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RollinTNDA:
A woman is still a Child

That is why elders frown on single mothers

A single mother is a child that is raising another child.

Women act and think like children

Allowing only a woman to raise a child
Is like allowing a child to raise a child.

That is why fathers are very important
Women are children

A child cannot raise a fellow child
That is why products of singlle mothers always end up as OS or baddies.

Because a child cannot train a child

They'll soon come for you for exposing this truth.

This one na content abeg. I know say most women of this generation stupid. But I refuse to believe she'd be that stupid.

femi4:
She ll end up been used all in the name of looking for attention

na Una dey waste time advise women. Even if they see a ditch clear as day, they need to dive in to experience what it feels like. It's their way, pattern. They never ever learn from people's experience when it comes to relationship. 😂

justloo:
Dear Rosey,

It’s very evident you love your husband and want him to reciprocate. I am a man of similar mode although I am emotionally present, her feelings matter so much to me, I care so much about her, 100% provider, hands on with house chores but my only problem - I am not romantic (well according to her)

She loves lovey-dovey-touchy and holding hands when we walk on the road but I am not like that. But ever since she brought it to my attention, I do hit and miss and she sees the effort I make. Her happiness means the world to me and I will even sacrifice my life for her to be happy.

Most men like me grew up in loving families but we didn’t see our fathers or the environment we grew up in show this PDA or romance. We grew up way to masculine and learn romance as much as we can but placing greater emphasis on providing for the family.

I suggest you write him a love letter detailing everything you feel and how much you long for him to be there. I want to believe that the thought of not knowing that he has been hurting you all these years and the fear of loosing you will make him to start putting the effort.

It’s a gradual process and you have to play a significant role in it to draw him out. He will respond to your stimuli albeit on a hit and miss basis until he catches up.

Please always communicate your needs and how you feel and watch how you will gradually get the love of your life back

now see sensible advise. That's if she'll take it. Trust her to follow her fellow gender's advice. 😂

Ishilove:
The ones who cannot even keep ordinary relationships are here giving advice on how to sustain a marriage, making baseless assumptions and infusing their bitterness into their answers. Even the ones who married rubbish and are regretting it also came to drop their "2 cents." By their fruits you shall know them.

Op SexyRosey, pray for the spirit of discernment to be able to separate the chaff from the wheat when the world is giving you their so called advice. It is only those who have walked in your shoes that can truly understand what you are going through.

😂😂😂 you sound like you know it all. Comrades let's join our hands together and pray for the spirit of discernment to fall upon OP. Shall we?

Divoc19:
If your partner is not intentional about your relationship or marriage. Leave.
Don’t tie your life to one person. There are thousands out there unless you are scared of being alone or single.
What you are going through is hell.
I have been there before.
Since I stepped outta there, I have more peace than I can ever imagine.
Live your life for yourself and yourself alone.
Funk the World!

Sexyrosey

I Neva talk finish, dem don dey advise her to go find "intentional" deeeek. This gender too dey predictable 😂😂 lmao. Always seeking to destroy themselves. Funny creatures. OP please take this advice and find yourself a "better" man. But when it goes sideways be sure to give us update abeg. 😂😂

jiggyman:
Lol I married my wife tear rubber! Everybody cant be like your sisters my friend.

tear rubber guarantees a lasting marriage devoid of infidelity ba. See your small mind. You self go learn. If you like lose guard. Lmao. You think because you married her a virgin means she can't harm you tomorrow. You really have a small mind, my friend.

JooEeL:
That idiom "experience is the best teacher" slaps so hard when a woman hands u that experience.

Ur mumu with love go end finally. Seeing simps in love to annoy u

I swear bro. When dem dey tell us that year, we no dey gree hear. Woman no send your papa. It's a bitter truth but simps no won hear am.

JooEeL:
U just wicked anyhow

😂😂 na experience cause am.

DrFunmisticGlow:
why does she need to ruin her body and health for prick. If na pikin she want, adoption dey.

wetin dey pain me be say this Aneema go don get lots of favours and financial assistance from men. But trust that gender to always downplay the role of men In their lives. Very ungrateful selfish things.

JoeEeL:
Smile and pretend outside. Wear matching farher xmas clothing on xmas day and share on social media to "pepper dem"

Then when alone in d house, 2 of u sit far apart. U eat alone, u wonder wetin make u marry am. When she open clothe, u think of her past body count. U wonder if she been don do hookup before u marry am. She bills u for nepa money, scl fees, rent, money for inlaws, feeding... then u privately wonder whether ure not being used as a slave and marriage is one well disguised setup against men.

To make matters worse, high bp go wan kill u when u begin suspect say another man dey climb ur woman. U go see signs enh, trust issues go wan kpaai u 😃

na lie. E no go even see the signs. Na wonders e go dey see 😭😭😭😂😂

advanceDNA:
Lol….. show me what exactly she did from what she wrote…..baba… thats how pple that do next to nothing sound.. Vague!!!
She ddnt say anything specific about how she poured love into the relationship and thats why i was specific with those question…and her response to me was still vague..

