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9niceguy:
Maybe love is foolishness. I guess he wasn't expecting such from her. I still pity him seriously

If this story is real,then that guy is really in for it. It will only take a miracle to get him out of this web his foolishness got him into.

I have 2 boys too, and my DAY DOESN'T START UNTIL THEY ARE BOTH ASLEEP. Lol. I look forward to when they go to bed at night.

The fear of getting a maid is the beginning of wisdom.. #I LOVE MY KIDS#GOD BLESS MY KIDS#.

9niceguy:
The wife.
Why? To my best knowledge, the judiciary followed protocol. And the man isn't at fault at all and he did apologize. The husband did nothing wrong o cus I would do the same if I were the one. To hell with every cheating wife

Very true the wife is unfair but that man is DumB, how could he sleep in that house that night? On the same bed If not for anything, he dint even fear for his life. A woman that has the guts to bring a man into her matrimonial home and sleep wih him on her matrimonial bed is a devil and can kill her husband.

What if she had stabbed him to death in his sleep and arranged with the lover to dispose his body or ran away or even arranged for his death.

The man is a big FooL.

champion69:
Doctors in the Chinese province of Guangdong were shocked when a woman who appeared to be in the
throes of labour arrived at the hospital with no sign of her baby, it's reported.
The woman, identified in the local media as Mrs Li, had been brought to the Guangdong Chenguang
Nongchang Hospital by her husband on his motorcycle just before midnight. Her husband and medical staff
quickly realised that the mother had given birth en route to the hospital and promptly set about retracing the
couple's journey, the Zhanjiang Daily website reports .
Fortunately for the couple, some passing drivers had spotted the infant on the ground and guarded the site
until help arrived. Remarkably the baby was unharmed except for "a few scratches", the China Daily says.
The story has gone viral on China's social networking site Weibo , with many users making light of the
incident and others unable to comprehend how the woman was able to give birth without even realising. User
Grady Man Er jokes "Mum, how did I come into the world?" "I picked you up at the side of the road." While
883lulu says: "How did his mother not feel it?!" Others chose instead to focus on the happy ending. "God...
this child is really lucky," comments star_Huangnian, while Pavilions says: "This is really the most wonderful
'news' I have ever seen..."






http://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-news-from-elsewhere-33201092

How possible is that She gave birth on the motorcycle while in motion and the baby fell of to the ground and they both dint feel it

How did she sit on the motorcycle abi no be the same okada? And they dint notice anything. Ok o

naijababe:
Awon olori garri

I mentioned you in my post but its not showing, including edwife,damiso,efemenaXY, abi seun has added another button on the list I am not aware of ni?

Thanks for your wish sis. God bless you.

Awwwwww thank you all so much. Mere works can't explain how I feel this very moment. I burst into tears this afternoon. Never new this much love. God bless you all so much.

Madam Greatgod2001, Acidosis,Caracta,Ewuro4,Cococandy,Salsera,Sambarry,Edwife,Roralroy,Naijababe,Efemenaxy,Damiso
,Bukatyne,Tearoses....

And every other person I dint mention. I am overwhelmed. God bless you all and all yours. May we all forever know peace,joy and happiness for the rest of our fruitful and healthy lives. Thank you all so so much.


Madam Greatgod2001, Acidosis,Caracta,Ewuro4,Cococandy,Salsera,Sambarry,Edwife,Roralroy,Naijababe,Efemenaxy,Damiso
,Bukatyne,Tearoses....

dbestofmasquare:
Is there anything like' ITS A MISTAKE' when you are caught cheating on your spouse or lover

There is nothing to clarify na. That always what they say when caught cheating * its a mistake * its the devil *.

SAMBARRY:
Happy birthday taryour.wheres the invitation card

Its tomorrow sweerie. Though today is my Mum and my sister inlaw birthday. Thanks love God bless you. Will sure do a big parry when I turn 18years and you must attend.

Woow, really great. Immediately I read *4* I threw my pillow off my bed. Lol. Thanks for the info op.

EfemenaXY:
And a good evening to you too, Madam T.
How are you and the rest of the family? Hope all's good?

