₦airaland Forum

Thelma001:
You made an argument based on your perspective, you view, your ideology, your mentality. And I told you to work on that perspective of yours, that mentality of yours that’s making you think and write what you wrote there, because with this mentality you’re having, you won’t take any lady serious.

why should he? Na person wey he hand never dey burnt by fire go carry himself shook he hand inside fire.

Thelma001:
I pity the woman loving you atm. With this your mentality, dating you will be headache. You really have a long way to go on working on yourself, your perspectives and your mentality. I hope you be better.

Lmao. Una dey love?

essentialone:
The following are some of lies that some vvomen have sold over time and how they keep gaslighting men till date. Unfortunately , so many men have eaten and digested these lies and tried to morph themselves into who they're not, just to please vvomen.

1. You're in$€cure.
2. Spoil your vvoman to the level that she can't be easily enticed by other men
3. Elevate your vvoman because that's the true evidence of your wealth
4. If you make a vvoman happy, she'll submit naturally
5. VVomen are polygamous in nature
6. Since God can forgive her, why can't you, a mere mortal, forgive her too.
7. Elevate your vvoman because her prayers will open doors for you
8. You should not concern yourself with why she's still seeing her ex, your focus should be on proving to her that you're worthy of her leaving her ex for you.
9. You're difficult,rigid,strict, I pity your vvife.
10. Who hurt you ?
11. I respect a man who can heal a heart he didn't break and raise childr€n he didn't make.
12. A father is not necessarily the man responsible for bringing a chīld into the world but the one who stepped up when the real father could not.
13. No real man cares about DNA test only in$€cure men.
14. Are you about to walk out of the life of the çhīldrēŋ that have always known you as their dad just because you find out they're not yours?
15. No vvoman is a gold digger, no vvoman is expensive, just date the one you can afford.
16. VVomen bring good fortune. They are good luck charms.
17. It's your vvife's prayers that are keeping you safe.......for this one I have a question, did she meet you a d€@d man?
18. I don't like answering too much calls
19. A man who knows what he wants will never miss out on a good vvoman simply because she has 3 çhīldrēñ for 3 different men.
20. If she çhēãts on you, it's your fault. If she leaves you for another man, blame yourself. No vvoman leaves where she is loved, adored and taken care of.

I'm yet to see a vvoman describe what a real vvomen do since they're so good at analysing men and determining whether or not he is real, secure or not.

Notice how everything boils down to absorbing vvomen of accountability and making sure that vvomen benefit all round.

If you just take any woman without proper background check and mental assessments, you won’t see the mouth to cry with.

you don Sabi these clowns them wella.

Lovelink1991:
A Nigeria pastor has taken single ladies who are searching for husbands to forest to pray by invoking their names.

Watch via this YouTube link below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pq6N_0y7lAc

They don't need a husband. Why are they praying please?

Livegamesonly:
That is one reason why i hate the Fibre X, and went for the Airtel ODU. The main reason i hate the fibre x is not because of its network speed, the speed is actually good, but because of the fact that the wires are visible in the street and are prone to cutting. Anytime there is a heavy rain or breeze, it will cut and fixing it can take days. The wires should have been passed underground. I dont blame MTN, i blame lack of physical planning by the govt

please which one is Airtel odu and is it fast and reliable like 5g or starlink

SQLmastar:
Please house, I need mature advice. This matter is tearing me apart.

I met this lady (a doctor)
4 months ago. I'm 35, she is 31.
She told me she was a virgin and I believed her because of how she carried herself. I was very happy and rushed everything – introduction, engagement, and marriage plans (I promised my mum that I would get married before December 2026). We were supposed to do our traditional marriage in one week’s time.

Last week, I received an anonymous WhatsApp message. The person sent pregnancy test results showing that my fiancée was pregnant for her ex-boyfriend during her 1-year residency. She had told me about this ex, but said they never had sex, and that was why they broke up.
I confronted her with the message. At first, she denied it and said it was fake, someone trying to spoil her name. But when I said I would call her best friend to confirm, she broke down and confessed the truth.
She admitted she got pregnant for the ex, aborted it immediately, and promised herself never to have premarital sex again. She said she was ashamed and didn’t want to lose me, so she lied about being a virgin.
Now I’m confused and heartbroken. I love her but the lies are too much.
On the other hand, I have already invited many people – including the chief of my village and my manager at work. Cancelling now will bring serious shame and talk in my village and workplace.

Please Nairalanders, what should I do? Should I go ahead with the marriage or cancel everything? Has anyone been in this kind of situation?

I need honest advice.

if you know what's good for you, you'll drop her like it's hot. Damn all the money you've spent.

freakyavia:
toor even prefucked women have choices issok

e just dey funny. Na cause men no get standard na. No be their fault.

