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Realhommie:
You this Imo state man, e be like say Tinubu snatch your wife for your former life ooooo because you just carry him matter for your head like gala. Na to add lacasera so you fit dey hawk am for Lagos under bridge, hahahahaha...


But on a serious level, wetin the man do you? Talk true.... Because this level of dislike, hate and antagonism is beyond normal...

There is absolutely nothing in what He said that indicates He is carrying Tinubu’s matter on His head. His statement can apply to anyone running for President.

Are you sure it is not you carrying @princeoflagos matter on your head?

You are very lucky your wife is showing you her true colours less than 2 years into marriage 'cos my ex wife waited for 10 years before showing me her true colours. [/quote]Hmmm is it your Wife that showed Her true colors or was it you that caused a discoloration by your actions of commission or omission?

The first thing you need to do is forget about what other people will think. From your post it’s seems you are more concerned about that and it will not help you make the right decisions or get the right help if you think that way. As the saying goes, if you hide your problem , your problem will hide you.

Next thing is you have to be ready to accept that it is actually over. As the song goes , when a Woman is fed up, there is nothing you can do about it. Or do you want to live under the same roof with someone that doesn’t care for you. Make she no go snap give you sniper ooo.

Your primary responsibility now is to your infant child. You need to handle this situation in a way that will have the most minimal impact on the young one. You really can’t take care of her at this stage, so what you should do is get Her mother and sister to support you in takings care of the Child, while you provide its supplies and give them some money for upkeep. You should be able to meet with your child regularly until you can take Him/Her off your supposedly unmotherly wife.

At this point in time, you also need to involve a senior and wise person from your family, who will be more interested in resolving the issues than passing blame.

I hope this helps. Do keep us posted.

So many of them about this days. Massive misplacement of priorities.

Malory:
E ya sorry for your loss dear. Your next marriage will last long with your hubby that's if you wish to remarry

Try to put yourself in Her shoes. Do you honestly think She is crying for the loss of a husband or the loss of a human being she had a relationship with- even before they eventually married.?

Hotzone:
U will hear more confessions that will shock u about the activities of the so called st unknown gun men...we are watching these idiots from ebonyi destroying our land while pointing accusing fingers on what I don’t know

Ibos fighting ibos. One group of Igbo’s describing another group of Igbos as inferior to them. One Biafra indeed.

Jungle justice from North to South.

When will they catch and burn Boko Haram, Kidnappers and UGM terrorists like this, please?

Not a fan of Reno (He even blocked me on Twitter) but I am with Him on this one.

In the name of our religiousity and ethnicity, we are often as fanatical as the other religions and ethnicities we describe as fanatics.

In fighting real and imagined beasts, we are becoming much like the very same beasts.

May the source of all creation help us.

StrongandMighty:
It can be anybody, but may Tinubu never happen to us!!

I am not a Tinubu fan, but this reasoning is how some of us rationalized Buhari, then went From frying pan to fire.

Massiveglory:
As far as this is Coming from el-rufai , take it with a pinch of salt. Elrufai is a certified ego booster.

El-Rufai ? “The certified ruffler of feathers” an “Ego booster”? Please give me one example of this. I am not a fan of Elrufai but I can tell you He is not the kind who is quick to flattery and ass kissing.

He saying something that He says all His fellow governors agree with. That is a bold statement.

Why not wait for the governors to disagree with Him before jumping into conclusions.

Yamleg:
The rates at which workers are now getting sacked at my place of work is alarming. I can't afford to lose my job due to sleeping on duty.

Guys, kindly state things you do to stay awake all through the night.
I look forward to your replies.

The answer is obvious, get enough sleep before your duty time. Enough sleep means a minimum of 6 hours, uninterrupted and quiet sleep.

Or are you working night and day shift? If so , are you trying to kill yourself? There is no true wealth without fitness and health. And sleep is our body and minds natural way of refreshing itself.

Nancy2020:
It is a free world.

There are many western analysts who have condemn nato moving towards Russia border but the evil globalization cult USA government has failed to listen to their opinions.

Be here having headache about USA, when Russia is not just lying to the world but to it’s own people about the War. They still don’t call it a “War” in Russia cos the sick and ill Putin has blocked all access to any reporting that does not support His lies and propaganda.

