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Caracta: Wow! This is really nice. Is it affordable? Can I get more pictures of cakes for children's birthdays? I'm interested.

But I'm in Lagos.

You have a mail ma'am.

Chillisauce: Tunapa, this for you

Chilli nawa for your, abeg give us correct food wey we fit chop jare. White soup and fufu, Afang and pounded yam(choi them fit use affang carry me away o), Amala and ewedu, e.t.c. Not all this obodo oyinbo food wey no dey full belle.

Mr Aboki: No!!


Send me that babe pin for inbox..

LWKMD oooo. You are a clown,a very very big one at that.

numdes: He says he loves me...even my family, everybody keeps telling me that he really loves me. They say that may be the only way he knows how to show it

And speaking bad/evil about the person you love is also a way of showing love Well if you end up marrying that man,his family will never love,respect and appreciate you cause that man has already laid a very bad foundation for you. No matter how much you try,you wunt be in their good books except what you said is your first post is false.

numdes: Thanks babymama. I'm following your post on making love and raising a family. I'm a huge fan

Very good you are following that thread,I know you have learnt a lot from it.that should help you in taking a decision on this thread you open. Now run along and call it quits already,he has given you lots of reason and signs.

Yes marriage comes with his own challenges but its meant to have more beauty than the ugly sides. You sure don't want a marriage filled with bitterness,anger,headaches and regrets do you
Go thru babymama thread(girls night out)and see the beauty that comes with marriage. Wish you the very best of luck.

Kini big deal Give him the password and save yourself some headache jare, there are more things to worry you than facebook and twitter passwords. Wait a minute op,what have you done sef to warrant your hubby demanding your password You must have triggered him to such reaction.


Either you willingly give him or not,with the password or without the password he can and will fish out any info he wants.
Let peace rain abeg and give him the password already.

Whalai this question jgal na die ooo. I know my hubby,he did rather hear it from you than finding out on his own,worse if someone tells him of a occurrence which his wifey should have told him.
In this case I will tell him o,but not to his face. I can put in writing. He would forgive me easily than when he finds out himself. His person is that calm,the earlier I tell him the better for me,besides I can't keep so much guilt and still leave under the same roof/sleep on same bed/ have sEx and eat from same plate. I would never feel comfortable in his presence and he will sure make me talk with his piercing eyes.


This life is very funny you know,there are things we do that you think nobody knows or sees you,don't be surprised if some one comes later to use it against you or blackmail you,how do you now present it to your hubby who had so much trust in you

No one is above temptation but may God give us all the grace to overcome such temptation,temptations that are stronger than us will never come our ways IJN Amen.

It is well.

What a wrong mother that innocent child has. I wonder why the woman dint just aBort the preggy @ the early stage If that child grows up hating the mother wunt surprise me.

In this case the mother will love all other kids she has after this boy which is really really bad. There is a Nigerian movie (say the word) that relates with this story,that movie brought tears to my eyes. By the time the mother realised her mistake and wanted to retrace her steps was to late cause her son died trying to prove to his mum that he would be a thief/armed robber like his father who raped and got his mother pregnant.

If a woman has a bad circumstance surrounding her pregnancy and knows she would hate and maltreat the child,for the love of God get a solution and don't bring the child to this world to suffer for sins he or she never committed.

No big deal @ all,the reason a woman is working/owns a business is cause of her family and her future.

If you are still single,you can do whatever you damn well please with your income,but when you get married you are obligated to support your family no matter how little it is. Yes you can buy all your females stuff but before doing that look @ the state of your family and see how you can come in,there should be a lot of savings involved for future purposes.

No matter how rich your husband is,you still will in one way or the other add your own penny,at one point you must have gotten something for your kids/hubby or even yourself with your own money. Or even buy something for the home use,even if its something worth 10 naira. If your hubby is so rich and takes care of 100 percent of all the home front then its your duty as an income earning wife to save @ least 50 percent for future reasons. The time to use it will certainly arise and you will be glad you did.

If you decide not to contribute to the home front and spend your income lavishly,you will be a disgrace to your family cause that's the role of a wife TO SUPPORT her husband. When the trying time comes is when your savings come in and you hubby will be glad. Even if your hubby doesn't ask you directly,its your wifely duty to know when to drop,you don't have to give him the money directly, we women know how to go about it. You don't have to wait for home monthly allowance,you can get things you know your home needs on your own without being told. And please don't go telling it all out to his face that you spent your income buy things you need @ home.

