₦airaland Forum

Cypress042:
Many girls of her age are looking who to tag them. Some even put out sextapes and nudes just for people to notice and tag them You should be rejoicing girl stop being a jerk

What part of “I am a different person” did you not understand? And how does the tagging help Her life?

Ayanwukoma:
So annoying that people do take others for granted. This man has been patronising my businesses for sometime now. He paid the first and second time swiftly at ease because I sold it very cheap for him as my pastor consign.The third time he asked me to get him same stuff which I did at almost same price, going up to 5 months now, since January haven't heard anything about the payment. At first I used to call him on Monday as a reminder but he keeps posting me til I got tired.
Because of this I skip Church most Sundays but today I was so angry that I had to go, waited till church service was over...I still sat there praying, hoping that this man will approach me about his debt.. till now nothing from him.

Write him a demand letter to pay within a time frame.

Get Him to acknowledge the debt and ensure you have proof for payment.

If He doesn’t pay within the timeframe, you can sue Him to court under the undefended list procedure, which doesn’t require the defendant to be in court, as long as there is proof.

As soon as you get judgement in your favor, you can live it to the court to enforce the debt recovery.

chatinent:
May God punish all idiots who are abroad but are plotting to advise people to remain in Nigeria!

Me wey bi if I kuma get the connection this uncle get, na to dey open way for people to come...you know, no condition is permanent naim this uncle dey lock door throwaway key! At least, if you don't want them to come directly where you are...,devil, open the way for them to go elsewhere naw! Una still dey carry the attitude una dey give Nigerians there dey give people wey no dey there!

What sort of ekwensublability is this! How old is your witchcraft!

Fine lady, any how you fit do, please and please, escape from this country! If you can survive here, you can survive there! Pikin wey go strong go strong; no be until dem name am Samson.Their petty jobs and some other petty jobs you can do on the minimum wage, wetin you fit accumulate monthly na wetin most bankers dey earn for Naija per annum.

No gree make that black mamba deceive you o. Who no get dey choose plate for party? Who dey owe landlord dey wear cardigan? Shoo!

Eba dey hot, eba dey hot but you no gree comot hand. Baba, cast and bind every advice like this: reject am, disown the person, avoid the person...no matter who they are! They don't mean well for you! True, say cat sabi swim no make am catfish but e no mean say e no fit still catch fish! You fit bi traffic car washer abroad dey build duplex for Naija. Na experience wey climb orientation I dey give una. Many boys for we school that year wey dey claim rubbish, na toilet dem dey wash dey claim vacation dey carry Benz dey intmidate professor wey no know the cost of rim. Escape from Nigeria! You will always see jobs..and with time, other freelance jobs will come by.


If you are a hustler, you will definitely survive and survive others. Las las, crocodile na lizard wey join army.


Just ensure your ambition revolves around escaping from Nigeria! Jollof rice wey dey for bottom of pot today go dey for top of cooler tomorrow.

See you at the airport, fam. ✌️

if you are a hustler why are you running away>

EBMedia:
https://www.instagram.com/p/Cep9QPyLKN5/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Men, to be a bouncer in Edo state will require some serious balls of steel. Everybody blood dey hot for that side.

Angelfrost:
Nothing wrong here!

Every wise and sane Nigerian should be strapped at all times!

We can't leave our lives at the hands of infidels!

Did they say it was in Nigeria?

NwekeUG:
https://www.instagram.com/p/Ceo3AT7L1fh/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

At a prayer ground, where? in which continent? which country? which state? or Municipality?

NwekeUG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DWm2MrO0Tf8

Justin Bieber reveals he's been diagnosed with Ramsay Hunt Syndrome, causing half of his face to be temporarily paralysed, IGBERETV reports.

He said the disease has attacked the nerves in his ear and face and he will need a lot of rest and facial exercises to get better, but he doesn't know how much time it will take.

He explained that this is why he has cancelled his shows and he asked fans to be patient with him as he gets his health back to what it was.

Wow, sorry JB, hope you get well soon.

Meanwhile, does it affect only the right side of the ear or face? cos all the illustrations i have seen are exactly like Justin Bieber's

MITCHELL96:
Nigeria is a curse na, Why won't he be fresh ?

Nigeria is curse for people like you. Not for many others who are living fresh in Naija.

Reno Omokri is sounding more inclusive and less divisive than usual. I wonder what happened.

naija4life247:
Justice Oputa or Justice Belgore or Justice Mary Odilli ?

Or Justice Salami

First of all, well done Ma, for raising them single handedly in the last 10 years, it must not have been easy raising two boys all on your own.

