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Eyop: Not so my brother. So you want to tell me that the girl(s) that open leg for you and you pour whatsoever fluid in there,if it results to pregnancy & i address this same statement to you,will that be OK? Meaning you were also ready for the outcome?

Eyop: Accidental discharge,it can happen to anyone and i don't think she intentionally got pregnant

Coldfeet: Op its her choice to make to tell or not to tell! Why do I say this? Is she ready for a baby? Can she cater for the child if the guy denies or refuses to have anything to do with them? Is your sister still inlove with her ex should in case she tells him and he says ok let's raise this baby together? And can she cope with the embarrassment in case the guys claims she is just desperate and wants to trap him with another mans baby? (Men can be such mofos). Anyway I'm Prolife and will say KEEP THE BABY.

BodyKiss: He should type properly first. How can you help if you don't understand what is being said?

newslife: you dey see am

sisiafrika: I will kiLl dem ni if dey don't park well.

hurpeyeahme: I dnt see ∂ reason Ɣ a man dt has nothing tangible doing will wanna marry.I can't venture into such,he must be earning something no matter how little.most marital issues/prblm when properly lookd into arises frm finance issues.

koife: That I can't say but she hasn't been in a working relationship for a long time now. So I guess it depression or jealousym

Meestique: Really? What have u got to say then abt ladies who dnt bear their husband's name after marriage?

Lovetinz: Do you know how to speak proper English?

Dayjhihannon01: lol... U sure say na time u dey check? Or while checking the time u peep in to NL or reply some late night pings?

MizMyColi:
OP, one other thing I have to say concerning you is:

Your Mind Is The Battle Field, You've been allowing the cosmic enemy win all along by thinking that you're far away from God. He gives you this impression that because you've not done certain things and lived according to certain rules, that you're somewhat separate from Him.

Lies!

You've cornered yourself into living a life based on performance in order to win God's approval.

Well Dear, God has always loved you, he doesn't intend to drop one bit. As I write now, I'm even having a hard time convincing the innermost part of my being of God's Love for me, But you know what......
It doesn't change the ETERNAL REALITY that:
His Love:
Never Fails
Never Gives Up
Never Runs Out On Me and On You.

You and Jesus are one.
As He is, so are you (even if this doesn't make sense now, start by confessing them until they become glued to your spirit).

You need to give up your performance based mentality, be spontaneous, be fluid, stop all these rules and regulations! and start operating from the standpoint, more like a realm, that:

"It doesn't matter how I have been, it doesn't matter how I will be, Jesus can relate with ALL my weaknesses, he loves me, I can only get better."

Lacomus: Wow abeg I don't need a phone that would come and start telling me prophesy

Titilayodeji13: The Emir of Kano, Muhammad Sanusi II
has urged the Kano State Government to
enact a law that will punish those who end
their marriages on questionable grounds.
Mr. Sanusi lamented the spate of divorce
in Kano State, and said there must be
punitive steps to reverse the trend.
He said many residents end their
marriages on flimsy excuses.
The Emir who spoke in Kano, Friday,
noted that women are often the most
affected after divorce.
The worst hit, he said, are the uneducated
and the economically-disadvantaged
whose marriages are ended by their
husbands over matters that could have
been resolved.
Mr. Sanusi said anyone found guilty of
separating from his or her spouse without
sufficient reasons will be appropriately
penalized to deter others and help reduce
the huge number of divorce cases in the
state.
He also warned his subjects, district
heads, ward and village heads against drug
addiction, saying he will not hesitate to
expel anybody found in drug addiction.


https://m.premiumtimesng.com/regional/168050-emir-of-kano-wants-divorce-severely-punished.html

MizMyColi: 3rd Party.

Biliamin: I was at a wedding last week and I was surprised when the groom called the bride's immediate elder sister by her first name. This sister is also married with kid and I wondered if that was right. At least he should have addressed her by her child's name.

The so-called sister happens to be very close to me. I had wanted to discuss it with her but don't know if she does see it the way I'm seeing it and I don't want to create enmity between the 2 of them.

To me, as an African man, I think it is bad to address your in-laws by their first names especially the elderly ones even if he/she is not married

Do you think I am wrong?

How do you address your in-laws - elderly ones to your spouse?

3cycle: Females are the weaker sex, it was ordained from the beginning that men should go extra miles to get a lady and then work harder to maintain her. Adam did that

Famouspecky: Let's change these attitude ooo
1;begging for recharge card after first date.

2;The thought of holding a man with sex

3; Getting pregnant before marriage

4;Exposing our cleavages to feel sexy

5; lies

6; Laziness

7;keeping more than one lover

8; Unnecessary commitment to a relationship, that u know won't' lead to altar.

9;Eating out

10; Wearing tight jeans for a long time

11;Heavy makeup

12;Dating a Sugar daddy

13; Not knowing how to cook a local soup

14; Disrespecting people's parents

15; Dating a man who cannot take care of u

16; being clingy to a Man

17;Loving a stingy man

18; Not taking good care of your body

19; Suffocating your man

20; Staying in an abusive relationship

21; Staying in a relationship u don't gain anything


u can add yours, so we all gain an improve

temigracie: ...Well, we love flowers combined with a romantic note....

You guys are simply not romantic...