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[quote author=tpia@]now i see why david mark was unimpressed with nigerian graduates' performance





He probably felt it would be throwing money down the drain. [/quote]Now what has this got to do with child birth Do you ever tally with what humans are saying at all? Any ways am not surprised at all,have always known you to be a digger of dead and gone threads. You will sure fit into the job role of a Grave digger.

Oh... and while you are at it,enjoy the smelly decayed,maggot infested corpse(s) you meet while you dig.

[quote author=tpia@]and yes, feel free to share your stories of your two minute pregnancy which gave you your bouncing baby, or whichever length of time you carried your own belle, embellish as necessary, or repeat what your mentor told you.[/quote]How many you don born sef Young lady tune your dstv to channel 172 and watch the programme I DIDN'T KNOW I WAS PREGNANT. Lots of women in this world do not even know they where preg at all, no signs or bulging belly until they are in pains and doctors tells them they having their unexpected child in less than 5mins. Wait till you experience what its like before you you come out boastfully and say how or what it is.

bis7: i m thinking of the old way of giving birth and gave it up for couples or single looking for there own children but not free.. if they are able to sponsor me till i gave birth and they have the baby plus 700k given after that i am willingly to leave it but if i cant get anyone between a week from now i will get rid of it so it wont affect my life now and also i dont have enough to take care of myself talkless of a child now. lopeobama@yahoo.com

You knew of your financial status from the onset yet you went ahead and got yourself involved in a situation you can't handle.. Where is the man responsible for your pregnancy? What about his family? Your own family nko? Am sure you would like the outcome of your intentions if you carry it out,. A lot have gone down this same road in the past and are still biting on their finger in regret. Its better you have a rethink. Nobody prays to be visited by the wrath of God so thread carefully my dear.

chaircover: Tayo on point

they went on to do another 3 cast movie . .this time about some money being found in a hotel or something. i cant remember the whole plot. This time it was baba wande, joke silva and saidi

Yes o very true,that too was really intresting, joke silva was the very greedy one who poisoned baba wande and saidi balogun,can't remember the title of that one.

chaircover: Thats a nollywood film that came out a few years ago; cant remember the title

Saidi Balogun was the husband and Doris Simeon was the wife.

Yes o madam cc,very true. Really loved the film,just a 2 cast movie. I think the title is ONITEMI.

tasandra: ;DOp my sista,hw many person wan talk?ppl dey laff wen dem see me,wit winter jarket 4 summer..my sista,nobi my falt,i dey feel cold..i hate light,perfums of any kind,and I no dey drink water,if I most drink water, as Doctor say e dey important 4 me and the pikin health,i most put lime..at a time,my hubby ask Doc,weda I normal as in,weda I don colo

Lwkmd. It is well o my sister. May God continually help us all

greatgod2012: @taryour, how far now
Is our baby still kicking or out to the world and you havent informed us, me, im craving for jollof rice o, even though, im aint preggy.
Wishing you safe delivery in Jesus name

Aww thank you so much sweerie,God bless you real big. No be only kick baby dey do,na serious soccer baby dey play especially when I want to sleep. Will sure inform you when baby comes around trust me. Just about rounding up my 2nd trimester.
It is well my sister.

kreami diva: I ate publicly vended food(mama put) almost through out my first pregnancy but d 2nd pregnancy...hmmm na yam and palm oil omorning,afternoon and nyt!!!.it was crazy. And of course,i couldn't eat any food i prepared.

No be small thing at all o. May god help us all

@Op nawa o, take note that its not only love you need to keep a happy marriage oo,you also need your inlaws support as well. What's your guy stand in the whole of these or haven't you complained of your fears or is he acting like nothing wrong in the whole of this If he supports his family and sees no wrong in these then my dear you never reach your bus top oo. You should take a break and if you don't see changes(which I doubt),my dear run as far as you can. I think your dad made a mistake by going to meet your mother inlaw,that will give them a very wrong impression about your family. Its the husbands family that go to meet the wife family and not vice versa. Put yourself high abeg and let them keep their money and riches in their pocket else you will end up as a cheap wife in their house and they feel they are tired of you,be sure to welcome a second wife for your hubby thanks to your mother inlaw.

coogar: you didn't have to expose me this way. i thought i told you my activity here would stop after our catfight last night.

yikes, i am grossly disappointed!!!

Oga Coogar u joking right I laffed so much the baby in my tummy sef don compain. Sorry but you are a clown

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[quote author=Efemena_xy]On the contrary, I'm not being temperamental but still irritated with what you're still posting about this man. I'm assuming you ARE the woman in question, otherwise how else would you know so much of what happens behind closed doors, between the man and his wife?

Again, you've painted a completely negative picture of the man here, all in a bid to make the woman look like the all-suffering-never-complaining saint.

