JASONjnr: Omo, I pray I receive this type of transfer.
I will disguised totally.
I will bribe my way to NIMc and create a new account with new name. Open a new BVN and change account details by force. Change phone number and use POS to withdraw the money and pay it into my new untraceable account.
Then travel out to Ghana or another African country with my new name and then from there to Europe. The spending go too make sense.
CharlyG1: For those that want to be added on the Whatsapp group, you will be added. Please delete your numbers now so that intruders don't use it to their advantage.
This revelation speaks of "God's Judgement" that is coming.
It talks about a Great Famine that is coming, Total Collapse of World Economies & Governments, and Disease. There will be plenty plenty plenty deaths. COVID -19 was nothing.
I have not had enough time on my hands. By the grace of God, I will give this interpretation in full details later.
Hi Charly. You haven’t finished here. I understand your schedule is in the way but please try.
New222: I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.
I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.
Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.
I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.
Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.
The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).
I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?
We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life. I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?
P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.
P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.
You should sha have gotten advice before getting someone pregnant. Congratulations in advance
Asgard13: Wey those bingos and idiots shouting if Na east e happen or if Deborah Na igbos and all bushing
Oya e don happen for igboland
Wetin Una go do
Tell IPOB wey Dey hide inside Bush they eat their fellow igbos say e don happen for igboland make them go poo bees make e sting them zuzuliy fools and noise
Dia Brain dey their mouth
Useless IPOB
Haba, over a life that was taken unjustly and another raped in one day both in the same family?
GreyLaw: This is just hypocrisy! A lot of those people both men and women engage in many sorts of sexual fantasies. The rule is to not be caught. This is as stupid as it comes. If the man watched porn there so what? Why resign when you'll watch it a thousand more times at your home?
These people have solved most of their problems that they don't know what else to do with their time.
So if you caught Ahmed Lawan or any lawmaker watching porn in the hallowed Chambers of the House of Assembly you would ask them to resign? Hahahaha... in 30mins the police would have you in cuffs!
You most likely didn’t think about it properly before responding. Now think about it without the arrogance associated with a Nigerian mindset. How can you say watching porn while in a legislative chamber to make laws for other people to follow is not a problem, haba. One’s exposure to abnormal situations doesn’t make it normal altogether.
Not true. There is a thing called unconscionable contract (egregiously one sided contract). If that is the case, then in court of law he doesn't have to fulfill the contract terms and it's also not enforceable under law. It would seem Wiz got out of his commitment and trust me it isn't becos Banky is a nice guy. His lawyer must have informed him the contract isn't enforceable under the law so they either settle, mutually part ways or let the law handle it. They clearly chose one of the first two.
This clash usually occur between mentors & mentees When mentees decide to cut the umbilical cord it usually hurts the mentors A good mentor will always let the bird fly in the end.
But Banky sef no fear God o 5 albums contract with Wiz getting less than 50% Wiz probably signed out of desperation in my opinion, especially when he was new in the business
Just so you know, a contract is a contract. The choices for the signee will have been either not to sign, or quickly deliver the 5 and walk free. Breach on the other hand is a totally unacceptable practice in civilised places. Even you, won’t have the stomach to take such treatment.
i agree that not paying unnecessary bills is good but me and you know that you are joker if you think a woman that you are dating or married to will share bills with you, i dont care what race the woman is but i can tell you that a woman who shares bills with you will never respect you.
God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert
You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all
Just a question for you. Have you ever been in the situation this guy is describing at all? Mind you he didn’t invite her but he has to accommodate her because of his mum, now she who they are accommodating has refused to dress decently thereby complicating things for this man. He is human and he is asking for help on how to handle this situation which is new to him. If you have no solution it were better you scroll and pass rather than cursing him for a situation you have no experience about.
Saao: Alot of wicked ladies nowadays. Best things to do is to avoid marriage.
I think what you mean is for people to observe properly and avoid marrying the wrong person. You can’t say avoid marriage. Cars get accidents yet we still buy them. Also not all get involved in accidents. *if you still don’t gerrit jus forgerrit*
You see why I said he's not yet ready to marry? What does he even know about a woman's needs? A pack of common sanitary pad now is about #500. I bet he doesn't know that.
You are saying it as if OP is the cause of the current cost of sanitary pad. Most of you think upside down I swear. How much is gas in your area now? And e dey quick finish.
Thanks man.. heard from her friend that sh said am too stingy,.
Honestly I didn't make her spend up to 50k from her wage.. 300k is not big and can be exhausted soon..