The truth is that boys will be boys. And they are now at the age where they begin to feel like big boys who can do their own thing. You first have to accept that this is normal.

They are evolving and they probably don’t think you can help answer their questions cos you are a Woman.

In the meantime, check out these tips from
Secureteens.com

“ You may have successfully raised your child into becoming an adult but when your son becomes a teenager, the process becomes a bit difficult. Since your son is getting out of his adolescent years, he will now be experiencing hormonal changes and undergo feelings which you, as a single mother, would not be able to understand or relate to.

Having said that, this surely does not discourage you from raising your son in a better way and making him into a wonderful adult on your own. We have listed down some tips for all the single mothers on raising their teenage sons. Let’s go through them one by one.

Do Not Keep Checking on Them

It’s true that your son has become a teenager now but he is still the same child for you. It is important to understand that he has grown up and wants to live a life of his own. He would want to go and hang out with his friends, meaning he could turn up late at home. Therefore, it is better to set some clear boundaries with him and ask him when he’s going to return home so that you do not have to continuously bug him with calls or text messages. Keeping a constant check on them can irritate them.

Do Not Talk Negative About His Father

You may have separated or divorced from your husband but remember he is still a father to your children. They may still have feelings for their father or would also meet him often. Therefore, you should never talk negatively about their father in front of them. It is quite possible that they make ask questions about their father but you should never neglect them – rather answer them confidently.

Make Them Do Their Own Things

Let your son develop the habit of doing their own things. Make sure he learns to finish his own errands rather than depending on you or his other siblings. He should have a sense of responsibility and develop his manly skills. They should learn to do household repairs so that you do not have to worry about it.

Plan Fun Activities For them

You should take care of the activities your sons enjoy the most. Remember, boys love doing fun and crazy activities whether they’re five or thirty-five years old. You should add some physical activities into your schedule; you can have excursions to the water parks or amusement parks. Play sports with them – start playing badminton, basketball, baseball, or any other game your boys love playing in their past time.

Give Them Freedom

Kids love when they have freedom in their lives without much interference from their parents. They love doing their own things and making decisions on their own. As a single mother, you should also give them the right to make their own decisions. Trust their instincts to see how well you’ve matured them. When they’ll experience everything on their own, only then they’ll be able to differentiate between right and wrong. “

Also, you might want to get a male figure who is into something they like, eg Music or sports to act as a mentor to them and help them divert and channel all of that teenage energy.

Best of luck.

deeva2:
E shock you abi..Thats to tell you that Prof was never a grassroot politician but an office holder..

Was it a grassroots or bribed-delegates matter? I think it is the latter. Osinbajo lost out because He ran against corrupt Men and delegates , who see no future with Him.

madridguy:
This is to make their sweet love more merry.

Chai, make I no yearn wetin dey my mind. I remember one verse for Quran that works more than magic for love If you know you know.

Really? What verse in the Quran or I can’t begin to believe you.

Maxymilliano:
https://ait.live/breaking-abducted-kaduna-abuja-train-passengers-regain-freedom/

On the same day that results of APC primaries came out? What a coincidence!

Sergio101:
Unfortunately for us.

He's the winner tonight.

Really sad

Says who?

The first thing you need to do is STOP despising and feeling less about yourself for what you can or can’t do.

The next things is for you to work on the joy stock of your minds, cos no matter what you eat, how healthily or what you drink , how well you “take care” of your physical joy stick, it is your mind and your self esteem that will still make or F you Up!

electhnd:
Once your testimony arrives, keep praying....
That was how a woman struggled and prayed, and her child came and she delivered, but the child died later because she stopped praying thinking that she has won the battle

Prayer is not about battling the devil but communicating with God. Sometimes prayer requires silence. But I hear people speaking to the devil and demons for hours , then they tell you they are praying. Meanwhile all I see is people shaking, “praying to God while fearing the devil. feeling like they need to help Gid to help them. Like God cannot sustain what He started if they just trust Him.

Gods blessings add no sorrow.

Any testimony that requires you to remain in constant state of fighting enemies, is not a godly testimony.

It is not Gods will that all Nigerian Christians go to America. But since America is heaven all of us consider going there as a “testimony”.

Wisdom is before Him that has understanding , but the eyes of the fool are in the ends of the earth. Proverbs 17:24.

Highlandgee:
It could just be destiny

It is destiny in the sense that we are all destined to die some young, some old and some in midlife…

May His family be comforted and May his soul RIP.

Amen.

PaChukwudi44:
We already know Atiku is sweeping the entire north

You will be shocked! Mark my words!

Dvdpity:
Lies. Ukrainian soldiers are still hole up in the industrial zone. Funny news.

And you know this because…?

