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TravelRe: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant by TheCongo2: 3:52am On Nov 27, 2018
jelmusboy:
Landed today 7am Toronto time, will try to post transcript as soon as I can. The struggle starts and all I can wish for myself is FAVOUR.

Any WhatsApp group for immigrants in Toronto or Ontario as a whole?
Did you land with family? Are you in Toronto?
TravelRe: USA Visit Visa Part 3 by TheCongo2: 11:14pm On Nov 26, 2018
PinkSunset:
I have a Sister who lives in the U.S with her family and they are all citizens...i filled that in my DS-160. My parents are U.S citizens as well and i also filled in their status in my application form. My visa was approved regardless.
Thanks. That is why I never agree with people on this forum who always tried to give a reason of a visa denial on the basis of a posted transcript.
The transcript is only one of many other factors that visa officers take into account to make a decision.
The transcript doesn't reveal if there is a red flag on the applicant's file nor a ban.
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 10:45pm On Nov 26, 2018
Mizwisdom:
List the ones in Nigeria, past presidents and families...
I am not Nigerian
I was thinking in terms of the third world countries in general
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2:
Beautyaddy:
lol!..Yes I am.



Okay, list the names of the third world country presidents that made such move.
Many of them .. Bokassa, Fujimori, Duvalier, Idi Amin, Lissouba, Ferdinand Marcos ....
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 8:47pm On Nov 26, 2018
Beautyaddy:
Are you serious with this statement or this is a joke? undecided
Are you serious with this question?
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 4:45pm On Nov 26, 2018
maternal:
1. I don't care about money. Everything in life isn't about money.

2. You need to leave the village a bit more. Several countries per year. International travel is cheap nowadays including accomodations.

3. Business wise, that blue passport gives me an advantage as well.
In addition to that most of the presidents in third world countries end up by moving in western countries along with their families
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 3:59am On Nov 26, 2018
Mancala:
Patience is a virtue dear friend. You are right to some extent, but the situation is even more dire. There are no birds and there are no bushes. However, we as Nigerians are a very religious people. Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things unseen! It may be time to excercise that faith grin

If you're good reading the political tea leaves, you will realize that immigration reform has to happen. I'm confident of that.
And how do you know if she shares the same faith as you? She could be an atheist. Why do Christians always come up with bible verses even when there is no indication that the person they are talking to is a Christian?
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 3:32am On Nov 26, 2018
Mancala:
You forget the first two years of Obamas presidency was democrats controlling both houses! Obama promised immigration reform with a possible pathway to citizenship for undocumenteds. It was passed in the senate, did not even make it to the floor in the house because the republicans took over at the end of year 2. Full immigration legislation was upended in priority by the affordable care act in his first 2 years.
Also, note that DACA was a compromise executive action after Obama was pressured by his base to fulfill his promise. He couldn't provide a pathway to citizenship because that would have been unconstitutional. Had to come from congress.
Mark my words, it will happen. Trump may only be a one term president. Chickens are beginning to come home to roost !
But you can't build a life or hope on something that hasn't passed yet.Let's be real here. A bird in your hand is better than 2 in the Bush.
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 3:29am On Nov 26, 2018
LUCAS99:
She has waited more than the One year grace period usually given to people entering the United States for the first time to file for Asylum...

I highly doubt that her case will be referred to an immigration judge...

It will certainly be rejected for failure to file within one year of entering the United States, the law is very clear on that...

Whether an immigration attorney can exploit any loophole in the Asylum Law I won’t really know except she speaks to one...

Most immigration lawyers usually charge about $100 for an hour of consultation...

Op can afford to spend such amount to make inquiries regarding the possibility...
I always thought whenever an asylum case is rejected it get send to the judge automatically.
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 3:23am On Nov 26, 2018
Babyvet:
Either way, the op has the all information she needs it and has made up her mind about her decision.
My point exactly
But when someone needs help, he/she would need to disclose as much information as possible to get assistance
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 3:21am On Nov 26, 2018
Mancala:
I am fully aware that she has 2 kids. It may not be easy, but it's not impossible. I know, I have personally witnessed it more than twice. In one case, the woman's kids were in their teens. She met a guy who wanted a family but did not want the stress of raising babies. Win win situation right? They are still happily married after 5 years. Word on the street then was that she will never find a man with that kind of baggage she had.

But all this may be in vain. He kids father is still around. I suspect they are still married so not an option at this point .
That is the mystery
OP isn't forthcoming with her marital status
She is keeping us guessing
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 3:17am On Nov 26, 2018
LUCAS99:
Yes, if only if she is detained by ICE & presented before an immigration judge for the commencement of a Deportation Proceeding...

The judge will ask if she has a fear for her life if the government decides to return her to Nigeria all she needs to do is say YES & then the immigration judge will give her an Asylum Application Form to file with the court.

Under this scenario the Immigration Judge will decide her fate during court proceedings rather than USCIS.

