Thinee:


There is not how a slut will be so tight that it will hinder penetration , as far as she isn't a virgin, It must penetrate especially when she's really wet...all will be opened!!..... Even when my girl is really dripping wet , I see that as a opportunity , but still on still it doesn't go in no matter how I tried , even my fingers find it hard so I know what I'm talking about

You know little to nothing bro... A virgin could be wide and deep down there. It's nothing new. Maybe you haven't cone across them but they do exist.

baralatie:

simple it can break and contraceptive can fail.it is because you are not the one taking those contraceptive pills .just be a woman for one month and take these pills (you will know some things are not normal).
if the op wants to marry let him marry.
if he is not ready for responsibility let him free the girl and get olosho girls.
olosho girls (this is there department and faculty...there no wan marry.they just wan gbensh okpari)

This is getting ridiculous: I mean we are talking about a girl who came all the way from illorin to delta to co-habit with a guy for an indefinite period of time - what was she expecting? Prayers and sermons?

Nazgul:

Leave contraceptives, only a naiev girl will take that rubbish. Cos constant taking of it can damage the womb leading to barrenness.

If you look carefully on drugs like "Azurette" which is a very strong contraceptive pill you'll see where it's written clearly to be taken not more than once or twice in a month, a situation where he's constantly releasing inside her and she's constantly taking it, and her womb damages will he still marry her?

Let's not be selfish with our advices please, these are people's children you're trying to ruin and it's very bad.

Utter rubbish! Contraceptive pills are safe and effective( if use perfectly could be 99% effective but humans ain't perfect so its at least 91% effective).

Of course it has sides effects, which is unsurprising, considering the fact even paracetamol itself is not 100% safe nor effective. I asked again what's your point?

baralatie:

condoms can break

and sometimes all these family planning can disappoint

A good condom guarantees 98% protection. However, it could break if:
• it expired
• worn inappropriately
• scratched or mistakenly torn.
Etc.

There are lots of highly effective contraceptive out there, so what's your point?

Thinee:


No insult please , bro no girl can tell me shes a virgin without me confirming....we have tried multiple times and penetration ain't even easy cus I'm big, especially when we re in really deep romance

In excess, what I'm trying to say is that...I've seen and confirmed she's a virgin, even when I spoke to the former guy she was dating he told me same thing

Understand this: A tight vagina doesn't mean a girl is a Virgin, or less promiscuous, to believe this is naïvity and ignorance.

Some sluts are tight down there despite their promiscuity, it all boils down to body difference.

The earlier you know this the better for you

Thinee:


I'm a street guy tho educated, cus I grew up in the hood (okokomaiko to be precised).... So no girl can play me that way , by telling me she's a virgin without me confirming her virginity., Even my fingers find it hard entering her and I've never even put my fingers in her fully cus she's fucking tight and feels a lot of pain

You still dey learn work . That she is tight doesn't mean she is a Virgin, in fact, there is ample evidence to debunked that myth. Morever,Promiscuity has little to do with "loose vagina", age and childbirth do.

You better play your cards well and smash that pussy.

Nazgul:
You've not saved up enough money to get married and have children yet you want to have sex with her?

You sound very selfish, you only want to satisfy your urge but isn't ready for the responsibilities associated with your actions.

Leave that girl alone until you're financially ready to settle down then go and see her parents.

What happened to protection and contraceptives? Last time i checked this things are available and easy to get.

Don't be surprised this so-called virgin had rode numerous dicks of varying sizes .

