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Goodlyhrt:
Guy, no dey shut down advice like that. Anybody fit drop something and another person go pick sense from am. Me, I dey collect from everywhere: good, bad, raw, polished, all join. My head dey like database. Everything dey enter, but I don build one strong query algorithm wey dey help me filter noise and pull out the real gems. That’s why I no fear information overload.

So allow people flex their knowledge or even their ignorance na from there we dey soak, sieve, and apply what really works. You fit do the same.

Lol. I no dey give advice to people. I don't know jack about their lives. I'm not in their shoes. Everything you need is inside you..consult your gut. That's all.

Goodlyhrt:
Normally

But this too na strategy too hahahah

Chuckles.

Goodlyhrt:
Life hack keh 😎

Smiling bro I fit look soft, even harmless, but na disguise. Later dem go realize say I be werey and then fear go set in, because omo how one wicked boy like me go dey smile steady? Smiling na pure masterkey. E dey open doors like werey, and if you come get small fine face join, omo na cheat code wey no dey fail

Another one wey dey work for me na visibility. Be active, be present, work the crowd. Many blessings no dey come because you sabi too much, but because person sabi you. (Take am play first) Sometimes just your presence alone dey unlock rooms wey talent no fit enter.

Awareness na another killer code. No leave anything to chance. Watch, observe, dey three steps ahead. Life na chess, but many dey play am like Ludo. Look for patterns. When you sabi patterns, nothing fit shock you.

Information na weapon too. Be like walking Google even if you can't know everything but know much about many things especially in your field. Talk with certainty, drop words with weight, and even if you no talk much, when you finally open mouth, everybody dey pause.

And emotions? Baba, the quickest way to lose na to overreact. Control yourself, no let anger or impulse dey use you dance. Be calm, be ice. Werey no dey shout, werey dey watch.

Last last, always update your software. Learn, unlearn, relearn. Browse like werey Be culturally flexible, adjust, adapt. This earth na jungle and if you no upgrade, you go expire.

That’s my creed: smile to disarm, show face to connect, stay ahead to survive, speak with certainty to command, master emotions to control, and keep evolving to reign.
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Though I never make am but e sure for me because I dey see evidence

Lol. You just dey blow your horn since. Where your own stop na there another own begin. Calm down bros.

EmperorIsaac:
Flee from ungrateful women (if you don't consider "ungrateful women" a tautology!)

This is so apt. In most cases Ungrateful is synonymous with women. So I understand you very well. 😭 They set expectations that even they themselves cannot meet for men. Nowadays I don't even bother with their nonsense. I'm learning to focus my energy on me...be more than happy to enjoy my own company and learn to appreciate the ones who really matter in my life even if they are very very few in number.

It's easy to dish advice when one isn't confronted with the vicissitudes of life. I feel utterly sorry for the one who lives their lives solely based off the advice of people. The best thing you can do is trust your gut. Never ignore that soft voice deep within you. Your spirit alone could ever help you navigate through this shallow world. Pay attention to your inner man, for it is always right, even when it feels wrong.

bigpriik:
Your mind influences your reality ,your thoughts determines the outcome of your life
Positive thoughts yield positive life.

Right, positive thoughts indeed. Are you saying the people that met a terrible end did not have positive thoughts enough? Did positive thinking and affirmation cute people of terrible diseases?

QuinModah:
People Wear Masks. Never assume anyone is showing you their true face.

Money Rules the World. Respect its power, because people already worship it.

Be Selfish. Be Ruthless. Be Firm. Kindness without boundaries is weakness.

ALL Men is Measured by What He Provides. Give only when the exchange is truly worth it.

So cringe coming from a woman. Especially knowing Majority of y'all are like this by default.

2cribz:
Be quiet.
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the guy too funny. I pity who believes this shit. Na OYO

NOETHNICITY:
Bro I understand, but me I dey dread olosho sha

I swear. Funny thing be say our average Nigerian girls dey do transactional relationship. So na coded oloshoism be that

NOETHNICITY:
Open a bad place for person.

Good lord

na advice e ask abeg

xtianchris:
lol Criminal somebody 🤣😂🤣🤣 Bad man.

I'm sorry sir, I was inspired.

cricifixo:
Omo my own open am for me last night as I dash her a loaf of bokku bread I came back with.
The girl opueh too sweet abeg

enjoy comrade.