This is called Application for Asylum with an immigration Court under deportation proceeding.
What if she applied for refugee via normal process to be denied given that she has been in the States for more than 1 year. My understanding is that her case will be directed to an immigration judge. Can the judge grant op refugee status in the US?
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 3:08am On Nov 26, 2018
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TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 3:01am On Nov 26, 2018
LUCAS99:
My Brother

I wonder why we Nigerians like beating around the bush...

I’m a very straight forward person so I hate playing games...

Op options is limited right now.

Op has two options to regularize her stay:

A) Marriage:

It could be broken into two

i) Genuine Marriage

ii) Arrangee Marriage

We both know the pros & cons so no need to discuss that

A) Asylum

It could be broken into three

i) Asylum before an immigration court

ii) Withholding of removal

iii) Protection against the UN Convention of torture

These three will only come up if God forbid Op is apprehended & presented before an immigration Judge

Dangerous Advice:

i) Asking Op to return back to Nigeria without regularizing her stay.
So, can op still qualify for asylum in the US?
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 2:50am On Nov 26, 2018
Mancala:
We were all suggesting marriage because that is the only available option based on a presumed attempt to stay and regularize her status. I am not proposing she pay for an arranged marriage. Far from it. I believe she can find true love quite easily here in the States . There are lots of people looking for love and companionship,it may just not be in her age bracket. Having said that, is marriage for love not a recent Western development? As far as I know, marriage as recently as the last century was mostly arranged. Each party expected clearly defined benefits going into the marriage. Thus, marriage is defined as a contract between two people. I wonder why the government frowns on marriage for immigration benefits? Perhaps it's wrong if it's solely for immigration benefits and if it's paid for, but if it's just one of the accompanying benefits, then so be it. This is what marriage in antiquity was all about. Both sides gaining some defined benefit .
Why not? She is only 29
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 2:42am On Nov 26, 2018
Babyvet:
okay when is the last time Amnesty happened in America ?
Good point.
Setting hope on amnesty would be unreasonable
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 2:37am On Nov 26, 2018
LUCAS99:
My bad...

Op is a lady.

It’s safe to assume so unless she say otherwise...
Cool
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 2:34am On Nov 26, 2018
LUCAS99:
My brother I’m confused...

Somebody said is a She on the first page & when I was reading subsequent pages someone made mention is a He...

So I don’t really know...

Op needs to come & clarify whether is a He OR She...

So I guess we have to wait for Op to clarify this issue...
A He with 2 underage kids? Very unlikely
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 2:19am On Nov 26, 2018
@LUCAS99 , is the OP a he or a she ?
I thought OP was a lady but you have been referring to her as He. What is going on?
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 1:21am On Nov 26, 2018
claremont:
I will do some research on this as I'm not conversant with the Canadian asylum system. However, I don't think it's a given that an illegal immigrant with kids can simply cross to border into Canada and be granted asylum. If the illegal immigrant is fleeing from abuse, it then begs the question as to why asylum hasn't been requested for in the US.
There could be a thousand reasons why she didn't request asylum in the US.
That is the reason why the refugee board holds hearing to weigh legitimacy of each case.
OP hasn't said much here with respect to her personal life. Therefore, we can just make assumptions as to why this or why that. But if she ever apply for refugee status in Canada, she will have to answer the question as to why she never made refugee claim in the US
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 12:31am On Nov 26, 2018
claremont:
The OP isn't a refugee. A lot of Africans have abused this ''refugee route'' by claiming to be refugees when they are not. This has ruined the chances of genuine refugees fleeing war torn countries. If the OP chooses to get married in the US for papers, she will most likely end up in an abusive relationship because whoever she is marrying will know he is doing her a massive favour. The best option is for her to save her earnings and return home. She says she has savings of $3000, that's almost N1 million and should be enough to tide her over for a few months whilst she gets settled in Nigeria.
Did she say she wasn't a refugee or you are assuming she isn't a refugee.
She hasn't been answering questions about the father of her kids. How do you know if he is the reason she had fled with the kids?
Don't you know that abused women can apply for refugee status in Canada?
Anyway, it is up to the refugee board in Canada to determine if op is a refugee
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 11:48pm On Nov 25, 2018
oluayebenz:
The OP is too smart than some desperate village dude here.
She replied to a better post.
She ignored unnecessary comments asking nonsense questions.

She's exposed.

Before somebody can come openly don't U know she has tried all her possible best to change her status .

Some are advising to help as if they are mayor.

Some are even advising from their village.
She hasn't tried the Canadian route
I guess she is afraid to embrace the unknown
It isn't easy to leave a familiar territory for an unfamiliar one.
It may require a lot of courage. And once in Canada she will be asking herself why she had spent so much time in the US without papers.
"If I knew then what I know" has been a familiar tune of many people who had crossed from US to Canada.

OP, as I do understand the situation, the only option to fix your status in the US is via marriage.

On the other end, should you decide to move to Canada , you may end up becoming a Canadian resident through the following routes:

1- Refugee Status

2- If the refugee route fail, you can appeal the decision.

