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JoeEeL:
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My brother, u don nail am. Men still marry o. What a risk. Most times a man spends more, and also has more. And also far more likely to lose assets to his wife after a divorce, combined with the custody of the children.

Also he cant easily date multiple, otherwise his wife must never find out. And women are much more discreet in cheating in marriages than men. And its wayyyyyyy easier and much much cheaper for a woman to cheat over there. And its so expensive for a man to cheat. When u combine this with the thought of many men having previously drilled ur so called wife's punna, combined with the cost of marriage...ouch, ouch. It hurts!

Although some men these days decide to tint their windows so they can cheat right in their car for a much cheaper option but that has to be a banny uve known for long, probably b4 u met ur wife. 😃 Otherwise ana hotel, motel or airbnb. Rent: $50 - $150. Also food. Also transportation.

Besides most babes u meet over there, especially on dating sites, are simply african babes that have been passed around. Some have tasted white diiks but wont tell u. And the bannies coming from countries like Italo, Egypt, Oman, Libya, UAE... its over!!!

Omo you get experience o wetin man come dey gain for this life sef? 🤣🤣

JoeEeL:
Its better to risk it alone and make it. Even if not loud making, but just comfortable enough. Thrn treat them like d farm tools they are. Spread ur "love" to many women, never concentrate on one to avoid had i known.

In fact, enh...I be proud follower of GehGeh and Odinaka the Jajant king!

correcto!

JoeEeL:
Agreed. Im surprised as to how many men are still blindsided to the curent reality. Women simply want to have their cake and eat it.

They want all the advantages of men: inheritance, earn same, work same, date multiples...which admittedly isnt bad.

But where they are cunny is they want to continue receiving baby girl life treatment: hiding under the banner of relationship and marriage as a lifelong form of soft employment. And truth be told, they are winning...for now sha.

Thats why as a man, never ever be faithful. Never keep one. And if possible forgo marriage. If u cant, then marry multiple. And if ure in d western world, God punish u as a nigerian man if u go and marry

the last line funny me die. People still dey marry for western world? Na the fools wey dey carry their wives and gfs go there own dey funny me pass.

You're right. They always want to eat their cake and have it. Frolick with their old flames in while enjoying the wealth of their spouse. Women are wicked sha. Indeed na mumu dey go settle for one.

JoeEeL:
We will reduce d amount of okokos we have. My Annang chic that year been cheat on me. I wan craze.

Can u imagine in my 2nd relationship, after explaining all d trauma to my new gf, she still allow another guy kiss am. And she confessed after I queried her. And no be say this my 2nd girl loose like that o. And she say na only kiss but i suspect say d guy go don smooch too. If possible, sex sef possible but I highly highly doubt it.

But as an okoko I must never be, I must never erase any possibilities!

naso. Dem don do pass kiss. She just dey use dawan bobo you. I no dey reason anything serious with any lass again. Planning your life with a woman is akin to building your own mausoleum. You're bound to regret it.

Na mumu dey love.
Men are waking up slowly but gradually to the fact that today's women no send your papa.

VeraAg:
Wow, that made my day. Thank you

I like dark skin men back. The ones I went to secondary school with were just cruel. They would come unsolicitated and ridicule me to my face. They made it clear what they thought of my skin complexion without me asking, even when we looked similar.

lmao. "Back in secondary school" that's what you called it ba. They were still kids doing kids stuff. Black women are th prettiest out there I promise you. You just don't know it yet, but your melanin skin is a treasure. Don't let anybody gaslight you into thinking otherwise.

Or you think "the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice" post is just for show?

Nne you're absolutely gorgeous. Let no man or woman tell you otherwise.

JoeEeL:
because the conditions were not met.

There are always conditions that will make her oblige.

It could be they dont trust d guy...hes a kiss and tell. Or the place is not private enough. Or hes not just attractive to her, or famous enough etc.

That girl that u want to vouch for, if they leave her in d same room with a star like lets say Adekunle Gold, u think she will not oblige? Talkless of a superstar like wizkid or even aged 2face.

If they dont fall for them, u know who might get their way into their panties? Yes it could be ur pastor, a deacon, an evangelist or a dedicated church goer or speaking in tongues guy.

If no, it could be the dedication of that gym guy u see across the street.

Only a fool trusts women! Women that dont trust themselves. Women that can do things and have no explanation for doing them.

U too funny

abeg keep preaching to these brothers of ours. Make dem learn.

JoeEeL:
Yes. Now f off

dawan is probably bitter cause men are catching up to their shenanigans. Imagine comparing the Uselezzz females of today to our mothers. Symptom of low IQ. Na wetin all of them carry. Girls wey no fit think individually. Naija females, most of them are really Dum'asses.

JoeEeL:
What is the definition of classy women sef? If we check well and ask d guy, it probably means a woman wey no really dey too demanding and probably has an occupation that keeps her busy.

