₦airaland Forum

Pootle:
sure AJ still retain the vibes, the night life too is great. will drop you a message anytime i come around

all right Baba. I'd appreciate that man. No forget senior man.

bukatyne:
This!

I saw a community that bandits raided.

And I am thinking, if your jazz is so potent, why not use it to protect yourself, become rich and stuff like that.

Like raid CBN, divert funds from FG's account to yours, let the govt make policies favorable to your business / family, control your helpers to give you contracts you don't deserve and other stuff like that.

But no, it is policing women's privates and dragging their neighbours to their level.

Na wa!

Lol. Why are the females triggered? Na their custom and tradition na

Diamond098454:
I can't marry in that type of community

Cause cheating is a lifestyle abi....we understand.

bamosagie:
I think you need to read the story again... the situation is skewed against men. The woman commits adultery but the innocent husband pays the price with his life...

Na woman defender be that. No mind am.

Zionmdde:
We cannot do anything na. We will just read news, count scores, thank God we don't know the victim and then move on

The only chance we had to make a real change, voom they released soldiers and agberos, the powers that be planted ethnic division, it now became some people are jealous of Lagos. And voila!!!!!!!!! A good struggle was successfully extinguished

na our way be that. We dey fear to die as a collective yet we keep dying everyday albeit slowly....I won't lie, I am ashamed to be a Nigerian youth. A lot of them aren't sensible...they are busy getting carried away on SM..while the country is currently burning. It is well.

Pootle:
moved menh, but still my home town cos that where i was born. i always visit on a less busy weekend to be with some of my childhood friends regularly

Damn. I'm still here though. AJ is still a cool place despite the loudness. It's good that you still come around and haven't forgotten your roots. Well-done chairman.

Pootle:
i swear and the whole area menh go come out, but the day least expected them go strike like banger .......they put that letter for mba street dat year for AJ panic wan wound us all lol so funny you bring this up

bro you still mount AJ?

Mabuggi88:
Na this girl be the woman wey de advice? Wey de encourage promiscuity with her content on social media. She lacks moral standing for this particular advice

abeg drop her handle. Make men feed eyes..

Brahamimo:
I swear.

Na akwa-ibom girl sef. I dey see her on Facebook

abeg drop her Facebook handle when you see am. Make we feed our eyes small.

luminouz:
I meant I love anything paranormal.

oh nice! Same here man! please digest it at your own convenience, then let's make a thread out of it. 😀 Tell me if you think it's a hoax or not along with your reasons.

Meedon:
Is it better not to give birth than to give birth to an arm robber? Causing chaos and mayhem to the populace at large.

what would you then say about terrorist having a field day every other day?

FitCorper:
God bless Jagaban for coming at a critical time as this and giving us hope

which hope? In the midst of the insecurity? Poor economy? Poor infrastructure? Where is the hope?

bewla:
Move on it's not by force now

no vex bros. Na out of curiosity him ask.

torqque7:
Omoh that gender go use you play if you no sharp guy..funny thing is all the people I suspected were not the guys o..I had NO idea there was even such a guy in her life..she only told me about the others she didn’t like..before we begin date this babe tell me say she is different because I told her I couldn’t be in a serious relationship with a student cos of obvious reasons and she swear heaven and earth that she is not like other girls🤣🤣I just dey look the mu-mu..Any guy who believes his own girl is different doesn’t know that gender.

Girl wey na me be her first sef na she Wan come dey play guy man like me she no know say I be sniper..What surprised me sef was the hatred she developed for me afterwards cos she knew I gave no damn about her ANYMORE..na you I catch cheating,na you now come dey hate me cos I dey run other girls now openly for her front until she move by herself.

lol. Imagine. Just cause she couldn't manipulate you. I sha pity men wey dey still carry woman for head. Them go learn.

dederocs:
Most of them don't even care about the bad politicking, they act too refined to be bothered about what politicians do and how they are plunging the society to chaos with their maladministration and corruption.

I swear bro. It's like the lot of them are NPCs. They never seem to be bothered. All that concerns them is to move on with life like there's nothing at stake. Almost zombie like..many of them do not even care about awakening or enlightenment. Just zombie -esque human beings.

luminouz:
Thanks Tenrack

This is my shiit.

But many people here will still not believe

wait, do you mean that you practice IDT as well? bro show me way please. Leave the skeptics to deal with their skepticism. Me I want to learn and apply biko.

dederocs:
People are just giving birth because it's what everyone does, most of them don't care about securing their families.

my thoughts exactly bro. It's scary.

Come on guys I don't want to believe that I'm the only one interested in this topic

OurTruth
Pansophist
Racoon1
luminouz

Let's share knowledge biko

thomas2024:
Mention the benefits of marriage to men in our present day Nigeria oga

e go still come ramble about having your own family to go home to and take care of you. E no fit pass like that. I still maintain, if ill health and old age wasn't an issue, majority of them will never get married cause humans are selfish creatures.

Revolva:
In today's world ..today's wvmen no be am ..they are unmarriageable let's be honest only 10 percent are good women

Ranging from feminism prostitushion disobedience uncultured and many more have made today's Nigerian gyals to be unbearable

Men have their own issues but a man can change later on but wvmen when e reach 35 years dem start to fade and menopause in d next five years draw closer

10 percent dey quite generous for women of today Many men Neva realize yet say na coded Olosho dem pack full for house. God go help them sha. What I sha know is, there are a lot of things more fulfilling than marriage. A whole lot, but that's a topic for another day. If not for old age, a lot of persons would not even bother with marriage because most human beings are inherently selfish...

