Ellabae:
It's good for her. Foreign men care a lot

As do foreign women

ChangeIsCostant:
A church choir master has got himself trending online after posting pictures of himself relaxing with a scantily-unclad lady in a beach. The young man identified as Kingsley who is also the son of a clergyman in Akwa Ibom - decided to chill with the lady whom he referred to as a friend turned sister as she marked her birthday with friends.

The choir master decided to post fun pictures with the busty lady online - not minding his status as a church leader.




The pictures have gone viral online with many Facebook users reacting to them.

While some have heavily criticized him for posting the "unholy" pictures online, others have argued that there is nothing bad in catching fun on the beach.

See below

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/06/mixed-reactions-as-choir-master-relaxes-with-busty-lady-on-a-beach-photos.html

I have two questions?
1. What kind of clothing constitutes a beach wear?
2. What part of the photos is obscene?

Hello all. Please what kinds of medical test is required for an organizations medical fitness screening

Hector09:
u are mistaking cus i cant tolarate any lady

Which means u are unable to take RESPONSIBILITY!!!
in that area. Which was what day dude was earlier trying to tell u.

What's it's gender??



[1quote author=BoneBlogger post=67761225]A Nigerian lady has got herself trending yet again after revealing why she's not a wife material. The social media influence, Angela Nwosu took to Facebook to share her reasons as she smoked shisha.

Read her lengthy piece below;

I am not a Wife Material!

All of the pictures I’ve seen on social media depicting wife material are of women cooking alone, doing all of the cleaning and doing their “womanly duties.” Don't get me wrong, there are two different roles in relationships that one partner will be better at than the other. Me, proudly smoking shisha and not afraid to post it on a platform as big as Facebook, shows that I am not a wife material, I hate that word, with reckless abandon. Girls are forming and pretending, not being themselves, all to be termed a wife material and land a husband living their lives just to please the society and painfully, publicly stand on a morality higher ground, while doing terrible things in secret. The only way I survive on earth is being myself and not what society wants me to be, na only me waka come.
And yes, the shisha pot belongs to me.

No, I am not married and no, I am not a feminist, but I’m a firm believer that relationships are a team effort. To make a relationship work, responsibilities of the household must be shared. I’m all for cooking and burning down the house together. This is the 21st century and there are so many more opportunities for men and women than there have been in the past.

Like I said, I’m not a wife material. If I ever get married, I’m not turning into your slave just to be ‘a perfect wife material’ I’m not your mother, nor will I ever be. I’d much rather call in a pizza and watch movies than slave over a meal that requires 3 hours of my time to prepare. If your friends are over to hang out with you and watch the game, I’d rather be sitting on the couch yelling at the T.V. too, than catering to you and your friends. I also won’t expect you to be the only one supporting our family. I’m not broke and Amadioha isn’t taking care of me for nothing, ighotago?

I’m not your typical girl or typical girlfriend, I am extremely different and I definitely won’t be your typical wife. I won’t wake you up with the smell of breakfast, because chances are, if it’s a weekend, I’m sleeping until 12pm. I will probably burn at least one piece of food every time I cook for you and then proceed to tell you we’re going to eat out and do shisha afterwards. For your birthday, I’d rather buy you Play Station 4 that we can play together, than buying or making you something more sentimental. When you wake up next to me, you won’t see Sleeping Beauty. You'll see that my mouth will be dry of no lipstick from the previous day, you will always see my spots clearly, my eyes will be partially open and my hair will look like ike okuko.

I don’t have unrealistic expectations for a husband to be “hubby material,” and I don’t want someone to have unrealistic expectations of me to be “wife material.” I know that people have their faults and it’s hard to live with someone no matter how much you love them. I don’t expect my future spouse to have to pay for everything we have just like I hope he doesn’t expect me to cater to his every need.

Who makes these rules anyway? These rules for what is wife or husband material and what is not? I’m not even “feminizing” here, just wondering why we tend to subscribe to the notion that a certain set of qualities are desirable for marriage. That a girl doing shisha is wayward, an ashawo and a disgrace to womanhood, therefore, will never get married. There’s a statement my mother says “as our faces are different, so also are our needs different”. What Mr Okoli requires in a wife may be completely different from what Mr Okonkwo wants and for Miss Angie and Miss Doris, their list of requirements will also differ by a sharp margin.

Dear future husband,
I will be your best friend, your support system, your spouse, your partner in crime but more importantly your ashawo. I won’t be your second mother or your babysitter. And we definitely won’t just exist in the same house. We will be 50+ years old and still be attending concerts, watching Boondocks, while drinking cheap wine and taking spontaneous trips to the beach.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/i-am-not-a-wife-material-i-am-not-a-feminist-lady-says-as-she-smokes-photos.html[/quote]

To you, tell me the difference between having sex and being raped. I bet u ve never even been raped before

dreamwords:

How can a young lady pass out by having sex, was she strangled?

