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Hello dreamsinbc,hope you doing great and business going fine as well? Please would you be kind enough to help me with a speech for presenting a wedding cake at the wedding reception. I have never done it before and I have one coming up soon,I have no idea on what to say when called to present a cake I made. Thanks a lot as I await your positive response.

Rehnoy: I have finish the cake, all of u, eat and belle full. It is sweet............. Just joking. I'll help u ask me sis, she's also a into occasion & events. She will know one or two tins.

Tnx a lot will be great full.

Hello bakers in the house, please kindly help me out with a nice speech to use in presenting a cake at a wedding, I bake and also into general catering service but my major issue is presenting a wedding cake I made when am called at the reception, I keep running out of words and don't even know what to say. Please I will be glad and very appreciative if you can help with a well composed speech I can use. Thanks and God bless.

Hmmm there is a whole lot going on in her mind that she isn't saying which isn't good for their young marriage. You said they have both turned a new leave,are you sure she as truly forgiven him n isn't keeping a quite malice with him We women,our minds are deeper than wells. She needs to open up to her hubby on what's going on. Nobody can make her open up except she is ready to open up by herself,not even a marriage counselor. The hubby as a big job to do on her, why not take her out on outings,places they visit together befor marriage,play with her more often,share jokes n just pretend like he isn't that bothered abt sex.
He shouldn't fight her over it,just make her feel relaxed and safe,he sure is her husband and should know the right buttons to press.

Ayee Idris: He is a Yoruba elder. Yorubas are big on respect o. I guess he is offended that he called his son-in-law to apologise and ask for his son's in law. And he got blown off. Thats enough to piss off the father in-law.

Oh please enough of this yoruba elder jare,I am a complete yoruba o and have elders in my family as well. Abeg that man should arrange his family again. Shouldn't he be more offended that his own biological sons disobeyed his instructions and got involved in such shameful act

blank: The wife shld stop crying wolf. The day something bad really happens to her, no one will do anything for her cos of past experiences.
The brothers have probably left her to carry her cross since she wants to stay in the marriage.

Did you realy expect her to divorce her hubby cause her brothers said so

Ayee Idris: He is a Yoruba elder. Yorubas are big on respect o. I guess he is offended that he called his son-in-law to apologise and ask for his son's in law. And he got blown off. Thats enough to piss off the father in-law.

Oh yes yorubas love to be respected, but that man is over reacting jare ,any son inlaw would react as such at the first instance being beating up for doing nothing. He realised his mistake n apologised,abeg they should leave him alone. Instead of the father to work on his disrespectful sons on how to go apologise to their sis ters hubby.
The husband has no fault whatsoever, its obvious the wife is spoilt as she said she is a miracle baby and they dote on her,is that a reason for her brothers to behave in such childish and less matured manner Just stormed the man own house and beat him up? A responsible matured man wouldn't do that. Am sure her eldest brother got more brains than the younger that's why he stayed back. For those two brothers to have disobeyed please from their mum and dad and still went ahead to beat the man up shows they are just boys and not real men.
No wahala when they are married too,their brother in laws too will storm his house and beat him up. Gsakia!!!

The wife acted childish and the brothers more childish.

bebe2: Nope, humans are not meant to be monogamous.

If he/she hasn't cheated its becaude they haven't had the opportunity.

If u think ur partner hasn't it means they just haven't been caught.

REALLY Which means you will certainly cheat on your hubby even if he is the best of husbands

mysticgal: ah taryour as i read your post,i don belive say i get hope.slap policeman i wan die?

Yes o my dear,d police realy crossed his boundary, I was in my ss3 writing my waec,the stupid police man sat beside me inside the bus I boarded going for my papers,I was wearing my uniform and he felt i was naïve n young seeing me as a secondary school girl and decided to take advantage by putting his dirty filthy hands on my breast. O my God I dint know where I got d spirit or guts from cause I gave him a dirty sounding slap right inside d bus,he was shocked n tried denying it but d bus driver actualy saw him tru his mirrow. It took my school principal to come to that scene before I left him alone o,cause I began to cry n said not untill I saw my mum before I would live him.there was so much crowd. Around shouting on d police man dressed in his uniform,he felt so shamed and began to plead but I dint have any of that as a held strongly in is shirt with both hands.


From that day henceforth I Hate police men with all my life n vowed never to have anything to do with dem or my kids. Till date even the ones as security at our gate I don't return their greetings.I have no respect for those men in black not in this life.