~ She has been taking care of him for about 2 years: And so? What's that supposed to mean? Aren't they supposed to be looking out for each other, supporting the other when he / she is down on their luck? Isn't that what the vow for better for worse means? Does she expect people to clap for her because she's been looking after her man for 2 years? If she doesn't, then whose gonna do it? A girl friend? His parents?

I'm sorry but this woman comes across as incredibly selfish and self-centred. Prior to the man loosing his job, did he not 'look after' his wife? So it becomes a big deal when the tables are turned, yes? It's now a big deal because she has to support her husband, yes? Get real please. You live in modern times. If you want the purely traditional setting of the man forever 'looking after' his wife, then you / she should be open to him bringing in wifey number 2, 3, 4, etc.

~ He hasn't been able to start anything as he doesn't have a flair for them: You need to hang your head in shame for uttering such gibberish about a grown, married man. A woman who truly loves and UNDERSTANDS her man SHOULD know his weaknesses and strengths! Have you nothing positive to say about him? You telling us this man has no skills, whatsoever?? Rather than carrying a chip on your shoulder, better roll up your sleeves and get stuck in, in helping him find his feet, rather than bemoaning your fate. You even condemn your in-laws for pointing that out to you? Basic Marriage 101 stuff? Amazing.

~ How many woman can stomach this? More than you'll ever know. There are countless numbers of such women but they keep schtum and take an active role in turning things around for the better, rather than indulge in self-pity.[/quote]The efe the efe. Am so loving this.

@op if you the woman this is happening to then try put yourself in the man shoes and see how it feels for a grown up married man without a job, or better still put yourself in the position of the husbands mother and also see how it feels for a mother to watch her first born being a man for that matter,grown up and married being feed by his wife cause he lost his job.

Laff don kill me.. Am most certain it will be very difficult for the op to be faithful in his marriage.

This back am looking at isn't a baby's back but an adult's/teenage back. Which sane human being would even beat a baby with wire cause of his or her cries over a t.v program

blank: @23yrs, what is on ur mind is to throw parties and have boyfriends when your mates are getting jobs and making something of their lives.
That's why she is not interested in giving you that "freedom" cos she has not seen signs that you are ready to show maturity.

Thank u madam for hitting the nail on the head. God bless you

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Longest time indeed. I'm good, my sister.

How are you and yours? [/quote]We all are doing great,thanks sweets.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]^^ Missed you more

(Is still wary of Jenny 'n Tgirl and carefully hides her Dada Osun and N2K saloon runz money...) [/quote]Madam d madam, longest time. Hope you doing great,family and business. Good to have u back

bellong: Most babies that are always kept indoor do that. This is because of the fear of strange faces. It is advisable by children psychologists that mothers should be taking their babies out to mix with crowd once in a while to make them familiar with their environment and other people.

CAPITAL NO. This has got nothing to do with babies staying indoor or not. All babies do that. Even kids of beggars living under the bridge or road sides cling to their mothers. I am a caterer and my son clings to me or his father at all times, he is in skull and follows me to every event and dosnt allow anybody except I or his dad to carry him. My son as traveled places,not the indoor type cause my business takes me everywhere and he goes with me. I think you should just wait and have a baby(if u haven't) then you will see how clingy babies can be.

@bece n @ib you are both awesome and have both made me happy and relieved,God bless you real big. And yet madam bece I immediately baked a 2 tier cake of 12" n 8" in replacement of the spoilt one. I realy aprecaite your responses and henceforth. I will start using jam to base my cake,though I tried it twice by melting the jam befor applying and it looked like the jam disappeared into d cake as I spread on d cake so I felt it wunt hold d fondant. Next time I wunt melt the jam or what do u think?

Would also want to confirm which is best used in wedding cakes,evaporated milk or powdered milk? Thanks a lot

ibizgirl: 1st thing you need to tell us - what kind of cake was it? If it was a fruit cake I think the cake wasn't properly done/baked.

Yes ib it was a fruit cake. Thanks for ur reply.you could be right abt it not properly baked but is that the only that can cause a wedding cake to go bad so soon? Really apreciate ur response

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Good day madam bece, pls I urgently need ur help as am so devastated n broken right now,I really can't explain wot I did wrong or how it went bad. All of a sudden a client called to complaing her wedding cake tasted spoilt just 3days after her wedding. This as never happened to me before. Pls ma what to do u think I did wrong? Tnx as I await your response

God bless you woman is all I can say/type/think off and weep

Vikin: OP, I don't think she suffered like me o, I lost 6-8kg the first 4 months, got admitted at the clinic two times. It got to point I was a walking corpse...my neck long no be small...

I was even swearing and cursing hubby..9 months no gree reach sef but at the end, it came to pass...

