₦airaland Forum

essentialone1:
Unless you choose to live in denial of fact and reality, you cannot buy hate almost everything about ladies. If not for the fact that men cannot help being sexually attracted to ladies and having sex with them, most men would rather prefer to stay very very far from every lady.

True.

ediko5:
You're the only man I've had sex with for years now.

I swore to my self never to love a man again, but my heart just fell deeply in love with you.(this one na old cargo single mothers line)

lol. I can relate. Mehn . looking back now ehn bros. Be like say make I flog myself for tolerating so many nonsense from the selfish thing.

Nonexisting1:
Nigerian women left the chat. What does that man have that we Nigerian men do not have? Why are we being punished in this country? The ones here will rather bill you to death then buy you a boxer and singlet on Valentine's day just to completely finish you. See this one now, she is beautiful with all the good ingredients that make a woman and she brings more than just big brrast to the table. I am not happy with my parents for giving birth to me in this country and God for allowing it.

God abeg ..🤣😭 Swear the lady is endowed with sense and beauty.

ediko5:
Move on bro and gently look for a young single and productive girl if you're looking for a wife to marry. Even with the single lady avoid an unproductive liability as a partner. Also and most importantly avoid old cargo left over that have been used, re-used, over-used and discarded by many old men, married men, ritualists and co

Thanks man. When I'm ready I'll set so many rules, if you no like am you can scram. Number one is I'll always have access to your phones. You must be productive. No be me go carry your financial burden for head I no be your papa. These ladies could kill you.

Adexgentle005:
I’m so sorry you had to go through all that. They don’t care about the sacrifices

Thanks man. I'm sorry I learnt too late. Imagine this girl telling me that she couldn't wish for the kind of life I lived lol. Person wey I dey send money for everything even her sanitary pad. And every month I pay for that. Women are really really audacious sha. A single mom who isn't productive and adds nothing of value to my life. Smiles. It is well sha. Like I told her, na God do am for her.

SisterAnn:
So, when are you coming out and how do you identify now?

OK

Esthered:
She said she didn't see the signs. All mothers without a husband are called single mothers. Till we know their story, we don't know those who had children out of wedlock or widows.

she didn't see the signs. Lol. It's all right.

ediko5:
Baba, the domestic violence Na their main scope. Out of wedlock and out of marriage Na the same thing o.

The only difference is a widow

Lol. You get point. I just tire for that gender and lack of accountability.

Esthered:
My hairdresser survived domestic violence and left after 5 years with 2 children this year.

Should she have stayed and died because of people like the OP?
The man beat her almost on daily basis and one day beat her (she was pregnant) that she passed out and was hospitalized and she eventually left as he wasn't responsible for the children's upkeep while the marriage lasted.

Let's not use one person's opinion to conclude that they're all bad people. Osinachi would have still been alive if she left with the children

were refering to those who birth children out of wedlock...what you highlighted up there is a totally different case. Please don't misunderstand us. Nobody is supposed to remain in an abusive marriage. Women gan would open their koro koro eyes and go for terrible men...and make another man suffer for the transgressions of these randy men.

ediko5:
Funny we have many men with this mentality on Nairaland attacking RedPill preachers.

What helped me when it comes to women is that I learnt a lot from other people's experiences and story. Most people think I've been hurt by women but NO, it never been hurt by a woman in my life because I always see the bullet from a distance and know how to dodge it due to the lesson from other people's experiences.. It's only once a lady have tried opening a small office on my head using pregnancy and I loose guarded a lil cos that was my first experience but I quickly mounted my guard due to the intervention of an older friend.

Last month, lordnkem000 talked about how he escaped the wrath of almost getting married to an older single mother which he thanked God for saving him from future disaster and yesterday I stumbled across his old post made January 2023 when he told the men to stop attacking women. I believe his understanding then was 'attack' and not 'teaching' and 'exposing'.

Women are natural manipulators and you see single mothers ? They are super manipulators please don't under estimate what a single mother can do to you. Don't give a single mother a chance to come deeply into your life as a single man PLEASE

Thanks man. I no get business doing anything to do with them again. I am not even interested in dating anymore. It's a waste of time and resources on the part of the man

Nonexisting1:
If I had told you to leave her, would you have listened? I like how simps learn the hard way. I'm sure you're now a teacher of men. Nice one

swears I no for hear. You know we always reason that maybe the one we're with might be different. That's the mistake we always make. But I thank God sha. As for me and relationship, we no get business. Girls nowadays think a relationship is a poverty alleviation scheme

ediko5:
Hope you now see the reason we preach regularly to expose their evil acts. With your story, one or two men out there can adjust.

