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Rukemi291: I love ur colour mixtures @Taylour

Thank you sweerie.
Here is another of my works

dasparrow: Very nice taryour. However, you ought to state which city you are in. (E.g, Abuja, Lagos, Portharcourt, etc)

Thanks for the correction bro. I stay in lagos and ogunstate.

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Here is one of my works, hope you all like it?

blink182: she's sort of my ex, I thought I explained that. We never had s e x but dated and did stuff.

Seems I should stop following this thread as a reasonable and mature answer isn't forthcoming instead you all want somebody to point at and console yourselves that you are righteous.

You want a matured answer Why not get matured first?

blink182: she's sort of my ex, I thought I explained that. We never had s e x but dated and did stuff.

Seems I should stop following this thread as a reasonable and mature answer isn't forthcoming instead you all want somebody to point at and console yourselves that you are righteous.

You want a matured advice Why not get matured first?

Such a simple question to ask from a grown adult or are you a boy

Answer:- simply wait till you are married and your wife puts to bed,when she is about breastfeeding your child,you ask her how she transformed.

Get a life man.

madam abeg relocate to lagos sharp sharp before any thin legged girl go and start feeding and making your hubby look good. Whatever opportunity that's yours will come to you wherever you are says the lord if you believe in him and have faith.

Royal Roy: @Op....I think you are still too young to realise the real truth behind those people who passed the bill.

Its not to curb all of the ills you mentioned...far from it.
You don't marry out kids to old men for pleasure sake because I see no other reason why an elderly will marry a juvenile if not just for pleasure!!

Remember how you wanted to commit suicide some weeks back & people here were all worried about you?
Now imagine how many young girls who had no access to internet like you would have "gone away" without any help due to this barbaric and despicable act!!!

Learn to realise that early marriage is not the solution to all the problems you listed above!! And who will marry a girl & wait for 6yrs before popping the cherry? Can you? Reason well before coming to defend a policy that u have no iota of idea what the effect is on the society!!!

He should have been allowed to commit suicide then self,kind hearted and God fearing people advice him otherwise not knowing the kind of satanic and demonic heart he has. Please go ahead and kill yourself now I beg you,at least it will reduce the amount of wicked souls supporting underage marriage to old animals.

And zameen make sure you join your mate,take your life as well. I assure you wunt be missed at all cause you are useless on this planet earth as it is.

zameen: Arindin, Oponu Ayirada. Haven't you seen or heard of a situation (in yoruba land) where a female child is even at birth given out.

See Goat talking,and its at that birth you will open the innocent baby's legs apart to deposit your god forsaken rod abi Am not surprised at you,its the likes of you that go about molesting kids even your own sister. Its obvious you don't have a child yet and don't know the joy of fatherhood,that why you can support such satanic act sleeping with a 13year old girl in the name of marriage and destroying her life.

biolabee: Wow the propanganda machine is here

Where is it that yorubas practiced child marriage

@OP whomever you are, You are a closet perverted peadophile

True that.

@op where have you seen yoruba practice underage marriage Can you boldly give your 13 year old daughter out in marriage to man of 40 years and above If you answer no to my second question then you deserve to join the animals in the zoo cause that's where you belong for the rest of your mis.rable life.
I even thought you had brains in your head and got something good to say but I was wrong. Asi e re. Oloshi, Afofun.gbemu, Ato.le, Agbaya... God will shame all of you.

bettymafy: Let me understand you. . . A married person can not and should not ocassionaly talk to an opposite sex friend for up to 10mins? Says who? Really? Seriously?

If the couple do not have a "no opposite sex friend" rule, there is nothing that stops one from speaking for up to 10mins with a friend of the opposite sex! If they haven't spoken in awhile and need to catch up on events, business, career, name it. . . Sofar the partner knows who this friend is, is comfortable with the said friend and knows for sure that it is not more than what it is-friendship.