Anger is a very dangerous word that has taught me lessons. If you meet me for d first time,you will never believ its d same me the next time you see the angry part of me. Last time I was angry and reacted,I beat my roommate up and I regretted it cause I was realy pushed after so much rubbish from her, the other time with an FRSC official whom I almost slapped in public for winking at me while I was carrying my son and standing beside my hubby.(Some men are so brainless).

If am angry with my hubby,I just keep mute cause his anger is bad too so imagine me getting angry as well is bringing down d roof. Only my hubby can caution me when am angry o. My friends n family knows better than to get me angry o.

Get angry with a stranger? NO its useless cause I will just end up having migraine and a stranger would have gone so I simply ignore.

I once slapped a police man in my secondary school days(oh yes he deserved it cause what he did was unspeakable).

God is my strength as he as taught me to control my anger over the years and my hubby to as taught me as well.

Nashville: Guy, try buy washing machine ok. Costs about sixty thousand naira and your wife will have more time to spend with you in bed. Think of the investment and the potential return. She will be tired less often and you can spend that time doing whatever you like.

And when there is no cash to get the washing machine nko?wunt she wash her hubby cloths before they get a machine??
@op yes its the woman duty to keep her hubby clothes clean at all times, I did my hubby laundry including mine and my sons before I got a washing machine. All fingers aint equal so not every family can afford all this washing machine,dish washer,vacuum cleaners,e.t.c. Every woman should know her matrimonial duties before getting married to avoid unwanted and unreasonable trouble.
I just pity all this young single ladies who think marriage is forever smooth with constant flow of cash.

RedBenson: @taryour, me 15? Then u r wrong then. Infact, add 12yrs to that 15, that may come near my age.

Besides, Even if i am 48, do u think i cannot quit my career to go for medicine for the fun of it? Men love punny, that is natural! Where punny is found, that is where u wil see men.

If at your age you have such acts in your brain,your future daughters wont be safe at all neither will your female neighbors be safe. Its the likes of you that go about molesting young girls or even end up as one of those God forsaken men that go abt r.a.p.i.ng females.
Don't feel bad o cause this is how it begins. Shior
eranko jati-jati.

iikkwwoo: Please advice, if a husband borrows money from his wife to pay her bride price and has not paid back, are they. Really married?

You got me lmao this early morning..
Well as far as am concerned they are married,as long as the man handed the bride price to the brides family with his own hands. Waitin concern ppl with either he borrowed it or stole it,its just like a woman sponsoring 90 percent of the wedding.afterall whatever belongs to her belongs to her hubby and vice-visa. All the need is perfect understanding,love,commucation and trust,above all God to have a long lasting happy home together.

And I hope the wife isn't hoping or pestering her man for a refund? He should return it once he has but if not,the wife should just bone if and live happily jare. No big deal

spongeback: It's the most intimate maternal act. Yet
growing numbers of mothers are delegating it
to friends - and even strangers
At first glance, the scene appears to encapsulate the precious bond between mother and newborn. As four-week-old Esme starts grizzling, Cat Homer instinctively unbuttons her top and tenderly puts the tiny baby to her breast. After Esme has finished her feed, sated with milk, she dozes off in the woman’s arms. But soon it’s time to go back to Mummy, who has been looking
on with pride. Because Cat is not Esme’s mother. That role belongs to Natasha Batsford, who has just watched her newborn being breastfed by another woman.
It’s a scene some will find unnatural. After all,
there are few activities more intimate than
breastfeeding your child and many mothers feel this time together is the most cherished of all. But Natasha is one of an increasing number who turn to other women to provide their babies with breast milk Informal arrangements like Cat and Natasha’s are
on the rise in the UK as the breast-is-best lobby exerts increasing pressure on mums to eschew formula milk, while the NHS promotes as ‘ideal’ the ambitious - and seldom realised - target that all new mums should breastfeed for the first six
months.

For what now Do I want to go and sell the milk in my own breast

And the real mother was watching with a smile on her face? Really I don't get it,does she have issues with her breast ni or she has none at all or the breast isn't producing milk Cause am really confused here o, even if she has issues with her breast,abeg then why is there fomular

RedBenson: Omo heeh! Doctors dey enjoy o free of charge.

Infact i don change my mind.

***dumping my career to go study medicine (gyno in particular)***

I wan follow enjoy. Imagine me playing wit commissioner's wife pusssy and be touching different pusssies everyday. E for make sense naw.

I should have known the op is under 15 and still struggling to make his waec results. A man with matured brain won't spew such trash.

