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[quote author= post=100127582]Keep silent and read reasonable and mature response....
You will learn one or two things from your elders here.....okay?[/quote]Not a BMC stooge lecturing me about sense

If you're truly insinuating you're my elder (I joined NL in 2006 as an adult, so you can pretty much estimate my age range), then it's a heartbreaking story how one In his 40s can be so much of failure that he becomes a paid sycophant.

My heart bleeds for you. Have you tried farming?

[quote author= post=100124599]We are waiting for the lyrics of the sing before we go further.

It is better that way than some people jumping into conclusion about what they know nothing about.[/quote]Does your brief extend to defending hardline clerics too?

Headers are usually done pretty close to the keepers

OP, these are SARS victims, not #ENDSARS victims.

Report things properly

In other sane countries, Frontline medical professionals are prioritized.

In Nigeria, Governors, politicians and aides are given first priority. This country is a mess.

ceeceeuwa:
A lot of Nigerian men have a toxic mentality about the opposite gender

Especially on Nairaland

Kriss216:
This Harry is just a SIMP. le guy!


How can you abandon royalty and your family for an over used kpekus that left her 4 year marriage?

The love of a woman taste as wine but last only for a while, but, the love of a family last forever!

Nigerians and deep poverty mentality sha

Imagine blasting a multi-millionaire for putting the mental and physical health of his wife and baby over living in the UK and working as a Royal.


I pity your wives sha

pixey:
Mr man ! Balance is key!

Oya na. This same philosophy is why many widows are out on the streets. Their kids condemned to a life of neglect and poverty. All because their useless fathers preferred to leave everything to his brothers and sisters instead of explicitly providing for their nuclear families.

Notice how it’s only wives people attack with this nonsense. Never husbands.

If someone opens thread to say his wife treats her brothers better than him, her husband, Nairaland misogynists would have a field day.

Small boys on Nairaland will come out to defend Uti.

How dem Dey take marry some of una sef?

Even a 7 year old in primary 3 will define ‘nuclear family’ for you as ‘father, mother and children’. If you don’t owe your primary loyalty to your wife, who should you be loyal to?

“I cannot love my wife more than my mother” forgetting that your own mother had her own mother and left her to form a family with your dad. If you see your mother giving more respect to your uncle than your dad, won’t your body do you somehow?

I bet some of you grew up in households where your fathers had to sleep outside or eat the small piece of chicken whenever your uncles came visiting


Abeg, don’t let poverty stricken, illiterate bus conducted on Nairaland tell you you’re a ‘simp’ for giving your spouse the respect they deserve and your primary focus. Even the Bible talk am sef say two to become one.

Some of the clowns will say “why will you ditch your blood family for someone who will dump you and move on”. That is why you need to marry carefully, and not because Sikira has big boobies or big yansh.

How can a pastor be posting fake news and made up stories.

Ah. Na Apostle. No wonder.

How can educated Nairalanders believe this?

Which kain biased article be this na. Report the news in a straightforward manner.

aremuforlife:
This is government program, they have their ways of getting the materials cheaper.

Lmao. This is a government program. They have a way of padding budgets and costs.

People lie unprovoked sha.

Which estate agent will prevent someone from renting a house when his own cut is inside?

Not landlord o! Agent!

drlateef:
You are quite right. Some #EndSARS activists did not want toll collection, not the EndSARS brutality, that’s just a smokescreen. And some of them ask why collect tolls when they are paying tax. That’s what they do in most developed countries. They build roads and collect tolls. Some of the tolls are collected for ever. They don’t campaign against their government because they know that every good road is built with money. They even pay more tax than us. Apart from 50% PAYE tax in U.K., you also pay VAT on many goods and also road tax for your vehicle. Yet you pay toll charges on some of the roads.

Imagine this clown comparing roads in the UK. Comparing taxes here with taxes in the UK, meanwhile people who pay their 45% tax aren’t tasked with generating their own power, providing their own security and have very affordable mass transit systems to move around.


What does #ENDSARS have to do with anything? And if you want to even talk about benefits of these partnerships, is it the Lekki toll gate you’ll cite?


Traitors abound in Nigeria.

Roads that the FG is supposed to build with your taxes, they will now give their cronies licenses to build roads that will be tolled for 25 years. And you and your children will pay and pay.

Yet some people are here claiming this is great news.