Lastly, each couple should do what works for them. If a "no opposite sex friend" rule works for them, then so be it and both of them should make sure they keep to the rule. Whether the rule is healthy or not is not up for discourse.

Did you understand my post at all A friend of the opposite sex that the hubby knows as his wife friend is very different from who he dosnt know at all,same goes to the wifey. And when the hubby asked her why wait till the next morning before giving an explanation

We women get more hot blood than men oo. If it was her hubby that made or received such call,am sure the story would have been different. Abeg be realistic

TV01: I'll be candid with you Mavrick 2012.

Firstly, whilst there is nothing wrong coming to nl for opinion, please be careful whose opinion you listen too. Further, do not feel compelled to respond to those who willfully or ignorantly misread you. I hear you on your hatred of divorce and infidelity. There are some here who see nothing wrong with divorce and others with agendas other than harmonious homes, which is possibly a reflection of their own situations.

The one good thing about these half-baked, blowsy or unconsidered responses, is that you'll soon learn whom to ignore.

So to your post proper;

With marriage comes a sacrificing of some privacy for both partners. And it's important that both have sight of who the other is interacting with - if it's anything other than day to day business - even if this is only in passing. Moreso the agreement you had with you wife regards opposite sex friends is something that should imho be taken as read in marriage. OSF should be the exception and should certainly be known to the spouse.

You have done nothing wrong in querying your wife. You have every right and further, if it makes you uncomfortable or causes you to query it, your wife - or yourself if positions are reversed - should take steps to reassure you.

Some are suggesting you meet this Amos person. What for? For what? If he's platonic there is no need, if the relationship is illicit, either he'll refuse to show or something will be staged to throw you off the scent.

Your business is firstly with your wife. I don't know of the dynamic in your home or the past histories of either yourself or your wife, but please sit her down at an appropriate time and in an appropriate manner and discuss this with her.

Some of the things you wrote made me wonder about your wife, but she is your wife, so I'll trust you be measured in your approach.

Remind her of both your vows and commitment to your union, and further your role and desire to keep her and your home secure. Let her know why you find this disturbing and your expectations of her.

I won't say more than this for now unless you have anything further to add. You sound mature and humble. Accusations of rigidity aside, men need to be somewhat sober.

I wish you peace in your home. Please seek God if you fear Him.

TV

God bless you jare. I still stand on my first post op that the call your wifey made is fishy to me and for her not explaining to you that night cause she isn't comfortable with you questioning her is more fishy. I am not saying she is cheating or might be cheating on you o,but that's how it starts. Abeg what kind of platonic male friend calls a married woman for 10min if he dosnt have anything up his sleeves What the hell are they discussing Why is your wifey referring to him as UNCLE Abeg make I hear word jare,uncle my foot.
Even a colleague at work shouldn't be referred to as uncle,as a married woman you address men that you ain't related to and not your in-law by their names or you add a MR. As far as am concerned,calling him uncle is even flirty sef. Wetin you no go chop,don't bother perceiving it.

I am a married woman and I tell you if my hubby makes or receive such call to a female friend am not aware of for 10min, I will wonder what sort of female friend will call a married man for dat long...

Hmmm this uncle amos nawa o,wetin dem dey discuss for 3 min Looks fishy to me and I don't like the idea one bit. Your wife should sure have her boundaries and know when to short her door. Hmm why did she wait till the next morning before giving you an explanation That's even enough reason to give room for funny thoughts.

So where is the fat in all this pix above IMO you are very ok and good. You better don't injure yourself with what you hear people say abt you o and focus on being great in life. If you see a fat,huge or big person and stand beside them,then you will see the difference. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror and see what beauty God has created you to be. Good luck

dayokanu: ^^^ Good girl. See as marriage wey wan scatter as at this morning, Don enter Honeymoon phase by the evening

Its well with you. I pity that bed and your neighbours tonight.

