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babyosisi: Rubbish!!
When a woman has to play ring around the roses to get her man to function,can't you see she has a big problem on her hands
Thank God some viable tadpoles dey for im sac sef and she has gotten pregnant twice if not this poor woman would have asked her God questions,why her

You see why I started the thread sometime ago asking how a Christian woman is supposed to know that the thing inside pot is oha soup and not play play soup with hibiscus flowers

Since you feel what I typed is RUBBISH,please what's your advice/input in this issue Would you rather advice the op to commit ALDUTERY or leave her husband

chaircover: Tayo, this will backfire, especially if the man does have a genuine sexx problem. Its like you are kicking the man whilst he is down. He will never forgive or trust her again. There are some games you dont play with men and this is one of them.

If a man was coming home late and neglecting his family and you pretend that you dont care anymore of have his time anymore, this may work, but not in this situation. Its like you are counting the toes of a 9 toed person in his presence.

Very very true my sis,its a very risky game oo and her chances are 50 50. But seem to me as if she is sure her hubby is ok medically o.

Op I have a funny feeling your hubby is playing a smart one. Here is the deal,don't talk to him abt it again or complain. Do you have a brother or a male cousin If yes you and him will do the trick. Let him act as your boyfriend,call you and send you love messages n intimate messages. Receive the calls close to where your hubby can hear your conversation and leave your phone carelessly where can easily pick it and go through your messages.

Your game is to make him believe there is another man doing his job and get him jealous that's why I said your brother or your cousin AND NOT A MALE FRIEND. While he is home on weekends,let your cousin or brother call you and fix an appointment. Act like you don't want anyone hearing your conversation but make go he hears you agreeing to meet the other person on the line. Go out even if you just go to an eatery all alone and have a bottle of coke or a bowl of ice cream.

You are a woman na so you should know this tricks am saying well. Why I said play the trick with your cousin or brother is because he will pick your phone and search thru for his rival number and might call the number,so if he dosnt hear a male voice then your trick no work oo.

Play this game well and see him confronting you,then you make him realise you aint a log of wood and have feelings too. Since he has decided to ignore you,you found yourself someone. Make him believe you o and that you are playing safe using a CoNdOm with your new guy so he shouldn't be scared of contacting stds.

Be ready for what comes after it o cause you sure don't just expect him to keep calm abt it but make sure you don't let it get to the point of him involving families. I assure you he will be forced to go more than 3 rounds on you out of jealousy,and make sure you achieve this goal before you open up to him that the so called boyfriend of yours is your cousin or your brother.


If after all these,he goes back to his one round intimacy with you,then my lady your hubby is likely cheating on you big time or he need a serious divine intervention o.


Sorry I typed all these on mobile so please ignore mistakes.

Op I have a funny feeling your hubby is playing a smart one. Here is the deal,don't talk to him abt it again or complain. Do you have a brother or a male cousin If yes you and him will do the trick. Let him act as your boyfriend,call you and send you love messages n intimate messages. Receive the calls close to where your hubby can hear your conversation and leave your phone carelessly where can easily pick it and go through your messages.

Your game is to make him believe there is another man doing his job and get him jealous that's why I said your brother or your cousin AND NOT A MALE FRIEND. While he is home on weekends,let your cousin or brother call you and fix an appointment. Act like you don't want anyone hearing your conversation but make go he hears you agreeing to meet the other person on the line. Go out even if you just go to an eatery all alone and have a bottle of coke or a bowl of ice cream.

You are a woman na so you should know this tricks am saying well. Why I said play the trick with your cousin or brother is because he will pick your phone and search thru for his rival number and might call the number,so if he dosnt hear a male voice then your trick no work oo.

Play this game well and see him confronting you,then you make him realise you aint a log of wood and have feelings too. Since he has decided to ignore you,you found yourself someone. Make him believe you o and that you are playing safe using a CoNdOm with your new guy so he shouldn't be scared of contacting stds.

Be ready for what comes after it o cause you sure don't just expect him to keep calm abt it but make sure you don't let it get to the point of him involving families. I assure you he will be forced to go more than 3 rounds on you out of jealousy,and make sure you achieve this goal before you open up to him that the so called boyfriend of yours is your cousin or your brother.


If after all these,he goes back to his one round intimacy with you,then my lady your hubby is likely cheating on you big time or he need a serious divine intervention o.


Sorry I typed all these on mobile so please ignore mistakes.

kulyie: nawa for you o.you are always so weired.its because of violent peeps like you governour fashola made the domestic abusae law.cant you sit with your spouse and settle differences amicably like normal civilized human beings without the use of violence to the extent of blood stains and the likes. When its not that you peeps are savages.abeg try and change your mentality except if you and your spouse are professional boxers,then i can understand you peeps are practicing or rehearsing.meanwhile i suspect you are a gay because your tendencies have been bothering more on homosexual kinds of behaviours.if you are i wonder why you have inordinate lustful desires for men like yourself.

