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Hismercy234:
Sincerely people who marry single parent - whether Mom or dad, her mind. They deserve award. Imagine the courage to see problem and face it still.

na love. but trust experience to clear the yeye love from their mind.

GanagiBitrus:
Most likely Carbon Monoxide from generator fumes.

BTW, it will surprise you that some persons around their cycle wil be inwardly happy about this tragedy. Such is the wickedness of man's heart.

for real. The family looks well to do to some extent. They seemed to be doing fine financially

VeraAg:
Lol. I am asking a question from what I observed. My friend is the half caste one and she is not following the rules that the rest of us follow. I am not necessarily attacking anyone, just asking questions is all.

You didn’t even answer the question sef.

oh sorry. I didn't even read. I just breezed through. 😂 I see your posts are mostly about men preferences concerning light skinned and dark skinned. First off ,, are you dark skinned or light skinned and what ever prompted the topic?


To answer your question, to compare yourself with another would be the sabotaging yourself on the long run. The fact that you feel based on the perception she's fed you that she's at an advantage is very wrong. Good girl dey pay. If you toll that path, there's no guarantee that you'll receive a similar reward. For now it may look like she's winning, over 30 today counts? Lol. Trust me, she'll get the repercussions sooner rather than later.


Live your life in a way that you're at peace with your soul and your inner man. If you want to do copy copy, you might regret it. Find yourself a man who values you, and believes in you. Trust me it's not hard to find.


The problem with you females is your olojukokoro, you always feel like you deserve way better even when you know you're lacking seriously. There are a lot of men who don't cheat, and would wife you only if you calm down and observe. I'm sure there are more than enough flooding your DMS now. But you guys always go for comfort first, or your feelings even when the guy doesn't seem to be that into you.

Ladies need to do better.

VeraAg:
When I hear about this stupid body count rule it’s usually saying that “we need women to have a body count of 0-3, everyone else is considered to be an olosho.” Oh really? Oh really??


Well during the Christmas holiday in Abuja, I reconnected with some of my friends growing up and on of them was a biracial girl. I have heard girls whisper about a different one being very promiscuous back in school and not held to the same standard as everyone else. All the Nigerian guys in school wanted to try her and she wanted to. It was judged at first, but the guys started to take their turns with her and it was only the fully black girls that were left judging her.

Now for my biracial friend, this is when I learnt that good girl truly no dey pay. She is 22 years old but told me her body count is 30! She isn’t a runz girl or into the hookup business. She is simply sleeping with as many men as she likes, and she has a huge entitlement attitude to accompany that.

Yet the serious boyfriends she gets back to back ehn? She is the one that doesn’t want to settle until she is in her late twenties. All the guys want to try her, and she wants to equally fun and isn’t stopping anytime soon.

I’m very sure she is getting herself a good husband, probably one that knows her past because the way men simp for her even when she says it with her full chest how much experience she has had, it will shock any black girl. She has a queue of men who want to take her seriously yet I’m seeing normal black girls of darker skin get called the worst names nonstop for even loosing their virginity before marriage.

They can’t have an entitlement mindset and will most likely do the emotional labor and everything else when and if they get married.

I’m glad that some black women are realizing before marriage that what Nigerian men say is bogus. And I bet you this biracial woman isn’t going to end up single and alone. Black men what do you have to say about this

😂😂😂 did you have to add "this Biracial" to prove your point? Sorry to burst your bubbles, a lot of men do not give a bleep about you and your ilk. I for one couldn't give a hoot if you're half caste or light skinned.

Anyway, there are also foolish men who would still end up with women with skewed logic such as yours.

Jakumo:
Wole "Kongi" Soyinka, an African Lion in the Winter, whose storied life straddles the nebulous demarcation between mythology and history.

Over 90 yet still in robust health thanks to a lifetime hiking rainforests and savannas alongside fellow hunters and barefoot philosophers.

Wole Soyinka, a prolific literary icon for the generations in Africa, and far beyond her tumultuous shores where the sea meets the sand.

I was privileged to have crossed paths with this physical and intellectual giant once, many moons ago, when he pulled up at the wheel of an olive-drab Jeep and poured fourth traditional libation to mark the denouement of a chronicle not unlike his own.

how do you write like this?

Satazaa:
I am somehow dumbfounded about the latest object of bashing nowadays aka single mom's, they get ridiculed, abused and blanket condemned without people knowing thier unique stories on they fell into being single moms, some became so by falling for men who are terrible and phisically abusive, alcohol addicts, betting addicts, armed robbers, outright bone lazy men who dont work while thier wives farm etc are so called husbands too to this women that we are foolishly heaping abuses on, so if you don't thier stories yall should shut the Bleep up and go get a job

see this one. don't worry. Go and date one, nobody go tell you.

