₦airaland Forum

lovelygurl:
There's electricity and water in Germany, yet they can't construct such in 8 days.

VaselineCrew:
Some roads may have lanes when just constructed, but as soon as they start to fade away, that is the end of the lane marking on that road, almost never to be re-marked again.

Generation after generation of Nigerian drivers keep adapting to the lawlessness of driving on roads without lane markings, further worsening the already chaotic driving situation aided by low level enforcement of law and order by the police force.

I guess to some, we should rejoice at the fact that we even have roads in the first place. Unfortunately, these people are somewhat justified, in the sense that, the unsightly sight of bad roads pervades the entire country.

All in all, we need to promote order in our society and lane markings are a step towards order, at least in terms of road transportation.

You cannot aspire to become a developed country and ignore the details, because the details are far from trivial.

purples25:
Yes, why do they claim to be redpill and manly men, but they cannot care for the kind of woman they would keep as their partner?

Beze992:
Funny enough you're not

Kemimarch16:
ok

funmijoyb:
When will these people stop trafficking southern minorities for prostitution?

Very bad thing

purples25:
Go and find a brothel na

purples25:

fruityjojo:
community meeting on Instagram

purples25:
I think you didn't bother to read my post. If this is your only reaction, then probably you think that even mentioning standards is bad for a woman to do. That's terrible and one sided, because as a man, you surely go for what benefits you.

BukkyThery:
It's difficult at first, but it still gives you an edge. I'm comfortable with Blender and 3ds max, and I still find my way around maya You find your way around the shortcuts after a while.

olashas:
Omo buruku

angelEmade:
I did not like this post because it was the owner of NL himself that wrote it but i liked it because he is speaking the mind of most Nigerians.

viexcey:
Are you for real?

victorian:
Its because relatives never cared if they were dying or alive , in the early days of their struggles . No relatives cared. Now they are comfortable with enough to give away. Trust me they won't help any relative .

Let the relative have a taste of what they went through years back

Its called karma.

They rather dash and feed strangers, cos strangers were the only ones who assisted them to get to their glory.
Such is life

Ebukax:
I

I was there it happened in my estate

Ebukax:
Your mother is in the right position to accept that offer because she's dying of hunger and covid-19

TheEnlightenedO:
Hi All,

I've been a Nairalander for years, since 2008, I never signed up until now because I never had to post anything really, so kindly bear with my narrative...

I have been dating this Akwa Ibom girl for over 2 years now, she's relatively young 22 (still a student but obviously still in that dreamy state; spends most of her time reading novels, completely dependent on me, in fact the entire family is: I got them their 3 bedroom apartment, I send money to her uncles, her mom and send them monthly stipends for food; I most times even ask her to take home the food she stocks up for me in the freezer cuz I'm not going to lie I am lazy with having to get stuff out and microwave, I'd rather eat a snack cuz of my busy schedule, even bought everyone of her sisters the phones they use, sometimes I just send funds to her loved ones whenever I am sending money to my exwife for my child). For reference purposes; I turn 27 this year.

Sometime in November I met this nice Yoruba lady, 30 (intelligent, master's degree, works in an Oil & Gas firm, very dramatic). This yoruba babe had full knowledge of the existence of my Ibom babe from the jump, but we liked each others company and spent time together after work sometimes. I love our mature conversations, but you could tell shes been through alot, Daddy issues, heartbreaks and has a terrible habit of always threatening to commit suicide everytime we have a dispute; it's a very crazy chain of events when this happens, it goes like this: For instance, if we are physically together and we had a small disagreement over how perhaps my worker spoke to her, she starts to rant, I've been married before so I know to walk away when this starts cuz I no get time honestly, she usually either steps in front of me, does that yoruba style 'holding my hand that I'm not going anywhere stance' and if I proceed to leave, she would go as far as showing up at my house even if she knows the Ibom babe is there, all to ask me the same question: 'Are you breaking up with me?' I learnt the hard way to say No to this question after she attempted suicide the first time. I was out of the country and had to beg my friends to go to her home and make sure she was okay, this thing has taken a toll of my friends even... This babe is a standup babe however, amazing and pure heart of sorts but is very petty, she would fight me over posting my exwife who is also the mother of my child's photo on mother's day, all just to say Happy Mother's Day... That led to a 2 hour rant, I had to hang up, then she called my friends and vented about it to them, and threatened suicide again.