Thinee:
Met this girl early November 2019 , we were both serving corp members, we actually flowed along, talking late into the night and so on. After the festive period 2019 December we came back to our PPA and we started dating, I found out she was a virgin. I was asurprised cus I never expected a graduate to still keep her virginity till nysc, we kept on dating tho , along the line I passed out of service and went back home (p.s I reside in lagos and shes from ilorin). The distance was giving me a lot of issues so we broke up around April 2020
Fast forward to October last year, I came back to delta state( that's where I served ) and she was almost done with her service, so things took off from there , I begged her back and we started dating once more, even tho she had a new guy she was dating ( based in ilorin also)she said she never stopped loving me and I also discovered she was still a virgin after that long period of time I left her.
We talked about everything and she said she was willing to leave the guy , and also allow me take her virginity, she went back home after her service that October, with the plan of coming back November so we could build a future together. She was also ready to give me her virginity cus we talked allot about sex even while she was away ( she was ready right from the first time we broke up ) but me going back home after my service change a lot of things .
She came back from ilorin December and we started living together, she does a lot of things , all house chores and cook also , I also assist her , especially in cooking because I also love cooking and like preparing my dishes.
We kept on postponing the time we were gon have sex, like I wanted it to be her decision , never wanted to force her. One month passed she wasn't still ready, Only for her to tell me that there's something attached to her virginity, that anyone that disvirgin her would be the person to marry her , that I have to go see her parents first before I can take her virginity. That really got me pissed off cus she knows I'm very sexually active and got a high libido, but I'm this kinda guy that sticks to one person, as far as I am getting all my needs from her......what pissed me off was the fact that she came over from ilorin to delta state knowing we weren't going to have sex and she never told me all that on phone ( probably I would have had a rethink about her coming back)
I'm 24 and shes 22 , the issue now is that tho I'm okay and I have a online job I'm doing that fetches me money atleast for upkeep and also to spare cus I live in a comfortable self con apartment with every thing I need in it..., But Ive not yet gather enough money to be able to get married, cus I don't want to bring a child into this world to suffer , so I made up my mind to be very comfortable with atleast 10 to 15million in my account before I can be able to get married so I can give my children what they need.
Now she has been staying with me up to two months now without sex ,cus I don't want to cheat on her and she's not even ready to offer the sex . I'm getting frustrated everyday with her attitude and I'm also planning of sending her back to ilorin so we can just be dating distantly till we are ready to get married and I can be free to be with any one I want to over here , cus I've got a lot of girls over here ready to be with me but I pushed all of them away cus of her , now she's no ready to give me the one thing lacking in our relationship
I don't believe in relationship without sex, cus if I'm keeping her here to get married and she ends up jilting me I'll be the one at loss....and I don't want that ...
I don't know what to do and I really want to know if sending her back to ilorin is the best option so we can date distantly, cus I really don't think if I can cope with lack of sex and I can't be with someone else cus she stays at my place
Please I need your matured advice with no insults please

P.S she's a very good girl and from a good family, and I'm also a good guy from a good family and I also wouldn't like to loss her , but my libido is telling on me

You are a fool . Just see how a girl is playing mind games on you, all in the name of sex. Believe she is a Virgin at your own risk. Dude smash that girl and allow things flow naturally if you can't dump her manipulative ass if you can.

Abini2012:
I remember when I posted it in July, 2019 with absolutely no idea how or when we will come back to this enchanting city. Heavens knows.

Little did we know God ways are not ours and His thoughts towards us are of good..

So dear Nairalanders, like a jigsaw puzzle, God put all the pieces in the right fix for us and here we are...

Be positive in your thoughts, actions and be intentional in your deeds, whatever you seek in this new year shall surely come to pass..

Your thread is superb . BTW I read up there where you typed "inshaallah", are you a Muslim?

seunny4lif:
Covid-19 payment for everyone that was working before the COVID locked down

That's Awesome . Way to go Ireland

Chiggsglover:
Meanwhile, this morning!

You are doing well bro . BTW I read up there where you said the Irish government gives people €350? Is that unemployment benefit or just a generous hand out?

Nazgul:

I agree with you...most times the signs are there. Just that many men are blinded by a non-existing love. A woman that will divorce you after just one month in marriage will actually have displayed such glaring signs but most men foolishly choose to ignore them.

I learnt one bitter truth in relationships. Who isn't yours isn't yours, never force anyone to love you.