If you buy things with your income and he doesn't say anything leave it.don't think he doesn't notice your support,he does cause he is not blind.

Some women even think they are doing their hubby a favour by supporting with their income,that's ruBBish. If you like no support and spend lavishly no wahala,you will definitely face the consequences when the time comes.

Adaobi12: This is beautiful. Na d kind tin we singles wana hear. To encourage us,nt 2 shy away 4rm marriage. 9ce 1 madam. Bt wait oh,i thought dy said,relationships,dat startd out in social media,doesn't work?

Well my dear for me it worked,and don't know about others. One thing I am sure of is that what will be will be,if a man is truly yours,then he is yours no matter wherever you meet,be it night club o,strippers club,on the road,at a bar, during a fight, at a party, in church,mosque. Just find your true ma,give it your best in making it work out.

shollaire: Point of correction, not all men play football, but am yet to come across a man that hate the game. only elderly men avoid it for health reasons. Even then they won't fail to ask for scores!

Oohh really Well there are some men grown up ones who loves cartoon instead of football and I know a few while there are some females who loves football as well rather than dolls/teddy and I know a few as well. So as it is not all females like teddy/dolls and not all men like football.

Baby mama: Stop pouring ice water on the thread na
Haba
My husband is not reading mine,even if he were,he knows who he has as a wife
Ok just read and enjoy
I have enough preaching threads, and have written on them this is light humor,as you can see


Soliciting for fun stories abeg

Now you are really cracking me up with laugh, funny enough as much as I would love to put a story up here cause am really enjoying yours, I don't even remember all our girl talks,cause really as soon as I get home or even before I get home I forget everything.

So its not about my hubby getting to read my post or not. Him reading it doesn't change anything.

Ok I wunt post again since I don't have any girls talk/gist to put so I don't derail your thread. Am loving the thread though

Baby mama: You no dey crack jokes with friends?
Anyway I do

Another lady that had attempted leaving her husband on several occasions said one day
Wallahi if I knew what I know today and Tunde came near me asking for marriage,I would have shot him down with a rifle
I said Chineke na so e bad reach
She said na so
They are still together sha,managing themselves and working on things

This marriage thing no easy o

Who hasn't been very angry with their husbands sotay you wan show am pepper
I have been there
I can't even remember what he did sef but he got me so mad and I wanted to do something to torture him
I am not mean spirited so no evil thoughts came my way,I love him but I wanted to show him
Here I was fuming and he didn't even look my way
I looked across the dresser and saw his car keys, looked on the bed and he was still lying there unperturbed I already have his spare with me on my bunch of keys
An idea just came into my head,it was the devil don't blame me
What did I do?
I took the keys ,dropped it in my handbag and drove off to work
Kai
After an hour my phone rang,I didn't pick up
It rang 10 times or more I refused to be moved
Then at noon time he appears at my job in a taxi cab to find out if I have his keys

Kai
I felt like a witch
I apologized and made up for it later on the bed
Then he apologized for getting me so angry

Una no get Tory?

Of course I crack jokes with friends,we talk about our homes,kids and businesses but trust me I know when to draw the line. Some pour it all out but me I don't pour everything out for reasons best known to me and its safe like that. What you will not eat Do Not Taste it. I don't underestimate how hot a burning fire can get.

@ op, What's with men and foothball

Not all females like dolls/teddy as you put it just as not all males like foothball.
Gaskia.

ypepe: Akubuiro=money is enemy.
They r living up to their name.

EOD.