If there’s only one thing ive come to know about that gender is that they overestimate their worth in your life.… ordinary to visit you Is seen as huge favour for many of them as they expect you repay by paying their transport to and fro..

They will say they suffered with you & made you who u are when the real picture is she ddnt really have any planB and all the while during ur struggling days you were using your small salary to take care of them and pay all the bills & rent alone….buy land alone, build house alone..etc..

Is it not the same gender that will visit you and be giving you green light with, “i will soon be going oooo”


Baba.. many of them are used to expecting men to keep the spark alive from dating stage…because they already believe they are doing you greater favour by agreeing to date you or have consensual sex…

if u want to find out just how little women do to keep the romantic spark alive...do a survey here and you will hear what most men will say… only few guys will tell you their wives or babe make the first romantic, nice gestures regularly…..they believe sex is ultimate, which they never see as mutual and thats why you will hear them talk about sex as something they “give” you

You Sabi. Na moomoo dey expect true love and affection from that gender. Absolute waste of time.

JoeEeL:
Not ur wife ke??

U will later clash with ur woman as she's also claiming those kids in secret just like u. U think woman go just sit down like that without plotting when it comes to kids too?

Baba don enter am but e Neva realize yet.

JoeEeL:
As u don deh see hyhphen for the comment ba?

I dey always wonder where dem take dey see that big hyphen use. Na this small one - dey my keyboard. Abi na another planet I dey?

lebete3000:
Get a dog or a doll bro. You'll thank me later.
These girls are not who you share your feelings with. You only leave them to do all the talking and sharing, while you bang the hell out of them and move on.
They hate to admit it, but their actions always speak louder than their words.

Baba won share him inner feelings with a Nigerian girl. 😂😂😂

thomas2024:
You Dey mind the amugbo😂

I dey pity am. She don dey dey "bored" na their way be that. Before you know she don dey hop another "spontaneous, and intentional" Gbolciois Gbola, then later gets dumped. She go come realize the treasure wey she get before. I've seen this script play out many times. Women no dey learn from others mistake. Dem must experience am by force. 😂😂

VeraAg:
I guess things change as we get older. Thank you again

exactly. Discard that thinking. No women fine reach black women.

Fab21:
Not yet. And I've applied.

ok. Thanks for the feedback. Was worried

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please we haven't heard from you guys. Please I applied early this morning.

Kaczynski:
Yes, Nigerian employers pay very poorly .


I always knew that it's a man behind your account.


No Nigerian woman can really write code.

Chief no be so oh. For donkey years I don dey try get your attention you dey use me play ping pong. Shey e good? 😭😭😭😭😭🤲

Fab21:
Sent.

have they contacted you sir?

Profwriter:
Application sent.
I'm hopeful and optimistic.

have they contacted you sir?

Richarlison640:
Cam I still apply for it please...?

have they contacted you sir?

Just sent my application. I hope I'm not too late 🤦🏿‍♂️ had issues with audio on my laptop.

Ibkay32:
I’m a single guy, and there are days the loneliness hits me deeper than I expect. Sometimes it feels heavy, like something is missing. There are moments I just wish I had someone to talk to someone who would listen, understand, and remind me that I’m not alone but 🥲

I'm also single. Beta start to dey learn to love yourself and your own company.

Sexyrosey:
Yeah, typical.

Unfortunately, life doesn’t always work the way it sounds in your head, no matter how good it feels in theory.

But you saw all these signs prior, yet you shuuk head because he was ready ba

Sexyrosey:
The Loneliness No One Talks About

It’s a different kind of pain to feel lonely while lying next to someone who is supposed to love you.
To be married, yet feel emotionally single.
To wake up every day craving affection, attention, and connection… and still go to bed empty.

People think loneliness only comes from being alone.
But sometimes it comes from being with someone who no longer sees you, hears you, or desires you.

I miss being wanted.
I miss being touched with intention, spoken to with softness, loved with effort.
I miss feeling like I matter.

I’m tired of pretending I’m okay.
Tired of acting strong when inside I feel invisible.
Tired of pouring love into a space that feels cold and silent.

This is not about perfection.
It’s about presence.
About romance.
About feeling chosen, not just tolerated.

The hardest part is knowing that I’m still capable of love, passion, and deep connection — but I’m living in a place where none of it is returned.

And that kind of loneliness… hurts more than being alone ever could.

oya enter street na. Body go tell you.

UnknownQueen:
How did you handle it after the sting...
I heard the poison mustn't get into your system (heart) else , next is death, so tell me how did u handle it?

that's a big lie. I have been stung before. Nothing serious happened. No palpitations. Only thing I felt was pain on my leg. After a while it faded

Shizzi23:
You for turn scorpion man, that’s a super power

I tire for am. Scorpion sting me for my former house. Omo I chest am. It happened around 1:45am. I checked the time. I couldn't sleep until 7am. Now I have super powers. Na scorpion I dey eat now

olabrad:
How did you handle the sting?

it's no Biggie. The sting spot go pepper you for like three hours. Happened to me. I didn't even feel it like that.

E beta make scorpion sting you, than make girl sting your heart. Giy you Bleep up