So become an evangelist to help other men by preaching the gospel of RedPill out there 😁

fosho. Anytime I am opportuned to warn a brother I would. These women are cold and heartless.

Adexgentle005:
Damn! Are you for real bro? This is so pathetic. Wow!;2

I shared her story and pics on Nairaland some weeks ago. Removed it to avoid legal issues. She stole from me and blocked me. Was still acting the victim. All my sacrificed didn't mean shit to her. She went ahead to steal from me thrice and then had me blocked. She felt no remorse about it and was still claiming right. Omo story long jare.

ediko5:
Sorry about that bro. It's always good to learn from other people's experiences and not wait till you experience it yourself.

I've asked severally if single mothers have special school of manipulative studies because those ladies are top notch manipulators. That's why I won't get tired preaching and exposing their tactics.

Single mothers are mostly [emotionally damaged and bringing them close to you to take care of them is like bringing a young snake or lion from the forest to your house to groom. It can be very disastrous

That's just it. I'm glad I didn't end up wifing her. My life would have been completely messed up. I am glad she showed her true nature when she did. Omo.

Adexgentle005:
Leave single mom alone as a single guy. Look for a single girl to marry. End

Couldn't have put it better. I learnt this the hard way. Wasted my time and resources on an ungrateful, unapologetic, gaslighting,cheating, manipulative wicked creature. I wish I focused on my family.

Topbrass:
I stumbled on a song this evening titled turning page by sleeping at last and my mind went back to last year. I remembered Miracle ( not real name). My mind was flooded with emotions I could barely describe.

I have struggled with making a post about this but have always shrugged it off. I met Mira last year in the month of May. I own a firm and she happened to be a sales girl to another business in our office complex. The first day I saw her, something moved within me. Now some background here. I was once married but separated. I have a young son. I'm in my mid- forties. Doing very well for myself. Mira on the other hand, is in her early twenties and yet to go through a university. Before you crucify me, the heart will always love who it will.

For years, I have struggled with the inability of falling in love. It must have been over two decades since I last felt what love is, but I guessed Miracle changed that. For the first in a long while, I was human again. I felt that sweetness that only love could bring. I approached her and it took a while to convince her that I wasn't there for the cookie. Also worthy of note, I didn't touch her. Apart from some few stolen kisses, I was just content to bask in this new found feeling. Quite unlike me.

I took up a lot of her responsibilities. When her toxic boss was bent on frustrating her, I encouraged her to resign and I enrolled her In a skill acquisition program. Something she has always longed for. Now before you come with you simp story, let me quickly state that I'm a man's man. Everything I did, I did of my own volition. Like I kept telling her, even if she leaves, I won't regret whatever I did for her. Also, I have acquired a couple of assets and was very comfortable. What ever I did for her was just a pinch of what I was making but it was huge for her. I also took care of my siblings and mum too.

By December I had already started thinking marriage. I had mooted the idea to my mum and aunty and my poor mother was over the moon with joy. At this point, I know Mira may not really be in love with me considering the age difference, but I was willing to give her time, hoping that she would one day come to have a deeper feeling for me.

The moment I brooched the idea of marriage, things changed. She withdrew. I really didn't understand what was happening. By this time I was in my village and was about meeting a trusted uncle of mine to discuss the issue of going to get her then I started noticing a shift in attitude.

When I returned to town, I asked her to return so we could talk but she came and returned almost immediately without my knowledge citing that she was no more comfortable in her elder sister's house . While chatting with her one day, I noticed a strange message. The message said please leave my girlfriend alone. Almost immediately the message was deleted. Then a similar message popped and it was deleted. This continued a couple of time until I got angry and asked to find out what the fvcvked was going on. The person at the other end said he is Mira"s boyfriend and he told me Mira was the one deleting the message. At a point she gave up and allowed the guy to keep chatting. In anger I deleted her number.

It's been months now and I just discovered I still love her. I'm not angry. My friends keep wondering how I left all other ladies and fell madly in love with a small girl.

Now I'm back to that emotionless state. I have met beautiful ladies after then but nothing has moved me like she did. They get frustrated because it is so obvious that I don't feel much for them. Sometimes I wonder if this is how I will go through life. My fear is, will I ever find a woman that will evoke that deep feeling in me again? I'm worried.
What's your take.
Please be civil with your response.