That kneeling posture dont forget oo. Both front and back kneeling

And dont mind Efemena. The way she dey grab microphone you go know say na Musician for her previous life

Efe where are thou Biko come and clarify this. And after that abeg you go teach me some of those songs you wrote in your previous life.

dayokanu: Efe,

See Tayos son is also getting excited abi you wan say he too dey think of something ni?

Hey Dayo how you know say na boy I go have again Take your time o dayo,besides my first son too small for all this thing you dey talk oo.no let him papa catch you for this forum o,he dey watch your back oo.

Efe I don pay oo,tey tey from page zero.

Han han. Efe, Dayo and Coogar. Oga fun yin ooo, you all are just making my day with this argument,even my pikin dey kick in my belle out of excitement. Eku ise oo.

Mr Biolabee,why did you fall my hands this afternoon Leave the lady alone jare.

Op don't just declare him missing o,also print his obituary and paste every where. When his family sees it they will know how to fetch him out,am sure they know where he is.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]^^ So, does this mean your dad was just a sperm donor and an ATM machine? Going by the stuff you've written / pasted up there...[/quote]You can imagine him/her refer to them as foolish and useless.

sholay2011: Has it come to this? Smh. Learn to take correction with maturity even if it doesn't rub on you in a cool way.

And what stopped you from acting matured as well by simply ignoring my post

[quote author=Every_LadY]no one's asking for ur personal opinion here.she is recounting how wrong it was already.so please take the correction already given and move on.some peep knows how to be squeaky.[/quote]And you think what you typed above isn't an opinion as well? Don't make it sound like I came all out here to insult the op please. Stay on your lane and let me maintain mine.

sholay2011: What is ya own mistake? That's what we wanna hear...pls stick to the thread!

And I guess this is your own mistake as well right You sure have some nuts missing in your head.

dabigwalls: Many times we recount experiences of regret and wish that we had never taken certain actions. There might have been a pre-existing thread on this subject but over time we develop newer lessons of life along this journey of life. Some of these lessons are usually formed in our memory and while some are beautiful and make our hearts fond, others are not so pleasant because given the chance, we might have acted differently. I will share mine:

Out of childhood exuberance, I once denied that my mother was my mother and that really pained my parents. I still cannot recall the hard facts of the situation but as my days on earth continue to yield one after the other, I see that a mother's blood Is the thickest in creation. Along the challenges of life, I saw a woman who could give herself and her all for my comfort. She spared nothing and still remains an angel in all my days on Earth so far. How could I have made that grave error....how? If that day comes a second time, I would dress my mother in medals of honour and pledge lifelong love to this evergreen source of love and truth.

What on earth made you deny your mother The woman that brought you to life and could have denied you life before you even came to existence. Hope you have seeked her forgiveness And I mean forgiveness from the dept of her heart,if not you need her forgiveness and.Her blessings,go to her with elderly people from her family and beg her.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]^^ But you like snake-skin shoes and bags, don't you?

Besides, I hear the snake soups in Hong kong are really nutritious. Care for a visit? [/quote]snake skin shoe n bag God forbid,just looking at the pix alone na die. I rather carry my things in polybag than have such bag. Efe you really don't know how much I fear this creature o.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Now, now taryour

Snakes aren't all bad you know. They do have their uses like maintaining an equilibrium in the environment. When you've got a healthy number of snakes, the population of rats decreases rapidly!

Er, I take it you don't like 'em? [/quote]Like is far from it,I HATE them will my whole life like d DEVIL himself.

Ok oo,of all things to babysit in the entire universe na Wild animal like snake Dog which is a friendly pet is even better than this DEVIL.

Doubt if she has any child of hers and will ever have and remain barren. If she knows what motherhood is,she wunt do such to someone else child. And if she does have her own child,hope law of karma wunt visit her children soon for her own sins.

younggirl: Pls do you have an idea of its price?

I bought mine 30k last year,not sure of the current price. Price should have reduced abit I guess.