Easy dearie, coogar is only joking jare. Guess you should know a joke when u see one. Coogar post is really funny but yours is funnier sef.

Abeg make you peeps for NL no kill me with laugh this early morning oo.

Oga o. Some women can be so silly and heartless. Those family she is spending on,when issues arise you see them removing themselves one after the other. Op hope you have gotten another job? If yes please find a means of getting her out of that shop,lock it up and let her have access to getting in there,what rubbish If the means of getting money to spend is being cut she will regain her senses. Or simply covert the shop to another avenue of raising money for yourself and your kids.

A woman that doesn't take her hubby and kids as her number one priority is not a wife. Shebi na the boutique and the money from it that's making her feel like a champion. Cut her wings and let's see her fly.

biolabee: Nope... u are notcurrent, that was like 13 years ago... oldcopies deyfor obalende sha

No mind efe jare. Even old copies ain't sold for 4:50k.

thingn77: Please I want this topic to be on front page,should a husband keep quiet when the wife's junior sister is insulting her in his presences and it have happened like three times,please I want only married couples to debate on this issue
Thanks

As long as its not the husband younger sister insulting his wife,there is very little he can say to the issue. The best he can do is take his wife away from the scene or simply excuse himself,after all before he married her,the sisters know how they settle their differences.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]I'm hooked in this story. Does anyone know when the next edition of this Hints magazine comes out?

Don't wanna miss part 2. [/quote]Its coming out soon madam,trust me its nairaland. *winks*

How you doing and all yours? A blessed morning to you.

kulyie: nothing happens without a reason madam.there was a provocation created by the man which the woman bottled up and hence caused the slap.note that our tolerance level for bottling up provocation is different.number 2 you support domestic violence in marriage abi because 2 adults cannot control their anger,thats nice,keep it up shows how well you are trainning your sons to be boxers when they are married



the way some women lick the ar,,ses of 'almighty mother inlaw' ehen,its mind boggling,as if marriage is such a rare grammy awards.smh 8-)




issshhh.8-)

So you support the wife slapping her husband first because she was provoked But you name it violence when a man beats his wife first because he was provoked You are so confused dear.

kulyie: but the husband is not violent right.his beating his wife was honourable right?i can see how hard you are trying to exonerate the man as if he is a sain in the whole scene.which man will beat his wife for any reason at all if not that the man is a weakling


secondly i am not celebrating the womans death,i am saying the womans death was caused 8o percent by her behaviour towards her daughter inlaw.read,you went to school :/



yes feminism is for women to have each others back,but in a situation where a woman (mother inlaw) was displaying wickedness and domineering spitit on her daughter inlaw,when she has the chance to save her,you think she will :/ now you can quickly call 'feminism' meanwhile i have consciece and decorum and i will shake what mama has given me before jesus tomorow jare,your curse cannot affect me in anyway :p

Let me correct you young lady,the wife slapped her hubby first before he beat her up which I think serves her right What right thinking woman slapped her hubby over the issue of her mother inlaw Does feminism also support that a woman raises her hands at her hubby first Does the same feminism support you watch a old dying mother inlaw without offering help when you have the means to do so right in front of you


I say it again and again and I stand on my words that may the op have all boys so all her daughter in-laws kill her in a more painful way.

greatgod2012: My sister, how you dey o?
E ku ikunra o
Ayo la ma gbo loruko Jesu. Amin

I dey o omo iya. How you and all yours. Amen sis,thanks for your prayers,am looking forward too. Big hugs for you sis

kzokul: @ kuylie! Answer the question efe asked you. If it was your mother and your husband does these same thing op did to her mother-in-law, what would you do? Be happy abi?

Please stop dodging that question, many of are curious to know if it was your mum......?

Am still surprised she hasn't answered the question and just keeps going about attacking coogar just to avoid answering the question. I doubt she will be like this if it were to be her mum treated like that.

@kulyie answer efe questions,cause I still refuse to believe you have such a wicked heart to find no wrong in what the wife did. Did you read the part where she slapped her husband before he beat her up Doesn't that tell you the kind of woman she could be Even if the mother inlaw was so bad,the wife is worse than the dead woman and must have been secretly looking for means to get rid of her but unfortunately the attack came and she took advantage of it,that act alone to watch a human being like her suffer show how evil she is.

Kulyie you are a woman o,abeg talk like one. Put yourself in that woman shoes and reason well.

