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j0rdannkyle:
Rather than throwing insults at her which won't solve anything...... I think we should help her beg. As this can ruin her.

So mr, hopefully you're reading this(she says u're on NL), I kindly ask that you forgive her, we're all human beings. Imagine your self in her shoes now, its quite disturbing to think that one day you'll wake up and the whole nigeria is talking about you. Yeah, I know what she did was wrong, but it doesn't justify this, am not excusing her here but am asking that u see reason, revenge never solves anything, just continues a cycle of hate... Be the bigger person, forgive and just let it go am sure you wouldn't wanna be the cause of someone else's down fall. So again, and again I ask that you forgive, not cos she deserves it, but cos its the right thing to do

Has much I did like to agree with you but on a second thought, begging will make this guy feel like a god. If he agrees now and let go what happens in the nearest future if another lady huts him and has no one to plead on a her behalf.

Please let's be very realistic.what the guy did is devilish,put the op in your sister or your female relative shoes!!! Will you as an elder brother keep begging him For how long

Will he be the first guy to be cheated on?? Hell no. Will he be the last guy to be cheated on?? NO

For heaven sake this guy needs to be taught a lesson. The stup1d guy will sure go haywire if same was done to his sister.

This is so annoying. This guy needs to have an idea of how a prison looks. Very very wicked soul.

You do not need any prove dear, that's why I said go to a soldier,they don't need to touch him as such,ONLY a slap will set his brain in the right places. Tell the soldiers what happend from A-Z and explain the video and pix he showed to you. Off course you don't expect him to open up so easily. He will definitely deny it.

If he truly showed you a pix and a video of you they your action is enough prove for the soldiers to act on.

Be wise...

@ op. Honestly I don't want to believe this your story is for real, but if its real then you are not smart at all. Hold on a minute,how old are you? Where are your parents? Do you have elder sisters,brothers,uncles and aunties? Cause really if you were to be a relative of mine I would give a very dirty hot slap first for not being wise.

How long are you going to beg for Is he your god Is he married to you or obligated to you in any way

YES you dint wrong by cheating on in while you where dating which is VERY VERY WRONG,you apologised to him and he forgave you. You said yourself that he deserved a better person than you are which means you totally know your flaws,so you left it cause your conscience wouldn't let you rest.

Now isn't it better you left than stay and he being a second fiddle You going back to him to have s3x with him makes you even less smarter than I thought.

Now the deed is done and he has your nUde pictures and a video of you having s3x. Wake up girl and take the bull by the horn. What the hell is all that? That guy must be so stup1d and a weakling, he is a big F00L.

Get up girl and regain your dignity!!! That is to personal,he has no right whatsoever on this earth to have such in his hands no matter what you have done wrong either you are married to him or not.

Stop begging him abeg, you making him feel what he did is right. Here is what to do.

Bear the shame and report the incidence to your parents, go with soldiers to his parents house and give then strict warning,if possible HE or his PARENTS to should write an understatement, For no reason whatsoever should your nude pictures and videos bee seen anywhere, not only on social media but also any other phone except his. If he wants to keep it,let him fantasize on it even to his grave.

Not just that alone o, if anything as liitle as an insect bite comes your way as vengance from his side,either he double crosses you or send friends or touts to hit you then he is in a deep sh11t.

You need to be very serious about this o, this souldnt be a treat but a strict warning cause this can tarnish your future and your image. GO with soldiers. Nothing should happen to you, not even a mosquito bite.

Quit the begging abeg, you cheated on him so!! He isn't your hubby yet oo,and do you know what he has also done

WTH that guy must be so silly in his brain and you are so DuMb to have go meet him to have sEx again after breaking up.

Arrant nonsense.

Get well soon DJDOLA. God bless niralanders.

damiso:
Will let you know nearer the time.what's your time frame for ordering

1 - 2 months for wedding cakes. 1 week for other celebration cakes. Same goes for chops and cocktails ma.

Moca sweerie no mind me o, I kuku dey come online but na to type dey do me at times plus work work work. Infact this week I dedicated to just sleep,eat and watch movies. I no go shop this week at all.

Thanks ma,how are you doing too?

damiso:
Noted sis sorted out but other things are still coming up in the nearest future.

We are well o we thank God how are you and your soldiers

Sure sis,anytime. It will be my great pleasure being at your service. Thanks ma,my soldiers are doing great.