Nice thread,here is what works for me.
Firstly I went into my relationship with a statement on my mind(if my mum can remain with my dad with all the challenges they had which I also witnessed,then I can do better)
Ability to communicate effectively, while dating and up till now in marriage with 2 kids our communication has remained very very solid.
Communication has really helped my relationship a lot,it helps us both trash our differences amicably,there are somethings I can't say to my hubby face(cause I know I might not present it well and I don't want to be rude) so I put it into a chat and he understands me perfectly well. Each time we have our arguments,we make sure we apologise n trash it out before the end of the day.we do not go to bed in anger.
I have also learnt not to argue so much with my hubby,whenever he is angry with me am quite and let his anger subside then I apologise(even if deep down in my heart I know I wasn't wrong)I still apologise,I know how angry my hubby can get and I know better than to push further,we both have a bad temper but there can only be one leader,outside my home you don't dare mess with me,I will dish it to you very hot and spicy. I am the very aggressive type but hubby isn't,he is more calm than I am. I argue a lot too but not with hubby except in cases when we are gisting and having fun. Hubby loves football but I hate it with everything but what can I do I simply got used to it,my first son already took after him as a football fan.
We both understand ourselves perfectly,we have been together for over 8years now. We have had our ups and downs which has taught us to be more united and understand ourselves better.
Our sex life might not be has active as when we where still single cause of kids but we have both been active,we have fun anywhere in the house(of course when kids are asleep or in school).we try out new things and I sure don't forget my bowl of ice-cream when I want to give a special treat(call me a dirty woman/raw woman/sex freak/whatever) I care less,his my man.
We have remained each others best friends,we share gifts,watch movies together,shop together,hubby goes to market for me at times and cook as well, we gossip together and share news with each other. We are both social media fans(we actually meet on a social forum and started as friends before dating which led to our marriage). We don't hide anything from each other,we share same passwords in most cases,we know our pins. He introduced me to nairaland and he is also a active member on nairaland.
We do not encourage 3rd parties into our affairs,it has never and will never happen. What ever happens within our walls die within our walls.we both help ourselves to remain strong in work life and business life. We support ourselves in every possible way we can with the help of God and for once I have never regretted meeting my hubby. If there is a next life,I would chose the same man all over again.
My marriage is not perfect cause there is no perfect marriage but I tell you,marriage is fun and am loving it all the way.

Baby mama: Censored post
Abeg use another handle knack us better
Left me hear the jokes you make with friends o jare

Am being very very real, trust me. We do have our issues which is very very normal. I sure wunt put all the details here, its a very normal thing that comes up in all marriages,it still doesn't mean I will choose another man over him. God has created him as he,which is why I adore him, and I don't think God created any 2 men with the same qualities which is the major reason I wunt trade my man for anything.

Yes he doesn't have 100percent qualities of all I want in a man but no man is made perfect,its been over 8years now and have been doing great with the 99percent qualities he has.

Create another handle, naaaaa it still remains taryour o,whatever I post be it good or bad its going to be with taryour.

Wallotti: O JES O!
The reason moderators and SUPER-MODERATORS WAN JELOS BAN ME DIE!
Thank you for the well-deserved compliments!

All these liars we have on NL. . .with fake husbands and wives!
Mu che che che che che

Choi this woman no go kil person with laugh for nairaland oo. Cute pix.

LWKMD.. All this your post go kill person with laugh ooo. It sure is a fun thread and am liking it.

Yes if I where to choose spouse again,I will still choose my man o,reason is cause I might not be this lucky if I choose another man. He just might not make me has happy as I am,he might not fulfil my dreams of a real woman,might not treat me like a queen like am being treated now and finally I just love to have peace and rest of mind and I have that already,its not a perfect relationship am in but its just ok for me.

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As far as am concerned that woman is a bloody liar,how can just holding onto his joystick make blood gush out abi her hand na blade/knife. The man version is the truth.what a devil he got married to.

HAPPY NEW YEAR to you all. In this wonderful year,I wish you all A joyful spirit,a healthy body,a peaceful soul,fulfilled aspiration,all this and many more are my heart desire for you and your household this year and forever.
Have a prosperous year. Love you all.

pickabeau1: This guy.. u are a kolo man..

Chai BB LWKMD,I was searching for words to use for the guy but I dint find any. I read his post over 4 times,I dint understand and it dint tally with the topic sef. It is well.
HNY to u BB.

My elder son did something similar to this some months back, he went into my store climbed on a stool and took pack of icing sugar,went into the sitting room,sat on the chair and descended on it. Poured it over his body and on the chair,some spilled on the floor.
As soon as I came in and saw him I started laughing cause at that moment I remembered this pix which I had seen somewhere. I just rushed him to the bathroom before soldier ants begin to crawl up his body and into his mouth. Before I finished cleaning d chairs and mopping the floor I had forgotten about beating him. Only punishment was not giving him the cake I baked.

If na my boys do this one na serious gbege oo,I will so beat them,but facing the fact the blame will be on me for being careless in keeping the bucket of paint within their reach. Kids are innocent. Imagine a kid picks a phone worth 50k and above and throws it like he is throwing his ball. Wetin you go do

They are real fun to be with and indeed they are the gift of life.