Seem to me like u don't intend raising ur kids to be respectful and responsible. Or have you forgotten your kids too will/are children of nowadays

Nashville: If this is true, Seun you need to reveal this woman's real identity to me now. I am calling the police. There is a murderer on the loose that needs to be arrested.

I kinda find it hard to believe though,but some women can be so heartless when it comes to dealing with mother inlaws. I really don't know why some women find it a big deal to love their mother inlaw,they forget they will be a mother inlaw too one day. its just so saddening that same women they call the weaker vessels have so much hatred in their hearts.

It is well

You slapped your husband and you expected him to smile and pat you on your back

Don't worry u hear, hopefully you will have all boys and your daughter inlaws will kill you in a more painful way.

When there is life there is hope.its a realy tough decision to make but I will drop the money and go into fasting and prayers so he has a successful surgery. Life is very very simple and delicate. We all came into this world with nothing and will return with nothing. Besides if I don't help him and decide to use the money for other things,what's the assurance of something positive coming out of such investment No one knows what the future holds. Saving a life is indeed saving your own life.

It is well.

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Girls cake.

debrief08: I am sorry to sound so harsh but you are a selfish man.
So while she is cooking, cleaning, getting the kids ready what are you doing? Sleeping, watching TV and day dreaming about sleeping with other women.
Is she a robot? How many hands and legs does she have?
She works, comes home takes care of 3 kids alone while you wait to be served and petted.
If you helped out more with house chores and taking care of YOUR KIDS you won't have the time to be so whinny.
Also, if you helped out that poor overworked woman will have more free time to spend with you romancing.
When last did you help her out?
When last did you take her out?
When last did you say "Babe just stay on the bed today, I have the kids and the house chores for the day?"

My husband doesn't joke with us time and family time, I use to run around trying to be the perfect house keeper till he showed me there is more to life than cooking and cleaning.
He took the lead, helped me out, made sure we have 2 free nights a week, no cooking, just laze around the house, I also have one free day a month.

Instead of whinning like a spoilt child, go and learn how to lessen the load on your wife so both of you can have more time to love and enjoy your marriage.
It is wicked that you will sit and be thinking of cheating instead of helping the over worked woman out.

You are a Man and the head of your home, how you lead that is how you home will be, if you decide to be a selfish myopic man, that is what your home will become.

De De,you don use laugh tear my belle this early morning. Abeg go easy on the man jare.
Op make I sleep and wake up again cause as it is,I don't even know what to tell you other than you should be greatful and love your wife more,if possible get a big wrapper,put her on your back and guard her with your life body and soul. Abeg I no fit shout jare.

Chai women,una weldone oo.

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Girls cake

And another from Boash cakes and events

Its a capital YES for me o,in fact if my son comes home crying and tells me he was bullied in school,I will personally beat him for not defending himself. He has to defend himself o that's why he is a man, then let his teacher come face me,I will ask him or her if he or she took sleeping pills while kids were being bullied in her class. Mi o bimo ode.

thorpido: We discuss parents and even grandparents here.
What is your queshion?

EOD.

Na my husband first oo, it has to concern my home na. My mum n I can talk later when am rest assured all is well with hubby n kids.

greatgod2012: Sometimes, when one is very big or huge as this, it may happen, at least I've heard of a fat woman like that who got to know she was preggy when the preggy is already 5 months already. But what I usually wonder is how far about monthly flow.

Anyway, congrats to them, may the arrival of the LO mark the beginning of a new thing in their lives. Amen.

I used to ask same questions and more myself untill I started watching the programme "I didn't know I was pregnant" on TLC channel 172. I tell you some realy do have flat tummy all tru and go about drinking,smoking,gyming and all sorts without know they are pregnant till when they start having labour pain. Have actually watched a lady unknowingly had her baby in the toilet, not until her baby poped out did she know she was pregnant,I was shocked and in tears o. A lot happen in this world o my sis.


How you and family?

yettey24: Thank you everyone. He doesn't deserve this family and all the goods things that comes with it. I'm moving on.
Thank God he painted his true colours to my family himself. my family is now aware.
They asked me what a man with a very beautiful family does out that late. They are scared for me. They pray he doesn't bring diseases with no cure to the family. And I was warned on what I said- that, is that what he saw growing up? and he doesn't deserve all these good things God gave him. I'm going to take a break from this environment. I know that decision is going to shock my family.



Thank you for advices.
I'm moving on. Thank you all. May God bless your homes.

My dear namesake,I really feel your pain and wish you the very best. though I really don't have an advice now but I put you in my prayers and pray to God to guide you in taking the right steps. It is well with you and your kids.