₦airaland Forum

dederocs:
Most of them don't even care about the bad politicking, they act too refined to be bothered about what politicians do and how they are plunging the society to chaos with their maladministration and corruption.

I swear bro. It's like the lot of them are NPCs. They never seem to be bothered. All that concerns them is to move on with life like there's nothing at stake. Almost zombie like..many of them do not even care about awakening or enlightenment. Just zombie -esque human beings.

luminouz:
Thanks Tenrack

This is my shiit.

But many people here will still not believe

wait, do you mean that you practice IDT as well? bro show me way please. Leave the skeptics to deal with their skepticism. Me I want to learn and apply biko.

dederocs:
People are just giving birth because it's what everyone does, most of them don't care about securing their families.

my thoughts exactly bro. It's scary.

Come on guys I don't want to believe that I'm the only one interested in this topic

OurTruth
Pansophist
Racoon1
luminouz

Let's share knowledge biko

thomas2024:
Mention the benefits of marriage to men in our present day Nigeria oga

e go still come ramble about having your own family to go home to and take care of you. E no fit pass like that. I still maintain, if ill health and old age wasn't an issue, majority of them will never get married cause humans are selfish creatures.

Revolva:
In today's world ..today's wvmen no be am ..they are unmarriageable let's be honest only 10 percent are good women

Ranging from feminism prostitushion disobedience uncultured and many more have made today's Nigerian gyals to be unbearable

Men have their own issues but a man can change later on but wvmen when e reach 35 years dem start to fade and menopause in d next five years draw closer

10 percent dey quite generous for women of today Many men Neva realize yet say na coded Olosho dem pack full for house. God go help them sha. What I sha know is, there are a lot of things more fulfilling than marriage. A whole lot, but that's a topic for another day. If not for old age, a lot of persons would not even bother with marriage because most human beings are inherently selfish...

Guestmale:
Please don't talk like this, marriage is good,marriage is ordained by God,if a man or a woman come to this world and died without marrying (except it is direct leading from God or any kind of extreme circumstances] he or she did not completely fulfill the purpose of his or her coming to this world

Now this is how to convince or encourage a person. Nice 👍 not forcing your beliefs and ideas down their throat

greatman247:
Who tell you? Dey play! Sometimes, it doesn't seem like that. Life is funny in fact very funny and at the same time life is crazy. Have you heard about the statement "The good die young" and some very brilliant, highly intelligent and very hardworking guy while in school may not even make it in life eventually such person may even get employed by a guy who was so lazy and dullard in school. This goes to say, to make it in life requires quite a few things than hardwork, brilliance and intelligence.

You may even do good to people such as sponsoring them through life, give them clothes, shelter and feed them daily, this does not mean this same persons you have helped will not betray you along the line. In fact someone you often help with money may even be wishing you go dead broke and he may even be working day and night to ensure you have nothing. Life is deeper than you think, my friend

Same with marriage. A very bad lady or prostitute may get lucky in life and marry a rich good man while a very decent lady may end up with a drunkard broke and even evil man. E get why!

bros you get sense abeg. E go shock them say the OP fit even outlive the so called happily married ones and in better health. Human beings go won force their opinion or idealism on you.

merits:
All these your excuses won't save you during old age,old is inevitable and it's imminent at least you are now 40years in the 10years reality of not having a wife and child would set into your life.Please just remain single and see for yourself.

old age, old age, old age..yadiya...even as a married man, you would be blessed to even see 65 years..what are you guys blabbing about old age? Nothing is guaranteed...this is exactly why we have widows and widowers. Nawa people just see things through their own POV.

ObaKlaz:
Nah... I would NEVER do that. Principles still dey. But a lotta times, I just laugh inwardly when I hear the goats talking glowingly about the same women who make them sleep on couches in their own home, and how I found their so-called 'amazing wives' have virtues that are 'very flexible'.

Should I burst your brain? Many men on here that have spoken with pride in favour of marriage may have partners that are currently cheating on them with reckless abandon right under their noses. Lol. The irony is mind blowing. And they won't be able to detect shiii but here they are beating their chest..rooting for marriage and downplaying the OPs decision. Fvck.

Kobojunkie:
Family na im own special kind of delusion o! There are many men and woman out there surrounded by this same thing you call family, yet are so lonely and empty on the inside.

Lol. Let them keep deceiving themselves. They believe everyone finds fulfilment in that family thingy. Forgetting that some people have a bucket list of things they wish to do and family might be or not be one of them.

tuoyoojo:
If u say u don't want to marry,no pressure do what works for u, but to come and and vilify marriage because at 40 you are unmarried citing a few examples of marriages that didn't work as ur evidence is completely wrong

Everyday cars have accidents, would u say because of that u you would never enter a car and all cars are bad and you would rather walk from one long distance to another

Or

Because fire can burn your kitchen, you would say u would eat all ur food raw

Oga many marriages are working and you don't hear about them because events that makes it to the news are bad

[b]I have many regrets in life and one is not marrying earlier because I am very happy[/b]where I am now

because it worked out for you. Lucky you....sha don't lose your guard. I pray your marriage remains a happy one.

Taquin:
But it is okay for men to age shame women in their 30s. Will you get out of my mention or do you think I have forgotten your moniker? 😒BF

lol so that's the bone of contention for you? Makes plenty sense.

Starz825:
Walk away from little gist cos you no go know the one wey go vex her...