3- You can apply for Canadian residence through Humanitarian and compassionate ground any time even when waiting on your refugee application. The fact that you have 2 kids living with you will help in this process as the Canadian government will take into account the best interest of your kids. Been involved in the community such as a church helps as well.

4- If the appeal of your refugee application fails, you have one more chance via a process called "pre-removal risk assessment" . In the process you have a chance to explain to the Canadian government in writing why you think they shouldn't send you back to Nigeria. Once again, the Canadian government takes the best interest of the children very seriously. The fact you have 2 kids will increase your chances

5. You can get married.

On a different note, should you decide to cross into Canada, dont worry about your living arrangement in Canada given that you and the kids will be provided with free room and board by the Canadian government.


Good luck
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 8:39pm On Nov 25, 2018
maternal:
Single mother with 2 kids and 3k USD under her name. She wouldn't qualify under any program to move to another develop country, talk less have the funds. Furthermore, these countries share information and her over-stay in the U.S would definitely be known. If she leaves America, she'll most likely never step foot in another developed nation again .
I completely disagree with the bolded.
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 7:45pm On Nov 25, 2018
deepchocolate:
Don't get me wrong being a citizen give me numerous opportunities when it comes to get a job and pay the bills etc.... ( which is what 90% of people here do anyway. The system is set up that way . No escape from it ) .

America has its own realities and ramifications . You have to come , Feel it to truly understand . Forget about what people say and what you see on hollywood TV show..

The fact is , for the sake of showing that they have made it in life , many people in the diaspora don't tell the truth .
I am 36 . I spent 20 years here , study here . Have a great career . No complain on that front ...
I might not know it all , but I have seen it or experienced it .

1- here , You are strictly on your own . The system itself have no soul and only care about money .
Your family members have their own bills and wahala to worry about . This is how children here abandon their elderly parents in nursing home and move on with their own life.

2- here , nothing really belong to you . Whatever you think you have , you can lose it anytime.
30 years mortgage . You finish paying . The minute you owe property tax , The municipality will take that house from you and sell it.
Years ago I rented a room to a lady in her 70 who used to own 2 houses. Lost the first one through bankrupcy . Second one due to sickness and she couldn't pay .

If you have big ambitions , Africa is where the untapped opportunities are right now.
The way my brothers kill themselves here working 2 , 3 jobs just to survive and pay bills ,
If they could apply the same energy and a bit of creativity many would have been billionaire in Naija.


As for you friend who is saving $3500 a month , ask him to borrow you $1000 only for emergency. Or 100 even .
You will see his reaction and judge for yourself if he is truly saving that much. cheesy
The bolded cracked me laughing
Now the question is does he friend truly saving 3.5K? Is that true?
If that is true, what exactly is he doing?
We can't be guillable. We know that people can make money through illicit activities
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Publicly Humiliates His Girlfriend With A Fake Proposal by TheCongo2: 5:34am On Nov 23, 2018
cnwamo:
Lol.
This is exactly what I’d like to do to my first girlfriend but she’s married with kids now����������
What did she do to you?
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 2:18am On Nov 23, 2018
Babyvet:
Asylum
Cool
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 2:15am On Nov 23, 2018
Babyvet:
Well she has to be careful presenting herself to the US immigration, if her case is denied then she could face deportation. A lot of Nigerians at the border were actually denied .
Denied to enter Canada ?
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 11:06pm On Nov 22, 2018
eniolorunfe:
My thoughts exactly!
I was telling myself the same thing ...
But then again, you need connection or information to know what to do.
In other words, you need to mingle with the right people.
TravelRe: To Move Back From America Or Not... by TheCongo2: 10:37pm On Nov 22, 2018
maternal:
False. ICE has arrested 37, 000 non criminals, a 145% increase from 2016. Trump has given ICE far greater power under his administration than Obama did. ICE has stopped prioritizing catching and deporting violent criminals over non criminals. It's now fair game for anyone. This is common knowledge. Furthermore, with the South Americans attempting to cross into the U.S, Trump has given border officers/soldiers permission to use lethal force if they have too to prevent them from entering. I suggest you do some research and stop passing out false information yourself. This administration is not one to play with when it comes to being illegal. I agree she should enter Canada during the summer, but will she have time ?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4b4lhryAXQU

https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/white-house/trump-says-troops-will-use-lethal-force-border-if-they-n939321
You are correct.
Here is another case where ICE were called to detain an illegal immigrant:

https://abc13.com/army-base-orders-pizza-and-then-calls-ice-on-delivery-worker/3573405/
TravelRe: USA Visit Visa Part 3 by TheCongo2: 7:53pm On Nov 22, 2018
Wanice:
pls I need clarification on this ��
It is okay given that invitation letter are no given much if not no weight for visit visa.
TravelRe: USA Visit Visa Part 3 by TheCongo2: 7:34pm On Nov 22, 2018
Izuogu1:
CCNA can get me a good job? What about Graphic design? CCTV installation? Or is their any other skill you could recommend I learn?
Anything you learn and put your mind into can get you a job even though I can't say there is 100% guarantee you will get the job.

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