[quote author=Mynd_44]I heard when you are in Labour, you really don't know if the person in front of you is a doctor or a tree. Your brain is so fused with pain you just want it to stop[/quote]Yes you are right,I was telling my doctor then that I dint want him around n wanted only a female doctor and he follwed my words. But on that day had female nurses at first,wen d pain began n he came in,I was still closing my legs but when the major pain began,omo see my legs swang apart without my permission. Funny I was even begging my male doc to pull my son out fast. Its realy not abt shame cause that moment you aint in this world. when I go for antenatal now I see him always n its like nothing ever happened.

lollydyss: To all dat gave me a candid advice thanks and to all that decided to wag there stupid mouth here ,go to hell or better still hug the transformer and dont forget no body is above mistake for we are all human.

Now you really surprised me,I initially thought you where remorseful of your actions by coming boldly to confess your sins but with what you have put up here makes me doubt you have truly realized your mistakes. You should thank your lucky stars you have not been exposed or do you think you will only get fired for stealing a client money? No dear you will go to jail and I can imagine the shame you will bring upon your husband and child,your parents ans siblings,friends and loved ones cause it sure will b boldly on the front page of daily papers. Even if you had given in to your boss he would have still exposed you cause his job is on the line as well and no man wants to loose is job for intimacy.

Just as you said, no one is above mistake,including myself and every other person who has commented here. No one is saint. You mistake as been made and its no more a secret cause sooner or later if you do not find you way out, you will be smoked out and put behind bars.

Here is my advice: go to God in prayers n ask for frogiveness and guidance.(2) tell your hubby abt it all and how ur boss made advances(who else will u tell if not your hubby) beg for his forgiveness and plead with him to accompany you to the client you stole is money,beg on your kness and refund his money back to him(if not all at once,pay him back in installments) hope fully he will not report you to the law. And finally resign,let your boss know the steps you have taken. With that you are free and pls I beg you,not for your sake but for the sake of your children don't go back doing such mistakes, you might not be this lucky the next time.

May God help you.

[quote author=baby.me]I'm worried about the op. Not bc he is a virgin, but he stated that he has not dated before and he's 34. He certainly has issues.[/quote]Seconded

Babz temmy: Thanks so much. As for tiitee isnt it good news dat i can now boldly say my hubby isnt cheating. I think dats how its meant to be. Good news in marriages

Am happy for you dearie,thank God for your home too,may God continually bless your home

@op this whole story is so confusing to me with all this one tiitee diged up,but I will simply ignore it and believe u both have changed from you picking his call always and him planning to cheat on you or cheating on you.

Firstly what kind of job does your hubby do that he dosnt have free time to himself? How do you demand for sex that he refuses? For me I don't demand for sex from my hubby,I simply initiate it,seduce him and of course we are in the game and it has to b when he is in a good mood.

I wouldn't say you are selfish,I would rather say you should be more understanding and tolerating. You already know his kinda work that there is hardly a free time, do you study his mood before you demand for sex He could be exhusted after countless hours at work and all just needs is to rest and cool of his head n that last thing on his mind and all he wants at that moment is care and encouragement from his wife. If you realy play your games well you sure can still get him to bed if you go about it the right way.

All you need is study your man properly,understand his work,be more encouraging, initiate sex and not demand but do it at d right time wen he is in a good mood and not tired from work load.
Above all put your hubby in serious prayers for a better and more comfortable job with better pay and also time to spend with his family.


I still wonder the kind of job with no free days at all.. May God help you dear. All the best.

well baba oyo I think you should go for what your olori likes best.if she likes it hairy then leave it,if not abeg clean it all off. You sure don't want a little thin as that to ruin you well planed honeymoon with olori na.

For me I hate hairy chest so badly.

@ op,I don't know how many mother in laws you have meet and lived with o to make you conclude most of them are diabolical,or are you just judging from stories and movies Do you know how many mothers are in Nigeria

Well my sweet mother in law(may God continually bless her and keep her for us all) isn't diabolical,neither is my own mother to her daughter in law and neither will I be diabolical to my future daughter in laws.
You are a woman too,do you intend to be diabolical to your daughter in law(s)

@Uju, Jide, and Jenny. Abeg o let it rest pls, biko nu, ejo .

Well for me no1 is okay for me either ways..
No2 I just get used to it and stop complaining,especially when you have boys in the house.

Nawa oo am just so confused on this one, dosnt she feel tired of being idle Was her mother also like this