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silibaba:
I thought there's this school of thought that say is not good to lay your hand on a woman. I piss on such men with that idea.

You married a girl from the street, and they tell you is not good to lay a finger on your wife same woman the father tire to beat while still living under his roof. Same woman the elder brother gave several uppercut before she got married. E reach your turn they say is abnormal to lay a finger on her

That is why you are the bridegroom and she is the bride.

Bridegroom mean you have to groom the bride and if beating is necessary to groom her you have to apply it on her to suit your taste and standard.

I rest my case.

Let me run before those weak men that always leave their own home they paid rent to their wife and end up in beer parlour to avoid beating their wife. So if your wife pick up a quarrel with you 5 times a day, you will wear your shirt and go to beer parlour 5 times a day?

Go and ask how her ex dey use belt flog the living he'll outta her while they were still dating and till present, she keep telling her friend she loves her ex more than you. E reach your turn you dey form jack and rose [titanic love]


There is always peace in a home where the woman loves the man rather than the man loving the woman.

Even Dino Malaye threathen to beat Remi Tinubu while serving as a senator.

lmao. Na before I dey believe all that kind nonsense. Women need discipline. You need to discipline her when she messes up. I pity the woke men. Dem go get sense by force.

Dybala11:
Initially, I thought you had a point. But reading to the end your opinion was riddled with bitterness and nothing more. To start with, who told you that it's only men that should contribute to development and making inventions??
The problem with prostitution rests on both parties. If the men pipes down a little, it will affect the business. Likewise the women, if they pipe down on it, it will also affect that business. It's a two-way thing for God's sake, or you want to say that the prostitutes are victims in this particular case??

leave that one. Ignorance won kpai am.

chatinent:
Have you ever sent money to someone about ₦100k (maybe small to you, but not to me) to assist them in sth and they totally ignore you maybe because they feel the sum wasn't worth their expectations?

Then you call in couple of days later to ask about their welfare and check if they'd mention it and they didn't?

You called sometime later and talked about it and the animal says "oh, I saw it. You try."

Omo. You deserve am. You don gift your fellow man like that?

DickenClarq:
Lols.

And here am I buying stuffs and gifts for my man he will not only refuse but get angry.

His last birthday I bought him a Fairly use PS5, because I didn't have enough to get him a new one that period.
He gave it out to his cousin and told me never to get him any gift again. That he is a man and I am his own responsibility to take care of,
not the other way round

MEN and their yeh yeh EGO eeehhh.

I wish I can screenshot some of the response here and send to him so that he can see how some men have never gotten
even a tooth pick from their wife or girlfriend.



May God help us

no vex but na akpamu you dey date.

Marvieduke:
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the guy na fool. He just returned stolen money.

LocalBuka:
I'll start.

Pizza.

Before you people attack me, I like it o

But sometimes the way people talk about pizza will make you think each slice comes with salvation.

It's just fancy bread with toppings doing shakara.

Meanwhile one good plate of rice and stew will satisfy you and you won't even spend so much.

Anyways, I understand that every popular food has people that will overhype it.

So which food do you think is overrated but people are not ready for that conversation?

Let's hear it.

Please don't bite me😂

shawarma and pizza is overrated rubbish.

Julibet:
A prime example of why men feel lonely even in marriage. Most females are naturally selfish. I just hope you don't raise your daughters this way.

too late. She's already doing that.

Dpsychologist:
When it's her birthday you are to spend on her. When it's your birthday, she will be asking you what do you have for her or where are you taking her to.

Most naija females are sick. But they don't know it yet.

helinues:
The solution which late Aketi made use of, I suggested it, rejecting anything Ighoho's involvement, I championed it. if na bragging, so be it as I have a thread to back it up

my belle. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

helinues:
You can't even win any arguments against me as we are not in the same level. Your likes should be listening if I am talking.

Where were you people during the End sars and Igboho interfering in Ondo herdsmen crisis? I know the role which I played that saved SW, those are just one of the references.

So listen whenever I am talking

this one is confidently delusional. See as person calm down dey spew trash with confidence. Smh. Btw it's "on" not in the same level. Delulu

AccidentedCars:
You will find love without money, but only when you're a boy. When you become a man, that grace is taken from you.