Omoo

just imagine having to deal with such crap on a daily. No wonder most African men no dey as productive again outside marriage. It consumed every fibre of their being. Once you get married, you're thinking about your wife, kids, dreams put on hold, yet majority of the time you're the one still funding their lifestyle, providing...and if you're lucky, pray to God you are appreciated. The odds sef no be here. You are not your wife's sibling, she fit wake up change am for you one day. Nothing is guaranteed in this life- what people fail to understand is life is a gamble, so is marriage...if the man says he doesn't want, it's a personal decision. Na him gut feeling..these women should quit acting like he disappointed them or something. See them sounding like they can already see the future from here.

wunmi590:


So if your mama and papa no born you, how you go come take exist?

Choi, every malam with him kettle 😆

Like this now you don drop some lines of wisdom. 😀

Pinkyposh:
Stay your side nah
No marry.
You don old nah

Lmao. Why this matter dey vex certain women for here like this? Shey na pepper body we go call this one? Why not just ignore him you that's happily married. E no hard. Make Una live and let live.

Adaumunocha:
If your dad has this kinda mindset, Dem for born you? Better go get married and be a man unless maybe you no guide

This one na blackmailing abi kini? Y'all just carry marriage for head. Nobody is even thinking if they are gonna even be alive long enough to even enjoy it with the evil going on in Nigeria and the world by extension. Lol. Make Una dey calm down. Live and let live. Una wey dey happily married , good for you. Enjoy your thing peacefully and pray that it doesn't turn out to be a nightmare cause at the earliest stage na so e dey sweet for belle. Btw if him papa no marry, him go either still dey exist peacefully in nothingness or another lucky young man would have fathered him..staaaap

fyneboi79:
stop age shaming people you might never reach their age on this earth...say anything else but never age shame an elderly person because its quick karma of short life.

Leave dawan. I hope for her case she's already married..and if she already is, hopefully her husband continues to be good to her...that's if she doesn't mess up first and cheats on him. Very ignorant person.

Realme111:
[Even we that are married,where us the assurance,that our so called wife I'll be or take care of us in the future.
Hope you know that some women,will he waiting for your old age to deal with you?
So nothing us sure bro. quote author=Blossomfirst post=137058828]It's a personal choice. But when you get older we won't be here to cry with you when you regret missing out the good part of marriage

Inform the myopic ones that fail to acknowledge that everything isn't black and white. A woman can wait decades to mess you up over something you did to her eons ago. They should pray they don't end up with a deceiver. Na the men wey dey beat chest pass for this thread I dey pity well well. They should pray hard and not lose their guard sha.

Emu4life:
A fool @ 40 is a fool forever

just cause he aired his honest opinion? 🤡 The real fool has just been spotted.

Chikky111:
I will marry, live happily with my wife,may God give good soft spoken woman please

lol. Una just funny for this app olohun.

otipoju:
To think that she deliberately engineered the fight so that she has an excuse to be away till day break.

Sad. Dont stay where dem no want you

na their way. Gaslight you into oblivion. Very wicked and selfish creatures. Only true to their feelings. Tufia.

torqque7:
Bro that gender think they are smart..my ex did same thing on her birthday,she cunningly avoided spending it with me until latter at night when I went to pick her up and she was smelling funny and I asked her why she was smelling funny lol..some days latter I found out the Olosho was knacked by one yahoo boy like that raw sef. Omoh I just pretend like I didn’t know and kept knacking her and tormenting her psychologically and this Olosho had the nerve to be making threats after we saw a movie of a guy who cheated on his babe and I was like see this mu-mu lol

Last last when I got tired of her na so I cast the matter and by then I been don dey another relationship and she was suspecting,then she by herself give herself brain when she realized I was no longer taking her seriously and she come hate me Wella but I no send her papa lol..Trust that gender at your peril..

you did well. I pity these men that are still stuck on the idea of "mine is different" "she cannot do that to me" they'll learn the hard way.

tollyboy5:
Don't be bias, what about the manager that probably married too?

brotherly women hold the key to their pussy. If they don't want to sleep with a man, it wouldn't happen. Let's stop shifting goal posts.

Lovit:
In the next 50 years, only about 2% of people on earth will get married

the rest will choose the transactional route: we negotiate, we have like two kids, you take one I take the other everyone finds their way

when you need sex, you pay for it and move on, no emotion no feelings, no commitment!

we are getting there gradually!

Btw, the ladies started it!

somehow these creatures would still find a way to blame men. Trust them to.

StoryHaven:
Not that I like your point. Though you made a whole lots of sense but, I love your writing skill. May be you dont know you are gifted.
Guy, you are!
Stay blessed.

95% of women are evil and they mostly are all bent in bending the lives of men. That's why they cant take a picture without bending. Acting like they are paralysed.
Most are evil.

For the first paragraph, I appreciate the compliment man. Appreciate it. I'm still in the race to finding myself and what works for me. 🙏

To address the second, I couldn't agree any less. Even the so called "good" ones, one cannot lose their guard around them. I wish I knew a lot about the female nature then as I do now, a lot of BS could've been prevented. But hey, it's all part of life's experiences.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dOqeMbbcpxw?si=uil3iY-gvF8zbCt5 let's dive in, fellaz.

Mind you, his videos are mighty lengthy. 1hr plus at most. I need like minds to dig into this so we can discuss.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?si=UviRCgh4asFYd7T5&v=6RMS6WIykX4&feature=youtu.be

The above is a video uploaded by a guy who claims to be an interdimensional traveller. In that video he records the earth devoid of human beings. He has actually got several similar clips of himself going into notoriously busy places in Vegas and co at different times of the day...but you wouldn't find any human besides him.

Is this a hoax or what?