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BrokenTV:
The first bank agent is not doing it on purpose, what the customer suppose to do is go to bank fill form for charge back on the said transaction, now Uba will contact first bank on the said transaction and this issue would be resolved.

He has done that already. UBA said the transaction was successful

https://www.nairaland.com/5853851/ordeal-uba

This is a sequel to the above post, but let me quickly summarize the ordeal.

I sent a friend money since April 20th of this year. However, when he tried withdrawing the cash via POS, the transaction was declined but his account (uba) was deducted.
This friend lives in a remote area in Benue state and as a result has to travel about an hour before getting to an actual bank.
We contacted UBA concerning the failed transaction. They finally got back and said the transaction was successful.
As expected, my friend went to the POS Merchant to demand for his funds. However, the merchant didn't deny receiving the funds, but claimed UBA will have to contact his bank who in turn will direct him to make payment.
UBA was contacted again and they insisted that no mail is to be sent by them.
It has become evident that the POS Merchant is simply withholding payment on purpose.

leke12:
I get your point, but why don't you think this way... Maybe their projected profit is based on foreign earnings, you can't compare to local market sales. This lock down can prevent exportation, even food crops are been destroyed in USA due to low patronage. So I think if am their manager, I will suggest they sell it in local markets, return the investors' capitals and use the remaining gross profit to settle expenses in operations, pay taxes and reinvest. So after lock down we all can move on, shikena!

Shikena?
Move on at the investors detriment abi
People give you their hard earned money for well over 6months, you extend duration to 9 months, you don't want to pay profit, you're being rude ontop, and you just want to move on

Ninejaywon:
Chairman, trouble sleep for him house jeje, you go use leg kick am from sleep.

This is really serious. RIP to your areola.

I just tire.

This na real case of trouble sleep yanga go wake am

DammyLucy:
She should write a book on Advance Oloshoism... It will be a bestseller
I sell easy to follow, step by step video course on almost any skills.. Check my signature for more info

You created the courses yourself or you resell?

PhilipGallagher:
Hi guys, I’ve been having issues logging into the stanbicibtcfundmanagement website for about a week now.

I’d like to know if anyone else is experiencing such. Cause I can’t log in at all

I use the app and I've been able to log in

lekjons:
disable windows update, set your wifi connection to 'metered'.

Those two should be very effective.


You can download 'shaplus bandwidth meter' to monitor your data usage in real time, you'll know when your data is being drained, as the counter will read in kbps/mbps.

Works like 'internet speed meter on Android.

I have done the first 2 u mentioned. Will download the bandwidth monitor

lekjons:
I use windows 10, even if my data is 10mb I can use it like I do on a phone.

You just have to know how to disable some things.

Try YouTube

I dn check tire. I'll try the normal windows update and see if that helps

Idiotmod:
Oya show us

There's are lots of clips on YouTube on how to get it done

maxjax:
I would advise you get your windows 10 up-to-date

Alright. Will try that

Blinking44:
Hi, i transferred money from my stanbic acct to the stanbic mutual fund, unfortunately i didnt quote my acct no in the comment, please guys how do i get my money back,..

Dy will send it back to you. You don't need to worry

Idiotmod:
Dey deceive urself

Something I have done, u dy say I dy deceive myself.

Vivianat:
You can't turn it off.

You can but not by default. You have to change it in your windows services

seguno2:
You should face your tender junkies instead of exposing your inadequacies here for people to mock you.

I say na audio governor u dy say mock me

This seyi makinde na audio governor

Whenever I connect my PC to the internet, even if it's idle, in less than 30mins, 1GB is exhausted.

I have tried different methods such as setting connection as metered, disabling automatic update, stopping background apps from using the internet and a malware scan. All to no avail!

It's driving me crazy! It's a Windows 10 HP pavilion PC guys.

Any suggestion on how to fix it will be highly appreciated

Christthesaviour:
Good morning guys

What do you think is wrong about the Nigerian/African style of parenting?

To me, I think Nigerian/African parenting is the best but African parents think they are always right even when they falsely accuse you which I don't think is right.

What else do you guys think? Let's discuss.

African parenting is the best you say?
African parenting makes you not question authorities, it makes you docile. Part of why Nigeria is the way it is.

