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Uptheante:
What of wives of supposedly rich men who sleep with their gatemen, security guards, drivers, etc.
What do they gain from such men?

gratification. There's something they see in those people that they want. Female brains are wired in a special way. It all balls down to what has her drawn to that person ATM. Could be solace, a good listener, sweet talker - making her feel good ATM..a lot of stuff. You cannot understand that gender bros.

SpaceX:
That is why they say all men pay. Either you pay by time or money... All men pay..

Indeed. No truer words ......

RollinTNDA:
Women use sex to achieve an end goal
For Men, Sex is the end goal
For women Sex is the vehicle they use to reach their end goal...

That is why women don't give it out freely

There must be something she wants from you before she gives you sex.
If she sees that there is nothing to gain from you. She will not give you sex.

When you have something
That is when women will open wide open

For Men sex is just pump and pour
For women Sex is a tool she use to get what she wants from you.

Your MONEY
Your tall cute genes
To be your wife
To make you commit to her

You must have something that she needs before she opens wide open.

women understand that men love sex and inorder to make men hunt, protect, commit to them. They will use sex as a tool to make sure she gets all her demands.

The funny thing is it's the same with other animals. Funny how the lionesses give in to mating when it is going to favour her that moment -protection of herself and her cubs, and also her hunting territory. She doesn't give in to mating if she senses that the Lion doesn't have this to offer. I was surprised to learn that after she's achieved this - her cubs have matured enough to protect themselves, she would then chase the Lion away to establish a kingdom for her cubs. Lol. It's the same with every other species out there. 😭😭😭 The male species is meant to be used and used over and over again for their resources and protection. Damn.

seunoyeleyep:
Exactly what I wanted to say before I saw this. Buhari, Lai Mohammed and Femi Adesina successfully repackaged Boko haram terrorists to bandits

the word bandit being used to describe cold hearted killers disgusts me every time I come across it in a reportage

Originalsly:
I strongly believe the only solution to this problem is the approach Jonathan took .... contract foreign mercenaries. They have no tribal ... religious... not political ties ... neither are they afraid of titles or status. .. they take no prisoners. But this decision cannot be made by this administration because some are heavily involved.

these wicked leaders know exactly what to do. But they won't dare. They are benefitting from the chaos. They should keep at it.

Carparts888:
At this point, I dont care if the military takes over government because the basic function of the government which is " to protect life and property " is gone.
Nigeria is finished.

No some people dey say it's the worse thing to happen to Nigeria. I'm all in for it. These killings no make sense again. The insecurity is getting too much. Way too much.

Konjiboii:
BATilomei and his minions go claim say na propaganda, God abeg let it reach their doormat in Jesus mighty name Amen

amen. coronaVirus Helinues and co. I hope it gets to them in one form or another so they can have a brain reset performed on them.

Tayorshd87:
Ok let me put it this way ...

Tinubu a president of 36 states .

So he should be d one going from one state to another throughout the federal to secure people's lives 🤔..

what Abt d governors ?
Why are they there?
What are their jobs?
What's their importance?
Their significance?

but the same Tinubu said when it comes to matters of insecurity the bulk stops at the president's table. What are you on? Una get selective amnesia? Or is it different this time around?

Kozino:
Feel free. Life's too short to be an island. Lol

Thanks man. Please shoot me an email tennytoni@gmail.com. Let me know it's you please.

SpencerForbes:
Major secret, no go Dey do baby good morning for any lady. Sending text and other stuffs. You’re just nursing yourself for billing. Just be the “shoulder she leans on while she’s having crises😂” and if your game is good, you’ve got yourself a free ticket.
🚶‍♂️

This guy we suppose yarn more o but it's all good. Lol.

SouthSouth1914:
Give her attention, withdraw it. Girls hate guys who care too much about them. Always keep them on their toes! Be unpredictable!

Machiavelli principle. I've been drowning myself in that recently. It's so frigging true.

Goo0dHardDick:
I will bro

Lol, there's a lot

abeg we dey wait.

Goo0dHardDick:
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu".

I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie". My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer.

I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.

bro abeg drop more OT with real life examples make we learn

What are these please? Weird

Jennyclay:
what’s wrong with you people? Is it a crime to set standard for yourself?

She clearly knows the guy is broke and he’s not fit to take good care of her. What if she accepts and she starts cheating on the man if he can’t provide her, think about it

No woman want to build with a broke poverty stricken man, definitely not me because it doesn’t end well

is she an orphan? Is she so useless that she can't provide basic things for herself? Shiorr nonsense

dollynnn:
Please, try and get some rest.

He needs plenty of it.

SpencerForbes:
That’s where the fun is cos there’s no commitment. You can easily leave and I always tell them I don’t have cos we’re friends. I make it a habit to tell girls I don’t have. Never fight to be the main 🥷, be the side cock.
She’ll wouldn’t even want to ask you for money if you play your games well

If you know Wetin bestie Dey chop, you wouldn’t want to be a boyfriend😁 I’ve heard girls do FWB and complain that the guy only have sex with them without any form of investment and they don’t mind before their eyes go open, you’ve gotten what you want. Just give the boyfriend vibes and be sleek and you’ll never want to be a boyfriend again🤞
🚶‍♂️

guy teach me work na

SpencerForbes:
The only time she’ll want to try it is when you now start defining the relationship and carrying the bestie for head pass her😁 make the relationship look like some fun time out and she’ll want to spend more time with you than her bf.

