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bennyrazz:
then you should seek for solution on her behalf. You need to seriously pray on her behalf and you can talk to your own Pastor. You going to warn the supposed man of themselves would do nothing.

Thank u. I appreciate

bennyrazz:
there are some herbalists/babalawo that have rebranded since customers do not patronize them again. Even the Bible says we should beware of false prophets who come to us in sheep's clothing but inwardly they are wolves. I agree some pastors are fake, some are not called and some use it as a business making venture but I can assure you that they will all pay for it. It is good to be vigilant when it comes to the type of church you go to, does it take a way your freewill? what is preached from the pulpit? do they preach about salvation? do they follow Biblical principles? is the supposed man of God materialistic/money conscious? is he flamboyant and arrogant? the Bible says you should "watch and pray". Why would you mum relinquish her car? if the answers to any of the questions above does not add up then she might be under some sort of jinx from a babalawo claiming to be a Pastor. And you need serious prayers to break her off that spell. The Bible also says that by their fruits, you will know them. Them Taking advantage of your mother is totally wrong.

She has been brainwashed. Maybe some other things are used to blind her eyes.

I feel u should threaten him of separation. Be very serious about it. Just tell him, with the way things are going, u can't cope anymore. That u have ur life to live. His response will give u clue on what to do next.
Abeg oo how u take cope for a yr without sex?

Acidosis:
I've never given this kind of advice here, but madam, you need to continually CHEAT on him.


If you continue to play the virgin Mary mother Mavrodi on your HORSE-band, you will loose it completely.


There is no better way to correct a seemingly useless spouse than reckless cheating, albeit sensibly. Take your love and your body elsewhere.

chai u wicked ooo. u provoke this time oo

AstuteJay:
Threaten them harder, intensify more efforts. They are daylight robbers. There is nothing you can do to your mum to change her. Focus well on the robbers in the presence of their congregation, they will be the ones to reject her offers.

Did I hear u say reject her offers? It seems u don't know these guys. She goes to apologize n appeals them on our behalf. That we were possessed to have carried such a threat on MOG.

Acidosis:
ah, abeg gimme mumsy number.



I need to enlighten her oo; 99% of pastors in that area are scammers. As far as that area is concerned, one can hardly meet any real MOG o, I've been there oo! Even Lagos, I nor dey trust pastors, majority are con artists, pentecostal rascals and certified scammers.


Whenever, I have something serious to talk about with a MOG, I just put a call through to my villa

My dear, u really understand d scenario. she doesn't listen to anyone. whatever a pastor says is final. And they ve so much know her to be a free giver, so they invite each other to come and scam. Some even call her to change their car tyres for them. The one she bought wine for, told her to buy carton, that he is bigger than a bottle of wine. see race she carry go buy carton of wine.

bennyrazz:
is she giving her money to the Pastor or paying the money to the church as seed or offering? Well I think you should thank God she is not using it to pay medical bills and I also think you should thank God she's not giving it to herbalists

Really Those guys are as good as herbalists

Richy4:
pardon me for asking but Why did they take your mum's car... was it for repairs or what?

The pastor took it for his personal use. why she is busy trekking under d rain n sun. At times, she will call me to come pick her up

EgusiSoup:
go to the church and do the needful to the pastor.

We ve done all that. Even the one that permanently took her car was bashed by me to return it.
My mum called to say she has disowned me for telling a man of God to return her car. In fact it was serious war.
we even went to threaten them at home, to stay away from her. But all to no avail

Will you still be encouraged to give your mum money when you know she won't be using it, instead it will be given to pastors we know so well that they are just scamming her.
When we told her we will stop giving her money if she continues, she said she is not forcing us to. That her God will provide. At d same time felt bad like we are neglecting her. Though she is a govt worker with good salary but always complaining of hunger. And if we don't give to her, people might see it that we are not caring.
What do I do?