But you can continue, focusing on the symptom of the “West’s” reaction, rather than the cause, which is Putin’s paranoid, unjustifiable and miscalculated invasion.

Is He your Father? You are the type that will expect what they can’t afford from other people and hate them for not living up to expectations. Always blaming others for their own conditions.


Better leave your brother and His Wife and go and get a life.

HeroHero:
If u do head counts on death, Ukrainians died more than the Russians. The dead feel no pain again though as a soldiers their families mourned them b4 they died.
Am talking of the amputees and wounded soldiers living in pains.
The world used social media to deceive Ukrainians and their land & cities are being destroyed while Russian cities has no scratch

They are defending their country not attacking Russia, so your point about Russian cities having no scratch is pointless. Or Are you saying they should just give up like cowards? Is that what you will do. Live as a slave under a mad tyrant?

Russia is being hit in many other ways. Russia has lost a lot of soldiers, dozens of generals, a lot of tanks and thier reputation as a military strong nation. Putin is getting weaker at Home, the economy is biting, job losses are rising, rights are being clamped down on..Russians are beginning to find out the truth. It is only a matter of time.

donaldking10:
keep making a fool of yourself & keep allowing biased reporting from the western media fool you into believing that Ukraine actually stands a chance in this war.
Even B.B.C yesterday finally admitted that the western media was being one sided with their reports...
Read below...

Western officials have highlighted significant Russian losses, but they have been less willing to give estimates of Ukrainian casualties.
IMAGE SOURCE, YASUYOSHI CHIBA
Image caption,
Ukraine remains outgunned, despite military support from the West

Of course they will underreport, it still doesn’t change the fact that Russia has suffered significant losses. A war that was suppose to last 2 weeks is now at three months with no end in sight. And you are still here defending Putin’s irrational miscalculated invasion. A war which He started and which He can immediately end, but for His Ego and shame.

Don’t worry you will see clearer in the next three months.

Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!

Why is the apology so important to you? If it’s about your ego, let it go? If it is about Her ego, let it be enough that you have expressed your displeasure and let it go. The best apology She can give is change Her ways, as in the salt issue. So let it go, One day She will know.

Zeezenho:
Stop mentioning Simon ekpa to cover your evil ways you guys are demonic greedy and liers sons of falling demons. What have epka done to compare with what your lord tinubu have done and still walking free even contesting for presidency. Evil people.

Now I know for sure; you are the kind that jumps into conclusions, because I am the exact opposite of demonic and I definitely do not support Tinubu. Take another wild guess.

And both Putin and Zelenskys first names, Vladimir and Volodimir, mean the same thing.

Plus both Putin & Zelensky are 5 feet 7 inches in height.

Zeezenho:
Oga why not tell how UGM came to be why not tell us why the military invaded our land why not tell why the killing of Igbo youths in ezu river?

I would have told you what you want to hear, but Simon Ekpa says otherwise, so … you tell me.

Rastaramsey:
I don't believe this shit

Federal government and co are in charge of this shit going on in Southeast....

Those guys will ensure sit at home every Mondays,no policeman will stop them.....

They will now be posting some criminals and heavy weapons...

This shit is staged mhen...

If they are in charge, why hasn’t Nnamdi Kanu said and defended same?

Why is Simon Ekpa claiming responsibility?

Why is one faction IPOB blaming Simon Ekpa and Autopiloters?

Why is that former lady ally of Simon Ekpa blaming Him and His Men for the hijacking of ESN and murders of key IPOB figures?

How come you know what all the South-East governors do not know?

And are you saying the Igbos are so gullible that they are acting on FG directions, thinking it is coming from IPOB?

When you have satisfactorily answered these questions, then you can properly test your assumptions and opinions- before stating them as if they are indisputable facts.

murmee:
Motorbikes are not meant to be used as a means of public transportation. Get that straight!

Says who? For what reason? As long as private bikers can carry private passengers on bikes, why not public bikes for public riders?

Men are not made for Laws rather laws are made for Men..

Bikes are very practical in a traffic infested city like Lagos. All you need are the right safety and security regulations. You, get that straight.