Thats all o. What a joke!

no mind the guy. Na comedian.🤣🤣🤣 Naso dem dey take define their "classy" ladies. Nonsense.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

CHIEFCHICKEN:
Congratulations on your way to financial breakthrough and emotional freedom

that's just it. I wish I knew this earlier. I ran into a girl I used to know like about ten years ago, she was looking all nice, and she was staring at my face, I don't know if it's shock to see me looking fine and all, we conversed for like a few seconds. She was expecting me to ask for her number. For where? No be me.

She was kind of hesitating to leave. I guess she expected us to exchange numbers. I no get that energy anymore abeg. All my brain na money money and family. Females nowadays are worse than devil's. Trouble your mind and empty your wallet is what they are good at. Nothing more

Rearealki:
Seems i have configured my life to be single even tho i desire relationship
But it seems it impossible for me to have one

I lack basic skills of having a partner
Like communication skills
Leadership skills

I don’t even know how to woo a lady or talk to them

May be this is due to my childhood mindset that if don’t talk to girls I will make heaven now all my efforts on ladies dies on first trial

bro, one advice. Bury your head into learning a skill. Thank me later. You no need foolish relationship to feel fulfilled

Sonnobax15:

I pity you..

Make Nigerian banny tell you --'I love you " for airport finish,and watch how she go rush hop into another diick the moment your plane don move

Nigerian bannies wey be Merlin . Relationships magicians

😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 This guy

Ikennaford:
Been a minute nairalanders,,, how y'all doing,,

Saw alot of post on here about guys that think they're rich spending money on women here in nigeria to buy their love... Imma tell you what,,,i left my family house before i graduated from imsu, bought my car, FORD EDGE that year with a furnished 3 bedroom flat in my city owerri ,,, bro i swear to god, i never spend on women, they trynna make me happy with theirs, they trynna invest more just to keep me cos I'm already doing well,, my dressing, my car already did the talking, non of'em ever billed me for anything,, so i wonder why guys complain alot about girls billing them when they are comfortable, she comes to your apartment,she cook the food, chit chat, have sex that's it, why you trynna impress in a relationship,, now here in Chicago, got my baby mama,kenyan American, she's always trying every damn thing to keep a young niqqa like me,pls y'all my niqqqas on here try not to impress em ladies, they don't like it,,, say no when they bill you, I'm 32 now never had a heartbreak before, rather shattered alot with no remorse cos I'm the price,,, be good y'all

good day bro. Could I send a pm...I need your assistance with something abeg. It's not monetary.

Why do women do this everytime? I've seen this script play out many a time. She has a serious man who's willing to marry her soon but she is contemplating frolicking with you.

I have nothing else to say.
My own is as a man, take women seriously at your own peril. This one say na classy women. It's all right.

kpankpangolo:
All those muscles and he busts into a zesty dance. Lol. Femboys here are jealous.

wtf I no get data to waste. But did he really bust a zesty move? Goddamn!

VeraAg:
What prompted me to ask this questions is from my observations. Dark skin girls get called names from childhood while lighter girls are given compliments and if some decided to be messing around with a guy or two, they were rarely called out. I totally understand what is being said here about not comparing my life to others, I was heated at the moment of posting this.

Just so you know, I've never for once in my life complimented a light skinned woman. I don't find them attractive in any way. Even the busty ones (I'm a boobs man btw)

VeraAg:
What prompted me to ask this questions is from my observations. Dark skin girls get called names from childhood while lighter girls are given compliments and if some decided to be messing around with a guy or two, they were rarely called out. I totally understand what is being said here about not comparing my life to others, I was heated at the moment of posting this.

lol. Vera, you're funny. Really funny. Do you know that dark skinned girls are a treasure?
.I for one, I have never been attracted to light skinned let alone Biracial girls. I don't even look at them twice. Don't be like that. Your dark skin/ebony skin is the best thing you could ever ask for. I promise you. Lol don't be thinking that dark skinned girls arent in demand. That's a flawed way of thinking.

I'm also dark skinned, and Lord knows I'm loving it like mad. One lady calls me ororo because my face is always shining lol.

VeraAg:
thats why i asked what you guys thought first

just do you. The kind regret wey go knack her later ehn. She won't even share with you. Karma has a way of leveling the playing field. Continue being the good lass that you are (that's if youre telling us the truth o). You'll attract good men.

Thundafireseun:
Case 1 was never my friend..My brother you are correct… I actually haven’t met the guy before I allowed him into my house….
Very funny story…. My second girlfriend Ann begged me to please allow her childhood friend who works with peak milk stay a few days in my house because he has exhausted all his money in hotel because of house hunting…

I lerra found out that the guy is also lashing Ann.

my guy you don really suffer Sha. And na good guy you be o. How come you Neva begin your villain arc like me?

Rutherinspace:
I'm not refuting the experience of your friend. Men and women disappoint in relationships. Most of the men that complain about women are not better than the women they complain about. You can imagine his friend having sex with a women the first day and in his house. How can he attract responsible women? I have men and female friends but I seldom hear of infidelity because I control my circle of friends. Most of my friends are married or in healthy relationships. If I should count 10, about 1 goes south.

well, you have a point. But the truth is majority of females in this generation are uselesxxxx. It's the bitter truth. And they are prone to making terrible decisions over and over again because most of them lack spirit of discernment.