Never endure anyone who's character isn't compatible with you because you love them, it will end in premium tears because people don't change they only get worse.

Never invest heavily on a partner to win her heart, your investment will earn you her body but not her heart.

Never go into conflict with your parents or siblings because of a partner. You'll be on your knees begging when your relationship goes south. (This one applies to females as well)

Never try to change or rebrand a partner, you'll end up getting frustrated. Go for the one that exhibits the characteristics of what you want and date her.

Never fall in love with a girl you love, rather fall in love with a girl who loves you. When you fall in love with a girl you love, if she doesn't feel the same way, you'll spend all your time in that relationships trying to gain her affection. She will torture you emotionally, drain you financially, manipulate you into doing things for her against your wish... etc. But when a girl geninuely loves you, she'll go any length and give anything just to be with you. Flee from home, borrow, make sacrifices...just to make you happy.

Finally, men should be wise, flying your spouse abroad isn't bad, but make sure she has earned your loyalty, trust and love.

That's some pure wisdom right here , did you all learn this from experience?

SamJed:
So I am a primary 4 classroom teacher and I love my children and ensure that they learn in the best way possible.

Most times I gather them around me and tell them some real life lesson, current events, science, stories, and even show them YouTube videos of some topics or discussion we had.

I was just reminiscing about what these children have done to me innocently that almost put me in trouble.

One day, before teaching a particular topic, I decided to watch some YouTube videos. One of the talkative's in the class managed to find her way to my table and saw me watching the videos.

She went back to her classmates and of all things to tell her classmates, she told them that she saw me watching a video with two naked girls and a man.

Damn It was just youtube videos. I don't know what she saw that made her conclude such. I had to quickly call all the kids together and show them what i was watching, because I knew that from class it will definitely get to their houses and that could be the start of some problem.

Another day, one of the little ladies wrote me a letter detailing how she likes my teaching and don't want me to go. According to her, I should keep teaching her till she leaves the school.

She kept asking me for a reply. I still wonder how I wriggled out of that situation.

Another one was another little lady coming to sit on my leg and gbam it spread... I initially waved it off till the proprietress called me to be wary of the kids

The little guys don't have problem apart from always reminding me of the gifts I promised them for whoever comes out best in any challenge I give.

So guys have you ever been put into trouble by kids

An interesting read , I am also a primary school teacher, I teach primary to be exact. I have had my fair share of trouble with kids but nothing came serious at the end.

thebosstrevor1:


Nonsense comment.

You want people to do dna test without thinking about data protection.

Nigerian dna market is unregulated.when you give your dna to companies, they have control over you.

Social media giants like Facebook and Google already have your data at hand , its laughable you are just realising this.

However, it still won't stop me from conducting DNA test whenever I suspect foul play

Ishilove:
Yes, but there should be a limit. I was thoroughly flogged while growing up but I turned out very well. There is a thin line between discipline and abuse and many parents cross the line without knowing.

Know when to use the cane and when to use your mouth

Its a shame you are a child abuser

So if your spouse offend you, will you also flog the hell out of him/her?

Abuse that child all you like, the very moment he becomes an adult and you are pathetically old and senile he dumps your nasty self .

We have seen this scenario repeat itself time and time again. You better have a rethink to avoid a living a miserable old age.

Discipline your child with love,kindness and firmness and he will grow to love and respect. Be violent and abusive and he abandon you when you are old. Please be wise

geek4k:
Despite the ecstatic vibe attached to the last day of the year (Gruesome 2020 especially), It ended sadly for me as I experienced a near death situation.

On 31st December, I and my friend decided to experience a great cross-over night at Glory Dome, Dunamis Church Abuja. We boarded a bus from Arab junction, Jabi to Lugbe where the Church is located.

Less than halfway through the journey, the bus began to develop issues and finally stopped just before Wuye Arab bridge. We all had to come down from the vehicle in pursuit of an alternative to our various destinations.

