 07, 2015

Oyind17:
Good one

Thank You

Family › Husbands And Future Husbands, Please Step In. by Tallesty1(op): 12:59pm On Oct 07, 2015

So I created this thread about The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands and many of us didn't waste time to type down our frustrations.

Well, it is good because the women won't know how we feel about the ish if we don't speak out the way we did but have we taken out time to find out why it is so?

Well I tried, and I traced the fault back to us.

So I called us here to look for solution on how to end the virus before it eats too deep into our marriages.

#My_Opinion.

As a man, you are the head of your home.

Being the head of your home also means you're the leader.

And your responsibilities goes far beyond providing food and shelter for your wife and kids, giving her money and getting her pregnant etc.

Leadership means responsibility of service to others – the people who follow you. A good leader is also a servant.

That been said............

The problems facing many families today is the lack of leadership by the husband. (Quote me anywhere) we can blame the wife all we want but the problem is somehow our fault.

We all know that women are emotional creatures and they love attention, they love to be listened to and this is where most of us fall hand.

We are just too negligent of our responsiblity and thus we sell our worth and respect out.

Do You Know Why Your Wife Respects Her Spiritual Leader More Than You?

I Will Tell You...........

1: You are not leading her spiritually. Leading our wives spiritually is an important area where we fall hand greatly. It is a man's responsibility to disciple his wife and serve in her sanctification. Women are more spiritual than men and they don't joke with religion. So if you are not doing anything to lead in this area, you need a plan towards leading, otherwise your pastor will take over.

Lead her spiritually, pray with your wife. It’s tragic how many husbands never do. Rise early and call out to God for your own growth and then for wisdom in how to serve your wife in her growth.

2. You Don't Listen To Her, Talk To Her Or Encourage her When Necessary. Women love to be listened to and talked to especially when they are down emotionally. Pastors are aware of this so they always present themselves as those who are always ready to listen and advice.

Do you know who she called/ran to that morning she asked for few minutes of your time and your said later? That night you came home and went to bed straight without touching her food, saying a word to her or asking her how she spent her day? That day you slapped stars out her eyes? That day she was sick and you couldn't call from office/shop to check on her? That day she was emotionally down but you were busy with work and didn't even notice? And other times you messed up?.

Obviously her Pastor or Church member, and they listened to her, prayed for her and assured her that all will be fine.

So who should she respect more?

If you want to enjoy all the respect of your woman alone then you must be her leader in all ramifications.

Fortune is a woman; if you neglect her today do not expect to regain her tomorrow.

I am Out.

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Webmasters › Re: Webmasters Pls I Need Help With My Blog. by Tallesty1(m): 12:48pm On Oct 07, 2015

What have you done so far and how did you do it huh

Romance › Re: OMG, The Very BIG Ass That Got People Talking In A Bank in Abuja TODAY! by Tallesty1(m): 12:45pm On Oct 07, 2015

firstEVA:
i dont think this is very big, its just an average ass.

Below average but serious.

Politics › Re: See How The Queen Of England Greeted Haile Selassie (photo) by Tallesty1(m): 11:03am On Oct 07, 2015

Cool.......

Politics › Re: Buhari Ministerial Nominees: Same Ol' Same, Corruption Mocks Anti-corruption by Tallesty1(m): 4:30pm On Oct 06, 2015

jusRadical:
I wonder what Audu Ogbeh is doing on the list. I thought that they said that the PDP destroyed Nigeria for the past 16 years.

Were Audu Ogbe, Ngige and Amechi not among them? Afterall Ogbeh was a 'king' in the pdp.

Buhari's odour has made them saints.

They are now new creatures, infallible and without sin.

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Politics › Re: Ministerial List: I Am Disappointed, Says Balarabe Musa by Tallesty1(m): 4:26pm On Oct 06, 2015

No be only you dey vex.

Nairaland General › Re: What Does It Take To Make One Naira Equal One Dollar? by Tallesty1(m): 4:22pm On Oct 06, 2015

I wish I know Buhari's Nairaland Moniker.

I 4 just quote am.

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Romance › Re: Romance Landers Or Romance Haters?? by Tallesty1(m): 1:04pm On Oct 06, 2015

MissNoble:
and I landed here on Nairaland(Mercury).
This place feels very hot.

Go enter freezer.

Romance › Re: What Do I Do To Change Her??? by Tallesty1(m): 1:01pm On Oct 06, 2015

Define Lesbianism for her first......

Politics › Re: When You Are Single And All Your Friends Are In A Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 12:47pm On Oct 06, 2015

Sometimes I do miss being in a relationship but then, I will check my wallet.

And I will feel alright again.

Politics › Re: Meet Kemi Adeosun - New Minister Of Finance by Tallesty1(m): 12:45pm On Oct 06, 2015

Obiagelli:
I would like to see our finance minister actually tidy up our finances and looking to please foreign institutions

Politics › Re: Nigerians Witness Significant Improvement In Power Supply Over Q3 2015 by Tallesty1(m): 12:44pm On Oct 06, 2015

Politics › Re: Abuja Bombings: DSS Not In Full Grip Of Nigeria’s Security Intelligence – PDP by Tallesty1(m): 4:12pm On Oct 05, 2015

Truth

Politics › Re: Damning Revelations Of How ECONET Was Bundled Out Of Nigeria by Tallesty1(m): 4:10pm On Oct 05, 2015

Nice piece

Politics › Re: Acf Blasts Afenifere Over Falae, Attacks On North by Tallesty1(m): 4:07pm On Oct 05, 2015

Owk....

Politics › Re: Why Saraki Didn’t Appoint Lawan As Senate Leader - Senator by Tallesty1(m): 3:12pm On Oct 05, 2015

Abugab:
Playing politics at any level is good but national interest should override personal interests in the course of playing the politics.
Bottomline, Saraki or Lawan, NASS must not fail Nigerians.

Politics › Re: Nasir El-rufai Never Practiced What He Preached by Tallesty1(m): 3:09pm On Oct 05, 2015

^^They are high on fake feelings.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Married Women That Respect Their Spiritual Leaders More Than Their Husbands. by Tallesty1(op): 3:05pm On Oct 05, 2015

happney65:
Your Husband is your First Boss..Which kind boss be that?Aint you partners in Progress?Abeg me i be feminist ohh,so i no understand

Feminists and confusion sha.....

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Politics › Re: Twin Bomb Blast In Niger Republic by Tallesty1(m): 3:02pm On Oct 05, 2015

warrior01:
Congratulations Nigerians for shooting yourselves in the foot. You voted out Jonathan that almost eradicated boko haram and confined them to an area in the North East. Buhari came in and ordered all check points removed and now they are everywhere and no one is safe anymore.

Politics › Re: Buhari Govt Inaugurates Committee To Grant Amnesty To Boko Haram by Tallesty1(m): 3:00pm On Oct 05, 2015

#sighs.

But they said they already winning the war huh

Romance › Re: . by Tallesty1(m): 2:57pm On Oct 05, 2015

When we begin get common sense.

Romance › Re: Is It Wrong To Maintain Friendship With Your Ex? by Tallesty1(m): 2:55pm On Oct 05, 2015

You broke her heart oga.

Politics › Re: Femi Adesina Goofs Again On Abuja Bomb Blasts by Tallesty1(m): 2:53pm On Oct 05, 2015

chocolateme:
Who is Femi Adesina? Is he up to 18 years old?

He was high on odour.

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