Guestmale:
Please don't talk like this, marriage is good,marriage is ordained by God,if a man or a woman come to this world and died without marrying (except it is direct leading from God or any kind of extreme circumstances] he or she did not completely fulfill the purpose of his or her coming to this world

Now this is how to convince or encourage a person. Nice 👍 not forcing your beliefs and ideas down their throat

greatman247:
Who tell you? Dey play! Sometimes, it doesn't seem like that. Life is funny in fact very funny and at the same time life is crazy. Have you heard about the statement "The good die young" and some very brilliant, highly intelligent and very hardworking guy while in school may not even make it in life eventually such person may even get employed by a guy who was so lazy and dullard in school. This goes to say, to make it in life requires quite a few things than hardwork, brilliance and intelligence.

You may even do good to people such as sponsoring them through life, give them clothes, shelter and feed them daily, this does not mean this same persons you have helped will not betray you along the line. In fact someone you often help with money may even be wishing you go dead broke and he may even be working day and night to ensure you have nothing. Life is deeper than you think, my friend

Same with marriage. A very bad lady or prostitute may get lucky in life and marry a rich good man while a very decent lady may end up with a drunkard broke and even evil man. E get why!

bros you get sense abeg. E go shock them say the OP fit even outlive the so called happily married ones and in better health. Human beings go won force their opinion or idealism on you.

merits:
All these your excuses won't save you during old age,old is inevitable and it's imminent at least you are now 40years in the 10years reality of not having a wife and child would set into your life.Please just remain single and see for yourself.

old age, old age, old age..yadiya...even as a married man, you would be blessed to even see 65 years..what are you guys blabbing about old age? Nothing is guaranteed...this is exactly why we have widows and widowers. Nawa people just see things through their own POV.

ObaKlaz:
Nah... I would NEVER do that. Principles still dey. But a lotta times, I just laugh inwardly when I hear the goats talking glowingly about the same women who make them sleep on couches in their own home, and how I found their so-called 'amazing wives' have virtues that are 'very flexible'.

Should I burst your brain? Many men on here that have spoken with pride in favour of marriage may have partners that are currently cheating on them with reckless abandon right under their noses. Lol. The irony is mind blowing. And they won't be able to detect shiii but here they are beating their chest..rooting for marriage and downplaying the OPs decision. Fvck.

Kobojunkie:
Family na im own special kind of delusion o! There are many men and woman out there surrounded by this same thing you call family, yet are so lonely and empty on the inside.

Lol. Let them keep deceiving themselves. They believe everyone finds fulfilment in that family thingy. Forgetting that some people have a bucket list of things they wish to do and family might be or not be one of them.

tuoyoojo:
If u say u don't want to marry,no pressure do what works for u, but to come and and vilify marriage because at 40 you are unmarried citing a few examples of marriages that didn't work as ur evidence is completely wrong

Everyday cars have accidents, would u say because of that u you would never enter a car and all cars are bad and you would rather walk from one long distance to another

Or

Because fire can burn your kitchen, you would say u would eat all ur food raw

Oga many marriages are working and you don't hear about them because events that makes it to the news are bad

[b]I have many regrets in life and one is not marrying earlier because I am very happy[/b]where I am now

because it worked out for you. Lucky you....sha don't lose your guard. I pray your marriage remains a happy one.

Taquin:
But it is okay for men to age shame women in their 30s. Will you get out of my mention or do you think I have forgotten your moniker? 😒BF

lol so that's the bone of contention for you? Makes plenty sense.

Starz825:
Walk away from little gist cos you no go know the one wey go vex her...

Omoo

just imagine having to deal with such crap on a daily. No wonder most African men no dey as productive again outside marriage. It consumed every fibre of their being. Once you get married, you're thinking about your wife, kids, dreams put on hold, yet majority of the time you're the one still funding their lifestyle, providing...and if you're lucky, pray to God you are appreciated. The odds sef no be here. You are not your wife's sibling, she fit wake up change am for you one day. Nothing is guaranteed in this life- what people fail to understand is life is a gamble, so is marriage...if the man says he doesn't want, it's a personal decision. Na him gut feeling..these women should quit acting like he disappointed them or something. See them sounding like they can already see the future from here.

wunmi590:


So if your mama and papa no born you, how you go come take exist?

Choi, every malam with him kettle 😆

Like this now you don drop some lines of wisdom. 😀

Pinkyposh:
Stay your side nah
No marry.
You don old nah

Lmao. Why this matter dey vex certain women for here like this? Shey na pepper body we go call this one? Why not just ignore him you that's happily married. E no hard. Make Una live and let live.

Adaumunocha:
If your dad has this kinda mindset, Dem for born you? Better go get married and be a man unless maybe you no guide

This one na blackmailing abi kini? Y'all just carry marriage for head. Nobody is even thinking if they are gonna even be alive long enough to even enjoy it with the evil going on in Nigeria and the world by extension. Lol. Make Una dey calm down. Live and let live. Una wey dey happily married , good for you. Enjoy your thing peacefully and pray that it doesn't turn out to be a nightmare cause at the earliest stage na so e dey sweet for belle. Btw if him papa no marry, him go either still dey exist peacefully in nothingness or another lucky young man would have fathered him..staaaap

fyneboi79:
stop age shaming people you might never reach their age on this earth...say anything else but never age shame an elderly person because its quick karma of short life.

Leave dawan. I hope for her case she's already married..and if she already is, hopefully her husband continues to be good to her...that's if she doesn't mess up first and cheats on him. Very ignorant person.