Quebec91:
Best lecturer of the year goes to you 👍

na whyning be this.

Majesty33:
omo i am not interested in her at all. omo me i be ladies man ooooooh. I sweep most women up their feet. Check my profile and see for yourself . i am very tall ooh. Too many of them in my dm playing around

where you mount? Pass me one nau. :Dbros...don't be greedy

EponObi:
Don't do this kind of business with your neighbor. Who raised you people?

shirt up. He asked for advice.

AMAAnalytics:
I'm an analytics manager with a fortune 500 company in North America. I Data Engineering and related careers.

Cheers

what is the difference between data analysis and data analytics. Abeg I'm confused. Are they the same

folake4u:
@ the bolded. I know right.

E just wan jump and add to list of men I ignore daily, not knowing whether I be frog or princess.

ROTFL. E ear stand as him hear you say you started developing early.

tanigororo:
Play Away Bro, Home Game 🎯 is a Terrible idea to begin with.

well. Me I no fit try am personally Sha. It's not ideal.

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DarkLover:
In summary, I just cheated on my girl with a new friend who wouldn't let go.

She's aware of my relationship, but carries on regardless. She's a sweet one, but I feel bad for cheating.

Life goes on.

this your new friend, describe her body features. Let me check somthing.

JackDaAlienz:
2 fine yellow sissi living in opposite me. Tonight for some reason they decided to quarrel serious quarrel and in the process started exposing their dark secrets.

The good news is the one that is my spec was accused of doing Hooks and in the process she accepted and they both started exposing each other.
It's over and hour and they are still yell at each other cursing each other.
I'm just enjoying the whole secret spillage with my ear glued to the window.

Now I know my neighbour is a Hooks ambassador how do I approach her to s*x now that her matter don cast fir open?

just approach her with friendly vibes and tell her that you want to be friends with her. Then later tell her you want fwb. You go dey do small small levels for her. Since you're neighbours she won't charge you like her nose clients, 10k, 5k here and there. You fit buy her some food stuff now and then. She go open am for you.

Jeweltz:
I saw a post on NL last week where the author said men who forgive and take back their cheating wife live longer than men who don’t and I wonder if Nigerian men can actually do this, with their pride and all that 😏😔very prideful men we have here in the country. Men who will be expecting you message them first and ask them out hmm just don’t want to talk.

That said, the post might have some semblance of truth. Forgiveness isn’t weakness. It’s coming from a place of strengnt. God forgives sin because he’s strong and he’s the alpha and omega.

When a woman mistakenly cheat, it’s not an avenue for you to discard her like she didn’t matter, it just mean you should offer more support and get to the root of the matter. Maybe you’ve been neglecting her..

I’m not claiming an expert on relationship, I’ll leave that to counselors. Nonetheless, there might be some truth in it. I have never cheated in any of my relationships even when things weren’t going good, I’ll rather resolve it than step out.

What do you think?

hohohohohohohohohohohohohohohohohohohoho 😭 fawq did I just read?

Majesty33:
Can we talk in private? I mean WhatsApp and if that won't be possible then I have this piece of advice for u. Try and cut off every guy that is not a family member and from calling you and even if they approach u on the way, ignore . Only call entertained from your boss should be strictly work related. And mind you, no cheating ooooh. I want to check something.

😭😭🤣 Guy relax. She fit no be your spec. You're getting carried away by what she said about herself. Lmao.

AngelSlay:
Check your profile and thank me later. It's guaranteed

you mean your profile

Sunnyrado:
If it was in Ogba, Agege, Ojodu Berger, would have been nice, but that her side...e get as e be

is ojodu Berger the same as Berger mike two? Hmmmm

Esthered:
No I don't but I was advising that she registers on job boards. There are many of them. She'll be getting daily mails of vacancies and she just needs to check daily, apply...... there are jobs I must say but people are top lazy to search which is appalling in this excess information age.

she's done that thanks

Esthered:
Na pastor go collect from his supervisors and the Teens leader.

But we'll try our best as billing is a norm here.

Hi Esther how are you? It would seem that your comment on the thread I created about my sister needing a job https://www.nairaland.com/8500120/sister-need-teaching-job-biology was deleted. Do you have a job for her to apply for?

ezenwaez:
Screening ongoing application has ended.

Thanks. Please do you know of any site I could apply for as a fresh graduate maybe graduate programs, thanks.