As a baker I feel so ashamed seeing this. Very very disappointing.
@ op sorry about that.

Both the husband and the wife are to blame,no third person wears the wedding band with them so whatever happens is their doing.

moca:
Tilapia,na u dash RR wife?
D guy na certified bachelor !
I don preach tire come give up

Many of them here;like 7
Next yr, i will intensify on my prayer and fasting for all d family section bachelors.

D ladies r fast hooking up and they r here playing awantilor special

Please jehovah Jireh,hear my prayer.
I want d chain to be broken.
Taryour must do cake for somebody very soon.
Halleluia!

Hello sweerie good morning, how are you,family,work and business?

Good morning house,trust you all are doing great.

moca:
Tilapia,na u dash RR wife?
D guy na certified bachelor !
I don preach tire come give up

Many of them here;like 7
Next yr, i will intensify on my prayer and fasting for all d family section bachelors.

D ladies r fast hooking up and they r here playing awantilor special

Please jehovah Jireh,hear my prayer.
I want d chain to be broken.
Taryour must do cake for somebody very soon.
Halleluia!

Hello sweerie good morning, how are you,family,work and business?

Good morning house,trust you all are doing great.

RoyalRoy:
Moca !!!!!!




You don make me laugh forget my name sef.


Chain has been broken.... Haleluya.... Na Rice remain make all of you come chop soon.


Fried Ofada Rice....lmao!!!

Lol @ fried ofada rice, how you doing and all yours?work and business nko?

damiso:
Hello Aunty Taryour how family
Are you based in Lagos. And do you do delivery?

Hello sis good morning, so so sorry am replying late,just seeing this. Yes am in lagos and I do deliveries. Hope my reply isn't too late.
How are you and all yours.

Eeeeewoo. This thread na long thing oo,where I wan start from sef? Make I just dust my slippers and run comot.



Run back in...
RR,lyndaroyce,edwife,aunty cc,idowuogbo,belong,BB,greatgod,ypp,damiso,nijababe,EfemenaXY,beevan,,shoefreak,r231,moca,cocoacandy,tunapa,cogar,pickabaeu1. E.t.c.

I salute all of una o. How you all doing? Family,work and businesses? And to the newbies in the house,greetings to you all.

Wishing everyone a great weekend.

mamachops:
I got this gas oven for 60k in lagos.....

Hello sis good evening,how is family and business? Your oven is a replica of mine. Did it from iro ade ovens and I must confess its the best I have come across.

Thank you all so very much,may you all be richly blessed in Jesus name.Amen

ifyalways: Where is the cake?

May God bless and keep him, cause the countenance of his face to shine on him, forever and ever. Amin.

Still, where is the cake?

Thanks sis,God bless you real big. Cake in the oven oo.

This date last year I had my 2nd son.And just has his name implies,he has continually brot us JOY. HBD my little prince OLUWAMAYOWA DANIEL. God bless u Son.

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moca: D children must have particular foods they lv, prepare more of that.
As for u tayour, ur assss need to flogged for wasting food.
If u can't discipline urself, I wonder how u will discipline d kids
Abeg, where road to ur house?

Hmmmm my sister,my own issue sef tire me ooo. As am typing this am munching on samosa and that's what have been eating since morning o,I never chop correct food. I cooked yam and egg stew this morning o but I never taste am,only hubby and the kids ate.

Most times I just loose interest in the food when am done cooking. Hubby don talk talk talk.

LyndaRoyce: Happy monday to everyone....
Hubby made an impromtu trip since 3weeks ago and he's yet to return; I've been playing the role of both mum and dad,thus my MIA on here... I barely enjoy my me-time,so I make use of the lil I've to rest my head.
Obviously, this forum has fully recovered from the tsunami, the FUN IS BACK! Kudos to everyone.

@taryour. Amen and amen... I wish u thesame my sister.
@naijababe and royalroy, lolhahha those pictures got me "LOL".... Chai! Naija which way forward? Our pastors don turn "customized alaba marketers" lol

Its well!

Have a splendid week everyone...
*in NAFDAC's voice* "STAY SAFE and BE EBOLA FREE"! Lol

Una weldone o my sister with the mummy and daddy role, I know exactly how it feels. Last time hubby traveled for 3weeks wasn't funny at all. Sometimes I wish I could travel too without the kids for just 2 weeks or even a week(phew). It is well sis,God is your strength.

@damiso. Thanks sis how are you and all yours.