I and my friend walked over to the other end of the bridge while we waited for a cab heading our route. Unluckily for us, we stood there for a while, we couldn’t find any cab as most of them were already filled up and most of the other passengers had already gone their separate ways.

It was becoming dark, lonely, and scary giving the nature of the place we were standing. Just less than 4feets our back were bushes, albeit downhill, and underneath the bridge is a railway track, you won’t be able to tell even because it’s filled with outright darkness.

It was becoming tiring and frustrating, we looked down and noticed 3 guys heading our position, they were seated initially for some while, we both thought they were from same vehicle we boarded and frustrated as we were, my friend suggested we team up with them and look for cab together, I jokingly replied “What if they’re here to rob us..?” We both laughed.

Unbeknownst to us, they actually were. They got closer and to where we were standing, subtly attempting to encircle us while I was looking forward to them passing us, my friend ran off immediately, before I could realize they already formed a triangle grid around me each of them bearing long, sharp knives shouting “Hey! hey!! bring your pocket..!!”.

Being ganged up, held down and threatened to be stabbed if you don’t comply, It was indeed a vicious moment for me, and all I could think of was how I could get out of that situation unhurt. But despite the fear that engulfed me, I stood my ground holding my pocket firmly while they tried to forcefully penetrate in with their hands.

My friend was on the other side, almost at the middle of the express road shouting “Thieves..!” to at least call the attention of motorists but they all formed swirled track avoiding him, perhaps thinking it was a plot to get the robbed?

After several resistance from my end, I got stabbed on my thigh by one of the guys, I then had to let go as they emptied my pocket, carting away with my phone and wallet.

Attempting to run back into the bush, I immediately went after the one that got my phone, he kind of lost orientation and was almost headed towards the bridge while his other gang were heading to the bush. He immediately turned around swinging his long knife so I wouldn’t get close, he then threw the phone to his other gang in the bush and they all ran away.

These robbers were skinny, tall hausa boys all wearing face caps, I was so devastated that if I had a gun, I wouldn’t hesitate even in a split second to put three bullets in their heads. Why does bad thing always happen to good people? I’m not insinuating I’m a saint but I’ll never to this to a fellow. Why me?

Anyways, after the sad occurrence of losing everything I had and almost my life, it reasonable to go back home just as my friend suggested, but instead we still waited, get a cab and head to the church where we had the cross over night. I personally didn’t have any good experience despite dancing and joyous experience everyone had there.

I lost my Samsung A30, Gtb, Diamond and Payoneer debit cards and some cash in the wallet all to one night

Anyways, I’m looking for who can track my phone using maybe the IMEI number? the phone pack, receipt are still intact.

Lastly, kindly learn from my story and avoid that Wuye bridge at all cost.

So sorry about your experience... My deep sympathy to you and your friend for this tragic incident, I am more than glad you guys survived it.

However, I think in a country where ethnicity and religion has deeply polarised our societies, unity is needed more than ever. So, drawing conclusions that these armed robbers are Hausa just because they spoke it is wrong . last time I checked it has become sort of lingua franca in the North. They could be Fulani, Gbaggi or even Yoruba or Igbo (some of them speak it fluently)

Not trying to support any side here, just pointing out some basic flaws.

BBc world service any day anytime.

Abini2012:
Food was tastier on Emirate..

See what I noticed at the hotel I lodged, truly travel is education

What did you notice?

EuroBoy007:
Hello Nairalanders.

If these 2 opportunities comes ur way in 2021...
Which one will u choose?

1, #8,000,000 to set up a business in Nigeria

OR

2, Visa to travel to Europe or America.



You can also give reasons why u choose any of the options.

Just a mere visa? Will i be given money to put things in place? Say I was given a British, Canadian or German student visa, where will I start from ? I need at least 6m to put things in perspective. All in all, its a tough choice but I will go for the 8m

DoubleEngine007:
I just wanna be happy all through this year..