This country sha

deni2002:
As per ayam not getting why this is happening. Ehn? If na me, ayam not stepping away from nada? I die there ni

So you’re happy to be in depression and be stripped of all privacy for you and your kids just so you can bear a title abi?

Anyway, different strokes for different folks.

Read what Diana had to say about what she faced from the press in Britain.

Agboriotejoye:
So what media are they escaping really when they'll be producing podcasts and having shows on netflix.

You can make your podcasts from the comfort of your home. You can shoot netflix shows in secure, remote locations.

Agboriotejoye:
I fear Meghan the vintage American feminist and capitalist may have thought they are better off doing their own things and getting the reward than being tied to her grandma-in-law's apron..

No, that's just the misogynist in you telling you that a 'wicked woman' must be behind this decision. Never mind that the overwhelming evidence is that Harry - who witnessed his own mother being harrassed and torn apart in the media, and who saw her die from media frenzy - is likely to be the one behind this decision.

Do you know how much you must hate women for you to dismiss the thought that a man who was hit hard by his mother's death and blamed the media for it would be the one pushing to boost his family's privacy?

bukatyne:
And how did he get his game and fortune?

Prior to January 2020, what made Harry Harry?

What gave him access to ALL the things he has?

Was that a license for people to harrass his family and violate his privacy?

The man has now said he doesn't want to do again, so he doesn't pay the same Iron Price his mother paid. How is that so difficult for you people to comprehend?

Some of you need more exposure. When you're at rock bottom, you think fame and titles are everything. The man himself don hammer and has a net worth in the tens of millions of dollars. He can buy any car or house he wants. Why is it supposed to be a blow to him that he doesn't get to dress up for functions and wave to crowds as a 'royal'?

You remind me of Nigerians overseas wey dem dey dupe into coming back to their village to take chieftancy titles and pay millions of naira.

Rubbiish:
Forget privacy talk!
Why wait till now he is married??
His wife is the one behind all this!

You've heard that someone's wife is being harrassed by the media and paparazzi and you're going "why wait until he is married".

Is everything OK with you? Do you take malaria medicine when you're healthy?

Rubbiish:
Any man that know his worth won't leave his family because of a woman!

'wife'. Not woman. WIFE.

A real man knows his new family with his wife and kids are the major focus of his affections. That's how the cycle of life goes. The parents also once left their families to be with their wives.

Only poorly educated, misogynistic neanderthals than infest Nairaland keep parroting this nonsense that a 'man' should even care more for his siblings than the wife and mother of his kids.
In reality, we see this happen a lot when many Nigerian men would put their brothers as their next of kin, not their wives. and when they die, the brother takes all the property and money and throw the man's wife and children on the streets.

Too many kids are getting married these days.

Agboriotejoye:
And all these will stop once she leaves the palace?
How many of you Nigerians have carried Buhari gworo chewing Fulani? I've not seen him resigned from the presidency because of that. Those ppl who posted those things online are largely inconsequential idiots and I doubt that decision was made because of them.

Yes, the amount of racist vitriol has begun to taper off.

Also, at least they aren't constantly harrassed by paparazzi. Their children will grow up with even more privacy.

BRATISLAVA:
They are not diplomats or royalty anymore? They certainly don't pay for their security, unless they publicly state that they do.

Everything is racist once black people are involved. You see color more than even white people do.

There you go again, parroting racists talking points

BRATISLAVA:
It was not racist for Ferguson. It was not racist for Camilla. It was not racist for Wallis. It wasn't racist for Catherine. Just put in a black and, boom! It's racism.

“It was not racist for these white people, so how can you say deliberate racist material is racist when a black person is involved?”

Lmao.

People posted blogs with racist tropes. Depicted eating watermelons. Photos with her baby depicted as a monkey. Pictures of her with monkeyish features.

Some of you Nigerians sha...

Pretiboi:
Hello Nairalanders,

I know some people will still come here to blab and say it is a lie but i tell you guys this is real from Infinix because i was part of it.

Why would anyone say it is a lie? 350k isn’t an earth shattering prize that a big brand would try to screw you out of, and it’s even easier for them since a large part of that value is in their own devices they’re giving you.


Not sure why Nigerians want to always manufacture ‘haters’ and skeptics.


Enjoy your gifts

LutanFyah:
Stop deceiving yourself.

What could be more influential about going to common wealth nations and being recognised by their presidents and being received by the High commissioners?


