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Realme111:
[Even we that are married,where us the assurance,that our so called wife I'll be or take care of us in the future.
Hope you know that some women,will he waiting for your old age to deal with you?
So nothing us sure bro. quote author=Blossomfirst post=137058828]It's a personal choice. But when you get older we won't be here to cry with you when you regret missing out the good part of marriage

Inform the myopic ones that fail to acknowledge that everything isn't black and white. A woman can wait decades to mess you up over something you did to her eons ago. They should pray they don't end up with a deceiver. Na the men wey dey beat chest pass for this thread I dey pity well well. They should pray hard and not lose their guard sha.

Emu4life:
A fool @ 40 is a fool forever

just cause he aired his honest opinion? 🤡 The real fool has just been spotted.

Chikky111:
I will marry, live happily with my wife,may God give good soft spoken woman please

lol. Una just funny for this app olohun.

otipoju:
To think that she deliberately engineered the fight so that she has an excuse to be away till day break.

Sad. Dont stay where dem no want you

na their way. Gaslight you into oblivion. Very wicked and selfish creatures. Only true to their feelings. Tufia.

torqque7:
Bro that gender think they are smart..my ex did same thing on her birthday,she cunningly avoided spending it with me until latter at night when I went to pick her up and she was smelling funny and I asked her why she was smelling funny lol..some days latter I found out the Olosho was knacked by one yahoo boy like that raw sef. Omoh I just pretend like I didn’t know and kept knacking her and tormenting her psychologically and this Olosho had the nerve to be making threats after we saw a movie of a guy who cheated on his babe and I was like see this mu-mu lol

Last last when I got tired of her na so I cast the matter and by then I been don dey another relationship and she was suspecting,then she by herself give herself brain when she realized I was no longer taking her seriously and she come hate me Wella but I no send her papa lol..Trust that gender at your peril..

you did well. I pity these men that are still stuck on the idea of "mine is different" "she cannot do that to me" they'll learn the hard way.

tollyboy5:
Don't be bias, what about the manager that probably married too?

brotherly women hold the key to their pussy. If they don't want to sleep with a man, it wouldn't happen. Let's stop shifting goal posts.

Lovit:
In the next 50 years, only about 2% of people on earth will get married

the rest will choose the transactional route: we negotiate, we have like two kids, you take one I take the other everyone finds their way

when you need sex, you pay for it and move on, no emotion no feelings, no commitment!

we are getting there gradually!

Btw, the ladies started it!

somehow these creatures would still find a way to blame men. Trust them to.

StoryHaven:
Not that I like your point. Though you made a whole lots of sense but, I love your writing skill. May be you dont know you are gifted.
Guy, you are!
Stay blessed.

95% of women are evil and they mostly are all bent in bending the lives of men. That's why they cant take a picture without bending. Acting like they are paralysed.
Most are evil.

For the first paragraph, I appreciate the compliment man. Appreciate it. I'm still in the race to finding myself and what works for me. 🙏

To address the second, I couldn't agree any less. Even the so called "good" ones, one cannot lose their guard around them. I wish I knew a lot about the female nature then as I do now, a lot of BS could've been prevented. But hey, it's all part of life's experiences.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dOqeMbbcpxw?si=uil3iY-gvF8zbCt5 let's dive in, fellaz.

Mind you, his videos are mighty lengthy. 1hr plus at most. I need like minds to dig into this so we can discuss.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?si=UviRCgh4asFYd7T5&v=6RMS6WIykX4&feature=youtu.be

The above is a video uploaded by a guy who claims to be an interdimensional traveller. In that video he records the earth devoid of human beings. He has actually got several similar clips of himself going into notoriously busy places in Vegas and co at different times of the day...but you wouldn't find any human besides him.

Is this a hoax or what?

Brandiebird:
😂😂😂😂😂😂

I am glad you could find certain humour in that. Thanks for your understanding.