You go dey aiight. Forget about love. Find one girl give belle. Don't waste your breath on looking for love. It is elusive in this generation. And please stop wasting your resources on a gen Z female.

seunoyeleyep:
'Slashes' seems to have assumed another meaning entirely in this corntree

and majority of the animals in the Zoo would celebrate this slash. Lmao. We're a pathetic bunch in this corn tree. It's really painful to watch

EmmySparky:
You just dey post fake jobs… before akure… now jalingo… next na makurdi… continue

......... Lol the guy just dey muse me for here lol. I dey enjoy him way.

PigTormentor:
Have you never seen floods in other parts of the world? Just focus on your erosion-ravaged jungles.

Yes, he built the Lagos that una dey run to daily with polythen bags.

Omo tribalism don chew off the more functional parts of your brain. Who told you that he's from the east? God abeg. . too many weird people in Nigeria. No wonder we can't forge ahead as a collective.

EmmySparky:
What part of Lagos is your school located….. and drop a starting point for salary negotiation

yeah location indeed matters here. If it's too far, might pose a problem.

elipheleh:
My initial thoughts was to attack you OP.

But on a 2nd thought, I feel you said the truth with most people that say they are Christian ladies.
Don't be deceived they all almost are not Christian ladies 98% of the time. They are just church goers.

The other 2% are really weak at some times.

Its not really easy keeping oneself.

Even the men.

For example, see me, me that got married almost 4 years now. I deliberately said I won't touch another girl apart from my pretty wife.
But just last Monday, something came over me. I was upstairs in an eatery eating and relaxing while rewriting codes. And they were washing my car outside.
A girl just stepped in. Very tall, beautiful and the right configurations just like my wife is. Me, see me I was so much controlled by lust that I called her, bought her food. Gave her money there amd then to clear her debts, began pressing her breast and funding her there in the eatery. No toasting, no rapping. Straight forward flung money for her face. She agreed.
I was handling and pressing her breasts, laps, bum bum. She sat on top of my genitals. I was carried away. A 19 year old girl at that.
This is a stranger o. Public place o. Cctv everywhere o. They boyfriend works in that eatery too.
I didnt even remember I was a Christian, no rembrance of God at all. I forgot the fear of God completely.

I told her I was married and just wanted sex and promised to be lavishing her with huge money anytime she asks for it.

Money is not even my problem. I earn millions every week.

I run transfer for her. I mean there was nothing she could ask for that I couldn't provide.

She collected my number. Has been calling me since then, Tuesday o, Wednesday o.. I got fed up. Even though I already booked appointment with her today, Sunday for fornication. No love involved, no nothing.

The following days which is Tuesday and then Wednesday I went back to God, prayed, cried that God help me not to Bleep this girl. I fasted join against this spirit of lust.

By Thursday, I stopped picking her calls. She calls me every minute, missed calls. Now I have power over this lust of a thing, at least lusting after her. Today, being our appointment day, I won't go. I won't still pick any call.

This and many events taught me that I am not above the law. Previously, I used to boast in my self control as a man.
I used to brag.
I now know that its not by power or might.

By the way, I am very good looking, very rich and young too.

I just learnt that most women in this Tinubu regime would sleep with me as just intimacy gadget because of money.

But Christ has restrained persons like me.

My wife doesn't even know why I fasted and prayed against lust this last week.

She didn't know what God did for her and our marriage.

OP you see we are all weak. Just living daily by God's grace and mercy. Only God can give strength to them that have no might.

Have compassion on the weak. At times we would be worse if thesame situation befall us. We are all saved by Grace through Faith.
It is of Grace and not by works lest any man should boast in the presence of God

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Kobojunkie:
Any woman that engages you without a court agreement is going to regret it at some point in her life. This is 2025. Any marriage not sealed in the courts at this point is bound to end in mega regrets.

locate rest abeg

Smilleydr:
bro abeg give me update now, how u take get am?

salient question

GiftcardMan:
I will reply you in here,thx for reply

All right. I have my fingers crossed. Thank you.

GiftcardMan:
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Thank you. Is there a way to contact you on WhatsApp so as to remind you please

GiftcardMan:
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How does gaming relate to completing orders please?

GiftcardMan:
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If you still dont believe me,you can hit my whatsapp and video chat with me before you join this job.
We do not charge any fees and if you are concerned about your safety, we can conduct the interview in a large market in Lagos

is this a remote position? Please what do you mean by orders?