Haha stuff like that still happens to me after so many years of driving.

Sometimes I drive to places around my area, sometimes I take Keke , depending on which is most convenient at the time.

A couple of times I went out with the car, and when I was done boarded a keke or was about to, when I noticed the car keys in my hands. Lol.

….

channelstravel:
Atiku loves education and he will fund ASUU?? really?

I love bread so it means I'll build more bakeries if elected?

Who gives Reno inspirations to post the stuff he posts on social media?

Wtf.

Need admission into cheap schools in the UK for January 2023? See my siggy

My thoughts exactly!

ogododo:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/06/one-million-tucano-jets-wont-end-banditry-prof-usman-sheikh-gumi/

I am not a big fan of Gumi, but if we calm down and listen to what this Men are saying, there is some truth.

The military solution cannot be the only solution. It is the same militarization of the problem by PMB that made IPOB become very radical. May God give us wisdom.

GreatVocalist:
Read the last paragraph again.

Ok.

[quote author=womenareapez post=113431228][/quote]Exactly! You obviously have no reasonable response.

GreatVocalist:
Show me where I said a man must always earn more than his wife.

So which laid down law of God are you referring to in support of the guys actions?

GreatVocalist:
It seems you failed to look beyond his words. I think the main problem here is the feeling that you don't think he's capable enough to fulfil his duties as a man. He offered to take care of the needs, and he didn't ask you to quit your job.

It's surprising how his feelings for you depreciated, right? Yeah, one of the things that attracts a man more to a woman is her ability to listen when he speaks. Your constant and firm rejection of his suggestions doused the fire. He even suggested you took the first offer which wouldn't take you far from him. Meaning another reason is he didn't want you to go far from him, he treasured the closeness. Yet, you refused.

He was perturbed with the thought that you would hardly listen to him on important matters if he had decided to get to the next stage with you. So to him, you chose your career over his authority as a man.

These are natural laws that God has set for humans. We can't change them. Sometimes, you have to let go of some ambitions to make things in life work out for you. A man who wants to be the lord of his house won't take in a woman who doesn't listen to him. I don't think it was really about the salary. If it was, he wouldn't have asked you to go with the first offer.

Show me where God set a natural law that the Man must always earn more than His wife? Show me one? Please?

womenareapez:
you said the purest truth and not everyone will believe this truth!

The fellow men criticising this man are the reall low self-esteem poverty sinking men to that particular y tribe who will go so far to married their white grandmother as wife just for visa

That op will never date anyman below her pay income and will probably dumb him in the future!

This the man has seen and worked on it

The person with the low self esteem is the one who .
1. Measures himself with someone else including His wife &
2. The one who needs someone to be lesser than Him in order to feel important.

Sounds like you?

Instead of telling His wife not to take the job why not go and get a better paying job, since that’s what His manhood is tied to?

The answer is poor self esteem, and lack of confidence in His capacity to handle a strong woman.

So sorry to hear this, but it’s better it is happening now than during marriage.

Before we married and even after, I have never discouraged my Wife from any thing that advances Her as a person. I need a partner that is solid. I need a mother for my children that is empowered , that has sense. My life has been better for it, sometimes my cash flow is better than hers sometimes Hers is better than mine.

I can’t be judged strictly by my bank account, but by my willingness and ability to handle my responsibilities.

Many Men imagine a marriage where they are always on top, whatever that means. But the truth is there is no guarantee that you will always be on top. Companies close down, people loose their jobs, people get pay cuts, people fall sick, sometimes people die.

In Nigeria men have a lower life expectancy, if as a Man you die before your wife, do you want to leave your children or your legacy in the hands of some broke woman who is not empowered?

My Sister, take it in good faith. Try not to fight. Try not to be bitter. Respect His choice. Respect yourself and move on with your life. Yes marriage requires some compromise but You should never be less of yourself for anyone else.

The one that can handle you will surely come. Amen.

So what will the ministry be called? Ministry of banditry? How can you compare bandits to people who were fighting a moral and legal right to resource control.

Most of these bandits are not even Nigerians.

Wait, is Gumi even a Nigerian, because Ayam not understanding Him again.

Why do you want to control how another person talks? You really need to ask yourself why it is such a problem for you before you try to do anything.

In my opinion, the first thing you need to control is how you allow the way She speaks affect you. So that you can be better able to deal with it.

If she’s is cautioning Her self only because you are around giving dagger looks, then the problem has not been solved.

If it’s a deal breaker for you, let Her know, because as you said you are a quiet ,
Mind your business kinda guy and it won’t work for you. Try not to make it about how bad she is. Let it just be that there MAY be compatibility issues in that area