I think it's about time a section was created on Nairaland for the strange and unusual. Where we can share our experiences with events like time slips, parallel Universe stories, etc. I would love for those of us that have interest in similar topics to have a space where we can share findings et all. Perhaps we could spark a thread on this spot. 😁

Brandiebird:
You’ve really become bitter! 1 small girl used you like a dish rag and now you’ve joined the “All women are evil” bandwagon. Remember that you still have a mother and a sister, and one day if you’re lucky, a daughter. Hating women isn’t going to change your character defects. Work on yourself and your self respect so that you could identify bad people in general. That small girl played you because you lacked self respect and not because women are evil.

Okay.....I was played..and I've become bitter, yadiyadiya...And who told you I'm not working on myself? And who told you I want to have "anything" to do with females? Keep your advice to yourself. I don't need it. And please y'all should stop brandishing 'we have mum and sis" narrative ..it's getting stale. "you've really become bitter" shey I tell you say I won dey sweet going forward? See me see wahala. Keep your freaking advice to yourself and mind the business that pays you. I'm not getting married to your sister. Let me be bitter in peace. Sho gbo?

LoneSoldier:
Else what...

I wrote there again, come beat me. I will continue to expose your gender and there evil tactics on men till the day I leave this world.

I still wrote another there, I still repeat myself "come beat me"

You Sabi....knew you did that on purpose. I do too. No mind the busybody

I have no RIP to waste. Feel rather sorry for bro. Now he's lost his freedom. Women go always stain your white. They always think they are the smart ones, just because men choose to look the other way.

AllBlack:
I am one of the few Nigerians who has never used that phrase in the context of marriage and relationships. I thoroughly dislike it

Next is those people who use the term ISSUE to describe a child.

we do share the same ideology bro.. I disliike these terms.

AllBlack:
Una too wicked for this forum. why? why? Just why?

Blame the fellow wey think say e fit find woman here in the first place. Joke's on him. Nairaland has gone past that era na.

Double0h7:
Let me just leave this here for our future sister in law.

;Dwhy are you dashing the man's last hopes to finding an intentional woman on here na?

motionarena:
Available

Oh. You're a lady sef lol. No wonder.

Study the guy's demeanor for like three months. Tell him you're busy for now. Watch his reaction. I sense that he could be a perpetual user. I despise people who don't think about tomorrow when dealing with another person. Left to me, I no go help am. He doesn't deserve your help boss. Well-done sire. may God continue to uplift and bless you.

fyneboi79:
I am a mobile business man,single and in my mid forties and I will be interested only in child bearing with a woman in her mid to late thirties,educated bsc, gainfully employed or into business,financially independent (for her own benefit because I don't give shishi), Delta,Anambra or Benue ladies only.

bros don dey deviate lol. Anyhow sha...as long as e work for you Baba.

I still dey talk am in the next five years, women would regret bitterly for all the games and manipulation, gaslighting they have used on men over the years. More men will awaken and see majority of them for exactly what they are. Then the real game will commence. Well, until then, Arriverderci

Is it even still worth the hassle? Following the spate of insecurity in the land. There are times I wake up with the dreaded feeling of the insecurity spreading to every nook and cranny of Nigeria.

I believe I would be forgiven for thinking that now is not the right time to start a family. The crisis and anarchy keeps festering. If you've got a family as a man how do you keep a family protected if it comes to that point?

On the contrary a man unattached to an extra nuclear family will hold some sort of advantage as he would not have young children to bother about in the midst of the crisis.

This is my take anyways...those of us getting wedded every other week should have this in mind. Don't think that the worst cannot happen because with the way we're all going, anything is possible.


As we move to starting our families, we should have this at the back of our minds - civil war could break out again. If we continue on this path, it is almost inevitable - these unabated killings cannot continue.

Bostin:
If you're an intentional woman that's willing to build a home with a loving man . Let have a talk .

you're looking for intentional woman where? Bros better no use your own hand invite trouble to your peaceful life.

ajalawole:
fat lie. I knysome that leave her marriage of 2month because she has been seeing money from tiktok.

how is it a lie

ajalawole:
my ex leave me same way,funny enough we don't have any issues. She is a single mother of 2 now and begging to come back.

lol she's a comedian

ajalawole:
Ex husband is right. I knotof someone who leave her marriage of 2months because she has been seeing small money from tiktok

I pity men wey still dey carry marriage for head