Same here man.

updatechange:
Kudos to the imolite that raised the bill, all those hypocritical mofo that gathered heads with nothing significant to show... Una well-done.
Since it's you guys (male folks) that smoke weed the most and still call it a criminal substance shows how dumb we're in thiis country.

A brave woman that knows the usefulness of weed and the cowards that smokes like an overheated car...
Hope this passes the second reading and not stopped.
Btw congrats to all the stoners.

Please tell me the usefulness of weed

BabbanBura:


This is the best advise I have seen here. I have brothers (same parents), uncles and aunties and plenty friends who have taken both options and believe me those that enter with ssce are greatly regretting, many have finished their degrees now, with CAN and Masters/PGDs but couldn't get converted to officer cadars. They are now at staff sergeants, airmen/airwomen, after 15 - 17yrs of service both in the Army and Airforce. On the flip side, their counterparts that entered with degrees as officers are now majors. The youngest with about 10yrs of service are now lieutentnts earning over 200k per month.

NEVER ENTER MILITARY WITH SSCE, DO YOUR DEGREE, EVEN IF NA IRK OR CRK, THEN JOIN SHORT SERVICE. send me PM if you want us to talk more. I can even connect you to both categories so you can hear from them directly.

Alot of Nairalanders are ignorant, they will advise u on what they know nothing about.

Shalom

Good evening

trilacos:
the person you are quoting is the same with newdelhi,imagine person say Audi no be benz mate,that is when i give up on him.

His mental retardation is irredeemable

HitlerGaddafi:

@ themaestro08 you people just rant that Benz owns maybach lol maybach has been a super brand way before Benz bought a huge share in the company in 2015.

Ever heard of Daimler AG? Its a multinational car producing company that owns both Mercedes Benz and maybach brands.

Oga you are embarrassing yourself

HitlerGaddafi:

Weytin dey always funny me be say ehn most of you don't even own a Benz and have never driven one but will come online to be making noise about Benz. Watch some YouTube videos and educate yourself mehn there are rides out there o.

"Most of you don't even own a Benz and have never driven one but will come online to be making noise about Benz"

Once again making a fool of yourself and brazenly making baseless assumptions.

Enough of this asshousery bro.

SocialJustice:
I hear you, foolish argument tire me. Benz na poor man luxury. Benz when get maybach, dey make pagani huayra engine na poor man luxury.

Oga commot here before I shit for your mouth.

Dude is a Fucking clown

NewDelhi:

@v2 I tire for them lol and the funniest thing is that some or most of them have never own, currently own a Benz yet you'll see them coming online to hype the car like there's no tomorrow. The craze for this thing is very similar to the blackberry craze of years back. It will gradually fade and something else will begin to reign before that one fades too

You know another another funny thing, alot of die hard fans of Benz are mostly youths and younglings who have zero taste and money. Older people have greater taste and you'll never see them with a Benz .



I don't blame you , u go see better s class 5-7 M. Benz no cost, na poor man's luxury. Even Lexus have models worth over 200-300M so what are you saying? That Lexus model wey ochacho gift davido is worth almost a hundred.


No jokes, alot of these Benz fanatics know nothing about the ride. All they do is shout Benz or nothing. They will begin to sweat when you ask them about the brake horse power, engine type, abs system, brake rotor diameter, steering type, suspension type, dual stage driving, emergency braking, torque and like 50 more specs I can't even remember.

Before you can say a car is better than another, these are the things you need to consider not just brand name. Those Benz fans are so terrible one was even placing Benz and BMW in the same category.

Moreover most of them aren't getting my point. I noted Lexus is gradually gaining popularity over Benz and that's true. There was a time infiniti, Murano, muscle, range Rover, venza all reigned. Benz also reigned. Now it looks like it's the time of Lexus.

It's obvious you know little to nothing about cars, especially mercs Benz , imagine putting a high classy s-class and 5m in the same sentence

Make I no talk sha.. Before I go shred you to pieces