₦airaland Forum

eyonigger:
kanye west, your verbal madness is a natural NL thingy for newbies. As time goes by, you go tire. Then return to your mental state of gentlemanism.

We don do pass you. seeker free the bobo.

I don free am tey tey. Why do I have to stoop low to talk to a pig? That's 'haram' now

Tatian:
Thank you all nairalanders. A bigger thank you to you ROSABELLE. It seems as if, you you live my world. More of your advise will do a whole lot of good to others out there because, i kn some people ve similar cases. WELL DONE. @ FL. i don't depend on him. Infact he has never solved any of my financial problems. Meanwhile, the idea of quitting is really bothering because,each time i try, something keeps telling me dat am going to miss out. There are times when i refuse to call or see him and when if eventually calls, he complains i don't call. i just don't understand anymore,

davidylan:
depends, some men are just not verbally expressive or see such words as a sign of emotional weakness. Believe me, saying those words are the hardest thing a SINCERE man can ever tell you.

y me:
she is typing from Asain accent computer
the babe is just too fine to wait that long for an uncaring guy o

I'll hurry and look at her profile now, who knows, she just might be available for me Thanks for the hint

strangleyo:
Yar'Adua is a good man, but a bad president.

Obasanjo was a bad man, and also a pretty awful president.

OBJ is a good father to IYABO, but it's unfortunate GBENGA doesn't appear on his scale of preference

yorke:
Pls,i hope i got the msg right.you mean he calls you not more than 7times in a year, Take your mind off him.you mean not to him at all all, Even i dont like a girl that disturb herself over me,i stil call her once a week.

I heard O2 and TMOBILE make free calls every weekend, so if you've been calling her on this time of the week, yes, you can afford it

y me:
lol
i think she meant guy and not gay

Error on the subject and in the body of the thread? She said 'gay' twice. Unless if she's typing from a certain Asian accent

CrazyMan:
Why should you even think of dating a married woman. Incase you don't know the meaning of marriage, Marriage is a union ordained by God; so if you have an affair with a married woman, you have God to answer to.

There are countless of single girls out there; pick one of them and settle down with her; don't bring a course upon yourself by having an affair with a married woman.

Na king's or pastor's wife?

blandyne:
@ Theseeker
Thanks for your reply. You're so danm right. Like i always say you must have a goal in everything you do, even simple tasks as drinking water which your goal will be to satisfy your thirst

Your goal by insulting someone is to hurt them, the effort to insult (even when you don't want to) is the commitment.

follypimpi:

We r so on the same wave length, a well known left over,to think he might get drunk one day and joke about how he backshots her .Women outnumber we men so i will hunt a fresh fish in the ocean.

It'll be good, I think. You learn from experience, don't you? He'll give you a good review

blandyne:
If i understand you clearly, u mean without commitment a relationship can't work or succeed. What is commitment to u? The reason i'm asking it's because nowadays people have different definitions for commitment. Some says commitment it's when the man actually propose to u and make everybody know that you're the one he wants to marry. Other sees commitment as when a man agree to date you and only you even though he did not propose yet.

Nevertheless i'm so glad to read your post. Most men dont understand it, when a woman say the word commitment to them they perceive her as being possessive, desperate, wanting to drag them down the aisle no matter what.

adigun101:
I say Ngige. There was something with the quality of roads I saw in Anambra. I went for a burial in anambra and my friend was very boastful. My guy what I saw was impressive. I am talking about rural roads !

blandyne:
I understand everyone points, and they all make sense. But, where talking about grown folks not teenagers, It's very hard for me to say" I love u" to a man because i hate being vulnerable. Yet It feels sooooooo good when you realize that u do love someone. The sad part is he might not feel the same way and here comes rejection.


Even though his actions will show you if he does love you or not, just like you said NEVER MAKE ANY ASSUMPTIONS.Therefore i believe that you will never know for sure unless that person says the words and acts accordingly.
Now let just say one of the partners declares his/her love to the other, and him/her didn't say it back. What should that person do, stay in the relationship or move on ?

CrazyMan:
I still don't get your story; why did it have to take you three years before knowing that he doesn't have time for you?

Also, I believe that you should know by now if he's seeing someone else or his excuses are genuine.

finally, if this your story is true, then I would suggest that you have a heart to heart discussion with him; and be sure that you pour out your heart and tell him how you feel about his attitude. One doesn't just throw away a three year old relationship as tho it were some crap; there should always be a room for a change.

blacksta:
if were an American citizen u will be liable to taxes home and abroad

unfaded:
Re u listenin to urself?those that do dmovies re the mockers! I also mèant nw family,not those of ow fathers,ow many of yoruba comtemporaries av 2wives?

unfaded:
@the seeker,but most nollywood films are made by igbo boys.also howmany yoruba guys in ow generation is poligamist?

Yes and why do you think most people are buying these movies? That's one of the marketing strategies. I can tell you a considerable number of people buy these movies to make mockery of Igbo traditions, and as long as the bucks are being rolled in no one seems to care.

About your second question, I have sizable instances to back up my view. Show me three out of every ten Yoruba family where you won't find polygamy and I will give you my sweet Mercedes Benz.