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jericco1:
It's baffling. I even find it unsavoury for a young girls to be hustling to become a sex slave to married men. But this one is totally unbecoming I see no reason whatsoever for a two persons from different marital homes connive to have sex.. what's the difference between the spouse you're leaving at home with the one you are going to meet elsewhere? For the men is it not the same well dug vagina you're going for and for the lady is it not the same penis that have fathered kids you're going to taste? Or maybe it's just a coincidence

Sixfeetbelle:
Just like the title, I wish to make some things clear since a lot of misunderstanding rose from a single comment I posted on a thread that I didn't realise would ever hit front page. I'm not yet familiar with attaching links, so bear with me.

The comment: "That's why I pity men who want to marry virgins as a measure to hide their awful bedmatics. Women gossips about their sex life and before you know it, virgin wife will want to experience all these things but won't tell the husband cause 'she's a virgin and shouldn't know about those things'. Las las, na Okey, your driver that will educate her more"

I'll reiterate it as often as I feel it until at least some men pick up on it and improve which was the intention behind the harmless post in the first place.


Being a virgin doesn't mean the lady is an ignorant introverted fool. On the contrary, I believe a virgin, especially in this day and age, is someone who isn't ignorant about sexual practices, probably has some sexual fantasies of her own, who isn't introverted and shy and yet, refused to join the bandwagon of those who believe in immediate gratification. There are exceptions, but I believe this is what is more obtainable.

Having the above definition in mind, I made that statement, hoping men would key into that insight. However the numerous mentions I received showed me starkly that comprehension is quite hard to grasp. So I'll go further and add.

"If you're a one-minute man, marrying a virgin won't help your issue later on in your marriage. She may deal with it now but with time, it would turn into a big problem. If the only sex positions you know are missionary and doggie style (which some learnt about five years ago), trust me, you need to be more versatile in the other room. It will definitely help your marriage with a virgin wife in the long run. Some virgins may confide in you if they don't feel satisfied, some won't say anything (maybe from upbringing), some may have low libido and be okay with it while some will have high libido and crave more. There are lots of possibilities. How would you deal with the excesses?

In addition, like someone explained to me, virgins attach to their first sexual whoever. If you blow her mind (and her pucci) on the first night, chances are she'll always think of you, even if you guys end up separating or divorcing. I've heard women talk about a 'womb shifting' experience and the like and I can tell the man was exceptional. Wouldn't you like to give that experience to your virgin wife on her first night? Don't you think such experience will attach her to you completely? Don't say because she's a virgin, she won't know. That's like being overconfident. I wish you would apply wisdom when it comes to dealing with female nature.

Which brings me back to why I made this post: the mentions were too much last night. It was looking like a mini attack tbh. I do not appreciate publicity in that manner especially when some men missed the point totally and were weighing virgin versus non-virgins and declaring they will marry virgins. Trust me, I wish above all else that those who sincerely want virgin wives will find and marry them. Hopefully, if they marry their choice, divorce rates will lower.


NB: To those who sent emails, I appreciate them but I'm afraid I won't be replying them now. The heat is too much and I'd like to believe your email wasn't prompted because you misunderstood my post. If you're sincere, you can send an email on a later date and time. My apologies.

Thank you.

pcguru1:
I remember in university there was this girl I used to go all the way for, and she would always take advantage of my niceness till one day she did something stupid and annoying to me, and it was a day to graduating from school, I simply told her am glad today is the last day because after that day I would never ever see her again in my life and I walked away she day beg but I no send, her friends were always pushing her to act like a b.itch sadly we still met like 7 years later and......,.

Elimon:
One time in university wen I hardly celebrated my bday..my gf came to my house and said she must take me out...after much refusal...I heeded...and we left...I didn't rest that day...She first complained about the number of girls that wished me happy bday on Facebook,that I flirt with all of them...I explained.That evening while coming back,a female friend of mine called me to wish me happy bday..my girl spark..I was shocked... Like what did I do...I even refused to answer the call just to lessen the madness...babe told keke to drop her at her hostel that she is tired of me....one of my worst bday experiences. This is the same girl I use to spoil on her own bdays and make her happy by all means..even tho I don't have much...but it was an experience tho and I took it

Yenefer:
Anyways

Kanuri people have the most dangerous juju in Nigeria followed by fulani, then Yoruba. Kanuri people literally make Buhari Wondered in the desert when he said fulani will going to rule over Kanuri,.. when he is military governor. they make Dan fodiyo wondered in the desert with his army for months he never conquered Kanuri people. Anyone wonders how Boko Haram got so much power. Just look at there politicians Modu sheriff, kashim, kingibe, Abba kyari, magu, even that police that arrested top criminals,.. kyari is Kanuri, Mele of NNPC, buratai COAS, ETC fear Kanuri people when it comes to this kind of stuff not ogun people not fulani

kkash:
Add garlic and u got ursef a new chemical weapon

Towncrier007:
Note:It's only for married couples.

This ginger plant when soaked into your drink for a day or more, it's very beneficial to the health. and also its a sexual stamina.
Trust me it has no side effects.

MiVida:
I recently met a girl in school, she's all I want in a woman, she's too beautiful well mannered BUT, she is making life in school hard for me! I've taken her to my parents already and hers are trying to get to know me which is cool.

But the rate at which this girl monitors me in school is embarrassing! I don't have any female friends cos of her. I had to call a good friend of mine (a girl) this afternoon in front of her to tell the girl to keep her space just because my girlfriend saw me give her a hug! I didn't initiate the hug, the girl called out my name and opened her arms and to avoid being rude, you can't decline a hug and that was why it happened.