The weight will be too much if I form the normal Nigerian guy who likes to carry load on their head
Dude go and thank God, you just dodged a bullet. Her reaction just shows what will have happened had you married her and lost your job during the course of the marriage. If she were wise she will have seen the beauty of having a plan for ones family and I am sure that had you both started your contribution monthly to fund this you will still give her more than her contribution in a month. These fish brain people sef.
Someone asked for advice and in return he gets a bag of insults from equally frustrated people who think they know what they are saying. Op when next you have an issue, don’t bring it here. They’ve never even experienced something like that in their lives.
chinasaekpere: Hello guys, this is a very strong decision I want to make, I need your help to make this decision or not to. I am thinking of cutting my parents off because they have caused me enormous financial setback as a result of the bad decisions my father made. Firstly, I will like to give you a background of the story.
I come from a family of 4 and I am the first child of my parents. My dad is a retired federal government worker, he worked for many eyes as a school cert holder (so obviously, he didn’t hold very top position until he retired, probably the max in reached was level 8 or 9). He trained me through the university and he retired during my NYSC, at this point one of my brothers was in the university (he never graduated because he was nonchalant), my 3rd brother was a jambite and the last born was in primary school. The Jambite graduated this year and the last born is now a jambite.
In 2013, my dad retired and received gratuity worth several millions. My mom tried persuading him to build a house in the village because we are Igbos but Based in ogun state but my dad refused and insisted that he was going to develop his land in ogun state by building a 4 flats building (up stairs) then start business with the remaining money in Ogun state (apparently, he got the revelation from church to do that), he never completed the house. My dad is very religious until date, so out of the money he paid tithe, bought instruments for church and made some donations. Immediately I finished serving, I got a job with a pharmaceutical company as a medical sales representative. I was receiving a salary of 80k with commission. Things started great. I served some money I joined my dad in some of his fish farm business, I was in Enugu while he was doing the farm business in ogun state. When it was time to harvest the fish, I was told stories about theft, I spent 700k on the business but was able to recover 200k because I had to help him offset some debt.
To cut the long story short, my dad started having serious financial issues, couldn’t pay school fees of my last born in school, had several debts just about 2years after collecting millions as gratuity due to his wrong choice of investment. Ofcourse the financial burden transcended to me, until a point that my dad got into trouble from another debt, he spent church harvest savings that he was suppose to remit. I was paying my brothers school fees worth 150k per term, i had to take money from company’s account to help him offset the debt hoping that he would pay up and I will pay some before company finds out. The whole financial burden was so huge for a starter like me, owing to the fact that I lost all my savings to the fish farming business and I also had to pay house rents in Enugu and pay other bills. I accumulated a debt of 1.2million with the company and then is started paying it by bit until the company found out that there was a deficit of 400k. I was arrested and was in the cell for days. To get out of the cell, I had to sign a legal agreement for a payment plan of paying 30k monthly to offset the debt. Luckily for me, I got a 60k job 1month after, my dad couldn’t pay my last siblings school fees, I took him to Enugu and started Paying his bills. I was also paying 30k from my salary every month until I paid all the lost the job again during the heat of the recession. I managed to pay up that debt. Since 2018, I haven’t really done any serious job, I started driving Uber in 2019, saved up some money, my mom needed money for business last year, i borrowed her, she couldn’t complete the payment. The car I was using to do the Uber got bad again. I had to look for a remote job now in Lagos, I saved up money and learnt how to do footwear, i Am saving some money to pay my house and shop rent and get machines. Last two month my dad called that he needed money for my brother’s school fees so he can complete his SSCE exams. He promised to payback mid last month, now I have not seen the money and my that was my house rent I borrowed him. My house rent expired in August. I called him, and ofcourse, he is playing the emotional game. Now, they are in serious financial mess and they seem not to want stop dragging me into it and it’s not as if I am doing great myself. I am not, I’m struggling to make something after mortgaging a lot of time paying several debts. It is overwhelming.
The point is, I am 31years old, I’m looking forward to making my own family and it seem if I am not careful, they will drag me back from this objective. Anytime I try to organize myself, they come up with their monetary problems and it hinders my growth. My plan was to get a shop and equip it before the end of first quarter 2022 from the saving I made from my current 80k salary and now they have collected my house rent in form of a loan. That’s a drawback again.
I have to make my own family, I need to shed some burden to be able to do that. I also want to be a parent and I never want to depend on my kids in my old age. Should I cut them off? If no, what do you advice that I do?