There's a level of affection you will NEVER experience, even from good women, if you can't afford a basic, livable income.

I am not even referring to sending money in its monetary form. I mean just the things that make life easier to go through.

My partner had a job interview in another city last year. Not a local thing – a real opportunity, the kind that could shift her career.

The interview was at 9 AM on a Monday.

She told me about it on Thursday evening.

By Friday morning, I had booked her a bus ticket for Sunday, reserved a decent hotel room near the venue so she wouldn't be scrambling on Monday morning, and sent her money for a new blouse because the one she planned to wear had a pulled thread she hadn't noticed.

She did her prep on Saturday. I sat on a video call with her for nearly 3 hours while she practiced her answers. Not because she asked – because I knew she was nervous and wouldn't say it.

Sunday evening she got to the city. She called me from the hotel room.

"Babe, it's clean. There's hot water. I feel like a human being."

That sentence hit me differently.

"I feel like a human being."

The bus ticket, the hotel, the blouse – maybe ₦85,000 total. Not a fortune. But it was the difference between her showing up stressed, underprepared, and exhausted from an overnight bus… and showing up rested, sharp, and confident.

She got the role.

This isn't a one-off. This is just what being present looks like when you can afford to be.

I keep a stocked kitchen whenever she's around. Not fancy things – eggs, bread, rice, the basics. But ALWAYS stocked. Because "there's nothing at home" is a sentence I don't allow in my house.

I handle data and subscriptions without being asked. Netflix, the Wi-Fi router, her Spotify. Small things. Maybe ₦15,000 a month combined. But she never has to think about them. That's the point.

I can't stand the heat. I physically cannot function when it's 35 degrees inside. So if I can't take it, how can I let her sit in it? That's fuel money. Every single day when there's no grid power. 5 to 7 litres. Daily. Especially when she's staying over.

We don't do "let's manage." We don't trek to places. It's always a cab or a keke at minimum.

That's not luxury. That's what I consider basic.

Add it up over a year:

Fuel for the generator. Transport every weekend. Groceries restocked every week. Subscriptions renewed every month. Random needs – a drug she needs at midnight, airtime when her line runs out during something important, data when she's on deadline.

That sums up to well over 2 million naira each year. And I'm not talking about MONEY sent as money. I am just referring to basic convenience.

The things that make a woman feel like she's with someone who has capacity. Not wealth. CAPACITY.

Your best bet as a young man is waiting until you're certain that love is ALREADY present before following through with generosity.

So yes, you can find love without money.

But there's a level of love you cannot preserve without financial stability, not because your partner is a bad girl, but simply because this is the fucking planet, and the nuances that make life beautiful, or at least livable, are expensive.

In summary, you'll find love without money as I did all through the years when I was a boy.

That grace is removed when you become a man.

Upon all these grammar? Omo. I feel sorry for you already. I hope you don't get to regret everything you're doing for her one day.

spiceadole:
If as a single lady, you are allowing a man who is not your husband to sleep with you, you will bear the consequences of all your waywardness alone.
The smart ones will insist on condoms.
The ones with little sense left will end the relationship after one abortion.
But fools will stay back and continue getting pregnant and aborting until nothing is left in their self esteem.
Of course, the guy man will dump them.

When some of us frown at premarital sex,they will say we are pretenders,we are old school..we don't have sex skills,we are not testing sexual compatibility,etc
All are lies that people manufacture just to justify immorality.
Men will mess you up wetin no good if you don't learn to close your legs and stop rubbishing yourself.

will they listen?

OlaOfLagos:
098 WhatsApp

thanks Gee. I go buzz you asap.

OlaOfLagos:
(PAYG) Pay As You Go

Money for hand, back for ground 😎

You gerrittt??

make I get your contact ski

OlaOfLagos:
(PAYG) Pay As You Go

Money for hand, back for ground 😎

You gerrittt??

I get you jare. You dey lag ba. You fit link me with one of your black busty babes?

OlaOfLagos:
Relationship nowadays is all about competition and the highest bidder. “May the best man win”

As for me, i don wash my hand comot anything relationship…

my Gee. How you take dey exercise your penis?

