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Brandiebird:
😂😂😂😂😂😂

I am glad you could find certain humour in that. Thanks for your understanding.

I think it's about time a section was created on Nairaland for the strange and unusual. Where we can share our experiences with events like time slips, parallel Universe stories, etc. I would love for those of us that have interest in similar topics to have a space where we can share findings et all. Perhaps we could spark a thread on this spot. 😁

Brandiebird:
You’ve really become bitter! 1 small girl used you like a dish rag and now you’ve joined the “All women are evil” bandwagon. Remember that you still have a mother and a sister, and one day if you’re lucky, a daughter. Hating women isn’t going to change your character defects. Work on yourself and your self respect so that you could identify bad people in general. That small girl played you because you lacked self respect and not because women are evil.

Okay.....I was played..and I've become bitter, yadiyadiya...And who told you I'm not working on myself? And who told you I want to have "anything" to do with females? Keep your advice to yourself. I don't need it. And please y'all should stop brandishing 'we have mum and sis" narrative ..it's getting stale. "you've really become bitter" shey I tell you say I won dey sweet going forward? See me see wahala. Keep your freaking advice to yourself and mind the business that pays you. I'm not getting married to your sister. Let me be bitter in peace. Sho gbo?

LoneSoldier:
Else what...

I wrote there again, come beat me. I will continue to expose your gender and there evil tactics on men till the day I leave this world.

I still wrote another there, I still repeat myself "come beat me"

You Sabi....knew you did that on purpose. I do too. No mind the busybody

I have no RIP to waste. Feel rather sorry for bro. Now he's lost his freedom. Women go always stain your white. They always think they are the smart ones, just because men choose to look the other way.

AllBlack:
I am one of the few Nigerians who has never used that phrase in the context of marriage and relationships. I thoroughly dislike it

Next is those people who use the term ISSUE to describe a child.

we do share the same ideology bro.. I disliike these terms.

AllBlack:
Una too wicked for this forum. why? why? Just why?

Blame the fellow wey think say e fit find woman here in the first place. Joke's on him. Nairaland has gone past that era na.

Double0h7:
Let me just leave this here for our future sister in law.

;Dwhy are you dashing the man's last hopes to finding an intentional woman on here na?

motionarena:
Available

Oh. You're a lady sef lol. No wonder.

Study the guy's demeanor for like three months. Tell him you're busy for now. Watch his reaction. I sense that he could be a perpetual user. I despise people who don't think about tomorrow when dealing with another person. Left to me, I no go help am. He doesn't deserve your help boss. Well-done sire. may God continue to uplift and bless you.

fyneboi79:
I am a mobile business man,single and in my mid forties and I will be interested only in child bearing with a woman in her mid to late thirties,educated bsc, gainfully employed or into business,financially independent (for her own benefit because I don't give shishi), Delta,Anambra or Benue ladies only.

bros don dey deviate lol. Anyhow sha...as long as e work for you Baba.

I still dey talk am in the next five years, women would regret bitterly for all the games and manipulation, gaslighting they have used on men over the years. More men will awaken and see majority of them for exactly what they are. Then the real game will commence. Well, until then, Arriverderci

Is it even still worth the hassle? Following the spate of insecurity in the land. There are times I wake up with the dreaded feeling of the insecurity spreading to every nook and cranny of Nigeria.

I believe I would be forgiven for thinking that now is not the right time to start a family. The crisis and anarchy keeps festering. If you've got a family as a man how do you keep a family protected if it comes to that point?

On the contrary a man unattached to an extra nuclear family will hold some sort of advantage as he would not have young children to bother about in the midst of the crisis.

This is my take anyways...those of us getting wedded every other week should have this in mind. Don't think that the worst cannot happen because with the way we're all going, anything is possible.


As we move to starting our families, we should have this at the back of our minds - civil war could break out again. If we continue on this path, it is almost inevitable - these unabated killings cannot continue.

Bostin:
If you're an intentional woman that's willing to build a home with a loving man . Let have a talk .

you're looking for intentional woman where? Bros better no use your own hand invite trouble to your peaceful life.

ajalawole:
fat lie. I knysome that leave her marriage of 2month because she has been seeing money from tiktok.

how is it a lie

ajalawole:
my ex leave me same way,funny enough we don't have any issues. She is a single mother of 2 now and begging to come back.

lol she's a comedian

ajalawole:
Ex husband is right. I knotof someone who leave her marriage of 2months because she has been seeing small money from tiktok

I pity men wey still dey carry marriage for head

helinues:
We are truly practicing democracy in Nigeria. The opposition should be glad about that

One day...surely, one very good day...you're going to reap all that you're sowing. And hopefully we'll be here to witness your wailing. Keep it going. Your Waterloo ain't far anymore.

Sirchiboy:
I started trading today.
I use opay and
First I deposited $20 and i lost it.
Then I decided to try another luck.
I used $30 and I grew it to $70.
Now to withdraw is a problem.
Asking for id verification before I withdraw.
I don upload but still pending.

sounds like scam. You should have done your due diligence na. I hope you can recover your funds.

Host78:
alright.

I Neva know whether them use argument swear for that user. Good as you dey dismiss am. Think say na everybody gets time for her shenanigans 😅🤣

ibechris:
A real man don't go about disparaging women...u should be ashamed of urself. If u are sensible,u won't join the bandwagon of idiots to call women names if u are not from a highly toxic home like the man above.

What makes u a man if all u do is to talk down on
women almost every time.

Shame on u.