Nice2023:
AS A a WOMAN, HERE ARE 10 MEN YOU MUST NEVER MARRY:

1. A mummy’s boy.

2. A Yahoo boy.

3. A man who is more than 7 years older than you.

4. A man who has been divorced at least twice.

5. A man who demands 50/50 in finances but refuses 50/50 in chores.

6. A man who wants you to get pregnant before he marries you.

7. A man who supports APC, this present government.

8. A man who despises his mother, no matter how evil she is.

9. A man who has no voice of his own and constantly seeks validation from others.

10. A man who has no space of his own and still lives under his parents’ roof.

Above all, love God.

lol. This is funny.

HacheNoire:
Super couple!

Husband and wife are brain boxes!

Why prospective men need to be VERY selective. If she is not financially stable, MAKE SURE she is brilliant!

small small with foolishness. I hope when you see finally hit by the bandits you'll continue to lick the scrotum of your lord

Racoon:
https://punchng.com/i-served-when-senate-was-at-its-best-oluremi-tinubu/#google_vignette

e no go beta for this useless woman.

Soukiss:
Me that just paid my bride price last week

happy marriage

kiddaz:
Again most of you fail to understand that getting married isn't the issue. Staying married is. Look around. People hardly stay married these days

no mind them with their herd mentality

BarrElChapo:
No long stories.

na slaves these ones dey find.

szczescie:
I no wan marry now I go wait till 40 when I done cross 100,000,000 naira networth then I go marry 1 Filipina, 1 Indian, 1 Nigerian and 1 European making it 4 wives na me go enjoy pass all of Una wey rush marry in poverty where even the 1 woman you marry no get respect or regard for you due to your poverty and by that time na the latest me go marry all this girl go done Become old cargo in 10 years time

just imagine that kind foolish life

Raymondfayowole:
What are you expecting to see in a marriage registry before? A birthday celebration?

The post is about the frequency amd the reason for the drop.

most of these ones are blank.

szczescie:
Wouldn’t it be a good thing to have less touts, less corrupt politicians, less hungry people, less extremely poor and desperate people.
Having a big population isn’t a good thing especially when you cannot and do not take care of them

I swear. Everywhere you look you see kids everywhere loitering about. Nobody to caution them nowadays. Very irritating sighy

Stephen0mozzy:
The realities of the time requires that marriage be a partnership.

The model of marriage y'all still insist on for men is one where Women were more or less just home makers - give birth to children, manage the house, assist in the farm work, birth many children that will also assist in the farm work as they age.

Today, women are much more ambitious and career driven, which is a beautiful thing and men are not requiring them to just sit at home, birth children or assist in farm work (nobody wants a burden - men and women alike) - so it also should be reasonable that women assist in a new way - don't bash men who take time to settle down with someone who can AUGMENT their efforts when there are so many women who just want to be TAKEN CARE OF JUST FOR BEING A WOMAN.

leave that muntu. You get time dey explain give am.

Fiscus105:
You guys cannot feed your mouth, let alone family, and instead to accept reality, you would be jumping from one social media to another, shouting women are surplus, women are wicked, marriage not favour man, blablablah.
What an irreplaceable way to defend oneself!

A responsible man comes to this world not only to be successful in, career wise but maritally. If you are now running from stress the family pressure might bring, where is responsiblity in you?

lmao. Who's this 🤡? Why taking it personal though? Oga get off my mention. I didn't quote neither you nor your sisters.

SmartPolician:
This man hasn't changed one bit. 11 years later, he hasn't learnt to make a decision and stand by it. It's a few months to election and you want to consult widely! SMH

he's very frustrating and annoying to watch. Make e go siddon one place. Very docile president.

Stanna2025:
I don't think anyone would vote for him after allowing the inept Buhari to ruin this country

don't mind him. I wonder what he's coming back to do. When we needed him most, he failed us

Kukutente23:
This is wrong on all fronts
Being a sitting president doesn't make him above the law
He should set a good example by submitting himself to due process
Man goes about as if he's too big or too good for the country

what did you expect from a party filled with thieves and crooks

Make these two old hags go rest their toetoe for one place

weezydee:
Can you drop the procedure on how to open the Outlier?

lmao. You must be seriously naive if you think they dropped it here out of sheer goodwill. Ofcourse it'll cost you to get any substantial info. Don't get your hopes up.

dayabiuuku:
You this one











How many people see food chop to talk of marry woman?

apart from that, men don dey wise. We don dey tire of women shenanigans. Nobody wants extra stress for their lives.

Saturnalia:
No, it is not a crime. Even Mary Magdalene was very fond of wearing G-String.

Christians and their mumu Hypocritical ways.

That was how one of their G.Os said watching Television was Satanic. 20 years later, the assshole changed the law, saying Television can be used for spreading the gospel.

That wasn’t all.

Ladies are not allowed to visit the Men they intend to marry during courtship. Can you just imagine?

How would the lady know that her husband-to-be is not a dirty pig or a ritualist if she doesn’t visit him unannounced ?

Abi how would I as the Man supposed to know I am sexually compatible with her if I do not testrun her with wheelbarrow style?

Anyways, Na dem sabi!

hope you're not a head slammer? Cause those brainwashed things are far worse than Christians.