Very very fine sis thanks and God bless. *hugs*

cococandy:
There's really no set time for anyone.
For Some it could be weeks while others it could take a few years to totally have that unconscious memory out of their brains.

If you found yourself mistakenly writing your maiden lastname on a form where you're requested to fill in your lastname after 3yrs of marriage, you would see that there's no time frame to it.

Even after having not used my old email for close to a year, I still mistakenly write it where I'm supposed to write my new email especially if my mind was elsewhere.

I feel like OP should know what the possible cause for that is. Rather than worry himself to death where there is nothing to worry about.
It would be easier for them to handle it knowing what may be causing it than fight and create the exact problem he's trying to avoid.

Hmmm true. And people vary as well, some will recover soon and some wunt.

cococandy:
It's simple memory malfunction.

"Proactive interference".
Where old information sometimes get in the way of new information in the brain.
Note that it doesn't happen to everyone. But it is fairly common.

She must have dated the other guy for a while and has become conditioned to saying 'mike' whenever she wants to address her man.
So this new man 'Jim' can be addressed as mike unknowingly.

It will take time for the new 'Jim' habit to be formed and the next man 'Andy' can expect to be occasionally called Jim until his name becomes the habit too.

If I had known this before, i'd have spared myself some unnecessary fights with an ex who used to call me his ex-girlfriend's name.

I beg to disagree with you sis. True its very possible but in this case I feel she still wants something with her ex. One year after marriage is long enough to forget he or she ever exists in his or her life and besides she must have courted her hubby for a while which is also long enough period to erase memories. Its not like they got married a week after they meet. * I could still be wrong though *

damiso:
taryour happy birthday in advance sis.

Awww thanks sis. Really appreciate it. Its on friday.

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] Chef Taryour, happy birthday in advance o.

Wishing you well. [/color]

Thanks buddy. * hugs *

freecocoa:
I'm relaxed.

You have to understand that there is always an underlying issue in cases like this, it's not about having feelings for her ex, it's about finding someone who could fulfil a longing/need and that person happened to be her ex, she could do it with any other person but a familiar person would make it easier, it is that simple.

I do know that cheating is a no no and there's always a choice so let's not misconstrue my words, but I don't agree with saying she could have married her ex because he was better at the act, her hubby was kissing her and suddenly stopped, she's bound to wonder and this could mean the man no longer loves her.

Truly you have some points. Sorry if my post sounded harsh, wasn't intended. She could have fled from temptation at the sight of her ex. Giving a room for a chit chat sure let to this.

germainediva:
.......... is cheating so important that you dam all consequences .me tot its stressful,spritually grave,morally wrong,biologically dreadful.......physically,mentally and financially draining. What do you really gain? Just need a sincere answer.

You only gain a guilty conscience that hunts you always till you are emotionally drained and ready to come out of the closet.

oh please have some compassion. Do you have to use the word * roast * they are human beings like you and I for God sake.

RIP to them and may God comfort their families.

Mercie97:
how many of you actually flew this when you were kids?

Never will I forget my experience with flying kites. I almost fell of our balcony trying to get my kite that got hooked on a pole. Lol. My uncle refused to get it for me so I decided to play tomboy. Lol. My dad banned me from flying kites ever again.

freecocoa:
Seriously? I'd like to think kissing is very essential, I can only imagine how the woman must be feeling.

It's not right to cheat ofcourse but I'd be worried as it might mean that hubby is no longer attracted or even in love with the woman.

Relax. No one is disputing the fact that what the man did is wrong but using kissing as an excuse for cheating is totally absurd. Worse still with an EX. Indeed kissing is very essential in a love relationship. If she loved kissing that much why dint she marry her EX who is better at the act than her husband? Its her cross she choose to carry it. there are certainly more reasons behind her actions and not just the kissing issue * she still has feelings for her ex *

And I having read any where in her post where she complained of something else asides from kissing. Or is there more to the story that the op is yet to make glaring to us?

germainediva:
The lady in question neither has bad breath nor mouth odor...............hubby said he never liked kissing but was just doing it accassionally then to please her but that he can't do it anymore

Isn't she aware of this before going ahead to the altar with him That's her cross to bear since she choose the part. That's not a good reason to cheat. Be CONTENDED with what you have.

saints2:
Sorry, its Suction... Hope you order yours too.
Thanks

Oh I see you modified your post. Nice.