You really have a problem with comprehension. ✌️ You go learn the hard way.

ibechris:
Why are women always bad to u people and ur mothers and sisters are the good ones.

Is like u guys grew up in terrible homes?

the thing with folks like you is you lack comprehension. Do you feel like you can compare the ladies of today to our mother's? It's an insult to even compare your mom to any female today. They are totally different. As of sisters, I don't got one. I would have had something to say if that was not the case.

10thTenthMan:
But she is correct.

If a man does not care, then he does not bother you.

This is a fact.

The question can then be, ''What type of man goes out, comes back and sees his house in a mess with a wife at home and does not care''?

Show me that man, and I will show you a low value man without discipline. A man without a strong, respectable network of friends. A man without shame. A man without order in his life. A man who does not demand accountability because he himself lacks it. A man she will call a whimp and she will eventually cheat on with someone who demands accountability from her.

As per a man bickering with women, she is also correct.

A sensible man creates boundaries and enforces them, and never renegotiates them. Calling out a boundary MUST NOT INVOLVE Shouting and quarrelling. Don’t get into arguments with her, especially with logic and facts. Tell her once and enforce it. Remove time, remove resources, remove protection, remove provision, remove validation. No reaction/overreaction IS YOUR TRUE WEAPON. But how do you do these things when you do not have value way above her. If you can be easily replaced, then all you have is your self resect. Keep that intact and walk away from a woman who does not respect your boundaries. You are a man and easily manipulated to lose emotional control with someone you are to lead? Don't bring yourself down to that level. Why should I waste energy speaking with logic to a brain and mind run by emotions? Choose your words wisely. Not too much talk. Don’t argue like a child.

just earned yourself a follower sir. I would be needing your advice someday. Well-done sir.

We4all:
Funny how you use the women you know (who are less than 1% in population) to form your opinion. Funnier how you think that getting gifts from men is exclusive only to married women. How many Nigerian men remember their wives birthdays or even buy them gifts? How many of them are romantic enough to buy them flowers on Valentine?

There are women who are married but single! They prefer solo trips, and would rather do things alone because they married a jerk. If a woman you know feels unfulfilled without a man, then that is her problem. There are thousands of other women living their lives without a man and they are happy. How many women in Nigeria have a good marriage? Just a handful! How many of them want to get out of their marriages? Many, but they can't because they are scared of being judged.

You people use marriage to shame single women to the extent that I overhead a mad man the other day ranting that he never wants anything to do with a Nigerian woman. If your so called 'successful female friends' are desperate for marriage, why can't they use their money and influence to find themselves a partner? What are they waiting for? I will tell you why they are single. It is because the men who come their way are nothing to write home about.

For what it is worth, as a woman, there is nothing wrong in wanting the right man to spend your life with. But it becomes a big deal when single women are shamed for it and made to feel like men are the prize. A prize that brings nothing but sorrow to a woman may not be worth it afterall. On a final note, if a man feels unfulfilled without a job, then why make it a fuss when a woman feels unfulfilled without a man?

awwwn C-note. Nobody cares.

ibechris:
Is like u grew up in charity homes.

Any man that can disparage a woman publicly has a character problem.

Person dey type truth you dey call am disparage. Until Una learn the hard way Una no go value wetin Niggas dey do here.

Everrich96:
I fell in love with a single mom but she had greater worries as touching our 3yrs age difference and my stability (she's doing better), but I'm not doing that bad either. I earn 6figures monthly.. About her concerns of our age and what society would say, I had allay those fears by letting her know that I don't care and my mom is also supportive of my decisions. She's hot tempered and I'm very calm
We discussed our differences in character and age before agreeing to date. She's never been with a younger guy and she's been through a couple of heart breaks , hence making it difficult to trust me and my motives. She's unsure of me as I'm in my late 20's . But my intentions are true.

The problem we face now is that, she's mostly unforgiving and everytime there's a conflict she avoids talking about it . She's not expressive and shuts down mostly when I get angry or probably complain about some stuffs. We had a misunderstanding and I kinda accused her of being with someone else, she shut down and went ghost. Right now, what she's holding against me is that I wrongly accused her because she let her guard and walls down for me. t's been 6days of her ignoring my calls and texts. I've done everything I could to let her know I was sorry . My last card is to go see her which I know is a dangerous mission.

But honestly I dunno what to do. I feel like letting go at this point. Pls naira landers, what would u have me do in a case like this? I love this woman.

bro you didn't learn anything from me? Bro single moms are for single fathers. No go give yourself BP for woman wey no fit ever love you. Why men no dey hear word?

Sammy101111:
GOD BLESS YOH FOR HAVING BETTER UNDERSTANDING IF YOU A WOMAN TRULLY LOVES YOU . SHE WILL NOT BRING YOU PROBLEM THAT REQUIRES MONEY. SHE CANT SPEND HER OWN MONEY ON HER PROBLEM BUT WANT ME TO SPEND ON HER PROBLEM NOT EVEN UP TO 2 WEEKS OH . I DONT EVEN HAVE HER NUMBER .

bro run o. Dawan na selfish woman. No let her use your head

Joseph1505:
Most of you are still sleeping in web 2, while your next door neighbour is cashing out in web 3.
If you don't understand what i mean.

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Sammy101111:
he be like say you don't understand what am saying I cant behave like mugu all because of love my age doesn't allow me to continue doing that.
Spending for the right one is what am looking for not just spending for any woman .

stop wasting your energy on that thing. Comprehension is far from it. Na just unnecessary argument e dey find. Anyway, e good as yo do. No let any woman whine you. If she can't manage with you now, she will never manage with you when you're rich.