Then later blame it on another innocent man. Omo make everybody do wetin favour am. I sha know say searching for love is a fool's paradise. There's no love anywhere.

Maybe it used to be so in the past. But now, people are way too selfish to actually practice love. When you show true love to the opposite gender they automatically see you as a fool and would start plotting how they'd take advantage of you.

otipoju:
This post describes them perfectly and what they are capable of. They like to destroy what they no longer need as if it will soothe their conscience some how.


You will be like " is this the momster I have been living with for ten years "

Most women have no morals and can be very ruthless. If you think your own is different, it will shock you because na only God go fit deliver you if you fall in their trap.

for her mind, she don write my friend off. Say e no go ever pass this level wey e dey or wey she dey expect of am. She don pass her judgement na why she do like that. Couple wey be say I dey expect say dem fit born anytime. Do small traditional rite. Tomorrow she sef go dey say na village people.

I just dey laugh. The muntula wey she dey follow now na insecure fool. Him even corner my friend dey ask am say when last dem knack. My friend tell am say e Neva pass two months. The guy shock. Maybe she don feed am lies say dem don break up for over a year now.

Lmao. Men go learn Sha. See as she don already dey use dawan dey count scores.

otipoju:
This post describes them perfectly and what they are capable of. They like to destroy what they no longer need as if it will soothe their conscience some how.


You will be like " is this the momster I have been living with for ten years "

Most women have no morals and can be very ruthless. If you think your own is different, it will shock you because na only God go fit deliver you if you fall in their trap.

hahaha. I bet you a lot of Odogwus dey still beat their chest say their own is different upon seeing this post. But dem go learn Sha.

Sonnobax15:
Na my target this year be that bro

Women na scallywags bro

🤣🤣🤣🤣 na learning curve for everybody. Sooner men realise this, the better for them. Dem go start to help themselves more because they stand to gain a whole lot.

Rutherinspace:
He's correct. You attract your like. Women are different just as men are different. Your mother, sisters and other female relatives are different from others. Imagine the kind of friends that you have. He wants to sleep with a women he's meeting for the first time, is he a prostitute? That's very absurd.
That's the reason why you also attract such kind of women, because you have irresponsible friends.
[When you move with the right people, possess self control, and be focused. You will meet the right kind of women.

indeed. My BF sing pass this tune na. For him own case e Sabi women matter die. Babe of seven years wey e date. Wey do a lot for am as well, spend on am broke up with him. I told him that she's already seeing another guy, Baba no believe say another guy dey the picture. They were squatting together and na thr babe get the place. He left her and returned later to take some of his stuff.


Only to meet another guy there wey no even fine or tall reach am. The dude just get money and connections sort of. This girl lashed out at him for showing up without consent. She later reported him to the police. Had him tortured and arrested and lied that he was blackmailing her with nudes.

She lied that my guy beat her up. True they had a scuffle around 2013. When he hit her with anger. Do you know this girl had that picture saved in her gallery all this time? She showed to the police. Dem beat and torture my guy. He has to bail himself with 150k.

This one na real life story. Na my person e happen to. If you know as him and this girl tighr you no go ever believe say she go fit do such. Me I'm still shocked till now.

You can never be relaxed around women of these days. They are only loyal to their feelings. If you like no hear. Go dey put hope for one girl.

SpencerForbes:
I still don’t understand why heartbreak stories always make me happy😂😂😂

me too. I don learn. Love na for fools. 😂😂I go continue to preach. If dem like make dem hear. "My woman is different" hand go touch you.

Sonnobax15:
I no trust am again bro

remember I warn you that time. 🤣🤣 women no be am. Just bleep them and forge ahead. Give one wey beta small belle. Pay am off.

Thundafireseun:
I pity you….

If you think women are different from others

lmao. I be won type this thing. But you beat me to it. For him mind e dey follow classy women ,🤣🤣🤣😂 body go tell am las las

Sonnobax15:

Men will never learn..

Since I placed my banny in my shop,I've been noticing how she has been glowing . Omoh,na once I use style tell her say make she go find another work do

Since then,na me come dey glow

Nigerian bannies wey be Merlin when it comes to relationship scam

People wey God create for fun,na those kind people you expect me to take serious . No way

oh small small your mouth don dey change. So that your babe you no come trust am again.

Mistersolar:
read my topic

thanks bros

plsdisvirginme:
She don finally block me everywhere because I refused to give am 30k.
No problem.
She think she will run away with money.
The girl that was living in a public house with toilet.
She had infection.
Spent close to 100k plus to get her treated.
Because of this
I rented self contain for her , bought gen , tv and furnish her house.
Open fashion shop for her.
All these under one year.
The same She that cripple my own charging shop.
She think she can go free.

upload her pics make other men stay away.

nnamdi640:
You said it all

abinna. Them get advantage wey dem dey use their own hand turn into disadvantages. Then later dem go say men are scum.