The answer to your question is ask yourself how far you would have gone in life if you hadn’t responded to them. If you can answer that in all sincerity then you will also find the lesson close by that you can’t help people while you are on the ground. If you had declined all those previous attempts at dragging you into the mess you would have by now attained a position of advantage at least to be able to help effectively. I dare to say that it may come a time when while making them understand how much you sacrificed for them, they will tell you to your face that it was your idea to help them and they didn’t force you to. Lear from this.
All of una comment no pass that... So the soldier just collect her phone and smash... Make you self think.... Girls are so rude..
Let’s even say she was rude according to your logic, is that a deserving treatment of someone who was nothing but rude to you? Just because you have a uniform and a gun?
agbolahan1991: Her husband has been away for almost a month, I feel pity though have been having a crush on her right from before she got married, now she has a shop beside our office and I can't get my heart off her each day I see her....
Am a married man too but my wife gives me hell, with her anger, bad mouth and ojukokoro Am not happy as a married man and I really need someone I can talk to, open up to and someone that can relieve the pain in my heart..
You be yamayama person. Person wife dey hungry you and you think you are still normal. If you hear say person dey fukc your bad mouth ojokokoro will you be happy? Mumu
AmazonTopaz: First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.
We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.
When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.
You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.
You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.
As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women
As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.
I think we should ask men why they are outraged
Op your analysis is wrong. You are comparing two entirely different things. Firstly you said Men refer to men and women which is totally wrong. Even the dictionary does not support that definition. Check and be updated. Also comparing a man cheating with another woman, to a woman giving a man a child(ren) that are not his deceptively for him to take care of unknown to him, are definitely two different things. Also justifying paternity fraud With ‘men are cheats‘ is unfair to certain men because not all men cheat, and yes some women who engaged in paternity fraud didn’t have cheating husbands. Now if you say a man cheated You for example with another women, then it could have been ok for you to cheat with another man and leave it that way, devoid of the other complications. How can you even trivialize something as serious as paternity fraud? Your wife allows you take care of 3kids for over 10years then you discover they are not yours and you expect any right thinking person to just take it like that without reacting. Did you really think about the point you put down before writing it? Or you are writing for the sake of it? How will you feel if you ordered a bone straight wig after paying much for it, and when it’s delivered on opening your package you see darling attachment In the box? Your reaction will be same if not much more than that of a man who was conditioned to take care of and build a relationship with a child that’s not his, and of all people that could treat him in that manner is his wife who he is still taking care of. Imagine that level of betrayal and you dare say that it’s a case of what’s good for the goose is good for the gander? In conclusion some of you ladies should stop reacting emotionally to everything you see. Stop and think sometimes. Just be objective.
CharlyG1: I had a dream this morning, where I was taken into the political affairs of Nigeria. Someone kept referring to Bola Ahmed Tinubu as "late", while giving a political announcement.
I was asking myself why the man (a politician) was referring to him as "late". I kept moving close to the man to hear very well. The man repeated the word like three times, and I woke up from the dream. It occurred to me that he had died just a day after or within the space of a day or two when the announcement was made in that dream.
I pray for the Mercy of God upon Bola Ahmed Tinubu. I pray he comes to repentance from his wrong ways. Amen
@CharlyG1 top of the day to you please help me with the meaning of this dream my wife had last night. She said she saw herself in the dream and from her left palms those worms that enter the body through the pores of the skin were coming out. She started pressing the palm and more were coming out and when she was done she applied Savon antiseptic(something like dettol) and cleaned the hand then she felt better again Note: in real life she is left handed.
EcoLaw: What about travelling out, someone need to be vaccinated before entry certain countries or flight
Not at all sir. The abroad has not made it compulsory yet. However black man�� If you go abroad they ask you to quarantine for 10days if you are not vaccinated, Nigeria has tied it to job so if you don’t take you lose your job. Yamayama people
4th of August Dependent visas finally came through for my 2 dependents. Collection mail came 31st Aug Pickup was 1st sept. Thanks to the organizers of the thread, a lot of valuable information here, and also those that contribute and respond when questions are raised a big thanks to you all. For those still expecting may God give you the joy you desire. Amen.
I passed through the Canada student visa thread some days ago and I had to run out of it. The first 3 pages I flipped were all about refusals meanwhile we are here Celebrating visa alerts in torrents. #okbye.
Crime / Re: Woman Caught After Spending $10.4m Mistakenly Paid To Her Acct (pics/video) by thaprofit88: 6:31pm On Nov 18, 2023 