Treat her as a friend and bad girl. Treat her like there’s nothing to lose and be bold/confident but don’t define the relationship. She’ll always want to come back for more.
🚶‍♂️

Guy you be weyre o. I for like discuss with u sometimes later

MrNice04:
always complain to them about nothing having money they will adjust😂

Bad guy. I go adopt your ways

SpencerForbes:
That’s the point. Have as many female friends as possible before you start thinking of girlfriend and you’ll enjoy their company. After that just apply for “He’s just a friend” Maximum benefits no commitment 😁😁😁

Ps: to the few that shows interest 🚶‍♂️

when dem come dey gaslight to bill u nko

Stephen0mozzy:
E no better say make sitting room dey empty, than make person pack dirty wey dey street con take decorate house?

There are good women, but you won't find them in same place as the other types eey don tire everybody.

lol no wahala. I have no doubt that there are good women, finding them is the problem

xamodans:
Why is it paining you? If you have a sensible solution to the problem, share with him. Stop being cocky! Ptcheeewwww!

bro calm down I was reacting to the Goat insulting OP up there

Kozino:
You have no place in anybody's life if you can't bear the cost of your own existence. You're nothing but a parasite. Hate the post all you want but don't forget to look at your life how it is. This goes to both male and female. All we need for life to be easy for all men is for every adult to take care of their own damn self.

Only a person that's capable of self care can effectively and efficiently take care of someone who is taking care of them. Care in this case now becomes dynamic. One takes care of getting the needed resources and the other takes care of effectively and efficiently managing the acquired resources. Not some ozuguzugu with their stinking thinking believing giving head is ticket to opulence. Enter stage first, matter go consume you. You will exclaim 'Omo' more than your breath count. You'll get passed around while 30 lurks around.

And the reason Nigeria holds no hope of revolution is because the middle class are subsidizing the lives of the lower class. You've built a house but still pay rent for 2 or more relatives. Your kids are still too young but you're paying school fees for 3 relatives in higher institutions. You get gifted bags of rice that'll last you the whole year each Xmas but you share it out to relatives who have varying opinions about you. You're on the road, law enforcement is begging, you're in church, everyone sees you as god sent. Enter offices and civil servants turn to your personal servants. Look at your transaction history and you'll wonder how much you're making. Everyone has one job and bambi y'Allah as second job.

And as you're exhausted from working round d clock, your cousin is proudly discussing how he banged that girl to stupor. As you're popping your BP pills your guy is in merriment because Man U won Liverpool. A fool who doesn't understand what distraction is. What keeping the masses docile means. Who doesn't even know his favourite club was established with money gotten as reparation for stopping some devils from trading slaves. A perpetual loser who has no sense of victory but has settled 4 winning by proxy. If WizKid wins, she wins. If Ronaldo wins, he wins. If Chelsea wins, they win. What these adds to their personal economy is a huge gap in literature that I hope one of them would fill empirically.

And this will fly through some people's head and I won't be surprised. That's why you're who you are and where you are. 😆

This is very deep. I appreciate the message. Kudos OP. Can we be friends?

Nonexisting1:
So you can be broke and your wife will not be broke and you say you are married right? Okay.

I love how e dey deceive himself

Stephen0mozzy:
Friendship, financial support (solicited or not), trustworthiness (we all need to trust somebody).

If you feel no woman does this, then na you dey date rhubbish.

but the truth is most females in this current generation are utter rubbish. What are the odds that one would get lucky? No blame guys too much abeg.

Spandau:
Kanu will be tried and jailed. Ask him to reopen his case if he dares. Instead of running to the UK, he should have taken to the bush like the likes of Shekau, Yusuf, and other scores of terrorists leaders who have been dispatched to the great beyond. I'm sure, the government would have killed him just like it did to Ikonso and Gentle. The real people behind his incarceration are Ibo elites and Jubril of Sudan. Go and meet them.

Lol. Who tell you say Gentle don die? Na you kill am? Lmao. You are a joke if you believe everything you see on the news.

funshint:
The North keeps deceiving herself.

And demigod master strategist is doing well. The north should keep deceiving themselves like you said. One day dem go know wetin dem dey do themselves in the name of religion

casualobserver:
You don’t need the key fob to open the door using the buttons inside the car!

I said go and try it before you respond to me again.

Let me explain something to you. No car will pass certification if you cannot open the car from inside without the key or key fob. It is considered a safety hazard.

You won’t be able to open from outside without the key but you MUST be able to open from inside or else the Car will NOT be approved for sale to the public.

Like I can if you don’t have a car borrow your friends car and experiment.

you try dey explain something give who dey call Tinubu Demigod.. He even went ahead to say it's such a privilege to have him as his president.

Engineerfavour:
Is just a mistake,I don't even know what happened to me,I have called Airtel they said they cant do anything about it,and I really need the money

Bleep. If I was in this situation that you're in rn, I'll be damned. Sorry man. Maybe you could go to their office