CHM11:
Wow,
Your husband didn't do well,...

But you self!!..haba you are a married woman oh!...Jeez.

Why keep tabs with your ex in the first place? Especially an ex who will not hesitate to take advantage of your problems.

You couldn't have said it better. And some people on nairaland will tell you how there is nothing bad in keeping in touch with an ex and just being friends.

As far as am concerned, an ex is a TABOO!!! Either good or bad or worse.

germainediva:
She is 30 been married for 6yrs with 3kids.........she noticed hubby stopped kissing her after she had her last child......whenever she tries to kiss him,he just peeks her on the lips and that's all......and if she complains......he says its for d younger generation that she should 4get about it........she tries to talk about it.....he says she s nagging and being childish and looking for trouble where there's none........now its been over a year and she been fantasizing about it.......recently she ran into her ex and one thing led to another and she had a very passionate kiss but nothing else happened....she been feeling guilty....her ex has been calling her but she has refused to pick his call cos she never intended to cheat on her husband.......hubby has warned her not t bring up d issue of kissing .....now she is fantasizing about kissing....is there another way to communicate it to hubby.........

Nawa o. Because of kiss u risk your marriage. What if it was SeX You sure must have been longing to be with your ex, it can't be because of kiss alone. I refuse to believe this is real. You mean after 3 kids you jeopardise your home for a kiss

Kudos to you!!!

SAMBARRY:
venue of the house




I don't trust you. You fit suffocate me for ya house. Post it here

Lol. Sure, will suffocate you with chocolate and red velvet cake. Its gona be my day you know *winks*

KanwuliaJara:
If your father could not accomplish all that, please go and sleep!
Talk is what the BLACK RACE does best!
Yet DOMESTIC violence is the MOTTO!
Na wetin consine LOVE with POVERTY?

I am done trying to educate you!
Enjoy your dreams that can never come true!

Real lovers DO NOT ADVERTISE on of offline!
Only YAHOOOOOISTS do, to disguise the REAL FACT that they are SOCIO-PSYCHOPATHS!!!!!
I PITY DESPERATE girls and LONELY old CARGOS who fall for words without actions!
Bye!!!!

LOBATAN. EOD

Lol. * seduction pad * got me LoL. As in, is it going to * seduce* the fish,turkey,chicken,e.t.c ni. Just kidding though.

Nice product.

damiso:
Good eve sis how's family and business? I troway the salute.

Very fine sis thanks. *hugs*

damiso:
Good eve sis how's family and business? I troway the salute.

Very fine sis thanks. *hugs*

SAMBARRY:
venue?

In my house noni.

SAMBARRY:
how are you madam chef



Abeg con prepare me pounded yam with efo riro con put bush meat, pomo and Cray fish shock am



with cold zobo and one pure water to step down.


How much is my bill

Come friday 19th of june. You go see that one chop well well. Nothing do you omo iya. *winks*

jummiedel:
My husband saw me reading his romantic chats with his ex and i confronted him and all he did was to insult me and stopped talking to me for close to a month now. The most painful part of the chat is where he told her that he regret not marrying her. It pained me because my husband actually begged for close to a year before marrying him. Pls what can i do because its becoming his habit and i dont want to beg him this time.

He has to choose between YOU and his EX. An EX remains and EX and should not exist anymore in your marriage.

About him telling her he regrets not marrying her. I don't believe he really means it. I think he just wants to eat his cake and have it by making her feel good and having a nice time laying her. And she will be the greatest FoOl falling for such trash. Your husband also need to grow up please and stop playing games.

Goodevening house. Been a while. Edwife. EfemenaXY. Damiso. Nijababe. Moca. Samnbarry. Royalroy. Ewuro4 Tearoses. Bellong. Pickabeau. Coogar e.t.c.
And the rest of the fun house I trow salute o.