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Maj196:
This guy na were, you better talk your mind make I link you to better wife materials and stop chasing h0es

you're right. I'm wrong. I dey follow classless girls. Sha promise to update us when it goes sour. I go wait.

occfx:
Man na slave for marriage, make children grow you go see say you be guest inside your own house

Omo 💔 shit

Maj196:
Guy, I no dey cap. That girl is 1 in a Million

no wahala na. Infact na one in one billion. Sha no forget to keep us updated. Shame us.

Maj196:
Oga, change the kind of girls you meet be like say dem don show you shege.

it's Allright. Sha make you update us. Make others learn from your over confidence.

occfx:
If you are poor, marriage is not for you.. Just go look for one shuga mummy that can do ivf and marry if you must marry.

The issue is sometimes you will think you have money until you marry. E go come clear say you be poor man.

Most guys think say they get money but if they enter marriage, everywhere go first blur.

My advice be say, any money wey you dey make now as a single guy wey you think say dey enough for you, double that inflow by 5 times. Before marrying anybody.

and some dey follow me argue say no be slave man dey slave inside marriage. Everybody go learn definitely.

Maj196:
You people think every girl na the same abi, dey their

No worry. I no get strength to argue. Enjoy.

fyneboi79:
My brother i have learnt that the hard way and won't be getting into marriage or anything serious with Nigerian Women. Its all transactional now with them and I love it that way.

That's just it. Some fools will still come and argue but they'll learn eventually

Maj196:
Na una sabi, I must marry my sweetheart

abeg when she starts to show you shege. No forget to update us.

Yours sincerely
Ser 10 racks.

Hhh4444:
Thank God say my eye don open,I no fit fall for the scam call marriage.

my nigga. Our two dey the same ship. Na suffer head.

fyneboi79:
Do you know that same thing happened to me in my previous marriage. While I was slaving away to fend for this woman i sold my Honda accord vehicle a ridiculously low price because I needed money to finish a contract.,only to later discover she had twice the amount I needed in her account. Na that day I collect sense. Selling the Honda didn't break me because it was her I wanted to pass it to because I was already sure I had an suv coming. So na she lose and I vowed never to buy her any vehicle till fate brought our divorce.

make Una continue to Marry dey turn unasslevs to slave for one woman. As long as you're well to do as a guy..you have no business marrying one woman . Bro...no make that mistake again. Women selfish die.

bukatyne:
If men are ready to do the inner work required, marriage stats will improve.

Generally, men and women still need companionship, sex without guilt, children, community etc.

However, women have realized that financial provision or the promise of it is not worth the investment of a bad marriage.

So till men change emass, we are where we are.

Re hypergamy: it is not sustainable long term.

As soon as the women in the countries attracting passport bros see what befell their mothers and grandmothers due to lack of personal funds, they will stop hunting 'just a rich man' and start to look for character and compatibility. I also think that men are projecting hypergamy more than it is important for women because it absorbs men of character building. Why do I have to be a likeable man when all I need to have is some form of resources?

I look around my circle and most of us married men we grew with at work (starting out careers with) or as far back as university. In university, two set of couples got married in same level, same unit (in a pool of 80 people; some older ones were married). The 3rd one didn't happen because the guy didn't want an 'ambitious' woman.

The irony is that the kind of atmosphere men want in marriage is possible..... if they are willing to emotionally invest in it.

all this one na grammar. You expect men to adjust. What is the woman doing? Anyway na who carry marriage for head go get HBP. So many rubbish in the dating market these days.

Proserpina:
I really can't get how you made this about me, Genzs or you. I guess you can't hold a conversation without foaming in the mouth.

Have a nice day dude.

lmao. Like I give a hoot about what you think.

Proserpina:
Cunning? Yes
Daft lol I doubt that. It takes a level of intelligence to eat one's cake and still have it.

Some men do believe that too BTW. Do everything with a woman but not the real deal and still maintain no sex slate. Crazy world

so in a way, it's cunning to have another man finger and suck my gfs breast and then gift her. And in her mind she's not tainted, right? Y'all have a funny way of defining what being "chaste" is. If I ever found out that a girl I'm dating is doing that, she's a goner. Even if I find out that another man squeezed her butt through her trousers or shorts and she allowed it.

Y'all Gen Zs must be tripping. Anyway it's fools like OP that'll settle for such nonsense. If I'm not piping you, you ain't getting shit.

Proserpina:
Cunning? Yes
Daft lol I doubt that. It takes a level of intelligence to eat one's cake and still have it.

Some men do believe that too BTW. Do everything with a woman but not the real deal and still maintain no sex slate. Crazy world

so in order words, if your supposed man allows a girl to suck him off without fucking her, it's okay right?

Proserpina:
She's using you to cure konji without necessarily cheating on her obodo oyinbo boyfriend

To her, she's not cheating as long as there's no penetrative sex

with this ideology we can agree that some women are very daft. Just imagine.

MetalJigsaw:
First of all, I have never masturbated in my life. I can't even imagine myself doing that nonsense.

If you believe you can never attract a woman, but only to chase them, then you're either ugly, a simp or even both

As for me, I work on my physique (gyming), my game, personality and grooming which works for me so well that beautiful women crave my attention. You seem like the opposite by the way.

come teach me game. I'm lacking like mad

Sweetsoul2235:
She stays close to my apartment, and even though we’re not officially dating, there’s clearly something between us. She’s a year older than me, she has a boyfriend abroad, and we’ve grown really close by sharing personal issues and spending time together.

