₦airaland Forum

amancalledgodd:
Pls try to get her
Women are really scarce and needs to be treated well. I put my babe on monthly salary 100k and this june is her birthday.
I have an upcoming surprise for her.
Make i no talk much she dey here dey read. Spoil your woman o

I second this. Spoil your woman make another man no snatch am. A word is enough for a fool.

Panda7:
and you just couldn't resist the urge to respond, shows you are the whole field. What makes you think I would be seeking validation from an online warrior like you who heap praises on herself online yet quickly fold into her shell while offline. Problem with people online is them thinking everyone who bleach is attractive.

That's the thing with Nigerian men. Once a lady is light skinned they pedestalize her sharp sharp. It's sad. It's no wonder these women become entitled and feel like the world owes them a favour just for existing.

See some foolish men up there losing aura with so much ease.

Goldrosewine:
If you come online insulting someone's personality, you give the person the liberty to hit you below the belt. There are no rules to this thing but parents should know to do a better job.

Chuckles. Says a lot about your person. You're no different from the numerous women out there and on social media (X) whose next line of action is to haul insults at someone's parents simply because they were insulted. Whatever happened to attacking the one who insulted you? Smh.

Hassanmaye:
I'm just telling you how women psychology is

Your mom just received unsolicited insult. And this is how you defend her honour. Is it because of her looks? 😭😭😭

Goldrosewine:
I guess you are describing what your mom did sha

This. He never for once insulted your mom. Why is it so easy for women today to haul insults at men's mom when something is directed at them. Smh. You're no different. He didn't even direct an insult at you. But you're very quick to insult his mom. I pity men that get easily carried away by looks. Suffer no go tire to be their companion.

Daniluv1:
Not everyone can be as lucky as you bro enjoy it while it lasts bro

Very important. Love how you said it. While it lasts.

Mariangeles:
Without "burden", there's no sense of purpose.
So, what are you living for?

wow. Just wow. Lmao. Men must have sense by force.

blaise26abj:
I join you to laugh. Married women cheat more or at least equally with married men, know this and know peace.

bro. Lmao.

Axis313:
She is 100% correct,in Islam,it is the husband's duty to provide for the household.
No matter how rich the wife is, it is not compulsory for her to provide but she can support the household.

Al rijal qawwamun ala nisa" (الرِّجَالُ قَوَّٰمُونَ عَلَى ٱلنِّسَآءِ) is a well-known phrase from the 34th verse of Surah An-Nisa in the Quran (4:34). It translates to: "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women".The verse outlines the foundational roles and responsibilities within a marriage in Islam.
Its core concepts are:
Maintenance and Protection: The verse states that men are designated as caretakers because God has given them strengths to excel over others, and because they are required to spend their wealth to provide for and protect their families.

Reciprocal Rights: Scholars emphasize that this role implies heavy responsibilities rather than absolute authority. Men are required to ensure the financial security, physical safety, and overall well-being of their families.

such flawed doctrine. Doesn't even apply to what the current reality is. Islam needs to be worked on. All these archaic practices should be modified. No wonder.

Diamond098454:
It's easy for women to forgive but very hard for men. Women hardly cheat

women hardly cheat lol



Rotflmao

pappilo:
I am in a similar position but my plan is not to take it to the grave. I recently survived stage 3 cancer but it looks like its come back and that is usually terminal.

I dont have a wife as I got divorced about 7 years ago but I have a girlfriend. I wont give her my password. She will get my spousal pension as she stood by me during my initial diagnosis. My password and control of my bank accounts and assets will be given to my son (will be 19 years soon) when it has become clear that my time left is short and I still have the strength.

Although I will have to do some cleaning up of my phone before that happens.

I'm sorry for your diagnosis sir. I hope you get healed. Btw have you tried herbs?

Caaz:
I know my husbands password to his phones....down to all his Arm cards. ...cuz I handle 89% of all his monitary transactions.
He knows mine.




I guess the relationship btw couples matters a lot down to understanding.

He's very comfy and free operating my phone's too viz a viz

as it should be. But Gen Z women have turned relationship into another thing. I have given up on having anything serious with these hell spawns. Good evening Caesar Caaz. How have you been!

helinues:
While the opposition are sad as there won't be anything to use as vindication.

The we are finished people

guy go use shame siddon one place. Forget about the opposition for once. Ask any neutral Nigerian if your lord and saviour is doing well. Try and feel their pulse. Everything isn't politics your god is clueless. He should resign and let someone competent take over.

PulaPower:
You people claiming opposition are just not brilliant at all. Same lame empty story. How’s he not bothered? Nah by words dem go recover those kids? The kids you're referring to would soon gain freedom, no be by making noise..

That being said, are you not happy that states are no longer borrowing to pay salaries? I won’t be surprised if you’re sad that states are no longer paying salaries, but that’s your own personal problem..

All of una propaganda towards tinubu never worked out till date. Why? Cuz you people are just empty. Una go try taya and nah still failure go end ham!

pray hard make Nigeria no happen to you. When it does, you'll develop sense by force. Enjoy

yarimo:
Nigerians are happy to have TINUBU as president

one day the evil that you keep supporting would swallow you and your loved ones. My only concern is that I hope you'll be able to come here and still publicly support him. Spits.