That guy goofed,he should have found a way to reconcile with his family. Meghan was not treated like this initially until she refused to perform her royal duties and follow laid down tradition.

Abdicating and leaving family because of a woman is never a rational decision by a man who knows his worth.

Meghan was treated like this from day one. You people like to parrot racist talking points.

There are articles and blogs from even before her wedding sef. People even turned on her in fury because she wanted privacy around her child after the birth. How can outsiders dictate to you how to reveal your own baby to the world?


The problem here is that many Nigerians do not grow up. As soon as you marry and have children, your new nuclear family becomes your number one priority. Over your siblings sef. I’ve seen so many people put their brothers over their wives and children and it’s the height of im’becility. Absolutely shocking.

He has not ‘left family’ or ‘abandoned his family’. His grandmother still remains his grandmother. His brother still remains his brother. But his main focus now has to be with his family - his wife and child.


As you grow older, I hope you learn the wisdom of caring more for your kids than your siblings.

BRATISLAVA:
Unfortunately, it's still the British taxpayers paying for his security. While he goes looking for fun, American security and British security will have to look out for the grandson of the queen. Trump objected to doing that for him.

Stop taking your news from racist blogs and trump tweets.

They’re paying for their own security. The British taxpayers aren’t paying shishi. Nobody asked the American security agencies to protect them.

zoedew:
You don’t know The House of Windsor! Harry just became a Leper! Not even with a 10 inch pole will a member of the House of Windsor touch Harry. At Prince Phillip - his grandfather’s funeral- he will sweat to make it through the crowd to be a participant! He is misguided! Who avoids destiny struggles with his essence! He is lost to The House of Windsor!

What destiny is he avoiding? The same ‘destiny’ that led to his mother’s death?

Nigerians sha. Person mama die because of unhealthy paparazzi culture and you expect him to sit still like a mugu while his wife and mother of his child continues to be harassed and harangued by a racist UK media.


He doesn’t NEED the House of Windsor. He already has fame and fortune. There’s nothing else they can offer him. He wants privacy and control of his own life. He’s by far the bravest person in that family.

SmartPolician:
That woman is deceiving that guy

Well, I am not surprised because she is older than him. When elders tell guys make dem no marry slay queens, dem no go hear word. Now see am!

How can I even imagine losing my influence around the world as the Duke of Sussex? For what, exactly? Now, Harry will start getting used to living like a commoner.

I just hope they don't divorce someday. Then him mumu eye go clear. For now, the love is still intoxicating him.

Nigerian ladies should go and consult the babalawo that prepared this strong charm for Meghan because it's extremely potent.

Nigerians and poverty mentality sha. Not surprised at how many ponmo people have rushed to ‘like’ this post.

A family of two famous multi-millionaires say they want to ditch the trappings of royalty to get privacy and focus on family and you’re here wailing about ‘Duke of Sussex’.

What do they have a combined net worth in the high tens of millions. What do they need the title for? So that when they come to your village your people will rush out and greet them as ‘royalty’?

uptimum123:
Werey dey disguise after collecting huge allowances every month... Eye service everywhere

Who takes a chimpanzee seriously

We are waiting for you and your cohorts on Saturday

When thugs were fighting at Obalende, we thought you self appointed defenders of Lagos would jump up to defend Lagos.

Alas, na just hot air.

Unless you can explain why you didn't deploy to obalende yesterday, keep your inconsequential mouth shut.

GamalNasser:
Is she going to return all the generous sitting allowance she has received so far?

Certainly, as long as they return back her time. Maybe you can spearhead this.

JidennaJason:
Look at this one...

The day you invited trouble to your household was the day you endorsed a grand patron of the marauding Fulani herdsmen as president..

You even went as far as calling GEJ unprintable names just because you want to enthrone the Devil.

Enjoy your time with the Noble Laureate Herdsmen.

Is it Soyinka that forced GEJ to be a shitty president?

If e sure for you, say what was false in what Soyinka said about GEJ.

setobaba:
This too much on him, the lady could have settled this out of court.

God will punish you for this inane contribution.

xrayj:
Let us remove sentiment, I honestly think it is too much. It is a bail able offence. Who remands someone for slapping another.

Too much ke?
Hopefully they lock him up with hardened criminals until mid march.

Nobody voted in Buhari to do high kicks. Reno is a clown

WiszyFraud:
i Thought they broke Up..

You thought the mother and son broke up?