@Royalroy. Thanks bro,God bless you.

@all. Good morning house.

Goodevening house,trust you all had a lovely weekend? Royalroy,tunapa, damiso,efemena,moca/ypepe,chaircover,greatgod,bellong,cogar,idowuogbo,lyndaroyce,nijababe,edwife,alutacontinua,ileoba,picabeau, e.t.c. I greet you all o and to the newbies in the house I salute o.

May we all have blessed and prosperous week In Jesus name.Amen.

Haaaa this question na Syntax Error oo. I will just get up and leave the person o.

Dygeasy: First of all, eliminate junk foods no matter what. That's a way to go. You can't have food in the house and then drive to KFC. I mean. You get my drift?

Yes my brother I get your drift,I don't go to eateries to get junks except for biscuits and drinks,am a baker so I always have cakes and snacks at all times. If I bake for a clients I do make sure to bake a little extra Not because of me but cause of my kids that will keep crying for cake at the sight of it,else I risk then pinching on the cake for a client.

greatgod2012: Food waste is almost inevitable in homes, especially homes with kids.
I also felt bad each time i have to inevitably waste food, but now i've been relieved of feeling guilty since hubby thought of keeping poultry of chickens to be used during Xmas and new year period, so he bought 20 browlers and that is where our "would-have-being" wasted food goes.

So, you can do the same or get a pet like dog to be fed with the food that would have been wasted.

Thanks sis for your input.

Ujujoan: Get a Dog!

That would have been my perfect solution as I love dogs a lot,I used to have one before I got married but now my parents and siblings raise him cause my hubby isn't a dog fan. I have tried every other possible means but not working.

Mutuwa: Food wastage is really a bad idea,considering the copious amount of people poor and indigent that cannot afford 3 square meals.however from ur years of marriage u ought to hv known the quantity of food d whole family can engulf.
However sharing your food out is the best option to stop wastage after you cook according to ur family wants.If you hav a security man enlist him in d people you feed,so is your house boy if any.like we in the north where beggars are like flies,we normally get one or two and engage them in domestic jobs afterwards we give them some amount of money and food.sometimes even when d beggars hv no job they come,eat and go atlesast lunch nd sometimes dinner,by doing this you will really be assisting a poor kid whom d world has turned its back on.

Thanks very much my brother, I usually do this when I was in abuja but where I am now isn't like that. As much I would want to call kids and eat with them even in the same plate(it wunt cost me anything) but I tell you one thing bro,its a diffrent thing some people will term it to,so many meanings will be read to my actions. Even when you give out to people you are sure needs na wahala o.
With experience and happening I just sit and look. I rarely give now until the person comes to me and ask or ask indirectly,even clothes I would rather pack and send to an unknown motherless babies home. Thanks for your input

alutacontinua: You should try your best to avoid these scenarios.
Stop forgetting food in the fridge!!!
You appetite should stop sky-rocketing suddenly!
Sometimes, you could just try to be smart, as in if I bring out rice from the fridge and it doesn't look attractive to me....I just cook another rice and combine the old and new, that way, the attraction radiates from new to old

Just remembered I have some boiled potatoes in my fridge and it's been there for about a week, I'm sure it might not be 100% appealing again but na porridge tinz sharp sharp


I really dislike wasting food, so, I try my best to avoid such.

Hmmmm my sister I have tried that several times o,I still end up forgetting especially when I have to cook in a rush,attend to the kids needs or even do other house chores in between cooking. Thanks for your input.

Hello house,please how can I stop wasting food I need suggestions please. Its just myself,hubby and my children( 2 boys ).

The major problem here is me, am such a person that when it comes to food I can't be predicted. I could be so hungry and finish 2 plates of rice at a go and for the next 1 week I could feed on just junks and drinks,hence all the portion of my food I cooked will go to waste.

On another occation, I could cook for the family with the mind set of eating out of it but when the food is ready I just loose taste and my appetite is gone,so I scoop and put in the fridge. Most times I forget the food for days in the fridge and by the time I bring it out,it doesn't look appealing to eat and its another waste.

Sometimes when I cook just a little quantity,it wunt go round,hubby might ask for more or my kids eat more than I expected or it could even be my appetite that goes high I end up eating 3/4 of the whole food.

I know wasting of food is really bad and want to stop it cause I go out everyday and see people in need, I just look up and ask God for forgiveness.

Please your contribution will be appreciated. Thanks