IGH IDris Pls go ahead and also 'transmission' ur resignation broadcast live. What an embarrassing footage. Pls resign already

callydon:


https://www.google.com.ng/amp/s/www.thecable.ng/trending-video-mean-transmission-transmissionigp-struggles-read-speech/amp

Biko, I need a transmitter to help transmit what d IGP is transmitting.

NB: This IGP is also a lawyer.

NwaAmaikpe:



Conji is real and it lives with us.
It's takes a strong man of virtue to resist the temptation of his daughter.

This is why men must pray not to have daughters because daughters of nowadays easily seduce their fathers.

Temptation of his daughter. So u seriously typed this

OnlyAmethyst:


I don't think she was raped, maybe coarsed into the act yes but raped no

Please what is rape?

Fyno:
you are irredeemable

Please explain your point so we can relate

eTECTIVe:
Some ppl are mad.. Dis lawyer and one of d commenters above are 2 of d numerous mad and stupid Ppl we have... Can U imagine these ediots trying to justify dis embarassing and shameless act.. So becos dey were "provoked" dey had d right to brazenly snatch a symbol of authority from d National Assembly? In otherwords since d youths have been pushed to d wall by d rising unemployment in d country it is justifiable to go into crime abi? Now we know d kind of SAN he is...

Now Mr perfect, Pls tell us ur understanding of the word Provoked/Provocation. Don't be bias and Pls don't insult me too. I jus want to understand ur point of view

delishpot:


What makes it not an Eye service?


But o, how a person appreciates their spouse is no one's bizwax as long as they were not forced or cajoled to do it.

BTW, that she knelt down to greet him doesn't mean she has good character. I have seen men who punch wives from here to Japan in their homes yet act all loved up and petting them in public #Eye service.

What exactly are u saying??

Em! Mbok!!! Where are the pix of the slap and the flog??

Ok so this notorious armed robber, kidnapper, cultist doesn't even have a name to defend his notoriety?
#endsarsnow

In my opinion there is everything wrong with this book because of its target audience. From my calculation JS1 students will be between the age range of 9 - 13yrs at that age they don't need that kind of knowledge. For matured persons on this forum remember that this sexual pleasure thing and the actual sex act is like pandora's box once opened then ur exploration mode is activated
It wouldn't really be a problem if it were an SS2 - SS3 target audience but for a JS1 class there is everything wrong with it.

ariseTARABA:
HELP! See The Peanut College Of Education, Zing, Taraba State Pays Its Lecturers

I've being working in College of Education Zing in Taraba State (COEZ) for years now as a part-time lecturer. They employ part-time staffs (lecturers, non-academic, security, cleaners, etc) because the state govt has not employed for a long time now and most of the staff are dead and retired.

The ones even alive are going on a 3 days warning strike on monday 19th of june 2017. The employment excercise was destabilized in 2014 for political reasons. I take home #10,000 monthly (I mean Ten Thousand Naira), which cannot even cater for my feeding, talkmore of other issues.

The pay is not even helping the students cos i'm not encouraged with the pay and cant conduct research and further studies with it. I dont even have access to the un-equipped library books (u can only read and go without borrowing). Just imagine taking upto 3 courses in a semester with an average of 150 students in each course, deliver lectures, give assignments, conduct CA, invigilate and mark exams, supervise students' final year projects, with any other work assigned by your HOD all with 10k monthly (tears forming in my eyes).

Reminders have being sent to d governor (Arc. Darius Dickson Isyaku) by the provost (Dr. Mike Dio Jen) thru his Commissioner for education and also, Chairman House committee on education (Hon. John Kizito Bonzena) for the employment issue but nothing upto now. All the governor needs to do is to appoint School governing council (which was dissolved in 2014) then give a nod for the employment.

I swear to God almighty, sometimes I feel like committing suicide but I always encourage myself not to cos its not the solution. Pls help forward this till it gets to the notice of the governor as another reminder

mods, pls help move to FP ASAP

Op hat's a stipend not a salary. There is a big difference between both. Google and be properly informed before u post such level of ignorance

Hi guys,

I was involved in an argument with friends yesterday, over the use of the Driving gears of an automatic gearing car.

Different car products have different automatic gearing system. Mine is a Honda Accord 2006 (Discussion continues) model,and the gear system is pictured below.

It has a 'P-park', 'R-reverse', 'N-neutral' 'D-drive' 'D3', 'D2' and 'D1' gears.

The argument relates to the functions of the 'D', 'D3', 'D2', and 'D1' driving gears respectively, and under what circumstances should each one be used?.

So tech guys in the house, it's time to show off your knowledge.

Merci!!!