Let her hang in there, maybe register in a birth club like babycenter dot com, discuss with people on her birth plan, like that they discuss their problem and console them selves.

Pls, take care of her because she is won't be herself always..understand her and always love her,

Before I forget, take your bath 4 times a day! Just for her, it will help. Thanks

Yes o dear vikin,been there also. Mine was even worse,first 3 and half months was hell for me,spent 99percent of it in and out of admission with countless drips and injection holes on my body. I could eat or drink absolutely nothing,at a point I though I would vomit the baby growing in my tummy. Every body irritated me,my hubby inclusive,I became shy and dint want anybody seeing me cause I thin pass bonga fish,you would mistake me for an AIDS patient.
But after the first 4months was over,omo come see me,I get energy pass voltron and was always out,up and down.
OP nothing is wrong with your wifey o,it will all be over sooner than you expect,the cravings are very normal, my first preg my cravings where very funny,I onced begged for corn from a woman,could go from lagos to abeokuta just to get cooked ofada rice,I once woke my hubby at d middle of d night to drive me to mr biggs to get beef burger,I even bought food from women cooking n selling close to d gutters as long as the food tasted good I was less concerned.

You can get her a book EVERY WOMAN it will alo teach her a lot on how to manage herself and how her baby is developing.

BTW op don't be surprised when she starts doing unnecessary house chores when all dis is over.

coogar: i am quite evil, i won't tell him.....i would also probably egg him on to meet his waterloo.

Seriously tell me you are joking

[quote author=Gods-Son]sometime ago i was short of cash so i went to this neighbor of mine to borrow but after narrating my predicament to him, he brought out the money and showed me then he told me he wont give it to me bc i insulted him one day (which i ve forgotten) in public. But recently i started noticing him trying to toast a girl whom was tested HIV positive in the lab where i work. Now, should i tell him or allow him??[/quote]There is no point telling him cause he wunt believe you at all, the man definatey dosnt like u one bit. For him to bring out cash dt u realy needed and show you to your face and yet not give you because of a past offence shows you the kind of person he is.
For the sake of the lady don't tell,she has a right to live and also enjoy life has everyother human being not minding her hiv status. If the man is wise and responsible and wants her for real,he will be patient enought. For the lady to realize his tru intentions and tell him her status by herself.
BTW I don't expect them to have intimacy without the use of a condom else the man is a fool and he is doomed big time...

bece: @taryour I don't present speeches for weddiing ccakes again unless the wedding cake is for couple I know one on one.if u have 3 wedding cakes †✽ deliver on a saturday how will u be at d 3places.
Most times in presenting a wedding cake u use the colors on the cake †✽ start.like what each color stands for whiite for peace,green for fruitfulness,gold for riches etcc.
Let's say a green n white cake u start by saying the white color on this cake symbolises peace,the peace that this ccouple will forever enjoy in dre union,the green color is for frutfulness blabla. U cn google meaning of colors in respect †✽ wedding.
Pls dreams,yomibabe etc assist pls

Thank you so so much,very kind of you. Really apreciate it,God bless you and all yours. This info you gave me will sure go a long way. Thanks once again.

ManOfThePeople: Yes I blame the government. It may sound silly but I do. I don't expect most Naija-based folks to understand.

Nigeria is rich enough to help poor parents take care of their kids. Even countries where high wages are paid and poverty level is generally low, they still give social benefits to poorer families.

It is for the good of the child, not the parents. Even 5k child benefit per month would go a long way.

If this boy now suffers constant violence, is there any reason why he would not inflict violence on other people (molester, armed robbber etc) as a grown up?

If this boy gets proper warm food for lunch at school, he might have no need to steal soup. The UN is only just urging Naija to provide school lunch.

What exactly do you mean What has the government got to do with this?? There are lots of women with their kids roaming the streets helpless and more poverty stricken than this woman,yet they protect their with their lives and fight tooth and nail even when children welfare comes close to them to take the kids away for proper care. there is poverty every where and not only in Nija where kids are being treated worse so that one of Nija based folks not understanding as got nothing to do with the issue.

That woman is definitely mentally deranged to have gone tru 9months of preg and labor pains and done such to this boy and needs to be sent to ARO.

@bece please am in need of a speech on how to present a cake at a wedding reception. I bake and decorate well but when called on to present the wedding cakes,am speechless and don't know what to say. Its hurting so baldly. Please help me out. God bless u and all yours.

My W.G (worlds greatest), My Cute Teddy, e.t.c

Dreamsinbc: That might be the one thing I can't help you with o! A clause in my wedding cake contract states that I'm not available for speeches at the wedding. I'm sorry I couldn't help you more. Too shy!

Aww thanks a lot dear,am also a shy person o.that makes us 2. Smiles