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ovilink:
Please is it good to forgive a cheating wife, I found out after 6 months and she said it's just ones

yeah forgive her and buy her a present sir. You're a very good husband

stainzvill:
It's like you have so much free time on your laps

see the one up there stroking his ego. Funny bunch in their minds them sabu game. The rude awakening wey dey await the clowns.

amazingspiderma:
Na u sabi.
Una go dey look for every opportunity to insult una male folks, because it is a common practice in your home.

I hope you know majority of her sponsors are male.

Majority abi all. No mind the oversabi. Himself won give opinion

Rizzputin:
If I could sum up girls from 18 - 25 with one word I'd go with: Clueless.

You might be surprised why I chose that especially since I mentioned I love gen z girls. Well, the reason is simple. You see, deep in their cluelessness lies something you as a man can tap into. A gen z woman craves leadership, experience and exposure.

One of the biggest mistakes men do with young women is assuming they know a lot. Sometimes, sure she's aware of a bunch of things. But MOST of the time she has no clue what she wants or what to do. You see it all the time. First, she says she likes guys that are like "A" only for you to see her with someone who is the opposite.

I've said it here on NL many times about how the most common phrase I hear before and after sleeping with women is "You're not my type" And it's very common. I can write a whole book about this. But the summary of it all is young women are clueless.

Which brings us to the biggest point on why I love them: You MUST understand her MORE than she understands herself.

I can't stress this enough. There's a lot to unpack from that statement. If you feel/think/assume Gen z women understand themselves, then you'll let her ruin both herself and your relationship.

Deep inside this women is a craving for someone who "gets" her on a deeper level. When I tell men this, they're usually shocked. I hear statements like "but she's an adult" "But she said.."

Yes she's an adult but she's a naive one. And about that thing she said? Forget about it. It means nothing when she's around a man that understands her.

A gen z girl can do the wrong things (on purpose or not) HOPING you'd make her do the right thing. You see, young girls are very scared about the future. They worry about their growth and how life will turn out for them. They make mistakes and know they'll make more. Worst of all? They have little clue what the right moves are.

And that's where you come in. When you understand her deeper concerns, desires and motivations she has NO choice but to fall hopelessly in love with you and follow you.

Contrary to what most guys think, Gen z girls are very submissive and hard lovers. They're the type to swim an ocean to make you food. Steal from their parents to take you out and lodge you.... Love die hard and stay loyal. Fight her friends for you. Worship and respect you.

BUT to experience the beauty of that... you MUST understand her more than she understands herself.

Letting a woman just do what she likes hoping she gets it or she understands herself is like when a 10 year old tells you with conviction "please let me drive the car" Of course, if you let him drive that car with you in it, do not be surprised when you find yourself surrounded by Angels and father Abraham

Anyways, if there's one final thing you take from this. Gen z girls want men to understand them better than they do. How to do this is a topic for another day. For now, just keep this in mind when she does or acts ina way that makes you scratch your head

lmao. Abeg I no won laugh.

I don't know what to say. Well everybody with their wahala

If you like type to impress her,if you like do nonsense girl wey go dig you, go dig u

Richsteemit:
Good morning guys. There is the girl that work around my office, that I walk up to physically, I collected her number because I like her, not to look desperate, I said I want to be friends with her. Only to start chatting with her, one word reply and then she will ghost me. I try chatting her two times.. I tell one of my friends too. He said I should keep chatting or even call her that I'm not putting more effort. I did na still ghosting. What advice can u give me on this issue or I'm not been honest to her??

bro please stop wasting your time if she's not reciprocating your energy. It's a dead end. No be every girl go dey interested in you.

Fekumzi123:
You want to add unnecessary problems to your life.
How old are you?
Are you comfortable?
Have you built your own house?
Those creatures can look sweet but ...

No truer words.......

Ikennaford:
I deh pity single guys weh never marry

cause of rubbish wey full outside abi. I no pity myself. E better make I no marry than to put one animal for house wey go further shorten my life span.

abuwasilah:
Dear Nairalanders,

It has been observed based on research and experience from seniors that which of the following scares men:

(1). Fear of side chicks died while been together with the man
(2). Mother-in-law or any in-law family member catch the son-in-law with another woman in a controversial position
(3). Father meeting his grown-up daughter in the same location where he goes to do his runs
(4). General police raid/arrest in a location where man lodged with the side chick

Pls, add you own and let's know in the comment section the most scary...

the first option obviously. How do you come back from that?