[quote author=toluleke post=52046979]Why will i tell my wife to reject it. Atleast me too go they drive am sometimes.. it just a gift, if i don't me my wife as a virgin i would take the car as part payment of using her recklessly before marriage [/quot


hahaha. u r wicked

princetom1:
Oh, i enjoyed my stay in warri, quite cool, i stayed at osubi Airport hotel and suites, i must add that their service at d hotel is zero, from water that isn't running properly, to over inflated room rates compared to all online rates (e.g, jumia travels and hotels.ng), and their reception is so slow to respond to complain or request plus they dont understand hospitality business at all, and finally, the reception and the restaurant/bar keep disturbing with calls to order for food which taste like poo (a waste of money, i ate once at d hotel, friend rice for me & white rice for my partner) . If there is one thing i must commend them for, its the clean room, stable electricity (98%) and amenities available. All in all, its a nice experince,

awwwwwww, this is serious. Pele

gentleiphy:
Good thing you remembered Rojenny Tourist Village In Oba(not Onitsha) Onitsha stopped at upper iweka and Rojenny is not in Onitsha....However the Rojenny you knew then that made waves is a shadow of itself and not like what it used to be..

Really?? Thanks so much for d info.
That means I will have to check Enugu Nike lake resort or imo. Oguta lake. Do u know anything about those two?

thelish:
I was looking for a not too far vacation centre to spend some time with hubby n kids. I was carried away with this Rojenny in Anambra state.
pls does anyone the current state of that tourist centre? If their facilities are still fully functioning? I will really appreciate quick responses.

No one has been there before?

I was looking for a not too far vacation centre to spend some time with hubby n kids. I was carried away with this Rojenny in Anambra state.
pls does anyone the current state of that tourist centre? If their facilities are still fully functioning? I will really appreciate quick responses.

Ujoan:
But she specifically requested that he uses protection and not get involved in a committed relationship. Going by your logic of what the woman 'permitted' him to do, don't you think he deserves to be faulted here?

And in any case what were you expecting her to say? She already saw reasonable evidence that he was cheating even with getting a 'pass'. Personally I think she was just being realistic about what she can and cannot tolerate.

The fact that she acknowledged that it will be impossible for him to stay without sex for 6months, and accepts the reality of that, doesn't mean she has cosigned to sharing her marriage with another woman.

The OP originally intended to marry the strange woman and bear children with her since his wife cannot have any more kids. Somehow I think with or without her 'consent' he would have still done that.

So people are blaming the woman for wanting a better life for her kids, but this was a decision both of them took together. I personally would never agree to such, not because I don't want this scenario to play out in my home, but because I know how difficult it is to raise children alone. As much as I love my kids, I won't make such sacrifice for them. I cannot come and go and kill myself!!! I'll stay wherever my husband is staying and together we will both play our own individual roles in raising the kids.

People assume because the woman is living abroad, she having a time of her life. I bet she is also extremely lonely, overstretched and possibly depressed.

Imagine how she will react when she discovers what her her husband has been up to back home.

I bet my 1kobo that OP is a broke dude who's refusing to live a broad because he can't bring himself to do menial jobs which is all that will be available to him over there. Back here he can live off the few dollars his wife scrapes and sends to him and brag about how he cannot stand the weather and how his family lives in the almighty US. . . . I know his type. I see them everyday. . . I just pity the wives who think they can become heroes to these undeserving men.

Kudos ma'am

cococandy:
With yamayama (dirt) stuck between the keyboards.

haha hahaha. Coco oooo

FortuneTeller:
Omegalala

You are disgusting, wretched Godless man. I pray that your wife returns the favor to you 10 fold. By God's grace she will find a man in the US and forget about you.

Same thought here oo.
What nonsense

futureenergy:
MMM has just made the best decision. I advised one of the guiders to suggest MMM should be on standby from 10th of December. Like they read my mind. Very Good!!! Before we crash this thing with our Christmas mentality.

God bless u jare.
If we think deeply, we will know this is a good decision taken by mavro. if not,d thing nor go function next yr.
I still PH of 300k today.

princetom1:
You have been quite helpful. Thanks

Modified; i wount be coming alone, 2 of us now

ok. no prob. It is well

princetom1:
Check your mail ma

I have replied u. waiting for ur call or chat.

princetom1:
Which fast food outlet will you recomend?

Take a look at these hotels? How close are they to main town?