Or you can choose to sit in freak traffic on 3rd mainland rather than hop on a bike to meet up with your job interview or presentation on the island.,

OceanEye:
Hands up if you're going to miss getting to an appointment swiftly �

Don’t hands up in surrender though. Instead start making demands for Lagos state government to reinstate safer and more secure bike ride hailing services like Gokada, Max Ng & O ride just a few months ago.

With that you have bio data of all riders and you can track their general movement.

Maxymilliano:
https://www.channelstv.com/2022/05/19/most-okada-riders-in-lagos-are-criminals-police-commissioner/

But people need to move about fast , especially in Lagos. Even in New York, there is Okada. Why are we trying to be holier than the pope.

Sanwo Olowu, Reinstate bike ride hailing services like Gokada, & Max Ng, Please.

envoymedia:
VIRAL VIDEO



https://igberetvnews.com/1420287/nigerian-policewoman-cries-man-arrested-drives-unknown-destination-photos-video/

Hahaha, I did this to a Lastma guy many years ago. I drove all the way from Adeniyi Jones to Ogba in Lagos, before His colleagues caught up with me.

It’s still surprising how they let me go without impounding my car and for just a relatively small token.

This overzealous policeWoman shouldn’t sha jump is someone’s car in Sokoto or the South East.

politicoNG:
Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7130178/efcc-arrests-ahmed-idris-accountant#112897620



https://www.thecable.ng/breaking-finance-minister-suspends-accountant-general-over-n80bn-probe/amp

Who is Zainab Ahmed again? is it that voiceless , powerless and clueless Finance Minister, who has absolutely no say in fiscal policy?

I hope He did not dismember Her because of blasphemy, cos it looks like the same level of barbarism and animalistic behavior to me.

quentin06:
Is it only abokis that ride okada in lagos?

Yes, mostly. And increasingly, a lot of them are from Niger, chad and such places.

It is easier for them because one Seriki that needs an army of idiots to do His bidding in Lagos, will charter hundreds of Okada and Keke and give to them without any demand for collateral, because He already owns them.

[quote author=Lanrelagboi post=112949166]BREAKING NEWS: Governor of Lagos State, Mr Babajide Sanwo-Olu has announced the TOTAL BAN on Okada in some Local Governments in Lagos State, effective from June 1st 2022, The whole of IKEJA, SURULERE, ETI OSA, LAGOS MAINLAND, LAGOS ISLAND and APAPA Local Government Areas.

Governor Sanwo-Olu gave this order today while speaking with all DPOs and Area Commanders across the State today at the Lagos House, Ikeja.

Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu says other security agencies will join in the enforcement.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NK11LZzLivQ

FLASH: Governor of Lagos State, Mr @jidesanwoolu has announced the TOTAL BAN on Okada in some Local Governments in Lagos State, effective from June 1st 2022, The whole of IKEJA, SURULERE, ETI OSA, LAGOS MAINLAND, LAGOS ISLAND and APAPA Local Government Areas. #OkadaBan pic.twitter.com/fZH84bKh4B

— Jubril A. Gawat (@Mr_JAGs) May 18, 2022

banned Gokada, Max Ng & co, that had already filled the gap of illegal Okada and you didn’t think the vacuum would be filled?

Those “Niger-ien” Okada guys are lawless animals; whenever they gather in large numbers anything can happen. I’ve known them from Abuja, years ago, before they infiltrated Lagos.

They don’t even fear police. Only soldiers in Uniform with guns.

Let Him know you appreciate it BUT you are big girl, and that you will like to be treated as one.
That means you want to be able to stand for yourself and take responsibility for your actions both right and wrong- especially in the work place.

If He is mature, He should understand.

If He has other motives , He can quickly move on to step 2.

Kingsnairaland:
It is an act of War against Russia for Finland and sweeden to join nato..

Which kind of roundabout reasoning is this? Sweden and Finland are joining NATO because a foolish Putin invaded Ukraine for wanting to join NATO. And you are blaming them for wanting to join NATO? Are you confused? or are you a coward? or both. ??

Asswipemod:
Other countries have that too. And if you think Russia can fight the allied NATO, then you have been delusional all this while.

Don’t mind them. They have been fooled by Putin’s propaganda.

ijustdey:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2022/05/16/your-plans-to-join-nato-grave-mistake-russia-warns-finland-sweden/%3famp=1

Putin should continue blaming others for His own errors, He will get what He truly deserves.