Ballotelle:
A friend meet a lady on bike on a particular day . Days later, he requested a physical meeting for discussiion... He asked her to suggest a comfortable location for their meeting. On the scheduled day, the woman claimed she had been debited 35,000 without receiving the corresponding payment. She appealed to him for a token pending she sort herself...When he requested to see the debit receipt for verification, she responded with verbal abuse and curses.

MOST GIRLS NOW ARE P..... IN DISGUISE

imagine the entitled and uncultured thief. Did she give your friend money to keep? Hope your friend insulted her back

isyourboy:
Lol they’re being drained by their wife and wife’s family

Omo time go come, I go just dey lock up. I won't pick their calls anymore.

God have mercy. Marriage scares me more with each passing minute. my married friend who used to tease me for not being married yet would hit me up now and then requesting data, financial favours. God abeg.

Sonnobax15:

Whether good or bad,that toy won't marry you my sister.......God created and placed that thing in a man for a real

No just make me vex this morning

no mind am she dey expect me to advise am. OP keep waiting for the perfect man, okay.

erad:
You heard from one single mother and suddenly concluded that's how majority of single mothers are.

Lol... It's a 'you' problem bro. You've made up your mind even before you had any conversation with her. Whatever she might have said, you'll still twist it to suit your own narrative.

So on that note, all the best.

I use to have this same kind of mindset, I thought she was different. Lol. In the end I learnt the hard way. Now no matter how innocent you look, or make yourself out to be, so long as you're a Single mom, I don't even want to have nothing to do with you. That's my principle going forward now. I don't have energy and resources to waste...the disadvantages far out weights whatever advantages that might be in the picture. I wouldn't advise my enemy to become entangled with a single mom. I'm sorry to say this. I've witnessed first hand the huge mistake that is.

See how they wanted to cause stampedes because it's a woman involved. Dawan even went as far as stating he would prefer face to face communication. Clowns

Kobicove:
So you believe this fake story?

Does it sound plausible to you that a woman in this situation would poison her own son instead of looking for a way to bribe him to keep silent, make una dey use una brain abeg!

Lmao. I pity for you. If you think it's not plausible. Pray that you don't meet such desperate women. Brainiac

Pupanchie:
I came across this from a confession online about woman who cheated on his husband

could be. Some women are just plain evil. They'll do anything to protect their secrets. To marry like this no even dey my mind like this.

Dbegining:
The sad part of this all is that we are still calling these people "bandits"

They are terrorists for God's sake. Let's start from calling them what they are.

anytime I see the word bandit used to describe the swines I cringe in disgust. The media is complicit. Even here on Nairaland, members do the same. It's a pathetic situation in Nigeria. What a country! All we can do is complain. Nobody send

Pegi23:
Schooling in anambra and it isn’t like Lagos. I feel bored and lonely most times. I’m always indoor. Need friends I can chat with hangout with and link up with.

where are you based in Lagos btw?

Pegi23:
Oh dear. If u are really done with your now ex

You can come to me let me show you true and real love.

Only if u are done with your ex. Because the way I can show true love is the one I will destroy u if u mess with my heart.

I love me a loyal man. My type of guy I want

you won finish am kpata kpata abi.

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kiddaz:
What lessons? To go spiritual because of a small girl that outsmarted you? Sometimes I do wonder if you guys are real men or just bots this forum uses to create engagements

Lol. So letting it slide would have been better? Don't worry being tagged "real" man no go add to my pocket bra. She was very lucky I'm not the fetish type.

Deepspirituals:
A Very Wicked and Heartless Acts shouldn't be Permitted ..

My ex said I should have left it to God when she betrayed and scammed me. Lmao. People ought to be taught a lesson.

Dzzzz:
You a SIMP bro…

Baba said he forgave her despite finding out she cheated. Lmao. You're wrong. He's no simp. He's a whole SIMPOsium

guru90:
Federal government supporter!!!

🤦🏿‍♂️ I'm asking you...how are they bandits? People that are killing people in their scores you lot still tag them bandits... encouraging nonsense. These are terrorists! Bandits don't go around killing people like this. Don't you get?

Dogalmighty17:
This is what is really happening. Every time bandits attack a particular location, security forces on ground cannot and do not respond until they call and receive clearance from Abuja. The same thing played out during the second attack on Yelwata, Benue state where soldiers deployed to that community, stood aside watching as rampaging killers went around killing. Men of the Nigerian police in that community, engaged the attackers until they ran out of bullets.

Earlier last week, the governor of Zamfara state mentioned that anytime bandits attack communities in his state, soldiers who are supposed to respond and ward off the attackers maintain that their hands are tied and they can do nothing unless they receive clearance from Abuja.





How long must these killings continue?

referring to terrorists as bandit too?