If you see an elder doing something wrong, it's customary to ignore cos he's an elder.

African parenting makes one deviod of truth and justice

star4ever:
I have a 42 year old brother who for over 18 years has been on hard drugs. He started this habit while in secondary school and couldn't finish tertiary education for same reason. Efforts made by the family to stop him from substance abuse and rehabilitate him at several occasions failed. Each time such effort is made, he recovers after a while but returns to the habit. Currently, he has become mentally deranged and there seems to be no solution at sight.

He has been admitted to different psychiatric hospitals on two occasions. At both times, he was treated and confirmed fit and sound to return to the society. The moment he was discharged, he quickly went back to his old ways and all the resources spent went into the drain. In one of the occasions, we were strongly advised to engage him as joblessness was one of the greatest problem causing the abuse. We got him engaged by securing a fantastic job which he also left after a week of working there. Other meaningful efforts geared towards engaging him to enable him to become occupied and start earning a living as a man also didn’t work out.

We have organised prayer sessions by powerful men of God, nothing has happened yet. I do want to sound like someone without faith. I strongly believe that our able God will make things beautiful at His time. However, the situation has gone out of control and we need to act fast.

These, amongst many, are some of the interventions already done by the family and we cannot fold our arms and watch people mock us in shame every day due to his abnormal activities in the community.

Now what he does is forcefully, take money from our aged mum, sell any family property at sight in exchange for money to buy his drugs. Beat my mum up at any slightest refusal to give him money. He has been jailed many times for committing several offences related to this habit, yet the problem persists. Maybe we have not applied the best approach?

I am calling on fellow Nairalanders to assist with solutions. I believe there are some of us here who may have experienced this problem in one way or the other, or have an advise to give to solve this lingering painful situation. Your personal or professional experience (s) may go a long way in salvaging this situation for us.

I believe a problem shared is a problem solved.

OP, a quite touching experience you've shared. Unfortunately I have a relative battling addiction as well

The truth is, drug addiction is messy and it's best not to even start.
A study once revealed that a rat will rather die being hooked to cocaine than go in search of food.
It's bad enough to be hooked on drugs, but our society has made it almost impossible for addicts to overcome the addiction.
Our churches have failed woefully in this regard.
You complain of addiction and they hook you on prayers, as though prayer is the end result.
Prayer is only a tool to get to the end result.
Aside prayer the churches have failed to set up establishments to fully rehabilitate drug addicts.

I'm not talking of rehabs were you go and spend sometime then when you're out you relapse.

I'm talking of complete rehabilitation in the mind, body and spirit. A rehab center were as you're taking time off drugs, you're introduced to vocations, life changing principles, truths about life. Even when you get out, you're monitored and you're actively engaged in something of purpose.
Who better to implement this than the church?
After all we are the light of the world and the salt of the earth.
Church is not only to collect tithe and build cathedrals. They should have a meaningful impact on the society as well.

OP, concerning your brother's case, so called big men of God won't work any miracle. Your brother will have to find God for himself

Mstick:
Your God must be a crack head then, why not punish the parents for their do called evil instead of the child that has nothing to do with it?

I am guessing you feel you're well trained right?! If you were you would know this simple rule, if you've nothing nice to say don't say anything.

Don't mind that aunty jare

adontcare:
God is not mocked. What a man/ woman sow, that they will reap. Ask ur mum and dad what they did wrong. There must be something evil they had done that is affecting ur 42 yr brother. The bible said, train up a child in d way that he should grow and when he is old he will not depart from it. They where sparing the rod on him and now spoilt

Aunty if you don't know what to say, please keep quiet.
You people just tell different lies against God.
You think God is so wicked? God is the definition of true love

inforesource:
Stop pressing pimples on your face. Resist its temptation.

Lie lie. If na only black spots, i go press the pimples. A temptation I cannot resist

Faithful4real:
Touch not my prophet and do my anointed no harm.

So that's the only thing you know in your Bible?

I for like give you bible lessons, but I'll be wasting my time

Faithful4real:
Is your opinion even when they are wrong i prefer to keep quiet. Please don't say things because of like and share on nairaland.

I know those things release dopamine in the body.

If pastor is wrong you'll keep quiet?
That's what your Bible asked you to do abi?

All these pastors nr jus get sense