My girlfriend insists I don't keep female friends, in fact, she prefers I stay alone in school. I'm getting tired, I getting fed up, she's always monitoring me everywhere and I have a reputation to maintain in school. Now I can't laugh over a girl's joke cos I have a girlfriend and it's not like I have time for her in school as that's the only time I have my little freedom, cos outside school she's always at my place and it's suffocating enough...now she brings this attitude to school... I'm tired and don't know what to do!

Otsam:
Chai!! See sense! So petrol station owners are actually investing millions of naira because of 10litres generator fuel? What a wise man!

Millz404:
So this guy single handedly stole everybody's future then.


Click on the link below if you run a business

FocusedB1h:
It happened in 1995 and yes, sanusi was obviously born then and he led the group of Islamist who beheaded that Christian southern man and paraded the streets of Kano with his head.

Psoul:
This is an avoidable situation.
To start with, the guy is a legitimate tenant in that house.
Secondly he wants to leave the compound and not that he wants to enter the compound at odd hour.

True that there was a rule to be opening the gate from 5:30am. There are some certain situations that could affect that rule.
Assuming the Landlady's child was sick and she want to rush her to hospital around 4am. Will she stay back cos it was not up to 5:30am?...No.
Probably, the guy has an emergency and wanted to leave the compound around 5am. You have no right to lock him up irrespective of that rule.

The woman claimed that she was not strong to be opening the gate by 5:30am. She has younger children.
When the tenant was knocking on the entrance door, she would have ask one of her children to please go and give the "idiot" key to open the gate. That would have solved the problem.

The guy threatened to break down the door if they refused to open the door for him. They still find it hard to release the key to him. The Landlady was forming the godess of the yard.

The guy went ahead to break the key. At this point, the woman who said she was not strong to open gate jumped down to fight the tenant. That strength she used to come for the fight would have bn enough to even throw the key to the tenant from the window and this problem would've bn solved.

Why holding the guy's clothe? You would've allowed him to go after which you would've gone to the police to report him. They would've arrested him on malicious damage.

When you give someone your house as a Landlord, pls know where ur right starts and end. Don't go dey over do urslf.
Lagos Landlords are as wicked as the colleagues in LASMA

LoyalHustler:
Hmmm match can go both ways but expect lots of drama during the game.

If Liverpool couldn't secure qualification before 70 minutes and hold on to it, then it's over.

Because after 70 minutes with just 20 minutes remaining, you can't qualify against a team like Athletico, never ever, infact no team on Earth can knock out Atletico Madrid if they have the advantage after 70 minutes.

This is not mouth making but it won't happen, not even the USA military defence system can break their defense after 70 minutes.

Agboriotejoye:
Just for the sake of clarity, I hope you're aware that the president and governors have something they call security vote, a fund which they are accountable to nobody for spending. While we talk about Dasuki's $2.1bn, has anyone ever asked about the $1bn signed by Buhari for security or how the ECA has been depleted to $70m. Most of the governors who fought for the sharing of ECA funds during GEJ's temure are now ministers in this govt. None of them have raised their voices now against the depleting of ECA by the FG they are a part of.

Another thing to consider is, none of the ministers under Jonathan have been accused of fraud by their predecessors including Diezani whom Buhari succeeded. It will be expected that having taken over the ministries, the can of worms will be open. Instead what we are hearing are tales of Fayose, FFK and Metuh who are more or less outsiders in the government.

Iyiataata92:
The last paragragh should have been ''the issue is that some of the lawmakers talked while eating, which is bad table manners''

Witcher:
Nigeria: Buhari Is the Best President, His Administration Is Best Since 1960 -
President Muhammadu Buhari, noting that he stands atop all the Presidents that have ruled the country.
Buhari's administration remains the best compared to other past administrations, of Olusegun Obasanjo, Umaru Musa Yaradua and Goodluck Ebele Jonathan.

With a pinpoint accuracy, the group listed corruption and insecurity as the two major banes of Nigeria's democratic success, and noted with stark words that Buhari is the only President who identified these problems and currently tackles them.



looked at roads and modern rail system which, according to them have been abandoned but are now getting attention.

Buhari for implementing the treasury single account (TSA) which has helped to block financial leakages.


"We adjudge the Buhari administration as the best in post-independence Nigeria. Everyone agrees that corruption is the bane of Nigeria's development. All other factors are peripheral but corruption is tangential. This implies that Nigeria will overcome all its challenges once corruption has been reduced to its barest minimum.

"This explains why President Muhammadu Buhari has been consistently consistent in tackling graft since his days as military head of state (1983-85) till today. Apart from the War Against Indiscipline (WAI), the period heralded transparency, probity and accountability in the public sphere.
"Unfortunately corrupt elements in society have also been fighting tooth and nail to frustrate his efforts. These include, but are not limited to, rapaciously greedy civil servants, a superfluously voracious business class and avariciously glutinous politicians.

"They were behind the 1985 coup which ousted the no-nonsense Buhari-Idiagbon regime. That coup was an anti-people action sponsored by established kleptomaniacs and executed by greedy, corrupt and overambitious elements in the military. That singular action also returned Nigeria to the path of unbridled waste, reckless graft and undiluted consumerism.

"Unfortunately the second coming of President Buhari in 2015 as a civilian president was almost castrated as the National Assembly was hijacked from the very beginning courtesy of 'sarakitisation' and 'dogaratisation' of parliamentary process. The president himself nearly lost his life."

scaramucci:
This only happens to those who do not respect themselves. Stay in your house and be contented, you no gree. My cousin who is younger than me is worth over 5 billion and we only get to talk on phone on Sundays evening and this has been going on for over close to 10 years.