Mpanyi:
You're disrespectful to the blind. Obviously you are not intelligent

na these small small margins most guys dey always miss with women. I didn't even take the time to go through all of her posts sef. But whatever works for her

MisterKennedy:
I know you said no guy should send you any unsolicited messages, but I honestly love your honesty. You really took out time to explain all the features you want and admire in a man... That's cool... My curiosity drove me to check out your profile and I can tell that, not only are you a very beautiful woman, you are also a very intelligent woman. And I see it in the way you chat too. Your flow of chat and sentence structure and grammar is so on point and off the charts. If wishes were horses right now, I'd love to ask you for your number so that we could be communicating off Nairaland. You are the kind of lady I honestly want to make my friend. Would you please give me your number? Or can I give you mine instead please?

ChristCee:
I brought in the only thing people like you would understand. Yo mama

bro you need psychiatric treatment.

Goldrosewine:
No one in this world is perfect. No one is an ideal machine. And that's what makes us human and unique💯💯🔥

Not exactly the response I was anticipating, but I'll take it. Makes plenty sense. In other words, you could be with a man that doesn't have all the features listed by you.

Goldrosewine:
I am indifferent about complexion, I have no preference.

All right. I check all boxes but I'm not a public speaker though

ghettochild:
WhatsApp me send you the Facebook link of this testimonies

God bless you man. I'll text you now.

ChristCee:
Imagine they talk about your mom's jugs like this

the girl na your mama?

ChristCee:
Imagine they talk about your mom's jugs like this

yo go Sabi do eye service. The way I dey see you

ChristCee:
Imagine they talk about your mom's jugs like this

this one cries more than the bereaved.

Goldrosewine:
This does not imply sexual interests, abeg o just bored today on this holiday and I have decided to rant here, since I saw a similar post recently about a guy saying confidence is what a lady cannot resist in a man. I won't appreciate any unsolicited messages🙏

Dentition: Gap teeth (you know what I mean, especially a small one right between the central incisors) or just between the lateral incisor and canine)

Thick wrist (not fats deposit, just wrists with a wide circumference)

Minimal or no bodily hairs. Yeah a lot will hate me for this, just my opinion which may change or not. But those beards, chest or armpit hairs? Taah!

Height. However you must not be too tall. I am 5:9 so anything from 5:6 to 5:11 is perfect.

Modesty and awesomeness (not extreme masculinity) I am not a feminist abeg. I like guys that are gentle, pull the chair for you at the restaurant, hold an umbrella for you, hold the door open for you, just being a gentleman. Absolute modesty and simple too. Not a show off dude haha!

Healthy lifestyle. There is nothing I dislike more than a guy who smokes or drinks or do both. I don't just dislike them, I h-word them. Take your good health seriously guys, go for rehab if you need to.

Small inner circle. Guys with few or no friends. The introvert who enjoys his own company.

Respectful. The guy that still prostrate to greet his dad at 30 years, still run errands for his mom at 35 (not necessarily because he is living with them, but maybe sometimes when he visits or when they give him an emergency call) that level of respect is the norm for every omoluabi.

Not bald. As much as I dislike body hairs, e no reach head abeg🤣

Belly fat. (Not pot belly) I love belly fat in a man, especially the type that gives him the wealthy boy vibe when he's in a native. I don't know but in Benin republic, I once saw this muscular, six pack guy that bullied people and he had an altercation with this gentle guy who looks ordinary, he even had a fatty belly. Against what people thought, it was the muscular guy that needed saving o, see blue black beating. Lol. It kind of left an impression on me.

Speech intelligence. Even if you no know book, just have good oratory skills and be eloquent. I would like to see my man on a podium speaking with great eloquence while I sit in the crowd or assembly just admiring him and looking at how other ladies are admiring him😊🥰🥰🥰 aiish

Phobia. Scared of snakes or rats or spiders or cocroaches lol even my cousin would tell me I will never find this trait in a Nigerian man. But I am not scared of those things. So I would really like a guy that has such fears, that way I would be able to do something for him and it would make me feel good🤦🙈 it's hard to explain honestly.🥲🥲


Ambitious. he dreams big, not jealous of success, just envying it and ambitious to reach the top too.

Laughs a lot. That would be golden!

He cries. Like, weep Take this from me. If you ever express your sadness in tears while in your girl's arm, it does something to her heart... she'd start clutching to you so hard. Don't be manly all the time. Sometimes, just let the feelings flow. Life is already hard for everyone, talkless a man.🥺 I feel u guys.

Straight legs No vex but I dislike wobbly legs... and many guys have come to have a sort of disfigured legs due to bad walking posture, trying to copy one silly trend or so, etc.

Gentle with kids and pets That would be another golden trait!

Extremely decent with words and actions when in public The way he eats, talks, interact, just everything. Especially in Nigeria where people judge you by your countenance and how you 'carry' yourself.

You know the sort of guys that gleefully talk about women's body parts in public? That's so uncouth and all ladies detest such.

Gold🌹🍷

You like dark skinned dudes?

ghettochild:
Check a veterinary pharmacy or normal pharmacy

thanks bro.