Nonsense. Shey make we come fry shit abi wetin?

olioxx:
I will say mine is more of realizations.

To buttress your points:
6. If you are attracted to a lady, give her your contact details(mobile or whatsapp), if she rate you, she will reach out, if she doesn't, you can easily forget about her.
7. Never be attracted to a lady that doesn't work to earn a living, that doesn't understand the value of money, and for the first 90 days of any relationship let her know that you are not freaked by sex, apply all this you have conquered 90% of subtle and frontal manipulation.
8. Never play with your finances when it comes to a lady, they wont remember your financial helps.
9. From the start of every relationship, list out what you expect, what you want, what you like and dislike, all the terms and conditions of the relationship, list it out, that way no one will be unduly invested, if it wont work, you will know from the get go.
10. Every woman that love you will test you, control your mouth and your emotions, master the art of solitude, keep little to no friends, smile a lot but keep your cards to your chest and trust me, every woman that crosses your path, will fear and respect you.

Drops pen




Yeah we can reach out via Session app - my ID is 05e30de07dd2ed9e74ac4b4e3602064d9495688615a41196134c5bd12f2d21d054

thanks man. But I don't know much about the app. Is it one I need to download on playstore? Lemme get to it swiftly.

olioxx:
I will say mine is more of realizations.

To buttress your points:
6. If you are attracted to a lady, give her your contact details(mobile or whatsapp), if she rate you, she will reach out, if she doesn't, you can easily forget about her.
7. Never be attracted to a lady that doesn't work to earn a living, that doesn't understand the value of money, and for the first 90 days of any relationship let her know that you are not freaked by sex, apply all this you have conquered 90% of subtle and frontal manipulation.
8. Never play with your finances when it comes to a lady, they wont remember your financial helps.
9. From the start of every relationship, list out what you expect, what you want, what you like and dislike, all the terms and conditions of the relationship, list it out, that way no one will be unduly invested, if it wont work, you will know from the get go.
10. Every woman that love you will test you, control your mouth and your emotions, master the art of solitude, keep little to no friends, smile a lot but keep your cards to your chest and trust me, every woman that crosses your path, will fear and respect you.

Drops pen

this is beautiful. I would love to engage you in a conversation outside this forum if that's fine by you sir.

Afrah04:
Can't even get annoyed, ur funny and weird, enjoy your self

lmao. I'd take that as a compliment. Enjoy yourself as well

Afrah04:
Never thought about it that way, tnks for the encouragement tho😌

you're welcome.

Smitaro100:
No worry mk bandit hold you, you go understand why you need protect yourself, na person wey never experience the cruelty of bandit or wey e never reach their community dey yarn dis kind thing.. just pray you don't experience it because if you survive am na assault riffle you go find.

no mind the guy. They talk in the rubbish.

Afrah04:
I won't engage you further fool, go and find what to soapy to, not the description of my body...

Well that went well. 😂🤣 you cant blame me for trying though.

Afrah04:
It's complicated, we're caught in the middle, admiring and trying not to look desperate....omor it's a hard state to be in.

I understand but see ehn , most guys don't even care about all of that. We just need the women to show interest, only a douche bag would think a woman is cheap simply because she makes it easy for him.

Do away with that thought. It's 2026. Unless you perceived that the guy is that proud, callous type of person. Ladies should be more assertive.

Women! I have one like that in my compound. She likes me but she would find it hard to greet. Very proud. But I always catch her stealing a glance my way. Why do you women like to make everything complicated?

Afrah04:
We say hello, and he often likes to reach for a handshake; I just act like I don't care most times😌

I just ignore her cause I no get time. I'm looking for money as it is.

ngmgeek:
You're confused, delusional or have a low self esteem 🙃 Self control is highly recommended here 👌

make Una leave the lady to express herself na. Nawa o. It's a breath of fresh air

Afrah04:
No but I have a big ass, what is it?

oh God...okay. Are you dark skinned? Plus do you have tiger stripes on that ass? (Very important)

LOVEGINO:
Airtel smart bundle 1k 6g for 7days.

for where you see that one? Abeg what's the code?

Afrah04:
Who you dey find?

do you have big boobs?

Who be this one again?