My dilemma is this, I love Ibom, but I have spent 2 years trying to build her into something she obviously isn't, I have been married before and my exwife showed me pepper even though we are on decent terms now. I invested alot into that, I also have invested alot into this too but I feel like I may be wasting my time. I am at a point where I have gained it all before, lost it after my divorce, and finally gained it all back, I have helped her and her family without complaints but I feel like perhaps she cant imagine the possibility of losing me in the regard of somewhat losing their breadwinner, truth is I dont feel sexually aroused by her anymore, I have to watch porn or think of someone else to be able to sleep with her.
Even the Yoruba one, she always wants to be on the phone, I am a busy person usually and cant be on the phone all day like I'm a teenager or a fresher in Uni... she expects me to simply dump Ibom and start having babies with her. Besides her always threatening suicide if I dont marry her or get her pregnant, she always uses things I tell her in confidence against me.

I honestly just want my peace... I need advise

TheEnlightenedO:
Hi All,

I've been a Nairalander for years, since 2008, I never signed up until now because I never had to post anything really, so kindly bear with my narrative...

I have been dating this Akwa Ibom girl for over 2 years now, she's relatively young 22 (still a student but obviously still in that dreamy state; spends most of her time reading novels, completely dependent on me, in fact the entire family is: I got them their 3 bedroom apartment, I send money to her uncles, her mom and send them monthly stipends for food; I most times even ask her to take home the food she stocks up for me in the freezer cuz I'm not going to lie I am lazy with having to get stuff out and microwave, I'd rather eat a snack cuz of my busy schedule, even bought everyone of her sisters the phones they use, sometimes I just send funds to her loved ones whenever I am sending money to my exwife for my child). For reference purposes; I turn 27 this year.

Sometime in November I met this nice Yoruba lady, 30 (intelligent, master's degree, works in an Oil & Gas firm, very dramatic). This yoruba babe had full knowledge of the existence of my Ibom babe from the jump, but we liked each others company and spent time together after work sometimes. I love our mature conversations, but you could tell shes been through alot, Daddy issues, heartbreaks and has a terrible habit of always threatening to commit suicide everytime we have a dispute; it's a very crazy chain of events when this happens, it goes like this: For instance, if we are physically together and we had a small disagreement over how perhaps my worker spoke to her, she starts to rant, I've been married before so I know to walk away when this starts cuz I no get time honestly, she usually either steps in front of me, does that yoruba style 'holding my hand that I'm not going anywhere stance' and if I proceed to leave, she would go as far as showing up at my house even if she knows the Ibom babe is there, all to ask me the same question: 'Are you breaking up with me?' I learnt the hard way to say No to this question after she attempted suicide the first time. I was out of the country and had to beg my friends to go to her home and make sure she was okay, this thing has taken a toll of my friends even... This babe is a standup babe however, amazing and pure heart of sorts but is very petty, she would fight me over posting my exwife who is also the mother of my child's photo on mother's day, all just to say Happy Mother's Day... That led to a 2 hour rant, I had to hang up, then she called my friends and vented about it to them, and threatened suicide again.

My dilemma is this, I love Ibom, but I have spent 2 years trying to build her into something she obviously isn't, I have been married before and my exwife showed me pepper even though we are on decent terms now. I invested alot into that, I also have invested alot into this too but I feel like I may be wasting my time. I am at a point where I have gained it all before, lost it after my divorce, and finally gained it all back, I have helped her and her family without complaints but I feel like perhaps she cant imagine the possibility of losing me in the regard of somewhat losing their breadwinner, truth is I dont feel sexually aroused by her anymore, I have to watch porn or think of someone else to be able to sleep with her.
Even the Yoruba one, she always wants to be on the phone, I am a busy person usually and cant be on the phone all day like I'm a teenager or a fresher in Uni... she expects me to simply dump Ibom and start having babies with her. Besides her always threatening suicide if I dont marry her or get her pregnant, she always uses things I tell her in confidence against me.

I honestly just want my peace... I need advise

topufou:
watch full video below

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BfVbyLoT7LM

Beze992:
Apologies for the quote, should have taken a second look at the username before replying......... That being said, now run along, you've been noticed.

Beze992:
Apologies for the quote, should have taken a second look at the username before replying......... That being said, now run along, you've been noticed.

Beze992:
I'm confused, should I be insulted by this message?

ujluv:
All this your analysis make no sense. If that our leaders both past and present has his people at heart we will not be where we are now. We are naturally rich than most developed, under, and developing countries. They make use of what they have and their people feel the impart. Example, Singapore go and read about them.

Please stop making excuses for our failed nation and their wicked leaders.