Op your car is automanual.
D1 to D4 enables you to transmit on four gears . Its same in a lot of vehicles. Some are telescopic like in some Mercedes tho some older versions like 1999 is same as yours. BMW too had same but now in the contemporary ones you shift to manual first before you can now engage gears telescopic.
Take your car for a ride engage from 1 to 4 like in manual don't worry abt d clutch u can engage while ur leg is on ur accelerator pedal.
Hope this helps

PetrePan:
I'm not a bible scholar or know much bible verse and i may make bible reference without verses..

The question is 'is water baptism really necessary to fufil all righteousness?'..

There are great men in the bible that are righteous and didnt do baptism(e.g abraham,enoch was righteous that he didnt even die,job etc)..Peter also said that 'be baptize in the name of holyspirit...'

And jesus christ also did baptism b4 starting his ministry..

So the question are:do we need water baptism before we are save?..if i dont have water baptism,am i still a devoted christian?..if i dont have water baptism,we i still make heaven?..so many question to ask buh will stop there..

I'm sure all those men i mentioned up there are sure in heaven(and they didnt do baptism)...
Pls,i need answers..

Abraham, Enoch etc you mentioned are of the old testament saints and water baptism was not emphasized all thru d old testament. However in the new testament it is emphasized. The word Christian means 'like christ' and the standard for Christians is our Lord and saviour Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ had to be baptized to fulfill his ministry and as Christians so do we if we follow Christ. In baptism we partake in the death and resurrection of Christ Jesus.
I hope this helps you

The icrc advertised for the position of storekeeper 1 & 2
On 9\3\17 the application closed on 14\3\17 jus a week ago. Pls has anyone been contacted yet? That is if you applied. Pls reply

I hope this helps you.
As a Christian, Tithing is not only biblical it is also a commandment from God. Malachi 3:10-12.
Now u ve bn doing it d wrong way by giving what is remaining. From any income u receive whether it is earned or a gift, d tithe is 10% and should be removed first before u undertake any other expenses. Dont imagine how u will survive just trust God n his word.

Please, i need a Godly, Moral advice on this.

I'm still a student and i am willing to give to God but my allowance is very small.
After removing money for handouts, textbooks and assignments, the left over is little that it might not last 5 days. Should i still go ahead and give the tithe?


I hope this helps you.
As a Christian, Tithing is not only biblical it is also a commandment from God. Malachi 3:10-12.
Now u ve bn doing it d wrong way by giving what is remaining. From any income u receive whether it is earned or a gift, d tithe is 10% and should be removed first before u undertake any other expenses. Dont imagine how u will survive just trust God n his word.

A few days ago, the President of Nigeria, Muhammad Buhari while addressing the press in Germany about his wife's previous statement said 'My wife belongs in my kitchen, living room, & other room'
Nigerians in their typical manner refused to digest the statement rather they started throwing punches at the President, not only because of their hatred for the president (some of them)but also because some are too educated they have become so illetrate hence every statement must be interpreted in the meaning 'they' have carved out for it.
Let me highlight a few words from the statement to help some of these educated illetrate people whose only strength is in seeing that the President fails in every area.
1. My wife belongs...... Here the President is obviously talking about no other person than HIS wife of 25years under whom she is a graduate, beauty therapist , cosmethologist, author, women rights activists and child rights advocate, and not any other persons wife.
Now for those of us still in our right mind the above dossier abt the first lady doesn't speak of someone confines to the kitchen, living room & other rooms
2. The statement has no gender imbalance as is wrongly being criticized for. He did not say 'Women belong to........ he said my wife belongs to......
Also for the right thinking minds who are married here i believe there are things u also allow and forbid ur wife from doing e.g. the clothes she wears, friends she associates with, etc will u allow any external force dictate to you how u should run ur family? The answer i guess is an emphatic No!
In my own opinion i believe the president did not mean all that he is being accused of in the statement he made. People are always looking for smoke where there's no fire.
In conclusion i believe the President meant something by the statement he made but what he did not mean is what is currently trending in the airwaves.
Lets think before we judge people.
God bless Nigeria

A few days ago, the President of Nigeria, Muhammad Buhari while addressing the press in Germany about his wife's previous statement said 'My wife belongs in my kitchen, living room, & other room'
Nigerians in their typical manner refused to digest the statement rather they started throwing punches at the President, not only because of their hatred for the president (some of them)but also because some are too educated they have become so illetrate hence every statement must be interpreted in the meaning 'they' have carved out for it.
Let me highlight a few words from the statement to help some of these educated illetrate people whose only strength is in seeing that the President fails in every area.
1. My wife belongs...... Here the President is obviously talking about no other person than HIS wife of 25years under whom she is a graduate, beauty therapist , cosmethologist, author, women rights activists and child rights advocate, and not any other persons wife.
Now for those of us still in our right mind the above dossier abt the first lady doesn't speak of someone confines to the kitchen, living room & other rooms
2. The statement has no gender imbalance as is wrongly being criticized for. He did not say 'Women belong to........ he said my wife belongs to......
Also for the right thinking minds who are married here i believe there are things u also allow and forbid ur wife from doing e.g. the clothes she wears, friends she associates with, etc will u allow any external force dictate to you how u should run ur family? The answer i guess is an emphatic No!
In my own opinion i believe the president did not mean all that he is being accused of in the statement he made. People are always looking for smoke where there's no fire.
In conclusion i believe the President meant something by the statement he made but what he did not mean is what is currently trending in the airwaves.
Lets think before we judge people

onomeasike:

Lobatan is a Yoruba expression for "that's the end ".It can be literally synonymous with "O pari "
Both could be a cynicism for "you are finished/your shakara has ended " or rhetorical question for "Is there more because it appears that you have/are finished ?"

Very helpful. Thank you. Lobatan!!!

onomeasike:
Lobatan,I thought they said they had two heads May God bless Buhari.

Pls what's lobatan? Heard it a lot jus wanna knw what it means

Genesis2000:


My dear i really have a different heart from other people, and these one of the reason i finds it had that God could burn human in eternal fire just because they sin against him.

I still believe that man misunderstood God.

The people who died in noahs water, died only once. Those who were consumed by fire in sodom and gomorah city also died only once, you know then the gospel of hellfire has not been preach.

When when Jesus came who came purposely to deliver us now came the gospel of hellfire was introduced. So now anybody who died in sin now, since he had heard the gospel will end up in hellfire and remain there forever.

Does that make any sense to you?

So it means that those who died in Adam generations were just lucky? Is that want you think?

If I'm God i can not burn my enemy in fire for 24 hr watching him screening in agony. Infact i can't do it for 2 hrs.

So that's why am wandering if it is palatable to survived an accident that claimed everyone, and the next thing is to go to the church and testify his goodNess upon my life. Hmmm i was just thinking the pain which other family will be going through.

Like i said before i really have a different heart. And that's the way God created me.

Listen my dear, if i make heaven and see people in hellfire believe me i will not be happy.

How are you today?

My friend. God is a good God. I mean the God that created the heavens and earth and all within it in 7days, just so u know the one am talking about.
Hell fire u mentioned is not a gospel it is a place that people who heard about Jesus and did not accept him as Lord and saviour despite the provision he made by his death on the cross for them to escape it.
Heaven is real too and is meant for people who are in right standing with God who have accepted christ.
Know this that good intentions and good work will not take u to heaven or prevent u from going to hell. The only way is accepting Jesus Christ.
Read Hebrew 3:1-19,

edunson:
Testimony on Economic recession, last Two year i was able to earn 1.5million per annual but now it hardly for me to earn 150,000.........

Give God thanks for your 150000.. if you have lost something at all he is the reason you have not lost everything. Read about Job in the bible. U are yet to experience 1%of what he experienced. Remember also that in everything give thanks to God

"In everything give thanks to God". Everything here means good or bad. There is nothing that a man has that he did not receive from God. Whether it is deliverance from death by accident of favour of any form. Now whatever is telling you to debate giving a testimony or determining whether a testimony is weird or not or whether in your own opinion it passes for a testimony is from the pit of hell. The devil comes in subtle ways and wants to use you to introduce reason and debate into the things of God that's how some people unfortunately have become atheists. One of the comments on this thread from someone says 'when i was a believer' what an unfortunate comment from the individual. Some of you have become so educated and its leading you to spiritual death. It is not all kinds of knowledge that is good for you as a believer. Its not every book you read neither is it every message u allow into your spirit. There is a forbidden knowledge and as a believer you have to consciously avoid it.
God is d reason why we sleep and wake up, he is the reason why some people get a job without interview, why some women who have no womb still deliver children, and if u think reading to pass an exam does not require a testimony remember that there are those who read but went blank when their receiver their question paper and answer booklet .
The bible says get wisdom and in all thine getting get understanding. It is only a fool (bible use of English ) that says in his heart that there is no God.
Pls if u want to reply this be civil and dont insult me.
Thank you

Some people actually wait to hear bad news abt a pastor or church so they can judge Christianity and give reasons why they stopped being Christians or why they ll never be Christians.
Now it is no longer news that d girl had long since been found.
Remember that the gate of hell will surely not prevail against the church of the Living God.

Happy Independence day to Nigeria & Nigerians. Wonderful speech from Mr President .
And for those of you whose creativity lies in insulting the president behind their devices, i pity u, as the bible says you will have whatever u say.
Nigeria will be great again, PMB is laying d foundation & since God put him there in a time like this he will succeed.
For those that want to respond to this post pls dont insult me just drop a reasonable insult free response