Johnkay01:
Boss don post
I doff my hat

If I had practically follow your advice then I will not be in this dungeon.

I read most of your posts in reality every guy must know thread but i did not allow it to sink in to my head now I'm in shit that I can't undo for life.

My own is I be Captain save the hoe

chai. We've all been there. Sorry about the ordeal. Abeg share your experience for other youngings to learn from it. We need to help other men make better decisions.

Kelvin247Gold:
There are some single mothers that are not common, if you meet them once, your life has changed for better for ever. They're not after your money or anything. All they want is to have someone to protect them, be their companion and be there for them whenever she needs his attention. Some of them became single mothers cos of the demise of their husbands. Some fell victim of being a single mother while some are real single mothers (I won't say much about this one). The one I met has money. I mean money. She has her house, she has her business, we're childhood friend. So, if you jam a person like this, your life has changed forever. And when they love you like this, you don enter am. They will love you will there whole heart. This is not a mere say, I've witnessed it

😂

PUNANI01:
It will come like a gbim sound for their heart! I fear single mum; or anything that had given birth and ain't with her husband.

Some guys no won gree get sense. They want to still shuuk head there because of free pussy. Forgetting that awuuf dey purge belle

happney65:
Wetin concern me with single mother except to give her epon..

ehn. Wise man.

GloriousGbola:
most of this long rambling epistle applies to wives as well. once your wife has your children, they will take priority over you. just as your mother gave you priority over your father.

Oya go marry or date single mom then come back and testify please.

sweerychick:
If not for copy and paste, I would have bet my last breath you are talking outta experience, maybe I'm right.

[b]There's nothing wrong dating a single mom, the bottom factor here is love, single moms ain't looking for fun, they are looking for real love, they're mature not ready for stories or waste their time with Fuuckboys. [/b]When she loves you all those things you wrote up there would be secondary, and yes they want you to love their child they way you claim to love them. It's a choice of responsibility when you date and marry a single mom.

This is the first good joke I'll be hearing this year. ROTFL. And who are the five people liking this post? 🤣🤣 Bag of hogwash. Single moms looking for love? If I haven't been there, I would have believed this sheeet.

brain54:
Honestly I never knew blacks used to have freckles...

Until I saw oliseh's. I don't think I have ever seen it on any other black person!

Lmao. A lot of them have it too. My cousin has it. A female for that matter. Her own plenty die.

Authoreety:
Dat Chelle pix be like who dey draw the last blunt for weed

you be heeediiyiot olohun 😂😂🤣

vybzkartel:
You have dated a woman for three months
Then in a conversation you ask her: "what is your biggest weakness?"

And she says:

"Fighting against sexual lust'"

1. How will you interpret it?
2. Will her answer make you reconsider marrying her?
3. How serious is that fact that a woman's weakness is in fighting sexual lust?

you're still asking funny questions. 😂😂😂

Dem go hear word? Dem go still chuuk head because of supposed "free pussy" dem go learn Sha.

Keepamsafe:
Hello my Nairaland Folks and Pals. Im writing this with so much hurt and pain in my heart. Another girl I just met says she prefers we just be friends because she has a guy in her life but she wouldn’t mind coming around still.

Even the ones that says they don’t have a man, still rejects my advances of a relationship, rather still come to give me the cookie jar.

If I was younger, would be fun. But, at this age, I want real connection. Im not rich, but Im trying. I have some good days and bad. But, I believe I can take care of a serious partner. Its sad always getting tossed aside when you feel you have what it takes to be the main boyfriend.

Is there anyone else going through this? Is there anyway to change my status? I need help and advice pls
Pansophist


help for wider opinion please

is that your only problem in life?

Dpsychologist:
That aspect where you said u start not the gain anything from it is really touching.

as much as some would like to disagree. It's the plain truth. She won't be there for you emotionally, neither is she gonna be there for you financially. If it's the sex, you're both enjoying it. So what's their to gain? Worse thing is their manipulative nature. They would gaslight you to stupor.

Some single moms on NL won't like this, but they know it's the truth. You stand to gain nothing. Only misery, waste of your time and resources on an ungrateful fellow.

Yes oh. If anyone told me I'd despise single moms like this last two years, I would have disagreed

Dpsychologist:
Lol experience they say is the best teacher.

Stephen0mozzy:
So because you wan be hard man, you no go take care of the woman wey born your children? You no go equip the woman wey go fit carry the responsibility of making sure your children have the best of life if anything happens to you?

Na una get problem with woman and wives, me no get. E no get who me love reach all the women in my life.
If bad behaviour naim be the learning, i nor wan learn.