Lawfab,
https://hotels.ng/hotel/71271-lawfab-hotels-delta

Godatin

https://hotels.ng/hotel/34785-godatin-hotel-delta

BB hotel & Catering service

https://hotels.ng/hotel/87662-bb-hotel-catering-services-delta

Also, which cab company can i bank on to take me around?

Hopefully these hotels are still in good shapes . Your reply is apreciated

Bro, u don't have any fear. I know all d hotels stated there. lawfab is at osubi, godatin is at enerhen, BB is opp ecobank by plaza. If u need cab services, my hubby is good at that. he has a camry2.2 to take u round town. Which state are u going from? we have other better and new hotels in Udu axis. If u are interested, just pm me. we will take u to all d joints u need. when u tell us d kinda local food u want, we will take u to d best mama put or fast-food depending on ur preference.
Warrior is as safe as anything. remove dat fear n notion of danger from u.

princetom1:
Which fast food outlet will you recomend?

Take a look at these hotels? How close are they to main town?

Lawfab,
https://hotels.ng/hotel/71271-lawfab-hotels-delta

Godatin

https://hotels.ng/hotel/34785-godatin-hotel-delta

BB hotel & Catering service

https://hotels.ng/hotel/87662-bb-hotel-catering-services-delta

Also, which cab company can i bank on to take me around?

Hopefully these hotels are still in good shapes . Your reply is apreciated

Bro, u don't have any fear. I know all d hotels stated there. lawfab is at osubi, godatin is at enerhen, BB is opp ecobank by plaza. If u need cab services, my hubby is good at that. he has a camry2.2 to take u round town. Which state are u going from? we have other better and new hotels in Udu axis. If u are interested, just pm me. we will take u to all d joints u need. when u tell us d kinda local food u want, we will take u to d best mama put or fast-food depending on ur preference.

Richie0974:
Got slaps as deliverance.

hahaha hahaha. I encountered a similar thing

Richie0974:
That's a human being.
It's very funny when you're accused of witchcraft, it happened to me when I was in primary school.
I lived with a family friend, at night I remember I was awake standing opposite everyone else and I was accused of being a wizard, I just concurred and I told them every thing they wanted to hear about how I tried to block their destiny and it didn't work out because of the anointing on them. Right opposite me was s pastor and founder, I expected her to know I was lying but alas she was even happier thinking she was filled with the spirit. I told them everything they wanted to hear they said I was a wizard but I was only a boy that wanted to go back to sleep.
It's about time Africans get out of this archaic nature.

were u not maltreated thereafter?

ikombe:
I still dey find wetin i hate for this world pass NPF

nepa

yomibelle:
when an average lady makes this kinda hair, she's termed 'bush gal'

when an artiste does, it is termed 'fashionable'

u took d words from my mouth jare

Acidosis:
She has a very low, almost zero esteem...low self-worth


Her first mistake (she will forever live with) was accepting to remain a virgin, while you go sucking anything that looks like skirt, whether a porcupine lives beneath the skirt or not.


You, on the other hand will do anything to get satisfied. Guess what? you will need to continue chasing skirts till death.


If they give you Maheeda, believe me, it won't be long before you ask for Afrocandy.

guy u wicked o. lol

Realhommie:
People do ask and just so you know, E-money does get more sticks than anyone else.


It's not a crime to want to know what she does actually. Everyone knows she's a top Nollywood act and she's got a few endorsement here and there. But then, she lives a flamboyant life, when you do that and always make ur private life public people will ask questions.



I'm not saying anything but please note that in life theres more to everything than meets the eyes.

no prob

[quote author=pocohantas post=50887873]You probably haven't been following e-money's threads. They even call that one ritualist, drug pusher...etc.
Let's say most Nigerians are generally envious of wealth, it's worst when it's a female.[/quot


The only person dat called him ritualist was attacked. They just hate wealthy women.
At least some were saying God of E_money should be their God. lol

Kobicove:
I still do not understand the purpose of these pre-wedding photo shoots...

when there is misunderstanding in the home, u look at d pics, then quarrel end.
It will help u remember all d love una don do before.
At times, when am angry, I look deeply into our wedding invitation card and our old Sch pics, Then I ask myself, where d love wey make me do all these things? lol

plus someone should help with where I can download them