The confusing part is that she’s comfortable with intimacy, she lets me kiss her, touch her, suck her breasts, and I’ve even fingered her several times. But anytime i want to have sex with her, like insert my dick inside her. she suddenly stops me. And this has happened over and over again.

I honestly don’t know what to make of it anymore. What could really be the reason behind this?

no worry dem go soon call you rapist. Keep trying

FreeNaijaII:
So my friend proposed to his longtime girlfriend of 3 years this month.

They are already planning to go and see her parents later next month and to also get a date for the wedding sometime in December this year.

They don't always have issues, and anytime they do, they will resolve it within a day or so.

So, my friend saw his fiancée's comment on Instagram validating Frank Edoho's ex-wife opening her legs to Chike (another man) while married to Mr. Edoho.

In her argument, she said that she was right to open her legs to another man because Frank confessed that he keeps malice as a form of punishment.

For the sake of anonymity, I can't share the screenshot here.

He (my guy) has already made up his mind to quit the relationship because he sees her comment as a red flag that should not be ignored.

I tried to talk him out of it, but it seems his mind is made up.

What can I do to help?

God go punish you if you no let that guy do him mind. If you really care about the girl, make you go marry her.

rickpat:
Smallie, your eye go soon clear

na the money wey she dey see dey deceive am.

escortafrik:
Hello guys, I really need your advice because I’ve been turning this over in my head and I don’t want to make a mistake.

So a bit of background… I’m in my final year at the university, just trying to finish with good grades and figure out what’s next for my life.

A close friend of mine introduced me to her cousin a few months ago. He’s doing really well for himself, stable, calm, and very intentional in how he carries himself.

We got along pretty quickly and things moved from just talking to a serious relationship faster than I expected, but it has been good so far.

Now the situation is this… he wants me to move in with him.

At first, I thought maybe it’s just excitement and love growing fast, but he’s been consistent about it and says it’s because he sees a future with me and wants us to start building our life together properly. I do like him a whole lot , and part of me likes the idea of us being together in that way, like a real couple sharing everyday life.

But I spoke to my friends and they are not having it at all. They keep telling me that once I move in, it might reduce the chances of marriage happening, that men can get too comfortable and stop seeing the need to “formalise” things. Even his cousin who introduced us is saying I shouldn’t as well but I’m quite surprised because this guy has been so good to me in every aspect of my life.

Now I’m stuck in the middle. I don’t want to act based on fear, but I also don’t want to ignore advice that could save me from future regret.

So I’m asking honestly… what do you think I should do in this situation?

if this guy wasn't doing as well as he is, would you be having sleepless nights over this? Nonsense

bigpicture001:
Me, i register health insurance every January for me nd my family....

I register that one that covered surgeries...cost me about 280k every February for 4 person's...

Its usually waste of money as ppl dnt get sick often. But it's for the rainy day....

you get money oh. Damn

Hhh4444:
what fvckin legacy are you talking about...wake up to reality, if you don't want the world to forget you better do something extraordinary with your life else you will be forgotten even if you had 100 children. For 2026,Una still get this achaic mindset.

no mind dem. As if giving birth is an achievement.

Dpharmacist:
Sources:
1. "Vanguard News Report" (https://www.vanguardngr.com/2026/05/fresh-details-emerge-on-alexx-ekubos-death-as-colleagues-friends-mourn/

2. "TheNiche Report" (https://thenicheng.com/breaking-actor-alexx-ekubo-dies-after-battling-cancer/

Una go just siddon for Una house dey type rubbish. You think Nigerians chose to ignore? How many people can even afford three square meals let alone house rent today? If you have no solution to the problem stop rubbing it in, acting like Nigerians chose to be ignorant. If medical expenses was affordable I guarantee you every Nigerian would go to the hospital at every slight inconvenience.

Make Una getat abeg

pappilo:
Bleep cancer. I am a stage 3 CRC survivor. 19 months post-op and 12 months post adjuvant chemo. I have my next quarterly check up in 2 days.

I feel healthy but mentally you will never be the same. I am ways worried about reoccurrence.

R.i.p Alex

bro can I have a word with you in private please? With regards to that stuff you talked about

Sonofgod1990:
You don't mean it. Dis guy died¿?

Watin dey xup God

I should have be d one to die God



Arsenal 0 vs Burnley 2

everything is a joke to despicable humans like you. Is this the right place to troll?

Babatunjo:
Honestly, I understand life and I understand women. The busier and more focused a man is, the less shege he sees. Your attention should be scarce. You have a life.

Baba na women you dey follow argue so oh. You expected a different response?

spiceadole:
Leave him.
They only make noise and form alpha males online.
Offline, they are mostly weak and seeing shege from women who are not mid

lmao. 😭🤣🤣 I would have called this projecting if it was coming from a man. But nevertheless the comment is funny af.

koladata:
Just because some women want that lifestyle doesn’t mean all women are designed that way. Men and women are biologically and emotionally different.

Most women are naturally more comfortable with one trusted partner.

Many women carry rape trauma for years, sometimes for life. Meanwhile, if news spreads that women are forcefully sleeping with men somewhere, many men would rush there willingly.

A man can sleep with multiple women casually, but most women would not do the same without emotional attachment or benefit.

Men also produce millions of sperm constantly, and research shows men generally have stronger sexual urges.

Even virginity in women can be seen as part of a design that supports bonding with one man.

So stop using a few promiscuous women as the standard for all women. One woman’s opinion does not define female nature

read wetin you write and tell me it's not funny. So the attachment and benefit is why women stand out?