Okay na. Open yourself up to your wife. You think say the women of today are the same with our mother's? No sha say dem no warn you. Prioritize yourself and your kid. No prioritize any woman. If you like call me hard man. It's the bitter truth. Only your mum deserves that kind of priority. Your wife no go prioritize you like that.

Sonnobax15:
. Single mothers are a red flags,tho not all of them..

Reminds me of one single mother I nearly loved some years ago......as we were vibing,it was then she opened up that she was a single mom....Right there,my mood changed and it was very obvious before her very eyes....After that day,I never for once called her again not texted her.....Tho she wanted us to confirm but I'm not used to wasting anyone's time......when I say I'm done,I mean it.....

that's just it. Stay away from them. Not even for sexing. They are heartless and extremely selfish. They are not good for anything even for friendship. And I don't mean this in a bad way. Cause you stand to lose everything while gaining nothing from such a relationship.

Antichristian2:
Jesus Christ lived on earth for approximately 33 years, with about three years dedicated to his public ministry. The religion founded on his teachings was later called Christianity, named after Christ. However, Jesus did not explicitly settle many creedal matters before his death. Even Paul, who was allegedly commissioned by Jesus despite not meeting him during his earthly life, did not resolve these doctrinal issues. As a result, early church councils were convened to address and clarify these important creedal questions.

Definition of a Council
A council is a formal assembly of church leaders and theologians convened to discuss, debate, and decide on important doctrinal, theological, or disciplinary issues within Christianity.

Why Was It Needed?
Councils were needed to address emerging heresies, clarify Christian doctrine, and maintain unity in belief and practice as Christianity spread and diversified.

Why Not Just Follow Jesus’s Teachings Directly?
-Jesus did not provide detailed systematic theology or resolve all interpretive disputes.
-As the church grew, differing interpretations arose, requiring authoritative decisions.
-Councils provided a collective, guided consensus to preserve orthodox faith and resolve controversies, especially on core creedal matters.

1. Council of Nicaea (325 AD)
Defined the divinity of Jesus Christ, affirming He is "of the same substance" (homoousios) with the Father.
Produced the original Nicene Creed.

2. Council of Constantinople (381 AD)
Expanded the Nicene Creed, affirming the divinity of the Holy Spirit.
Reaffirmed the Trinity doctrine.

3. Council of Ephesus (431 AD)
Affirmed Mary as Theotokos ("God-bearer" or Mother of God).
Condemned Nestorianism (which separated Christ’s divine and human persons).

4. Council of Chalcedon (451 AD)
Defined the doctrine of the Hypostatic Union: Jesus Christ is one person in two natures, fully divine and fully human, without confusion or separation.

5. Second Council of Constantinople (553 AD)
Reaffirmed Chalcedon and condemned certain writings seen as Nestorian.

6. Third Council of Constantinople (680-681 AD)
Condemned Monothelitism, affirming Christ has two wills (divine and human).

7. Second Council of Nicaea (787 AD)
Restored the veneration of icons, condemning iconoclasm.

Why debate on all these if Jesus and Paul did clarify them in the Bible?

my guy go and check out the thread I created for our Muslim brothers and sisters

Axis313:
How can you recite Qur'an 700 a day?
Continue lying to your soul.

are you trying to say I'm not a true Muslim?

Stephen0mozzy:
Be like you no get family wey you love o. Who women help. My hustle na to make Mumsee and my siblings enjoy the best of life.

Then priority goes to wifey and kids once them come

you Neva still learn

Just like my single mother ex. She no fit ever love anybody other than herself and child. Very heartless being. I hope she gets what she deserves some day. I also appreciate her for opening my eyes. That I'm very grateful for. Amina. Shout out you.

Lalami3232:
And you beat her? Anyways, I no really get much to say than to encourage una to marry all these girls wey una don damage emotionally, financially, physically and sexually. I refuse to inherit another man's leftover. Some of una wey go like this comment married non-virgins, others dey date non-virgins and una dey like the comment. Isn't that hypocrisy? If majority of una know the number of preeq wey don enter una partners because una inherit am, una for decide to buy LUX soap and do the needful. Anyways, I no get much to say than to advise men wey marry non-virgins aka leftovers to go for DNA test.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

lol you no dey miss. Abeg I fit get audience with u

PlasmaTV:
This man just became a president to tour the nations of the world.

A you;seless man through and through.

Omo seeing him alone, slouched, looking like a wizard, makes me want to puke. I mean, this man prolly has mouth and body odour. He looks so out of place. Like a greedy mooooorooon, he doesn't even know when he's had his fill. He looks like he doesn't even know what he's doing there. In his senile mind, he's on excursion. Tufiakwa. Mandate Thief.


And before you come for me, I'm not supporter of Peter Obi either or any other polithiefcian. They are all selfish and wicked beings.