₦airaland Forum

sonofananimal:
hmmmm! Kind of notice it, and with this particular word the female always said “my pastor say”

But let me keep on observing this thread

AdexOmoby:
I have to first if all be sure that the men they have at homes are men who are worthy to be respected. I am not in support of those who adore their pastors at the expense of their own sense, but then men should first of all be worthy of respect before the demand it from their wives.

ThenIf a man is worthy of respect, kneeling down to greet him isn't one of such signs. Asking for his opinion in matters arising us a good sign of respect. Regrading his opinion and giving reference to him as of the home is another. Treating him with courtesy and not talking down in him are signs of respect men see and appreciate not necessarily kneeling down to greet him even if he were 59 years older.

Men correct me if I am wrong.

egift:
That is even worst. The borrow and pose types. When they brag or form, you will think they own the entire State.

sweatlana:
Pls how do husbands address their pastors wivies and how do they address their own wife back at home??

Useless trend

SAMBARRY:
Whatever.

I don't need glasses, I need a cold bottle of stout

EagleNest:
And if he manages to win and return the N11B, then he will steal again to recover what he paid...

EggovinMma:
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MarvellousGod:
Op, you're right. . But it goes both ways.. Some men also value their pastor's opinion more than their wives' opinion. .. Some also respect/value their bosses more than their wives... Which is really bad..

So both men and women in this category need to change. .Respect should be mutual in a relationship...

prettyjo:
nice thread

SAMBARRY:
Always complaining even on early Monday morning ni 6.33am? Smh


anyway if you are jealous of the way your wife respects her pastor you too do the work of a pastor at home

not even thing is where is my food

cococandy:
Boss is boss. No comparison between them and husbands. One is intimate one is not.

Pastors and husbands. Yet again one is a spiritual leader and one is a life partner. Also Two different things. No comparison there too.

it is quite correct that all should be respected.
But the relationships aren't the same. While I may be prim and proper for the boss or pastor and full of 'yes sirs', I can't be like that with a husband. We have an informal relationship.

But I do detest people that worship their pastors.
That's a whole new level I see people go to in the name of respecting their pastors.
It disgusts me because it's often easy to see how such worship can be turned into a tool of manipulation by the so called pastor.

So respect but not idolize.

OP remove boss from your list.
Apart from work, where else will the boss come into a woman's life? And yes at work, he's the boss. The husband should wait until she gets hime before he expects her to do what he wants over what the boss wants. That's one unnecessary power tussle unless the boss or hubby is not reasonable.

Quite different from pastors. Those ones have no boundaries. Some of them even want you to consult them before making your life or family decisions even though you have a husband who's meant to be doing such with you and not them.

They specialize in Seeing unsolicited visions and tearing couples apart. Permit me to say many of them are quite useless.

lilmax:
These women lack prayers,reading of the bible and understanding it....they believe whatever the men of God utter is very correct and cannot be challenged
If they can seek the face of God on their own and hear from him then it would be the end of this issue

itunity007:
E DEY PAININ U GAGA OO

optimusprime2:
You need to be informed because it seems you aren't... Davido or no Davido, she is a Momodu go and Check who Mr Dele Momodu is and you'll find out she was already a celeb from Day 1

cococandy:
He's APC so he's a saint

Airforce1:
I laugh when I see some naija parents name their children "Chelsea, beverly, Nicole and some other yeye Oyibo names..

odinese:
.I don't know why pple hates Buhari...

From the news so far, he has been doing a great job...

Nigerians killing Nigeria, tmrrw they complain is the government..

Government:- Nigerians don't throw thrash on the road..
Tmrrw Nigerians will throw.

Nigerians:- the government doesn't wanna clean up our roads...

Sigh!